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RomanceRe: How to break up without causing too much damage. by lanicky(op): 9:30am On Oct 14, 2016
loomer:
Who be the evil spirit wey ask you this kind question?

Anyway, I dey where all of una abandon me put. My house.
How are u?
Lol..


You just left Aga's group just like that. You nur try at all.

I'm good.. You?
RomanceRe: How to break up without causing too much damage. by lanicky(op): 9:29am On Oct 14, 2016
RoyalBlak007:
Lol E-fame? you throwing shades? You meant the E-fame that made you grovel begging for votes during the contest like ur life depended on it...
[color=#AB56BA]Or you meant the E-fame that made you behave in a servile and obsequious manner cos of a mere 50grand grin ....Well of course I can't blame you for the Jejune attitude...You lack the beauty....and the brain too..[/color]
You've rehearsed these... decide you'd start your disses with a past event. (Miss Nl contest) cheesy

Fool, it wasn't about the 50k... Well, I don't expect you to understand since you have the intelligence of a nine years old boy.

Run along boy.. Go help your mama pick beans.
RomanceRe: How to break up without causing too much damage. by lanicky(op): 9:06pm On Oct 12, 2016
loomer:
So you just sit down decide say na break up matter you wan talk about?
Person ask me qweshion and I take am open thread make others benefit from am...


Where have you been? angry
RomanceRe: How to break up without causing too much damage. by lanicky(op): 8:54pm On Oct 12, 2016
nma24:
Breaking up over the phone is the safest to avoid stories that touch.... Plus you block and delete the number.
It's not the best option dear smiley

But whatever rocks your boat. *shrugs*
RomanceRe: Whats The Matured Way To Breakup A Relationship by lanicky(f): 8:22pm On Oct 12, 2016
Diddyydiva:
Cc


Lanicky

Laveda

Come and help the op out grin
I don't want to cause controversy again wink
RomanceRe: How to break up without causing too much damage. by lanicky(op): 8:19pm On Oct 12, 2016
firstking01:
Hw you tongue
I'm good dear
What about you?
RomanceRe: How to break up without causing too much damage. by lanicky(op): 8:12pm On Oct 12, 2016
misspicy:
This is not a nice thing to say hun.
undecided

lol... You don't have to reply some peeps on here.. You just let them enjoy 10seconds of e fame


Lanicky there is no way a breakup won't hurt unless you both weren't in love/lust/feelings before.

Nothing like a soft landing,personally i'd prefer a rude breakup,so I can quickly move on and forget about the person.

A Mushy mushy kind of breakup,is even harder[/b][/i]
Sure, I know... Cos I've been through one myself.
But don't you think it's better to break up respectfully than brutally?


The prospect of conflict can be incredibly uncomfortable for some, but everyone deserves to hear where they are falling short. Real men aren’t afraid to clearly communicate their grievances when it is necessary.

Imagine a guy who changed his fb status to *Single*
Yeah, you think there's nothing wrong with that.... But this same guy didn't bother to tell his girlfriend... Changing his status was actually his cowardly method for breaking up with his girlfriend.
No phone call, no meeting, just a quick status change to let his partner know that things just weren’t working out.

Some won't even do that.. They'll just put up a meaningless fight or start acting weird just to frustrate the lady off..

Although, I don't think I can act so cool with an ex, but I won't make him my enemy too.

Diddyydiva what say you?
RomanceRe: How to break up without causing too much damage. by lanicky(op): 8:36pm On Oct 11, 2016
RomanceRe: How to break up without causing too much damage. by lanicky(op): 7:26am On Oct 11, 2016
makydebbie:
lanicky where have you been! cheesy
I've been here, but on low key. cheesy

I hope you're good?
RomanceRe: How to break up without causing too much damage. by lanicky(op): 7:44pm On Oct 10, 2016
tongue
RomanceHow to break up without causing too much damage. by lanicky(op):
When you start a new relationship, you can't do without your bf or GF. You can't stop thinking about the other person, and it feels amazing to know that he or she feels the same way.

Then something goes wrong

There are different reasons why people break up. Wants and needs change. You might get to know that your dream, passion, interest and feelings differs from that of the other person.

NOTE: Change is constant... Nothing remains forever.

Perhaps, you guys don't agree on same topics.. Your idea may be different from hishis. You may realise you don't love him/her enough...
You may have developed feelings for someone else, or feel you're not ready for a serious relationship. So, you're considering break up.

