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tenthranger:what's the blog niche? so I can know what to send to you. |
Here in unical everything seems normal. some are saying until the unical chapter executives announce the strike then its not holding |
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organicprof:wow I'm in my 3rd year, pure chemistry unical |
PapiNigga:This is Calabar |
Flirtyjane:Oh boy.......this is my hometown. It's that bad. God help us |
Hmmm this one weak me oh |
Mods pls take this to front page, people need this. |
HOW TO KEEP PROMISES AND EARN TRUST Life is cluttered with so many unfulfilled promises, some are intentional, some are not. In the wake of all this disappointments lies a myriad of distrust and marred integrities. I've been a victim and also a culprit. I've made promises I couldn't fulfill and I've been promised great things that never came to pass. Having had a fair share of both scenarios I came to finalize that in every case of an unfulfilled pledge there's always a victim to cry foul and a culprit with a justifiable excuse for failing and of course trust is the endangered virtue. The table keeps turning as a culprit today might be a victim tomorrow and vice versa. In our relationships between our mortal likes and our Supreme Immortal above which is God, a certain degree of trust is required to maintain the rapport from it's incipience. Psychology says that every human has one trust allocated to every other human it has a relationship with and once it's broken there's no reserved or spare trust left. This postulate could be true for some and untrue for others, some never trust again while some continue anyway and apply caution which apparently indicates uncertainty. The numbered subheadings below would save your integrity a lot more than you think. If you really want to keep promises follow this rules. 1. DON'T PROMISE AT ALL Yea, don't promise at all. Asides the damaged trust you've earned yourself with people, you're invariably a liar. You can evade promising by inserting statements like "let's see how it goes" or "I'll try my best but not an assurance". Whoever is the recipient of any of this sentences is already contemplating of alternatives and substitutes in your stead. If the person still decides to have a fait accompli on you, then the game is on him, but at least you've raised a flag of uncertainty exonerating yourself of the aftermath beforehand. Even the Bible encouraged a sealed lip rather than uttering vows you know are beyond your redemption. 2. LEAVE FAITH OUT OF IT Often times we make promises and leave it at the feet of faith, especially when it has to do with hard currencies. "I'll make sure that by the end of this year every kid gets a free iPad " and then you go to bed with a faith that everything will pan out well and money will be attracted to you like little helpless pins in the face of a magnet. That's downright silly. What if life knocks you down with one it's evil trucks and you're financially bankrupt. You have a host of kids on your tail demanding for their pads. Such promises hold a special abode in their hearts and of course you are in trouble. Be at least 90% certain of the available resources you have to pull off any big project before spilling out. Most people will never understand the obstacles you encountered after making the troth cos some of them aren't even close to you. To them you're just one of those promise-and-fail deceptive humans. 3. SET A REMINDER We're always engulfed in life's numerous entanglements and necessities and it's not out of place for one to just make a commitment and dump it in the cloud of oblivion. This reminders are programmed to poke you daily of the pledge you made, the device can never forget it's daily task. A constant poking creates that consciousness of your vows and as such you'll strive to get that part of your business done and dusted. Reminders could be set on almost anything, it could be that laundry you promised your Dad, that trip to the grocery store for your Mum, that promise to fix a damaged item for a friend, that promise to make an inquiry for someone in a distant city about something he needs in your city. Anything fella, just set the damn reminder. Most times having the resources to redeem promises is not the problem, forgetting is. 4. MAKE SACRIFICES So you made the promise out of pride cos everyone has done so and your ego and dignity is at stake crying out for salvation. Beautiful, it's not that bad, sacrifice your time or money to present you as a faithful fella. Whatever circumstances that left you choiceless but to pledge either in a relationship, church, social setting name it, always try your best and go out of your way to fulfill it. Doing this raises your credibility bar and forces everyone to cut you large slacks in a case where you were unable to fulfil another pledge on schedule. That level of trust so built keeps their hopes high on you, knowing that just as destiny as you are, maybe delayed but can't be denied. Trust humans, they will sing praise songs to your reliability which will place you in a spot where doing otherwise rather than fulfilling a vow is never an option. 