It's not almost everyone please. Some religion forbids it, some culture forbids, they only know missionary.

Why are we talking about Obaseki? Is he the one running for governor under the PDP? You see how distorted we are in politics 😂

Ngelale was too good for this administration and he wasn't willing to lie as much as possible, or even close to Lai Mohammed, a man's whose named matched his calling to the T. It's good he resigned.

I don't understand, she looks almost the same in all pictures.

Why so much hate on an innocent girl. They chased her out of their country's pageantry, she returned to Nigeria to participate that of her homeland and they still want her to fail by voting for her closest rival? What kind of people are these?

babzo:
We live in an era where every one believes anything.
While I respect her opinion, the very fact that she believes these two things below shows that she either has a low IQ ( I say this respectfully and no insult) or she is simply frustrated by life.

1) You cant become rich or a billionaire unless you have rich family. That's a lie.
. Maduka of Coshacaris Motors, MKO Abiola, Mike Adenuga in Nigeria, Oprah Winfrey, Jan Koum ( Whatsapp founder, he arrived America with less than $100 and lived on Welfare) , and many others have proved that . Over 50% of the richest people in America came from poor or middle class background.
Even though he had a job on Wall Street like thousands of others, Jeff Bezos over 30 years
ago begged 60 people to lend him $1 million to get Amazon off the ground in exchange for 20% of the company. Only 22 of them including some of his siblings and parents believed in him. If he was a billionaire, why was he begging for 1 million.

2) Anyone with access to the Internet who believes Elon Musks dad had an Emerald mine is either mentally lazy or has low IQ. The emerald mine is an urban myth created by people who have failed in life and looking for excuses to explain why others make it.

But Elon's parents were rich. His mother is Canadian and he rode on her back to the US.

Then there's no point of the scheme. You'll be kidnapped anywhere you are in Nigeria NYSC or not. The people bandits are kidnapping are they doing NYSC? Instead of him to focus on challenging the govt to improve security across the country he wants a scheme to lose its relevance. And for those calling for it to end, it's not by force to do it. If you don't want to do it others will do.

There are men that will tolerate a beautiful girl with bad character, just that they'll return the favor.

Racoon:
Nothing new! Akwa Ibom had remained the Umero uno from antiquity.

From which Antiquity? When they became a state in 1991?

Wrong of the ehailing driver but trauma ke. I doubt it's enough to cause trauma.

It's how all of them are from Akwa Ibom with no non-indigene in their midst that marvels me. In a multicultural and diverse South Nigeria. Anyway, thank God for their freedom. Let them get their allowance.

Perfectskills01:


This is true to an extent

You are right because application of anything, including red pill is contextual/situational.

Application of the red pill is contextual. What this means is that

for example: when they teach you in the red pill that women are attracted to men that ignore them . You read such message and apply it in real life and it doesn't work . Now you will say that red pill doesn't work in real life . This is where context/situation comes in. When red Pillers say that women are attracted to men that ignore them , they don't mean you can attract women by ignoring them.

Here is the context where such message comes from.. . Women are attracted to men that ignore them only if she likes the guy in some ways but the guy is ignoring her , she will be attracted to him. Women can't be attracted to you simply because you ignore her .

In another context.... When you engage a lady for some time , then you start ignoring her , she will start seeking your attention and be attracted to you .

In another context.... When you go for her friend or other girls while ignoring her , she may start getting attracted to you .

My point is that red pill doesn't lie . You are the one who doesn't know/understand the context where the red pill is applicable. I am not trying to fault your premise . I understand that you are speaking from experience. You misunderstand the red pill because many red pill coaches don't include the context to the red pill message. But when you practice it, your failures will signify where such red pill doesn't work , but your success will tell you where it works. Next time, you will know the context to apply it .

Another example:
When red Piller pass a message that women are hypergamous , she will Bleep another guy if he is richer than you or well doing in life than you. This is also contextual/situational. If such message is true, then how do we explain a situation where oga wife is fucking the driver .

