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HateU2:
Tosyne2much aagain
10lister

Thats why nobody wooed u
Yeye boy
Keep digging u hear , u will never understand a woman

oshiiteoku:
U are so wrong to make such request,she will be like,which kain yeye oringo husband be this,we never even marry e don carry beg beg wahala come,na so i wan take marry my own?my dear ,on a more serious note,u are soo soo wrong,its too early to start asking for such favours,pls be the man and take charge,if she doesnt like the house as it is,she might on her own decide to do something on her own but to ask her for money to furnish una house,is shameful and degrading,u can bark and rant for this truth like u have being doing,i don kia

sexymoma:
Thank Goodness you mentioned "dating", i bliv you wouldn't want me to go back to my prev. converse you still want me to remind u that " she may have lotta important things to do with her money"

sexymoma:
You see!! pls jos let her be... if she isn't stressing you i see no reason why you should... what if you guys aren't dating nko, you nor go do your furniture yourself?

sexymoma:
be sincere ooo when was the last time you asked about her welfare as in the way she live her life... don't be surprise if she tells you she has one big project at hand buh because you never asked she didn't bother telling you... she s a rare gem, u sef know buh u jos dey form for here ni

layla129:
1. What do you mean by kitchen work? Food stuffs or what?

2. ASSIST her with other stuffs in the house? Is a lady not supposed to be the one assisting? You're in CHARGE. What is your own specific role?

3. Why should you be getting married soon and not discuss finance?? Its a very important aspect.
My guy is there more to this story you're not telling us?? Don't believe this

LuveU2:
Future begging...and then she might have no choice than to surrender her income. I fear men like you o

As a man you must learn to control the urge to beg a lady for money cos you may find it hard to stop esp if she is the type that earns big and worse does not ask you for money.

halfricanadian:
Shut up too
Who talked bou her attitude
I said she is nt a wife yet so u can kno if u can put up with her

Cutehector:
My brother calm down... let 40k not bring a discord BTW u two.. just calm down and manage with what you have at the moment...

halfricanadian:
there is a reason she aint a wife yet

LuveU2:
Some men are shameless, they never stop asking after the first. Dont blame her, she is trying to be smart and probably has foreseen smthing.

SAINTSAMURAI:
@OP no offence to u, and i know all fingers are not equal, but uve nt even married her and uve started sharing responsibilities with her is unmanly. telling her to bring money 4 d rentage will make her loose respect 4 u, i believe that as a man, u must fully provide on ur own a home 4 ur wife to stay and the home fully paid 4 by u. dat brings respect nd humility 4rm her.

sexymoma:
for the mere fact that she isn't the demanding type i see no reason why you should be upset with her
she may have lotta important things to do with her money which you may not even know cos she never asked you for help

person nor dey ask you for money, so u don bliv say her salary reach am so tey she fit dash out
Abeg leave the babe

Izen:
The info you gave us is one-sided na. Personally, I have no qualms in contributing financially if the man recipocrates. Where I have a problem is when I have to do every other thing in the home including contributing financially. Haba, I'm not a super woman na. It is called eating your cake and having it. Maybe you have hinted to your fiance before that you are not going to be a hands-on husband and she has in return decided that she'll leave you to be the sole breadwinner. These are things you should have talked about at this stage in your relationship. It won't be fair for you to expect a financially independent woman slash 19th century woman as a wife when men I've since moved on from being the 19th century sole breadwinner. You are just going to drain her both physically and psychologically. You don't want to end up with a bitter wife.
On the other hand, if none of this is the case, then you need to have a serious talk with her immediately. It is called tough love. Sit her down and decide how family expenses and chores will be handled. Both of you would have to make a compromise one way or the other. If you can't work this out now, then you are probably making a huge mistake in your choice of spouse. It simply means you don't complement or suit each other. It might be time to end this.

datalossvictim1: However this does not mean that it is compulsory for every lady to be independent. The most important thing in my opinion is that women are able to work like their male counterparts. That's good enough for a society. Now making it compulsory is what I would not prescribe...

standd: Thanks for the insult
And did you just refer to ALL the women in your life as fish-brained clowns?

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BABE3: I'm carely female.

BABE3: I even doubt women think they're equal to men intellectually. Women think men have super powers to "walk away" and be a "real man"; an ability that women themselves don't think they have.
Plus, someone just said its harder to be a man, wouldn't that mean men have larger brains.

san316: Na wa o. Seun don turn us to guinea pig. And what kind of experiment would you want to do with the 'like' button on nl. Na waawa oooO

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