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ashewoboy:
@lanicky, China made? Dem get ashewo for china? Nigeria made joorh.


Advice that guy wey i quote na. Btw, you no wan reply my message, wetin dey worry you?

I don answer am sir... I hope I'm free.

If I don't get a mention, I'm afraid I won't be able to answer some questions here.


Lol.. Change your username first...then I'll reply your messages.

noblekel:
thread I must commend; I have a case I wish for a candid opinion;
There is dis girl in my neighborhood dat have caught my attraction & admiration! One morning I had d opportunity to talk to her I just asked of her name told her mine (acquaintance), dat was all; but since then I haven't had d opportunity to meet with her one on one! My question now is when d opportunity present itself should I tell her straightforward of my likeness for her! It is proper considering d fact we haven't yet have dat close rapport!

It depends on the kind of lady she is.. I don't think it's safe to tell her your mind as soon as you see her.
Don't you think it's too early? You don't even know the kinda lady she is.

The next time you see her, tell her you would like to be her friend. If she accept.. Then you'll get the chance to know her better.

You know, great couple were once best friends.

makazona:
Why is that any girl/lady that my fiancee sees around me, becomes a suspect.

Whether you are a customer o, neighbourhood friend o, church friend o etc

As far as you are a woman, she believes that something romantic is going on.

FYI, i dont cheat on her.

Chronic insecurity.. Hmmm.

You need to change her orientation about you.

Maybe she felt hurt or let down in the previous relationship. So, it takes Lotta hardwork and determination to overcome insecurity in a new relationship.

OR


Maybe you're the handsome type and she's afraid of losing you to some other girls... Or maybe she's suffering from inferiority complex, cos of your status or the status of ladies around you.

Try to make her understand.. Let her know you love her the way she is... When you're in a public place or around those ladies that scare her.. Try to display some affection towards her... It may be a simple gesture.
By doing this... you're showing her how much she meant to you.

Like I said earlier, it takes Lotta hardwork. You have to help her overcome doubt..
Insecurity can destroy a great relationship if care is not taking.

The best solution... Lmao.. Just put her in the family way or get married to her ASAP

Presh900:
why the fùck do you guys act hostile to a guy you love, i mean everybody knows that you have a crush on the guy even your friends buh you now keep a long face when you see him, you hiss when he passes, and just shun him. Why ?? Cc: Lanicky, Laveda, Twaci

Well, the question should be: why do some gals act hostile to the guy they love?

You can't generalize all girls; some girls treat guys differently than others.

Now to your question:
Some gals act hostile to their crush because:


1. She's playing hard-to-get (the wrong way):

I acted like this sometime ago. There was this I had a crush on here, so we started chatting off Nl... I put on some foolish ego and boom! I blew the whole thing off. And I landed in the friend zone. lol. Well, he didn't know I had a crush on him... But I've learnt my lesson.

2. Check yourself:
You might have hurt her feelings unknowingly or knowingly.
Sometimes, some guys play hard to get too, especially the handsome one. So when you start acting like a VIP around a gal that has a crush on you... Trust me she'll take offence, and act weird around you.



3. She may be hostile naturally or maybe she's not the smiling-cheery one. Although, beneath that mask of scowl, lies a cheerful lady with a weird humor.
She might just be waiting for you to take the first step.


5. Her hostility might be a defense mechanism to keep her away from vulnerability. Female ego you may say... She doesn't want you to see her as a cheap girl.
I wouldn't like that myself.


Gyrados, check if this answer will help.




ashewoboy.. Your username na China made

Zedoo:
You either didn't fall deep enough or dude was too scared to ask or ddnt ask at all... One of the above....
No?

I fell so deep like I had never done before.. I almost sent it though, but I guess the angel in charge of my senses was on duty that day, so he stopped me from making such a mistake.

Zedoo:
Have you ever been in love

You no go even know when you do am....

Yes.. I had been in love once. And I didn't do that.

ashewoboy:
you won't put your face na, just your juicy boobs. He just wanna feel good with your nudes na. You can give him sex buh you can't send him nudes? That's hypocrisy.

Shouldn't have waste my time answering you... I forgot you are perv***

Go use your drugs.. You were normal yesterday

Olasco93:
A girl that really isn't interested in your money or material things, what are the things I should be doing to express my love and affections for her, things that would make her be convinced that I really love her?
t.waci
l.anicky
i.vyy

Hmmmmmm... Woa, great question.

You must do everything in your power to always make her happy. She needs to be adored, sorry if you can't do that. But girls who'll love you for what you are and not for what you have are rare my brother.
So if you come across such gal... Don't you ever break her heart... Try to bring out the best in her.

You must not loose her.... But if you can't love her the way she loves you, then pls...don't waste her time. Pls.

Time doesn't repeat itself.

ashewoboy:
why? What if he requests for it?

Why would he request for my nude pics?
We're talking bout BF here..not husby. Remember, the term Bf can be temporal...

Well, I can't send my nude pics to no guy..no matter how much I love him.. Fvck love! What if things don't work out the way I planned... What if anything go wrong.. What if he's not the person I thought he was... And what if he, outta stupidity or carelessness shares the pics with his friends and it goes viral on the internet?

Who would you blame? Me off course.

So...NO. I can't share that kinda pics with my bf.

ashewoboy:
Is it right to send your nudes to your partner?



Cc: tw.aci
la.veda
l.anicky
safa.rigirl.

In my opinion... It's not right.

Beautiful ..

midehi2:
you have no strength and you carrying her to the bed

Hehe.. You dey mind am?

Awww... But exchange rate never affect the prize of sense na

He's in the other room I guess

topeontop:
16. Then pictures of you attending wedding all over social media. So everyone knows that even one bad belle, you don’t have.

Lmaooo

ashewoboy:
Lanicky, that could be us but you are doing anyhow. Is it because i love your figure 8 and i wanna get in there? Lanicky, je ki n fun e ni chocolate, wa like e.

Here.....yeah, turn left. Go to the other room... A doctor will see you shortly.

Chocolate nikan KO... Cowbell milk shi ma pelu.

Calbarian:
Cherie! c est moi! tu es la et je suis ici. c est comment?

Je ne suis pas cher la recherche. Eh bien, peut-être que j'ai mal interprété.
Mais si mon interprétation est juste, alors je vais dire que je ne suis pas à la recherche de qui que ce soit.

loomer:
Happy for una o

Wey your own?

GAYinglin

HML my celebrity crush

loomer:
Anyway make we fashy that one.

Any better for me?

Nothing joh.. Na me suppose ask you.
Anything better for me?

RoyalBlak007:
@lanicky——i ask you to forgive me for my inappropriate behaviour
[color=#AB56BA] ..i shouldnt have displayed such irascible attitude...apologies[/color]

Sorry for what I said to you too.

loomer:
Group wey dey mute for so long, wetin u expect make I do?
And na so so Mr and Mrs NL matter una dey always talk

Lol.. E don tey wey I enter that place.
You don see me discuss Nl matter for there? Na normal chatting I dey always do. Anytime they bring up Nl matter, fight must ensue..

MzLaurel:
Chisos Nike!

Ah can't come and go and kee myself over some yeye children's wahala.

Diddyydiva:
just post a link of your thread here. Let him read and learn

Okay. Goodmorning


@Kestino... I hope your relationship isn't a crazy one if not..then click on the link below to get some tips.

https://www.nairaland.com/3399975/how-break-up-without-hurting/1#50187191

unapapadeycraze:
Lanicky, where is your "no bra" outfit? When "no boxer" day comes, mr nairaland sef go show us him own.

I no get