However, the red pill doesn't lie . Women are actually hypergamous . Just like a man wouldn't remain In a job when he gets a better offer else where , so will a woman go for a better guy than you and perhaps, inventually leaves you.

Let's see the context of hypogamy in the example we made . Oga wife can be hypogamous by fucking the driver . Here, it is hypogamous not hypergamous because the driver is below the oga himself in sexual market hierarchy . But what can cause this situation is because she may be seeking for sexual pleasure or pregnancy . The same way you are likely to Bleep girlfriend of a guy higher in the sexual market hierarchy, vice versa.

Does this mean that red pillers are wrong by saying that women are hypergamous? No . There are exceptions to every rule , but the exceptions can't make the rules . Women are hypergamous.


Another example:
When red Pillers say women are attracted to masculine alpha men . Yes they are in reality. But there are mental masculine women who are attracted to feminine men because they perceive him feminine and therefore will be able to control him . Rihanna and Asap for example. How do we explain such scenario. Does it mean red pill lies that women are attracted to masculine men . No .

Ever wondered why you once failed on your attempt to attract a woman with your masculinity? Perhaps you were dealing with a woman who perceives her masculine frame higher than yours. You u feel pill lies. Note : women also have their masculine qualities. Although many are not physical masculine but mental masculine than others and than some men

In this same context. Exuding high Masculinity on a girl who has not started liking you will fail because a woman can't accept dominance from a man who she doesn't deem fit to be her man .

Take note:. Woman can be attracted to two men at the same time . One she feels she can control him , for she is masculine than him. The other she feels he can control her because of his higher masculinity. The reason Rihanna and Chris brown didn't work was because both are operating on the same masculine level. Equal masculinity will brake up. Chris brown was masculine, Rihanna was operating on the same masculine frequency with him . One must be higher than the other - one must control the other person to work.

Ever wondered while a woman is attracted to you even in your weak or feminine state ? That is a topic for another day.

The point I am making here is that red pill doesn't lie . It is what it is. If you feel/think that red pill doesn't work in reality , you are the one who doesn't understand context. And you do not have an open mind to learn what it's like talking about.

Well said man. Sometimes we communicate half truths and people fly with them and crash. It's just like the saying "It's my life and I can do whatever I want with it" This is contextual. It rolls when you say it's your life and can decide your career choice or go with your talent which will be beneficial or you're doing something good that will benefit. You can't be a call girl, a robber, or a drug dealer and be saying it's your life and you can do whatever with it, when you damage the reputation of your entire family. If you're a robber and you're discovered and they come to arrest you but you run away they could arrest your father and mother to force you out of hiding, you've implicated your parents so it's not your life and you can't do whatever with it because you're interconnected with others.

CosmicJames:


Human beings are not robots. So do not expect or think that things will just fall in place for you because you've got some red pill knowledge.

1. There is no general rule
2. There are exceptions to every rule.

So observe your situation, apply the right red pill and you will be fine.

The best answer so far. I owe you a wine.

No matter how hard the economy is a deek will still rise that's why poor men have more children and despite the poverty in the north, they are the most populous region.

JetApartment:


Trash advice especially when it is coming from a man and not a woman. Only a woman can explain better not a man, op,pack well.

Some of you people need to learn how to read and understand. It's not that hard.

sonofthunder:





To your original post, I feel you are speaking from a place of limited information. The people who advocate for this have "scientific data" to back up the claims and I have often observed same to be true. Not that I support it but that's just the science. Typically that's how attraction actually work. You have to give the other person something to miss but people are using it manipulatively to support their promiscuous desires

Great scientists have had their facts falsified time and time again. The theory only works when the girl is emotionally invested in you. Using it to gain attention doesn't work. And that's where I stand. How can a girl who doesn't know you be interested in you just because you are not giving her attention? It drives curiosity not attraction. When the curiosity eventually leads her to you and she discovers you're probably shallow what happens next?

