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Culture / Re: Ogoja, Cross River Where Cameroonian Mothers Iron Their Daughter's Breast by Kweenluchy: 5:36pm On Feb 04, 2020

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Family / Re: Message To Our Parents About What Trending Now MARLIANS by Kweenluchy: 6:58pm On Jan 16, 2020
May God protect our children
Family / Re: My Sisters-In-Law Are Causing Problems In My Marriage! What Do I Do? by Kweenluchy: 10:47am On Dec 19, 2019
Can you highlight some of the problem you are having with your SIL so that we can know how to advise you


Family / Re: Single Mother Challenge. (SMC) by Kweenluchy: 9:12am On Dec 13, 2019
My dad refused me getting married to the love of my life then saying he is too old( 34yrs) and much exposed for my age .He was a personal assistant to Abia state Governor then. I was only 16 and felt I have arrived been fiancé to such person.He cherished me. Truthfully,he never touched me.

Few weeks after,,he traveled for business promising to convince my dad on his return. My father's refusal made me stubborn, I didn't want be around my home cos their over Christian life was making them see everything in another view,i cannot confide in my late mum without getting this look of you must be like a rev in this home. so i ran to my girlfriend's house. She was about 4yrs older than I was then but my body structure made us look like age mates. She convinced me to follow her to PH for her birthday party. Didn't know I was been arranged for her boyfriend's brother.
I was drunk ,first time anyways and he took advantage of me. By morning he was apologizing and professing love and wanting to date me... begged me to take him to my home I refused. I was confused,the love of my life is coming home the next week.how will I face him. I went home,my parents were angry with me but still didn't care to know how I feel, what I wanted but happy I came home alive.

Two weeks later I noticed I was pregnant,i opened up to my man and he said"mummy,do not ever ever tell anyone what happened,this child is mine and it's going to be reason your dad will let me marry you." We hide the pregnancy till it was 6 months,then he came again but my dad stubbornly turned him down again claiming my people don't give out a pregnant woman in marriage till I deliver.

After the delivery of my son whose birthday is today too ,my dad said he is free to marry me but without the boy. He made some underground plan to send us to his mum abroad if after talking to my dad with some relations and it didn't work out. He traveled to his village(Item) to get an uncle to help talk to my dad only for him to come back poisoned,he died two days after 6 months after,i got admission for a preliminary course in fedpoly campus. My parents took my child and I went back to school.avoided men like plague,finished my study then proceeded for my OND. After my OND finals, I went home for my aunty's burial,there I met my daughter's father. He tried everything for us to date and I refused then went ahead to tell him my story. He felt pity on me (so I thought Sha). He started visiting me in school more often, giving me listening ears and all that I lack from home.
I decided to give him a chance.

One month into the relationship, I took in, told him and he asked me to get an abortion because he is from my late aunty's compound,I ran to my cousin who is also his cousin and he called for a meeting. This guy who has been pestering me, traveling all the way from Abuja to Oko to see had the guts to tell everyone present that i am a good girl but he has a fiancé he wants to marry.
When asked the way forward, he said he will do what my people call "agbachaa afo ime"(no English na for it but a kinda way of he has nothing to do with the child and the amount for that was 20k then). I didn't know if I should start crying. I cursed him in tears.
My mum said her pain was she nursed this boy in question while babysitting her elder sister's children in that compound, his own mother pleaded with him to take me as his wife but he was adamant. My dad rejected the money,we left. He warned him never to smell our compound.

I had my daughter 29th January 2004 ,her dad had accident that day, shop burnt, container lost in the sea, the girl left him one month later for his friend then he ran back to me. Begged for marriage but no, not for me, all I did was lift the curse, out of joy he said he will never get married till I do and he kept the promise. My mum started pestering me to accept a suitor, to please her I did in 2013 and by 2016 the marriage ended.
So now,i am happily single.I don't ever want to get married.

This is how I became a single mum of 2 champions,though I will never let anyone I know go through it..
Wow, you are a very strong woman


Fashion / Re: CYPAID: A Nairalander In The USA Launches His Clothing Line by Kweenluchy: 9:01pm On Dec 05, 2019
God go bless your hustle

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Family / Re: Mother-of-two, 30, Was Branded A 'monster' After She Was Ravaged By A Mystery Il by Kweenluchy: 12:03pm On Dec 02, 2019
this is not strange nau!

the Igbos know the name.

we call it Nchiche!

sometimes we use it to curse person by saying "Nchiche bee gi imi!"
meaning - may nchiche cut your nose!

the disease only targets the nose.

I BU Ezigbote nwa afo igbo

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Family / Re: My Funny Experience With A Petty Trader And Her Debtor. by Kweenluchy: 8:46pm On Nov 22, 2019
grin grin grin grin grin
Family / Re: Ladies What Would You Do If Your Mother In Law Did This? by Kweenluchy: 7:42am On Nov 20, 2019
I don't attach importance to food even my house girl takes her portion from the pot but I must dish out my husband's own first
Same here, I don't know why people see it as a big deal
Phones / Re: Who Else Has Noticed This? by Kweenluchy: 6:43pm On Nov 18, 2019

Thanks I will try it but can I load even I I have data
Phones / Re: Who Else Has Noticed This? by Kweenluchy: 3:21pm On Nov 18, 2019
For the past one week, whenever I subscribe for MTN Night plan bundle, I notice I'm being charged from my normal data subscription instead of the night plan data. The first two times it happened, I didn't really understand what happened as i noticed a sudden decrease in my data balance during the day so I decided to track it on the third day. That was when I noticed the night plan data was still unused(500mb) while everything I've been using has been my normal sub.

