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SenecaTheYonger:
TikTok girls are very boring. Don’t worry, the only reason you can’t relate is cause they’re talking their TikTok garbage language. You’re alright.

There is no way to join in their conversation sef

VinnyBaba:
Tell them that you are a Washerman that specializes in WASHING GIRLS PANTS'.

See magic things that will start happening Ehnn. 😀

Abeg be serious

I met her one night while going for a night vigil and that how we became friends.
I think I like her,she’s is cute but not really endowed physically though but she exhibited some traces which I would like to know what it means

1.She hugged me
2.she told me to come see her
3.then she hugged me again for the second time
4. She told me to go sit on her bed(cause she’s was cooking then
5.I told her I wanted to go home to get my power bank but she told me it’s a lie and not to leave, I insisted cause I needed to charge, so she told me to leave my phone then go get my power bank.
6.She told me to go sit on her bed(cause she’s was cooking then)
6.she fed me with meat pie and fishroll

Are these green Lights?
Is she falling for me?

BigYash:
Na pest go dey toast you more.. Money brings confidence,I know. But since the student is yet to have money,let him learn d manual way of chyking. Na that stage of life him dey so.. but I will advise him not to make mistake of falling in love. He will for ever regret it,if he go dey carry pussy matter for head..

Why do you say I shouldn’t fall in love ?

AyamGod23:
ok if you want a Lady as a friend make her realize you you are important and you don't really need her, even if you do. i know you are a simp and needy for a relationship but the minute they realize that they will so use you eh.

I’m an alpha bro

abba09:
face your studies there will be enough time for women when u graduate

I swear

AyamGod23:
OK Sir, now that you are not rich see how they will flee from you like Joseph to Potiphar's wife, and at the end all the time you put into all these your. "building self confidence and learning to toast women" will all be wasted.

Focus on your life now and make money so that you won't regret later after wasting time fruitlessly on toasting girls.
Money is the king of self confidence and the key to all women.

Point taken

IamDora:
Are you angry he refered you, to as a teenager? Ofcourse you behave like one even if you might not be one.

You go about creating threads everyday on here as if you're the only one who has life issues. Just yesterday, you alone created up to 2-3 threads (Same thing you did some days back too) like where do you guys derive such energies from? Will you be paid with the comments, likes and shares? Or when it hits front page?

Now I ask: where is the maturity?

Lol the way you just analyzed my post seems like you haven’t been making good use of your energy and time either lol

I didn’t realize I have been posting an average of 5 times a week until you made mention of it,all I’m just doing is narrating my day to day ordeal.

abba09:
its true when i was in level100 instead of me to focus on my studies i was busy chasing girls i ended up with 7carry overs during my first semester it affected my cgpa very bad

Well I passed 100lv with no carry overs
Any more suggestions for me as I move upward?

So after church today I went out to see a female friend in her hostel and I got there to meet her cooking and saw 5 of her friends who are TikTokers there, I’m the only guy and they are talking to themselves but I feel left out and I don’t know what to say.
I feel like I’m boring so please help me with some words to say to put up an interesting conversation before shame kill me

Borntosmoke:
Why don't you chase bags. Instead of women. U don't need to be toasting to build your confidence. Just start making a reasonable connection with your fellow female coursemate. You make friends with them in a sensible way not toasting around like person wey no get work. If you see that there is one brilliant girl in your class that know about the topic you don't know. You can walk up to her and ask her to teach you before you know, you guys will start talking and gisting. There are many numerous of way to create connection with your female coursemate.

Thanks a lot for this
I think the time will come after I have achieved my purpose in life women will sort after me

samtol4:
Your parents worked hard and sent you to school, but instead of you to focus on your studies , you are busy chasing women. Bro Focus , a time will come when you can pursue women, but for now, FOCUS ON YOUR STUDIES

Hmm wisdom dey this speech

I will change

abba09:
thats how i ended up graduating with third class. face your studies bro dont be like me

Tell me what happened
Please advice me

AyamGod23:
ok are you rich?

Lol you think if I’m rich I will go After broke girls to make their life better?

BigDickProblems:
You are not intelligent. Your topic and your narration are just like parallel lines, they don't intersect.

Grow up and get yourself something more important to do than going around wooing anything with a breast and lap.

What are you saying ?
I think you feel your are clever but you not, I narrated an ordeal so I don’t know where the intersection matters lol

Joker

AyamGod23:
this one is probably a teenager, he will regret

Who are you calling a teenager ?

And what will I regret ?

AyamGod23:
you were sent to school to learn right not to be toasting daughters of Jezebel who does their body like trade by barter.

I didn’t really toast her oo

Just wanted to make friends

Well I decided to approach ladies to make friends with them only buh if intimate relationship arises along the way then no problem, but first I wanted to make lots of friends with the opposite gender especially year 1 students as old students don cast.

