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and as for me op i will prefer marrying a lady who has motherly attributes in her, o boy , how i love that

Ahh guy u re so on point, many ladies do not know what love is, men want to see evidence of love and not money from you ladies


men are easily decieved, put up one or two acts and we are already decieved that u love us. but when a lady withholds her smile or cheerfulness and xx then the guy will think immidiately, if i marry this lady these are the things she will do to me

RedBenson:
Stop playing hard to get, you're losing opportunities. Not every guy can stand that shi!t.

Give him sex as earlier and as much as u can to portray ur seriousness to him too.

Stop frowning face while working on the street like the whole burden in the world is placed on ur head.

Be friendly when a guy approaches u even if u dont like him.

buhari too galant 4 ground

Hey all, but what advise can u give to a shy person going for the visa interview?

what happens if the vo finds out that the particular person during the interview was/is shy , what happens can one be refused visa because of being shy

op your writeup isnt deep enough, u re likely to mislead people with this writeup, from your writing you re not yet even a man

sorry to hear prof ojah, God is on your side,
You see this is one reason i said in one of my post, that people should provide more evidence/information on concerning thier visa pursuit right from day one when they apply to the university of thier choice, so as to help others.there are many of us here who are good at judgement or research, i believe with good research we can guess the VO's mind on wether one will be issued visa or not , if not 100% sure , at least 80% -90%, these guys (VO's) are humans and they can be mastered.

1 guys it will be helpful if you tell us how much is in bank statement of account
2 how much was deposited to the school u applied to
3 for your own safety dont give us school names u applied to but tell us the total ammount of tuition
4 tell us if your documentation were good enough (i know a Childhood friend who didnt have good documentation but he was granted visa, it 5 was VO'S birthday, the day he was intervied and so VO was laughing all though happily ) guy is now in A & M TX
6 State the course studied at your undergraduate level and which one u now intend to study at the new university u re applying to
7 exams written such as (gre sat, toefl, ssce,neco, gmats, etc)
8 try your possible best to post whatever conversation between you and the VO.
9 How many times u have been denied the US visa
10 Tell if your passport has been disvirgined before applying for the visa
11 Tell if you were given scholarship or grants, etc if full scholarship please specify or part scholarship , pls specify
12 Tell if your score meets the school requirement and your overall docs.


please whatever information u feel its not safe for you to disclose on here, then try to keep it secrete, dont bother telling the part u feel is not safe for you to disclose

its likely that a guy like prof ojah continues to spend money on these visa application process if he does not do stuffs like seek knowledge so as to get a different result next time, there are other applicants in his shoes who are likely to face thesame crisis. so u see the need as to help him now, seeing he has applied this 2nd time. i am not wishing him evil, but just saying so as u all can see reasons for doing more to help others

I will post more later

To add to this post , are we to say that the vo's have a certain number of visas available every year to be given to student. and so we see no need to bother/ ask why a qualified candidate for thier visa was refused. and if that be the case. we then should not say that the us Govt care not about student investing in thier economy through education

please bear with my use of words(unfit)


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picture the faces celebrating his success u d think , they were with him during the struggles, like when he was nobody.




mytoughts though

na wao nothing for short guyz sha, anyway but God give us intelligence and humility,

most tall guys are proud or less humble

and topics like these should never make front page so sad

WORDS FROM A FATHER TO A SON ABOUT MARRIAGE

1. My son, if you keep spending on a woman and she never asked you if you’re saving or investing, and she keeps enjoying the attention, don’t marry her.

2. My son, a woman could be a good wife to you, some could be a good mother to your children but if you’ve found a woman like a mother to you, your children and your family, please don’t let her go.

3. My son, don’t confine the position of your wife to the kitchen, where did you get that from? Even in our days, we had farm-lands where they worked every morning . . . that was our office.

4. My son, if I tell you that you’re the head of the house, don’t look at your pocket; look if you will see a smile on your wife’s face.

5. My son, if you want to have a long life, let your wife be in-charge of your salary, it will be difficult for her to spend it when she’s aware of the home needs and bills to pay but if it’s in your care, she will keep you asking even when all has been spent.