Chatted up the customer care on WhatsApp in the morning and after explaining to them, she credited my line with #100 as money for the refund for the 3 night subs(imaginegrin). Still not satisfied because I wanted a refund of my regular data or maybe the equivalent airtime because the fault was from them. I decided to call and speak to them directly and they assured me everything will be rectified, that was since Friday and till now, I've not seen or heard anything from them.

I subscribed again this morning and noticed I'm still being charged from my normal data again while the night plan data remains untouched. Is it just me, or has anyone else noticed this?
What is the code for the night plan
Family / Re: Marriage Advice For This Young Couple by Kweenluchy: 2:28pm On Nov 09, 2019

After an interview with the wifey, I was made to understand from her own side why the man acted that way. See reasons below:
1. She is fond of giving the hubby money for this and that as the hubby is jobless. At one point, the hubby bought couple of items and told the sales person to get money from her wife, the sales person on getting to the wife later, wife was mad why she should pay for what she didn't use. E.g a crate beer ooo lol

2. Husband locked wife out as she went out late to get drugs for her sick infants. It caused serious squabble and next day the man packed his bags and off.

Those are from the lady!!

The man is no where to be found

The man na real slay king, imagine asking the wife to pay for a crate of beer


Jobs/Vacancies / Asking For Skills by Kweenluchy: 8:30am On Nov 05, 2019
I have often read here that your skill(s) makes you stand out when applying for jobs.
So my people, please tell me the skill that a graduate of business education or any graduate at all can engage in to make them standout in the labor market.
Culture / Re: If You Are To Choose A Name From Another Tribe, Which Name Will You Choose by Kweenluchy: 12:31am On Oct 30, 2019
Igbo but I will choose Ayomide for Yoruba and Zara for Hausa
Family / Re: Husbands, Have You Noticed That Women Change After Wedding? by Kweenluchy: 9:18pm On Oct 29, 2019
I believe that the man's character changed that led to the wife changing hers too.


Romance / Re: . by Kweenluchy: 8:52am On Oct 29, 2019
Even though she went into relationship with a married man, she did not cheat on you. Just tell her to end the relationship.
Nairaland / General / Re: Mention One Thing Nobody Taught You How To Do But You Can Do It Very Well?? by Kweenluchy: 10:12am On Oct 23, 2019
How to operate electronic gadget no matter how hard it is
Family / Re: Rant Rant Rant!!!!!!come In Here And Rant About Your Woes. by Kweenluchy: 6:00am On Oct 18, 2019

Resign and take care of your health and body.

I can't because I got bills to pay

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Family / Re: Traditional Wedding With Class by Kweenluchy: 4:55pm On Oct 17, 2019
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May you experience the joy of marriage fully.
Marriage comes with its ups and downs but I pray that God gives you two the grace to weather each storm ,Amen.


Family / Re: Wife Begs Husband To Accept Baby After She Was Impregnated By Pastor by Kweenluchy: 4:52pm On Oct 17, 2019
The man should accept the baby because if it was the other way round, she will be expected to accept the baby


Politics / Re: Anambra Explosion: Obiano Sympathises With Victims’ Families, Inaugurate Panel by Kweenluchy: 6:15am On Oct 17, 2019
Very shameful government...look at propaganda
Men of the Anambra State Fire Service arrived at the scene with their equipment but were unable to quench the inferno as the angry mob on the scene prevented other fire trucks, including one from neighbouring Asaba in Delta State, from getting to the scene.

Don't mind those idiot, the fire started by to 1 but they came around 5:00 . So why won't there be angry mob.

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Politics / Re: Anambra Explosion: Obiano Sympathises With Victims’ Families, Inaugurate Panel by Kweenluchy: 6:13am On Oct 17, 2019
Thunder fire you


Travel / Re: Fire Outbreak In Onitsha As Truck Crashes Toronto Hospital Fence (Photos, Video) by Kweenluchy: 5:09pm On Oct 16, 2019
what has the state government done to mitigate the fire outbreak?
As at 4:00 nothing has been done
Travel / Re: Fire Outbreak In Onitsha As Truck Crashes Toronto Hospital Fence (Photos, Video) by Kweenluchy: 4:17pm On Oct 16, 2019
cry cry cry
The thing has escalated to the extent it has reached ochanja market

Family / Re: What Family Do You Wish For Instead Of Your Own? by Kweenluchy: 8:06am On Oct 16, 2019
I don't need another family, I just need money. When I say money, I mean millions of dollars.
Family / Re: Would You Marry A Woman Aspiring For Political Posts? by Kweenluchy: 8:02am On Oct 16, 2019
The men are not even giving genuine reason but all I see is male chauvinism
Family / Re: Rant Rant Rant!!!!!!come In Here And Rant About Your Woes. by Kweenluchy: 7:54am On Oct 16, 2019
It is well

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Family / Re: Rant Rant Rant!!!!!!come In Here And Rant About Your Woes. by Kweenluchy: 6:13pm On Oct 15, 2019
My baby is four months old and I can't still get the banging body of my desire embarassed embarassed

Work stress is killimg me and I can't do anything about it

I seriously need a car right now but the funds are not available


Family / Re: What Unpopular Opinion Do You Hold by Kweenluchy: 6:10pm On Oct 15, 2019
I believe there is nothing like love, we love people according to our needs at the time

That God is a partial God

That African marriages should be conducted like that of the whites without going to the umunna and putting much stress on the celebrant

That after graduation, the government should just give us the 19800*12 at once for us to use it and venture into entrepreneurship .


Family / Re: Woman Gives Birth To ‘sumo Wrestler’ Baby, Almost Double Size Of Average Newborn by Kweenluchy: 1:12am On Oct 15, 2019
God is good

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