So I saw this girl with fallen breast but sexy laps and I decided to talk to her, I initially thought she was a student only for me to later realize she is an Olosho .

I asked her what she does for a living and she said she works, what kind of work she couldn’t tell me, last last this girl no gree give me her number but I didn’t feel a sign of tension while talking to her.

Moreover I saw another fresher This evening and I conversed with her and got her number, like we talked for a long time.

I think I’m working on my confidence level around girls now

Mekanus:
Just look at how a university student is typing. Op why are you dating a university student who doesn't know how to use the word "is"?

I believe since it’s a WhatsApp chat you can use any term you like just to make the process of typing shorter

SisterAnn:
If you love her and you are convinced she loves you, then go for it.
To err is human. One day it could be your turn and she will forgive you.

I don lock up am jare

Ballzproblemm:
that rejection you dey fear na wetin go build your confidence lol , speaking from experience ,at the ending of the day when you realize you have nothing to lose you will go all out.

Omo that point where the girls give you no attention i npublic, do you know how it feels ?

VenExchangee:
Chief I was once like you, there is nothing there to fear, if you want friendship just start it gradually and let it flow, a rushed friendship don't last but the one that comes gradually last long and mind you most of the girls out there they fine who them go carry there problem give.
The problem is that you're just shy or don't know how to start a conversation but believe me the moment you make your first approach, what to say will come out by itself or if you they sip alcohol just take half of capital Jack and wash your mouth, once e begin work it will push you to go talk to one you want to talk to.
That was how before I was scared to talk to this my neighbor, we do talk though but through fence and she doesn't know me in person, na after like 4 months I knew aunty was even crushing back then in was already in relationship, we now friends till date.
You can ask for her contact, if she's a matured girl she will give out her number without stressing you.
Most of this big girls are more simple than we thought

Like when I see my spec I’m just so lost that I can’t even converse with them

I know if I want them to fall for me I have to stat as friends and get to know them and with time they wil fall for me


But you have any hints on what to say to them ?

Shapeaso:
You look more like a gay. I'm right or wrong?

I’m not a gay oo

Jesterinjay:
Take down your pic bro
They're coming for you

Who is coming for me ?

I see guys dating girls and I feel
Like I’m the one talking things too serious

Like one friend I had told me I can’t have friends that people don’t like me especially girls cause she does t see me moving with them and I’m always on studies that why she desisted cause I don’t show her affection so what do I do?

yemmit90:
I will advise you to focus on your education, at least for now. Women are very easy to get or slept with but can subsequently caused distraction that could hinder your success in life. There is absolutely nothing you will gain in dating girls while you are still in school or still being feed by your parent.

You can accidentally sleep with a girl using condom but don't ever be in commited relationship at this stage.

I’m not planning on being in a commuted relationship
I know that will distract me
I just want a girl to catch cruise with but I need a boost on how to get them

Even if I end up Getting more than 2 with my emotions not attached

MikeofKd:
Lol , first of all , stop being afraid of rejection , it’s fear of rejection that’s holding you back coupled with shyness. Anytime you see a girl you like and would love to approach her, just walk up to her ,don’t make it so obvious tho , like don’t be all over her face ,do it nice and simple , ask of her name , give a little compliment, ask few questions interesting ones tho ,make strong eye contact with her, be humorous , where a smile , At the end just see it as you having fun ,so whether she rejects you or not ,don’t take it too serious. Jsyk some girls would reject the sexiest man on earth. So rejection isn’t a big deal.

But some girls will always be on their phone while talking to you just like one girl I saw this evening


What are the kind of compliments I should give them?

And what kind of questions should I throw at them ?

crows2ravens:
There's really no universal approach. What one girl considers cool, another girl's turn off.
Build your confidence and know that either way it goes, it's normal.
But generally, most ladies' weak point is compliments. Or let me give you a trick:
Start the conversation like you're running into an old friend after a very long time, with excitement in your tone and facial expressions. Add a short compliment that indicates they look better than before. Works on most people, male or female. The disarming effect will get you their attention, with good follow-up talks.

But what if it’s my first time of seeing them ?

And what if they reject me I shouldn’t feel bad and just move on to the next ?

God1000:
Face your studies

So makes l leave woman abi?

Kasdat5:
Focus on your education & being responsible to your family & society ..

Yes I thought about that and that’s what I want to do
But stories I read on Nairaland ehn makes me feel like I am missing out on having a girlfriend

I saw lots of girls today in school and they are my spec but I couldn’t approach them for fear of rejection

Even girls I do see in my street I no fit meet them to toast them even though I like them

Since I entered school have not been able to approach girls in public, it’s not that I’m shy o
If they talk to me I flow well with them and if i have something to ask or tell them I know how to talk to them especially those in my department based on assignment or for notes

But how do I approach other girls that are my spec from other department to collect their number or toast them instantly?

Please guys give me lines I want to approach girls starting from this evening

Note: am I good looking enough not to be turned down ? (Pictures below)