Good morning everyone, please I'm deeply troubled right now and decided to come pour out my heart, maybe I'll feel better and also get encouragements, advice and suggestions from you all, thanks.

I'm a CS mum. Gave birth last year march. Now I just found out I'm pregnant again. My last period was 18th January, uptill now no show. I'm pregnant again. I don't know how to feel. My first child will be a year old 21st of March. I feel it's too early to take in again.

I haven't told anyone. Not even hubby. I'm still thinking of what to do and I know he will want me to keep the baby but ultimately he will still support whatever decision I take.

I'm having double mind because this my first baby is super active and stresses me a lot. I don't how I'll manage pregnancy with him and work and housekeeping. It's going to be a whole lot of stress.

Also, I'm thinking of what people will say. Like I gave birth last year and again this year? No proper spacing. Plus the fact that I might be slated for another CS based on close interval?

I'm worried about cost of everything. Hubby and I are just managing to get by and having another baby now might take a heavy toll on our finances.

I'm worried! I don't know what to do. Please advise me. I'm thinking of going to my doctor but I don't have the courage yet, also I feel I need to discuss with hubby before going to the doctor, what should I do?

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First of all, Mr Poster how old are you? Did you go to school?
Apart from sex what else do you have to offer that girl?
What's your plan for her since you don't want her to go to school?
Have you discussed such plans with her?

Please stop fucking another man's future wife since you've lost interest in together forever with her.

However, if really you love her like you claim, sit her down and discuss your fears and insecurities with her in a language she'll understand. Then you both can agree on a path to take.

I hate lies.