nusdog: I know I let my guards down. So there was this lady who I would call Miss T. She was introduced to me by her senior sister who I knew through a facebook group. Since I told her I needed a girl for a serious relationship, she said she will link me to her younger sister in Akungba, Ondo state.
So, fast forward to when I began speaking with Miss T, she agreed to come to see me in Lagos but complained of not having enough for transport. So due to the recommendation i got that she was a good lady, I sent her N11, 000 as transport.
So after sending her this money, only for her to call me on the eve of the day she was supposed to come. that one of her relative was ill. So I just had this feeling that this was too coincidental to be true.
So I tried to cajole her to return the money since I sensed she was trying to play smart with me. She said no problem. That I can send my account number, which I did. After waiting for 3 days, I chatted her up on whatsapp that I'm yet to see any alert from her. Only for her to tell me she needs money for now.
So I said she is supposed to keep her promise of returning it, after which, she blocked her on whatsapp. I contacted her senior sister who linked us and her response too wasn't satisfactory to me.
So I'm really bitter with how the whole episode played, any chances of me recovering my money? just pained why someone will block me on top of my money. Please help.
Wait lemme get this straight ; 1. You still have the GUTS to STILL hide her NAME from us? Like seriously? 2.obviously the money na your papa money..if u had worked for that money e.g carrying Ponpon,etc, Dem no born you well to send a girl you haven't seen that kind of money.
It's obvious you're very stupid...wait, when u come tell us for here what did you expect we'll tell you...that trully shows you're very stupid..I pity your life...continuing be stupid you hear?
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bubudeen: Sorry to bother you guys it my first post here. Just want some advice though. I have been dating my girlfriend for a little over a year now and we have been bonding and growing well. I would say we have a fairly healthy relationship. I don't want to go into details of what I have done for her or she done for me but. I can assure you I make sure she doesn't lack any basics.
Recently I wanted to use a nice picture of hers for a profile so I ask for her phone and asked for her gallery precisely cos she passwords every single app on her phone including her pic gallery. She opened it and handed me the phone. As I was going through I saw a picture she took in a very posh room white bedsheets, posh hotel like furniture she wore a big t-shirt she normally use to sleep and just inner tights shorts.
I asked her immediately where was this cos we see almost every other day. I looked at the date of the picture and saw that it tallied with the time she said she wanted to go stay with her friend that lives alone for one week cos she normally stays with her family.
Rather than answer she collected the phone and didn't talk. I kept asking she now said it was a guy that we both knows room. That she just went to greet him. I knew it was a lie cos the room was mega posh with white bedsheet and the time stamp on the picture was 9.22pm during lockdown time
I have since asked her to let me see the picture again she has refused rather claiming that I am damn to jealous and have trust issues so she won't show me.
What do I do. I am 99% sure the pictures were taken in a posh hotel room.
Lemme tell you the hard truth; Your "girlfriend" and been banged 7 ways to sunday..now, don't be alarmed..calm the heck down...that's why she's a GIRLFRIEND. Even fiance' sef dey do am.its called AWAY MATCH..Now that you have known what are you going to do about it... absolutely nothing.Do you know why?..it's simple...she's just your girlfriend.so its either you swallow your pride and it's bitter pile and continue as if nothing's ever happened or you Quit the relationship OR(and this is my favourite) continue banging her till she breaks up with u without u spending another dime.. Good luck
Queenkwin: Oga I did not want my man to eat your money before now but I know that if he fails to take the challenge you will think that you are better than him so he said he is ready now.
Shut up and stop trying to show off those LADIPO ENGINE CARRYING BOYS WHO JUST CAME FROM THE VILLAGE AND ARGUE AT THE 35TH MINUTE AT A VIEWING CENTRE COS OF A N100 AND SPREAD YOUR LEGS AFTER COS OF ISI EWU...you now have the audacity talk back at DECENT GUYS HERE?!! YOU THIS HOUSE GIRL.no go steal ya madam money o
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My people are DESTROYED for LACK OF KNOWLEDGE Hosea 4vs 6 ENGLISH STANDARD VERSION
Op if you and your clans men can see,capture and even eat this creature..it simply means you can eat your own mother too...which also means you're simply an EDUCATED BARBARIAN
Queenkwin: Men who visit Nairaland family and romance sections the most are not intelligent enough to contribute in other sections of the forum.
Do you know how stupid and daft you sound....and I mean that as a matter of fact...there are men who still feel young at heart,and bored and once in awhile feel they can drop one or two advice for the younger ones here, there are men who after visiting their normal sections, just feel the need to laugh a little and see what kids like you are up to these days..did all these ever occur to you? No. why?same reason you made an observation in a very very stupid manner. Now from your moniker, it might seem you are somewhat pretty( not beautiful..beauty comes from within) but from your post, it's obvious you have no brains what so ever...lemme give you a piece of advice...keep quiet...watch how other girls post topics, comment on post,generally banter etc...learn from them..what were you even thinking when you decided to post this
iLegendd: The state I want all smart youths to be in is when they can lie on their bed from year to year and never lack money while being legit unlike Hushpuppy and other stupîd wannabe fraudsters.
Keep it legit, flaunt it legit, brag it legit, ignore haters legit, and God will keep rewarding you in the face of your haters for being legit.
I just decided to take a few pictures a minute ago and entertain my fans and at the same time, give my haters something to abuse with and keep 'em busy.
1... 2... Go...
Too much peace of mind dey worry me. Whether coro or not coro, I don't care — I work from bed (home). Please, try and do the same and have peace of mind.
haydeey: Before we started dating, we did less chatting cos we see each other more..
But during this whole lockdown of a thing, I realized she doesn't even know how to flow well in chats
That's not even my problem, my problem is that she keeps complaining I don't chat with her well, I don't communicate with her.. Bla bla..
But what would i say to someone that replies with monosyllabic words.. Even when I try to crack a joke, she just sends laughing emojis, if I try to start up a reasonable conversation.. All she replies is with "hmmm.. Yeah", "well", "true" etc
And she keeps chatting me up
NB: I've talked to her about this Since I talked to her about it, she has been saying.. Ehn, I prefer to chat with "those I think are in my level"
I don't even know what to do to her
And your still dating someone who replies you with "hmmm.. Yeah", "well", "true" etc
The way you young men ask some stupid questions and expect answers you already know is appalling
Encash: I had introduction. We we're about to do the traditional marriage. Her mother died. I invited the family after two years since her parents are dead one of the distant uncle gave me a bill, including a cow. We opted for a court marriage. It was done.
But this woman is disrespectful. Pastors prophet tell she has a spirit husband. Sometimes I see a man fighting me in the dream. After sex smthing will bit my d..k. 3 times a year. She refused to go for deliverance. She is stubborn and self centered.
Her brothers and sisters are supporting her ill manners. Myself and brothers have gone to the police station once. This is because of the differences. Ok, Come and take your sister I won't see them. She can leave my kids for me or take them along. I do 80percent of the spending, paying house rent for more than 10 years and payment of fees. A frigid woman that hate sex like shit.
People advise I stay because of the kids. But I can't continue like this. I am fed up .
Please advise no insult.
If nobody insults you...I will..you deserve it.imagine as an elder brother to you,I know all you're passing Tru and you keep taking all this nonsense. Over and over again..for 10 good bloody years? And you're still asking for advice to stay or leave? ARE YOU MAD? ARE U PSYCHOLOGICALLY DERANGED? wait..is it until dey bury your dead body and you jam her husband for hell fire nahim you go get sense and do the right thing that would have been late by then..noo...don't leave ...stay...Ewu me