Now I really feel sorry for them. I wish they can settle and return as Psquare. They are the most talented duo in Africa. These guys can release an album of 15 songs and there will be no bad songs. All hits. Not these ones Wizkid, Davido and Burna Boy are doing. In an album you can only find 2 hits. The rest are gibberish with beats.

Jorussia:
Abeg leave the ignorant guy abeg.Me i nor tall,but every where i went for work or higher institution for the past 18years,the prettiest women always flock around me.I remember in my department then for school,I dated the prettiest girl.Even the finest girl for computer science then wanted me,na fear come dey catch me,because every senior confra man wanted her.I have never ran after any woman in my life,because i generally nor dey send woman.

When men brag like this, if you check well, it's usually lies. Anyway, you're derailing from the topic. Women wanting you is not new. Every guy has that story. I can agree with women love bad guys and hate nice guys on a contextual basis, but on this one, I have tangible proof. I can send screenshots.

Konjiboii:
I have a girl that has been with me for the longest time I can remember, she let me get my way with other women and never questioned me but still respect me, she is physically beautiful and God loving, her cooking skill is unmatched and she do enjoy cooking. her head game is amazing, her soundtrack when I give her oral is the sweetest song I have ever heard. her kuntus is tight and always wet. I just want to announce that I will be getting married to her soon.

😂 congratulations bro. If I were you I would be worried. Because a lady that allows you have your way with other women doesn't really love you. You could be marrying a LovePeddler who's feelings have been seared.

greypencils:
Women want men other women want. Understand that, understand life. They love a challenge, they love competition. They love a high flyer not a low lifer. You can't be a high flyer and not have women chase you. That is who they want. Give them attention as a high flyer and they would drool after you until you cross that line of chasing them. They don't want to be chased. They want to chase, catch, tame and domesticate what they've caught until their catch loses relevance and they are on turned by the next high flyer. Because they are married to a high flyer doesn't mean they don't get aroused by the next high flyer.

Those women that want what other women want are semi-thieves. Why would you want something that's not yours because everyone wants it? And then, wanting someone that everyone wants shows she's unstable, she's easily triggered by public opinion and trends, the feeling to be among, no substance, no ingenuity, no sense. It means when she follows you and sees another man that's more successful and more wanted by other women, she'll jump ship because she wants the trend. That's a sign of a low resolution babe - no authenticity. You just want the man because he's rich and a high flyer. You don't want to know the stuff he's made up, just because of social acceptance you want him. Oh please. Women are bigger than that.

DamnnNiggarr:
[b]


This is strictly for married men.

If she's not your wife yet, try this with her at your own peril.
Ignore a career woman, who's still just a "girlfriend" and watch her dump your ass for real.

At first, she'll try to find out what the problem is, but if she finds out that you're just being silly, she'll kick your ass out of her life.

It can only work with your wife, to an extent.
For instance, if I want to get my wife on her toes(which I wouldn't just start unnecessarily, unless something prompted it), I'll just reject her food, busy her calls and keep late hours. Then, come and watch her go gaga, but for the sake of your family, don't let it continue for a longer time, but I can't try this with "a girl friend". But do not suffocate her with your attention.

ADDENDUM:

On the other hand, when you're always available, it also scares women away, to them(women), it can mean many things like joblessness, broke etc, just as I have carefully compiled a list of them below through my research.


Over availability and attention from men to women can lead to;

1. Loss of challenge: When a man becomes too available or eager, the thrill of the chase is over, and the woman may feel less motivated to pursue the relationship.

2. Fear of suffocation: Excessive attention can feel overwhelming or suffocating, leading the woman to pull away and seek space.

3. Decreased sense of autonomy: When a man is too attentive, a woman may feel like she's losing her independence or freedom.

4. Perceived lack of mystery: When a man reveals too much too soon, the mystery and intrigue are gone, making the relationship less captivating.

5. Overemphasis on validation: If a man's attention is solely focused on validating the woman's worth, she may feel like she's only valued for her appearance or charm, rather than her substance.

