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pryme:
everything.
It shows you place your own attention ahead of your job.
your friend doesnt understand simple etiquette.

Lol so if she wore an hijab to work
She would also be denied?

SHIVA001:
There are dressing for different places

The leg chain might be a form of protection
She must have a reason for wearing it
They had no right to judge her by that

odinson1:
You would also be denied that job if you were on dreads,had a tattoo or was sagging. Dress how you want to be addressed. If you dress like a promiscuous woman(even though you aren't) you'll be addressed as one. If you are dressed as a wayward rugged man( you'll be addressed as one(even if you aren't)
That's the Reality.

Even if you dressed corporately
What excuse will Dey give you to deny of the job?


They will definitely find one to dish out to you

odinson1:
Why do women want a Man that is taller, stronger,richer and wiser than themselves? It is because women want The best man they can get - QUALITY!

Why do women want to have sex with as many beautiful women as possible? It is because Men want the most women they can Attract - QUANTITY!

Men and women are not the same for Satan's sake! Jesus Christ!

Preference is state of distinguishable attribute to human nature

You can’t blame anybody for his/her choices

So when you find your choice it is expected of you not to bail.

Most of them cheat on their spouses with a someone rather below their preference .

That’s where confusion sets in

SHIVA001:
Dress the way you want to be addressed, she is not going to a party. It has happened to me also before. I used a chain to an interview years back. The interviewer has not seen you before. People judge you first completely by your appearance. No matter how intelligent you are. If you dress sometype of way they will label you like that.

It’s only a degenerate country that will judge you by your outward look instead of your capacity in terms of technical application into specific work space.

That’s y the whites keep edging us

We need to upgrade our mentality

MrBrownJay1:
catching a STD is the least of your problems, there is a DEADLIER DISEASE that you could catch, its called a PREGNANCY!!!

How is pregnancy a disease?

Bunkbars:
Guy, go and get a job, so you can be useful to your family.

All these online clout, would render you poor.

I’m well to do
I have money
I dont need sweat before I earn like you

I pass my free time here

My Friend Was Denied A Well Paying Job Cause She Wore Leg Chains To the Interview
What has leg chain got to do with acquiring a job?

Find your spec and stay true to her

Even if you are the most beautiful girl in your state
They will still cheat

It’s in their DNA

Why can’t men be satisfied

They talk about loyalty
But they still cheat

They talk about you being a virgin
But a friend of mine got cheated on by her husband even after being de-flowered by him on their wedding night

Transport fare for coming 5500
Hotel room 25000
Suya 2000
Drinks 2000
Food 4000
Condom 800
Bottle water 500
Drinks overnight 3000
Thanks for coming 5000
Total = 48,800

This Is Just To Knack Babe You Met Online,
"Reason am naa,, Bros!!!!! 🙄

Ur Galfrnd go Come, Cook, Wash, Clean, Advice You, Iron Your Clothes
Then You Give Her 500 Naira For Bike And Still Wait To Collect Change From The Bike Man 🙄
She always there for you at anytime💫,she understand all wat u are passing through💯. But u can't treat her like the way you treat all The girls you bring to ur house🏡...Guys try get small brain🧠🧠 💯

Geovanni412:
.

Use your head...

I be like say u get time and money to visit Doctor dey treat infection.

Tell her to run tests, you sef run test then make your decision.

Otherwise, na ludo u dey play with ya life.

Told her to run test
But she’s playing trust issues with me

Oboto700:
Go pack infections

I japa

mmadu5:
is not only about STDs but she could be also trying to get pregnant for you .and then sell it later

Pregnancy own small

I have been bleeping her with condom but recently she wants us to go raw and she’s been craving for it infact she begged me to bleep her cunt raw with my fat and dangerous gbola but I don’t feel safe doing it with her cause I don’t know her health status, but she has been pleading with me and seducing me .

Any advise ?

God1000:
She can't be pregnant within two weeks

How so?

