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horny4u:
Once laziness is in a a human beings chromosome you cannot uproot it, only that human can uproot it.

Plus i donot believe you can change a grown up man permanently you will only get a BSC in nagging and he will become more headstrong.

If OP's hubby can sit at home for 3 years no work and cannot find something to do, rather he goes to borrow money to give back to his wife, they have a son watching and learning how to be spineless and manless.

Kids learn subliminal examples from their parents and either become similar to their parents or choose similar partners.

The similarities between my hubby and my dad boggles my mind

I personally do not believe in no opportunity as every situation depends on how you view it ( half empty or half full glass)
so if OP's hubby has not created an opportunity to earn the sterling even when a wife and son to feed then,
I really do not think he has it in him. The bible talks about multiple streams, oyinbo says multiple streams of income,

Babes think fast and quickly in your shoes I WILL WALK , any miracle that has waited 7 years and no show at all , will probably not show .

Notice i said in your shoes, abeg i am not saying to leave your hubby oh , just saying i am unable to s.h .a.g passionately a lazy man that i do not feel like i can look up to.

MOBO999:
Am in manchester and know what am saying.

MOBO999:
A white lady will meet you ion a pub, she will buy you beer and cigar, then she dance with you and take you home, she drives you in her car home, then she cook for you, then take you to her room upstair.