6. Different attachment styles: Women with anxious or avoidant attachment styles may feel uncomfortable with intense attention, while men with secure attachment styles may not understand this discomfort.

7. Fear of intimacy: Some women may struggle with intimacy issues and pull away when a man gets too close or attentive.[/b]

You're absolutely right bro. It works when you've already locked the woman in. If she's still considering to date you and you disappear, she can easily forget you. You must have created a sense of intimacy and ensured she's into you then use the technique to build her cravings. But using the technique to win her love is ridiculous. And yes, choking a woman with attention can be downright unreasonable unless she's into you. If a woman loves you to stupor, she wants you to call her 3 times daily, she wants you always be around and because you have a life, you can't always be around, so it's a balanced game. I'll never endorse chasing a woman even. I don't chase women. But thinking a woman will run after you because you ignored her is silly. How many women even ask men out with their pride and ego, let alone a man that shows lack of interest. Most ladies will rather die and I did my survey before opening a thread.

maasoap:


You should have asked whether there are men who are living testimony of the this theory?
I think the one who loves you will chase. The only thing is that the chase will eventually stop when all the hope is lost.

Yes there are men who are living testimony of this but did it last? Or the girl simply moved on and they came to establish it as a fact. Why don't we do the test in 2024 and see what works? Rather than depend on theories that have lost their salt.

rickleye:


This is an OG theory. Tried and tested. It is not the norm but rather a below average percentage.
Back in the day before social media and Internet cafe and feminism . When I say back in the day I am talking before 1998. When there were no mobile phones and over population . The air was cleaner and you thought Naija had a chance.

To be honest it still happens now - but on much a lower percentage.

Lol Naija actually had a chance then for real 😂

EBEk101:
Op this is what I have to say 😀😀

let's wait for that time 😂

maasoap:


You should have asked whether there are men who are living testimony of the this theory?
I think the one who loves you will chase. The only thing is that the chase will eventually stop when all the hope is lost.

If you read my post in between lines you'll see where I mentioned it works for ugly, low self esteem, and jobless insecure girls. A man who's busy with his life and she sees that he's busy but still find times to check up on her will make her feel valued and loved. And she'll in turn reciprocate unless she's evil. But where a man disregards her completely with the hope that it will create an air of mystery around and strike up curiosity is completely fallacious. Women don't have that time again unless of course she's jobless.

Akinpresident:
From experience it works, you just have to do it sparingly and effectively.
Women thrives on attention and when you starve them that, they go crazy. And it pushes them to find out what exactly that's making you not to have time for them and they pest your life with calls and texts.
You don't do this to a talking stage. She'll simply disappear. You do this to someone who just fell for you.
I think the whole thing is about ensuring the lady likes you as much as you like them.

Exactly, you do this when the lady already has a thing for you and even at that it's still very risky but safer than doing it when you're not sure she digs you.

SuperOnyi:







I will be happy to go on this challenge but sadly, I'm currently working on a lot of things.

However, it is important to understand that humans are attracted to things that are scarce. Even in the market, you'd see how people automatically regard anything expensive as the best. But I digress...

You only have to partially ignore not totally, learn from online markets like Amazon and Jumia; they sell things for the full price but once in a while, they give the customers promos. You ignore her partially but when it's time to give her that attention, you give her what she wants 100%.

It took me a while to figure out I subconsciously do the "ignore thing" and I was surprised seeing red pill threads on Nairaland for the first time. I reflected on myself and found out that was 80% my default state. I'm still trying to figure out what makes people attracted to me...

So, what am I trying to say? You gotta have something they find valuable or mysterious to make the 'partial ignoring method' work. You have to understand how to make proper use of your silence and words. Communications between humans is deeper than just talking, sometimes silence pass a message.

Remember when your parents would look at you in a certain way and that's all you'd need to know you've fúcked up?

If you work into a restaurant dressing and acting on a particular way, and you keep doing that for a week; all attention will be on you. When you disappear and appear a month later, you'd successfully create some kind of mystery in the mind of those who would remember you.

