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GSKing: In no particular order...

La_creme
carr101
hettymoore
zandie

then...
hezron lorraine
masonkz
yooguys
robian
jen2l
realkokoboy
simon andal
nigellius_hosan

lastly...
seun
sienna
jarus
chaircover
debrief
ebumowa and
missy b

i'm just a fanatic fan

ole! the poster said 5

ipso loquita
carr
gsk
hettymoore
zandie

itchy

GSKing: I'm very okay, thanks.
His post is very untrue. I hardly talk abt my gf on nairaland, jeez!!! Probably confused me with someone else or deliberately trying to slander my moniker(not me).

I was wondering o, ignore the dude jor

GSKing: guy, you are very confused shaa, u miss road? You have the wrong person.
You talk like i wrote a diary abt my gf somewhere! What an insane thing to do...

@la_creme, werrin dey sup. That dude typed randomly.

I'm gud, hope u are okay?
what dis guy said abt ur relationship is not true ryt?

GSKing:

and u care what he/she thinks?

GSKing:

and u care what he/she thinks

SimonAndal: _

Again, not on Facebook. I used to operate an Fb account with the name Simon Andal, but I deactivated it because it was full of guys asking me for sex (partially my fault with the profile pic I used. Lol). Now I'm only on Google+ with my real name. SimonAndal begins and ends on NL.

okay mermaid, Cheers

SimonAndal: _

As weird as it sounds, I'm not on Fb. I use Google+

hmmm are u sure? his last name is o****a and first name starts with letter j, anyway the guy really does sound like you

simon are u that crazy dude on fb, constantly writing abt breaking bad?

u are very weird
funny but too unserious
I wonder why u act the way u do sometimes,
hope you dont have self esteem issues in d real world

I scored 39 and everything written dre is so true abt me

[quote author=Hezron Lorraine][/quote]Dont know u that well but these are my observations. ..

u sound intelligent
u sound like someone that enjoy giving opinions
u also like forcing your opinions down someones throat
u like being heard and enjoy attention
u would do anything to get noticed
u sound like a very sensitive person
also like someone who feels he is perfect in everything
lastly you feel u are better than everyone else(I hope this last observation is not true thou)

thats all for now

INNO18: why pay attention to that dumbfuckkk! His brain is so saturated with sperm that he cant reason like a normal human being! He thinks every gay's dream is to continue sucking coc.k for the rest of his life without consideration for what the future may bring forth. It's ur(hezron) likes that make Nigerians and Africans justified in their Homophobia!

see I may understand ur point eh but the next time you talk to me about my hezron like that eh I go forget slap for ur face...
U HEAR?

Hezron Lorraine: don't get it wrong mam.I am not condemning him.I didn't see he shouldn't believe what he wants.I only said he shouldn't impress his own personal opinion as a reflection of what we all think.

I don't support Yooguyz.you might want to check again.I stayed neutral all through.

INNO,drafting your reply.hang in tight okay.

I was being funny...
anyway I personally feel he has a point in the reason he gave...
growing old with the same sex will make u an outcast in most families and when you are like 60-70 and need the love of kids and family you may not get it.
for some of us its a risk we are willing to take, that doesnt make him a hypocrite u know
its his own personal decision....

and wat he said concerning gays just wanting sex sex sex is slightly true. most lez for example just want the sex not all thou.
go to a gay or lez site and all you see is m Hot, suck me, blah blah blah.
so I get his point.

I dont see how he is trying to impress his personal opinion as a reflection of what we all think thou except when he said gays are just after sex.

I can relate to the reasons he gave sha, I always wanted my own family but I cant let my child go thru the challenge and stigma of having two moms

hez and gsk why are u guys upset abt his decision? is ds nt d same thing yooguys is currently doing and you guyz supported him?? ? esp u gsk that refused to see reasons with me.
lol dont condemn ds one you guys should support him too like u did yooguyz.
nw u see why I was pissed

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finally, nice move.

[quote author=ozo_emeka]I knew you would use that and I opted to see if you will bring your mind so low. You did.[/quote]wateva u say dude. or were u nt a kid? nd did you have any responsibility? so how can u understand something you haven't experienced. its ok thou, continue ur thread in peace

I thought moderators are here for the members? correct me if m wrong.
if yes, then sentiments aside it is only fair to remove/impeach the moderator if a majority of members want him removed.
so many people have been complaining about sexkills, he is not the only moderator here and definitely not the only one that bans members so if so many people are complaining about him then he should eida step down,be removed or better still change.
nairaland can go on without moderators but the site will be useless without members, the customer is always king u know.

I think keeping your members should be worth more than loosing a moderator

[quote author=ozo_emeka]till i turned 15[/quote]so u were a kid... with no responsibility whatsoever. ..I see.
its ok den, I get your angle now

[quote author=ozo_emeka]Come home to what exactly?

Norwegians make more money than Americans

Sweden is more advanced

Hong Kong is way more technologically superior

The biggest and most advanced plane in the world is flown out of Singapore.

The tallest buildings in the world are now in Dubai and Shanghai.

Meanwhile, the US has the highest incarceration rate in the world.

The World Health Organization ranked the US 37th in the world for health care, despite the fact that we spend the most per capita by a large margin.