6. My son, don’t ever beat your woman, the pain in her body is nothing to be compared to the wound on her heart and that means you may be in trouble living with a wounded woman.

7. My son, now that you’re married, if you live a bachelor kind of life with your wife, you will soon be single again.

8. My son, in our days, we had many wives and many children because of our large farm-lands and many harvests, there are hardly any land for farming anymore, so embrace your woman closely.

9. My son, under the cocoa tree that I did meet your mother could be your eateries and restaurants of nowadays, but remember, the closet thing we did there was to embrace each other.

10. My son, don’t be carried away when you start making more money, instead of spending on those tiny legs that never knew how hard you worked to get it, spend it on that woman that stood by you all along.

11. My son, when I threw little stones or whistled at the window of your mother father’s house, to call her out, it was not for sex, it was because I missed her so much.

12. My son, remember, when you say your wife has changed, there could be something you’ve stopped doing too.

13. My son, your mother, Asake rode the bicycle with me before I bought that tortoise car outside there, any woman that won’t endure with you in your little beginning should not enjoy your riches.

14. My son, don’t compare your wife to any woman, there are ways she’s enduring you too and has she ever compared you to any man?

15. My son, there is this thing you people call feminism, well, if a woman claim to have equal right with you in the house, divide all the bills into two equal parts, take one part and ask her to start paying the other part.

16. My son, I met your mother a virgin and I took more yams to her father, if you don’t meet your wife a virgin, don’t blame her, what I didn’t tell you is that our women had prestige.

17. My son, I didn’t send your sisters to school because I was foolish like many to think a female child won’t extend my family name, please don’t make that mistake, the kind of female achievers I see nowadays has made the male-gender an ordinary tag.

18. My son, your mother have once locked up the cloth I was wearing and almost tore it because she was angry, I did not raise my hand to beat her because of a day like this, so that I can be proud to tell you that I never for once beat your mother.

19. My son, in our days, our women had more of natural beauty, though I wouldn’t lie to you, some had minor painting of their appellation mostly on their arms, the ones you people now call tattoo, but don’t forget that they didn’t expose any part of their body like your women of nowadays.

20. My son, your mother and I are not interested in what happens in your marriage, try to handle issues without always coming to us.

21. My son, remember I bought your mother’s first sewing machine for her, help your wife achieve her dreams just as you’re pursuing yours.

22. My son, don’t stop taking care of me and your mother, it’s a secret of growing old and having children to take care of you too.

23. My son, pray with your family, there is a tomorrow you don’t know, talk to God that knows everything, everyday.


true words from a wise father

your mama still dey there oo

o boy , person wey go marry any of this kinda woman, body go tell am, such women as these are likely husband beaters,they grow more muscles than thier husbands

if you mess with them, they ll beat the living day light out of .........

May his gentle soul rest in peace and May God almighty gran the woman forgiveness as shes requested,the Lord be with the kids.

but this is one story to learn from, many people marry without looking for God in thier spouses,
you should try and know the man or woman you choose to marry. even if she has an ancontrollalble anger

is christianity the upgraded version of islam?

Today christianity has a total population of the world at 33% , which is at 2.1billion

islam has about 21% which is 1.5 billion


there are evidences in the bible that shows that islam is an upgraded version of christianity(i stand to be corrected)
take for instance we like to think or say that isaac s brother, Abraham son was the begining or root of islam.

come down to laws, muslims will kill adultrers while christians will not but somewhere in the bible its stated i guess in one of the old testaments from Moses.
Jesus also comfirmed such, when a woman was caught in adultry and was to be stoned to death.

there are more instances but time will not permit me.

Please give your topughts and contributions

God bless you all

Accept my sympathy, The Lord strenghten you , May his gentle soul rest in peace

Happy birthday to my
Father,
Mentor
Teacher

God Bless you.

ITS sad that i didnt attend your birthday, today.

But if these be recent pics of you on here, then i ll say u still happy despite all the challenges. and thats one witness of the spirit

Same spirit . I Salute

in a case such as these wether u sleep with her or not, u are still in trouble.