You gotta have something they think they've not seen in others but in reality, you're actually playing with their mind. Even if you're ugly, she'd still wonder why you keep acting that way—curiosity can also kill a monkey. Haha

Until the challenge is accepted which doesn't have to be time tasking since you'll be ignoring and not focusing your attention, the only place we'll find a common ground is if you say it's subjective. It can work for some low self esteemed women and you have to be extremely attractive and irresistible for it to work. There's no mystery behind an ugly face that's easy to forget. You ignore and be ignored forever. However, I'm not a proponent of choking a woman with love unless you both are officially partners and there can't be enough choking. But completely ignoring a woman with the hopes that it cause her to be attracted to you is laughable and delusional but I can accept that it's subjective - works for some women, some category of women. Peace bro.

Meedon:


They work like magic

They don't. Women are mystery creatures.

FahBuLous:
E plenty die.
It works everytime unless you dont have value for yourself.

I see you have a comprehension problem. Enjoy your village girls.

FRANCISTOWN:

It's either you are broke, ugly and short or you are 2 of the three.
I guess you've been experienced how high class women with high self esteem lose their steeze and went cuckoo for some guys.
You see, women only have self esteem around guys that are common.

Some guys are so rare that when a woman ever get the privilege to be with them. They begin to act like a baby , like a teenager in love.

Though you will never experience this if you're any of the aforementioned.

It's okay to assume but thankfully you don't know me. And I'm glad you mentioned men that are rare. So it means the man has special qualities no other man possesses and that's something that can make a woman go mad. Not an average Joe distancing himself from a woman when the woman can easily do away with him. But if the man is rare, how will the woman find out when the said rare man is barely available? Or the rare you're talking about is external qualities like 6feet, handsome and rich? In that case that is not rare. There are many of them all over the world and a beautiful woman who's being chased daily can pick anyone.

FahBuLous:
chief of the SIMPson community don drop quote..

Share your story of how the beautiful girl you ignored kept running back to you and begging. She has to be beautiful, classy, working, and have a ton of admirers before you share. Non simpson rolling with village girls who would die for a guy that speaks English.

SuperOnyi:




You're partially right but when we say "ignore her," we do not mean you should keep ignoring her to appear strong — there should be a limit to how you give her attention. You don't keep texting and calling her all the time, the "mystery" that drew her to you will shatter.

It all depends on the kind of person you are, I'm very introverted but confident enough to face anyone, so there's actually this strange aura around me.

And yes, I remember how I started ignoring the first girl I asked her out, her father was strict and I was under him—I tried to play safe. I literally forgot she agreed to be my girl, she agreed to date another guy years later, and I went back to her. I wasn't jealous, humans will always be humans.

She still gave me her attention, love, and everything. If we had stayed for long, she would have left the other guy but she was scared I will break her heart again. Humans partially lose interest in what they feel they can't get but when they do, they grab it.

It was okay for me to flex around but not okay for the other guy. That's the power of mystery.

I like your perspective. Quite thoughtful. However, this reverse psychology hardly works for a couple of reasons.
1. Women have ego, especially the beautiful ones with a ton of admirers.
2. Unless they love you to a fault and that's because of something you possess that none of her courters have. Even at that, the ego in her won't allow her return the attention you didn't give.
3. I believe a woman can love you and crave you after she's known you for who you are not what you're not by distancing yourself from her. You only create an aura of mystery and if she's interested in you because of that, it's because of curiosity not attraction. When she eventually finds out there's nothing special about you she'd leave.
4. If you must roll by the scarcity and ignoring principle, then you have something special about you that when she draws close she gets glued.
5. Also, you have to be lucky that while you're creating scarcity another guy doesn't emerge from the blues and sweeps her away.
6. This theory of ignoring is brazenly dumb and doesn't worth even the sheet of the paper it's written on. I've put out a challenge let's try it. We create a WhatsApp group and share our results let's end this sharade and deception once and for all. It'll be fun while it lasts.