The hospitals are nicer in Asia (with European-educated doctors and nurses) and cost a tenth as much. Something as routine as a vaccination costs multiple hundreds of dollars in the US and less than $10 in Colombia. And before you make fun of Colombian hospitals, Colombia is 28th in the world on that WHO list, nine spots higher than us.

My sister paid $500 for a regular vaccination for school.

I’m not going to go crazy with the details, but we eat chemically-laced crap because it’s cheaper and tastes better (profit, profit). Our portion sizes are absurd (more profit). And we’re by far the most prescribed nation in the world AND our drugs cost five to ten times more than they do even in Canada (ohhhhhhh, profit, you sexy bitch).

In terms of life expectancy, despite being the richest country in the world, we come in a paltry 38th. Right behind Cuba, Malta and the United Arab Emirates, and slightly ahead of Slovenia, Kuwait and Uruguay. Enjoy your Big Mac.

There is no FACT to support that America is the greatest country. It's all "GOOD PR"

America is 7th in Literacy
27th in Math
22nd in Science
49th in Life expectancy
178th in Infant Mortality
3rd in Median household income
America is number one in ONLY 3 categories
1. Number of incarcerated citizens per capita
2. Number of adults who believe angels are real
3. Defense spending (aka spending money by military to go to war with other countries) - America spends more than the 26 developed countries combined


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=16K6m3Ua2nw#t=153[/quote]who said anything about america being the best country? I dint say its the best but its sure better than naija.
come home to whatever they left at home.
leaving this country for a better one legally is not bad, stop trying to make it look bad.

[quote author=ozo_emeka]L O L
"doing well" , what exactly do they "do"?

yes I lived in Nigeria for more than 12 years, in those we have lived in a one bedroom, with people, rented, in a duplex, in a bungalow and everything between so I KNOW NIGERIA.

@Afam how Tell me why the car wash boy here won't be frustrated. Mind you all the people he has "debt" with AUTOMATICALLY withdraw from his paycheck before he even sees it. So they claim he makes about 1500 a month YET he sees NOTHING!

Don't even get me started on insurance, without Health Insurance, Good Luck!

How is the Car wash driver "eating like his fellow americans"?? Did you read that LIST

He is buying
1 Loaf of Fresh White Bread (500g) $1.97,
1 Milk (half gallon) - $2.22,
1 crate of eggs $1.54
Chicken Breasts (Boneless, Skinless), (1kg) $4.39
Oil Canola $3.61

FOR the month, aka 30 days. In Nigeria, the Car wash man can afford to eat "mama put" of at least N200 a day in a month that's N6000 i.e $40
If The SAME car wash TRIES that in America he won't even see rent money for the month. For what the car wash in Nigeria eats for N200 the Car wash man in america will have to pay $14 to EAT the SAME food. N200 is $1.25 and is NOT enough to buy you more than 1 bag of chips. A meal in Mcdonalds the CHEAPEST place to eat, is $6.25 if the car wash guy eats burger (which is not filling btw) everyday and eats ONLY that , then he will spend $190 a month on feeding.

His "american" counterparts are eating in restaurants, going to see movies, taking vacations etc . His pay check CAN NOT afford that.

The price of a BUS trip (ex. Lagos to Enugu) will cost you N15,000 in America. MEANWHILE in Nigeria ekene dili chukwu will take you there for less than N5000

Are you getting the cost of living? So although when you look at the FIGURES it looks WAY BIGGER when you change it to Naira, cost of Living is ridiculously high.

Those who live in NY? Ask them, a bottle of water is almost $8 (AT THE CHEAP PLACES) .. That means to buy a small bottle of water is N1500 ON THE STREET OF LAGOS[/quote]last question. .. how old were u when you stayed in nigeria?

honey: oya take this hug *gives her a hug* manage this kiss *gives her a slight peck*......... and we're all settled.

*smiles* but we were never fighting na

honey: the purpose of this thread is just to say that america is not a bed of roses, and that you have extra- hussle, if you are ready to stay alive.

there is no place that can be called a bed of roses, but real nigerians are used to struggling.
we struggle almost everyday,if we can survive in naija with everything going on then america is too small a challenge.

honey: we were having a healthy debate........... and ozo emeka is only trying to be a positive antagonist in the sense that , it is better to see things as bad and they later turn out good, than to see things as rosy, only to discover thorn and thistles......

why cant they see things as good and later turn out better?
why so pessimistic?
leaving a country as dead as nigeria legally should not be seen as bad
they are better opportunities there, and a better shot at growing
stop scaring people, if they wanna travel let them and if they dont make it they can come home.

ozo emeka, how long have you stayed in nigeria?
did you school here?
have you ever worked here?
Did u stay in a rental apartment when you came over?

if no, then pls do not talk like you know what its like to be a nigerian...



as for peeps that want to leave this country pls do, my relatives there are making it. its not abt your location, if you are hard working and smart you will succeed.
unlike naija where you struggle everyday and sometimes dont see any light at d end of the tunnel, over there you can grow and definitely get paid for your hardwork cs there is less corruption. if its that bad over there then let them cm home, , they are there saying dont come over.lok