That one is one example of a strange woman


Op i once had a dream of the night, it was damn so dreadful, and very scary in that dream i was staring at a woman urinating, i never knew she was married until her husband or a man showed up with a knife and wanted to kill me with it, i was so weak that i coldnt challenge the man,i had to beg this woman, i pleaded with her and she told the man to stop while about to stab me, i woke up from that dream and i cried, till today i do not fully understand its whole meaning as a young man we tend to face such challenges as these as we grow up but it takes the grace of God to scale through.

King solomon spoke about strange women in the scriptures, u ll never know the meaning of strange women fully, but here i warn you be very careful with them Married women. dont go ahead warning her or shuning her, but rather beg her or plead with her, to leave you alone.dont stop chatting with her, u can friendzone her then after that you will leave her alone. this is one wisdom i have found.
if you go ahead warning or threatening her u will regret it and people will hardly believe you. even if you are right. she will go ahead causing you much damage in the society, by spoiling your name. trust me women are good at this. i speak from experience

Joseph was right but yet nobody believed him,

Ohh my GOD This story really made me laugh, and i get to wonder when women say theres no husband for them, this statement makes men feel very important. but to be honest i think ladies are to blame in these issue,
Sometimes u need to see the kinda hatred most women have for men who are not a husband matirial for them, it scares real and serious suitors for marriage.
when a man sees a woman, he loves her immidiately, if she asks for help the man will be willing to do something for her.my dear thats love(a fellow man wil hardly help his other fellow man) this is one grace thats given to women from the Almighty. (women easily get favour from men)

if u are a lady and u complain of no husband, then something must be wrong with you.

Please check your behaviour.if it were not behaviour then it should be your physique or money, or what.?i have seen tall beautiful ladies still single.

i listened to an interview between married woman and one of them,
and i discovered the tal beautiful lady at the age of 39 is still looking for a rich man to marry

behaviur is the secrete to finding a husband, (wether good or bad husband) husband na husband,

bad behaviur is irritating /smells to most men

this is my own honest advice

ok i am ever oppourtuned to meet theIR FATHER himself, i ll bring out the prophet in me and say '' THUS SAITH THE LORD, GIVE ME YOUR DAUGHTERS TO WIFE''

Thats gonna be very prophetic and i know the man of God loves and knows scriptures.

once one of them become my wife, na i m be say ministry don start bedat.

valid , one girl i fought for to gain admission into the university told me that, i was just a friend, man the next 5minites after our meeting, i just deleted her number from me fone, no man want to hear friends tinz, remeber mario, song just a friend

vizkiz:
Never tell a guy you just wanna be friend with him

Wait o...The rate at which una dey update Frontpage today ehn...una won finish our MB shey?

you seem notto understand peoples fears on this topic /section. iknow thier fears,most people leavig here for the usa care ot about location but fear to be denied visa

osahons9:
Exactly the same reason why you should do research yourself and not be spoon fed. You don't apply to mr a university because some group of people are doing so. Everybody is different and we all have our different career goals n research interests.

na dis kind topic i no dey like mtweeeeeeeeeew

Hey guys , we make one mistake by not posting the cost of tution for the university we want to attend, u dont rely on interview scripts alone when trying to help others, we should also help post cost of tuition, school location, etc.but ur names u may not expose onhere and other personal details for safety/security reasons. u ll ask why?

Tell if two people aply to different universities on different locations, lets say mr A applied to the university of Texas and got admission and was granted visa at the embassy seeing the tuition is about $40,000 and texas happens to be a dangerous place for people/ visitors. natural disaster where visitors/people avoid. but mR A was granted visa

Now mr B applies to the University of Newyork where u have good weather , no or less natural disasters likely to occur in that area but with less tuition of about $7,000 , now the embassy here refuses to grant mr B visa

A and B did not apply to red flag schools and both have good documentation

i may not have used a good exaple here but i m saying to you guys to provide more evidence here so that we can make good /right judgement based on evidence provided so as to help others planing on going there to study.

its unfair to spend much moneyand some long process and at the end of the day they deny people visa