We had sex just one round though
Then 2weeks later she called to tell me she’s pregnant, I wanted to know how come so I asked her how? She said really ?
Then she cut the call.

I didn’t mean to do that and I intend to live up to my responsibility but I just wanted to know the details just for clarification.

She hasn’t called to picked my call since then..

I don’t know I’m confused,what do I do?

Autobot05:
You slapped someone in the church right after service just showed the pastor wasted his time preaching to you

You never drink malt before?

Have you ever been to an event and they gave everybody take away rice and left you out?

Abi Na rice the person neva chop ?

There is what they call sense of exclusion

Nathaniel33:
The one I experienced in church today was very annoying but I wasn't angry because my dreams are bigger than fine girls and politics na God I come talk to ,But my eyes small but it didn't get to me

I couldn’t control my anger
I just let it out cause it was too undermining

Today we celebrated our anniversary so after service refreshments littered everywhere.

So they started Sharing malt, Fanta and meat pie, malt and meat pie were given to most of the matured men and elders also those seated at the altar side.



Then they got to our side and started sharing Fanta and meat pie .



Like why didn’t they give us,the youths and other men who weren’t at the elder side malt too? Are we kids ? Kids too were given Fanta.



Like why the demarcation ? Aren’t we the same in the eyes of the almighty? Why politics in the church …please I’m so angry now …

NoToPile:
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I think the bolded is the main issue you have with this matterbecause there is nothing wrong in giving elders malt and everybody else Fanta. They are elders nauu.

Besides its church members that contribute for stuffs in church most of the time, this is not supposed to be different.

Elders but they couldn’t apply wisdom in leadership ?
Then why complaining when the people in power loot money for their own benefit while the masses hunger? Abi them too no be elder? 😂

NoToPile:
Preference is always given to elders or those in positions, malt is what they used for hierarchy. Shikena.

Hierarchy in church ?
In the house of God ?
Is that what the Bible teaches you?
When Jesus fed the people with 12 baskets of fishes,did you hear that he carried 4 basket home to himself?

Abeg talk true …we the members still contributed the money for the event still we get the less and the pastor takes the glory

OMO my guy brought his Nokia phone one old model like that Sha, phone was highly prohibited then in our sec school so during break 3 of us gathered and stared watching it in class while the volume was muted. Unknowingly to us one senior was behind the window peeping and saw what we were watching then she reported to our proprietor.
Some days later he was given a resounding slap in class during test and suspended while me and the third guy was taken to his office and flogged 24 strokes of cane on the ass, but I wore double jeans that day 😂

biaframaster200:
Slowpoke....

It is the same.bible that says...give honor to whom honor is due.....

Render therefore to all their dues: tribute to whom tribute is due; custom to whom custom; fear to whom fear; honour to whom honour.
Romans 13:7 KJV


It is obvious you are just a church goer carrying your church matter come to. Nairaland .....As if Nairaland people know. more about Bible than your spiritual father in that church...

What a shame!

Where is the honor when a leader thinks of himself first ? By taking the spoils and leaving his followers with carcasses? Hmmm

Ye without understanding cannot understand what the Bible says nor the spirit

You Dey do anyhow

Chid2:
Rather than getting angry to the point where you report the house of God on a public forum grow to that point where you provide cash to ensure everyone gets malt or whatever.
Bless you

Yes I would
But where is the saying that leaders are to lead by example

Skyview01:
I see.

Good

NoToPile:
How did you link this to politics and tribalism.


Malt and meat pie was given to elders and matured men seating by the altar side.

Fanta and meat pie were given to youths / every other person.

So what's the problem, there's hierechy in everything and the organizers deemed it fit that the elderly and mature ones get malt and the every other person get Fanta.



Have you organized refreshments in church b before.

Again I ask how on earth did you link this to politics and tribalism, I am trying to understand how you reason.

So you prefer to sweat and work in order for one elder who didn’t work at all to take a higher share than you ?