5. STRIVE TO BE RICH The rich deliver on the spot, there's no need for the i-will-do-this phrases. There's always a cheque at pockets reach to scribble out the bucks. The only exceptions to this rule is when there's a picture of an asset, say a building project in the scene, which we all know takes time but limited time anyway cos of the availability of the wherewithal. For most people, money is everything and they take promises of it's nature seriously. This kind may never forgive you. Hope deferred maketh the heart sick. It's right there in the Bible Proverbs 13:12 . So make more more instead making hearts sick, make more money so you can you do on the spot delivery, make more money so even your promises will be respected and held in high regard. If Dangote, Otedola, Elumelu and their likes tells you they'll do something good for you especially when it has to do with money, all you need do is to go home and be happy and pray nothing changes their mind. FINAL NOTE THE world would be a better place filled with harmonious esctacies if we all try to keep promises made. The first class culprits of this social misdemeanor are our politicians. In a bid to entice and win the hearts of electorates, they spill vaccum pledges in return for numerous chants, praises and franchises in their favor. I've never seen a thing so beautiful in politics than a smug on the face of a politician at the end of his tenure on a billboard with the inscription "A Promise Kept " and a photo montage of his legacies and achievements. One Governor in Nigeria comes to mind. A reputation is built on solid rocks. Trust is earned. Everyone is Happy. I rest my case here. Mods please move this to the right section of this is not. Thanks. Nappy New Month People |
so this is news. predegree program, not even degree. since when did people start graduating from predegree and to even add a gown to it. na wa oh |
princdebola201:baba calm. onne alone has over 500 registered companies not to talk of transmadi |
kparozzy:it's via the combination of both your waec and jamb scores. For your waec A=6points B=4points C=3points for jamb 180-185 is 20 points 186-190 is 21 points 191-195 is 22 points 196-200 is 23 points 200-250 is between 24 and 33 points it goes like that. if your waec is just one sitting you already have 10points catchment areas and educationally less developed areas are things to consider equally. |
Get all the info you need about unical and the screening process here. I can even help you find an accommodation when it's time for screening and when you secure the admission. BTW I'm a 300 level student of pure and applied chemistry. At your service |
IamSINZ:thanks man |
Evablizin:thanks. seen episode 2? |
Bibi294:thanks dear |
Ruggedfitness:fitness coach I hail thee, trust me I can |
Lol nairaland I love you. |
ore random facts about me as I mark my birthday. 16. Don't ask me how old I am today, there is a 95% chance i'll lie about it . 17. My favorite website/forum in the world is nairaland.com 18. Up until yesterday, my favorite drink was lacasera. 19. Every good day the Lord has made doesn't go by without having me on nairaland for at least 1 hour. 20. I can sing, act, do comedy, write a book, do motivational speaking, play two musical instruments and find my way around computers 21. You can never catch me dance in public. 22. Whenever you see me use my thumb finger to stroke my middle all my right Hand, just know I'm thinking about the future and planning. |
Birthday special: 15 random facts about me you probably didn't know about. 1. I knew about my real birth date 5 years ago 2. I've never misplaced a phone before 3. Last time I cried was in 2012 owerri, Nigeria 4. On a good day I can do up to 200 push ups (press up) 5. I'm the only Rivers state indigene in my department and level 6. My best food is water 7. I'm attracted to anything blue (Chelsea fc) 8. My favorite Nigerian city is Calabar 9. I forgive but I don't forget (don't ask me why) 10. First time I entered a plane was in 2000 but it didn't fly 11. First time I was live on air Treasure fm PH 2004 12. First time I was called "fine boy" aside from my mum was in 2012, she said I was beautiful 100% 13. I speak two languages: English and body language 14. There's a 5% chance I might not like you for liking things I hate 15. I use birthdays to measure how much I'm loved. More facts coming soon.... |
Op come and lie down here. These pictures are not enough to sell your school to us. I can't buy this. your school is still underdeveloped, I've been there and damn it I hate over hyping. so I should leave unical because of this? even half of my campus is classier. |
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This field is turning out to be lucrative as many high profile society managers are outsourcing their jobs to VA's and SMA's while focusing on their real onions. I'm interested in this field and I need a tutor that will also serve as a mentor in the field to guide me through the basics. Your inputs are highly appreciated. |
But I can't see a pronounced hip here, it's just there |
Lol wike, nwike, ike, you just cracked me up. Oh my dear Rivers state may God help us. And pls wike come with proof of your claims, the ikoyi story still shows your sheer stupidity in an attempt to rub one's name in the mud. |
While returning from Cali yesterday I saw the park and to be honest with you it was beautiful, this pictures are not really reflecting the true nature of the park. From Bori camp to the bridge before airforce is wearing a new look. never been proud of my city for a very long time now. btw I'm an Apc stalwart but I appreciate good things when I see them unlike the pdp's that never see anything good in the opposition. |
I was waiting to see "operating your phone while charging " thought that's unhealthy for the phone too. but since you didn't mention, as I type, my phone is plugged in and it's charging ![]() |
I love you blue army, good fight, admirable resilience. The battle ain't over yet, grab that cup off arsenal, those lads ain't serious and clinch a treble. |
awww this happened in my community and I'm just seeing it here. na wa oh |
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