Be careful how you break up with your bf/GF... Because break up hurts (those of us who have been through one knows how painful it can be) wink

Before you break up, here are some things you must do. Things you should put into consideration.


1) Think about why you want to break up
Confusion is not allowed. Think things through first. Be sure of what you want and why you want it.
Although, your bf/GF might be hurt by your decision, it's okay to do what's best for you.

2)Confide in someone you trust

Try to talk through your feelings, seek advice from an experienced and mature person.

3) Put into consideration the other person's reaction. Choose your wordd wisely

Be careful with your words. Don't rush words or be in a haste to talk things through.

Note: he/she might be sad, surprised, hurt or relieved. Be ready to deal with any kind of reaction.

4) Do not be brutal with words, actions

Be honest.. Tell the other person why you need to move on with your life. Like what attracted you at first, and the reason behind your sudden change of mind


5) Do not break up over the phone...
You've seen much of each other.. So why should you act like a stranger all of a sudden.
Although, breaking up through calls and text may seem easy, but it's immaturity at its peak and it shouldn't be an option.


6) Do not say aweful things about him/her: Speak about him/her with respect. Your ex could become a friend, business partner or you might even rekindle a romance someday.

7) find a good time and place to talk..
Break ups are more than just planning what to say. You should also consider how you will say it, and also Listen to what the other person has to say.

And lastly.....


cool Do not alienate yourself from him/her. Bad today, may be good tomorrow.
CrimeRe: Shocking! Human Skull Hidden Inside Loaves Of Bread (photos) by lanicky(f):
Jeez! The world is becoming something else.
So, the cost of a human head is 10k... The one sold for 70k must be a very big head... Aww. Too bad. embarassed
CelebritiesRe: Toyin Aimakhu Pictured With Zahra Buhari (photos) by lanicky(f): 8:47am On Oct 10, 2016
Toyin seems overly excited in the first pics...
RomanceRe: Ladies Lounge..life,love,dressing,food And Everything Ladylike.(season 2) by lanicky(f): 9:29pm On Oct 09, 2016
Diddyydiva:
Seems this is the right place to ask a question that has been on my mind for quiet a while now...

The question is ......


Is it ever possible to break up with someone without hurting them?.

I did break up with a guy I felt I was doing a favour letting him go, Yea am not the type who play games and am kind of too honest. Well this ended up bad for me that I even wished I should have just let him be, probably start acting weird till he freaks out. ( you know what I mean wink ) .

Although something tells me I did the right thing but I still question my actions sometimes.

Could I have handled the situation better?
Are there other possible ways to break up without hurting the person.

I'd like to learn from intelligent people here.

Cc

Laveda
Twaci
Missspicy
Sleekyshuga
Mizmycoli
Lanicky
Ishilove

And any other intelligent persons who sees these
Hmmmmm... It's obvious you still have feelings for him.. (I don't wanna say love now) smiley
You left him for a reason right? Yeah, maybe you noticed he changed from the guy you used to love...
Or maybe, you felt or was sure he was cheating on you..

Or ..
Maybe you felt he wasn't good enough for you... Maybe you wanted more..

Or
Maybe, you wanted attention and he's not giving you... Or you just wanted him to love you like you loved him, but he didn't do that...


Right now, you're remorseful cos you feel what you did was bad... It's not so bad if you ask me, but you didn't follow the right step...


You should've expressed yourself.. Let him know how you feel, and what you want in the relationship and what he's not doing right.

If he doesn't change...then you can tell him you're not ready to continue with the relationship...


But the did has been done already... You can't change that. But dear, you can change something, You can still talk to him...if you're strong enough to do that.. Don't ignore him totally like an enemy, except he did something you can't forgive. Let him know you don't hate him...All you wanted was happiness.


The most important thing is..

DO NOT GIVE ROOM FOR RESENTMENT.
YOU DID THE RIGHT THING BY LETTING HIM GO.... IT SHOWS YOU LOVE HIM..
PLS, DON'T DESTROY YOURSELF WITH ANGER.

Be Strong wink
RomanceRe: Wish 5 Romancelander A Happy New Month /happy Independence Day by lanicky(f): 10:37pm On Oct 07, 2016
Mediapace:
Incase you don't know say i sabi french,your siggy means "Sometimes it is better to be silent than to tell others how you feel" tongue
You Don google search am. Amebo nur go kill you. tongue
RomanceRe: Wish 5 Romancelander A Happy New Month /happy Independence Day by lanicky(f): 10:22pm On Oct 07, 2016
Mediapace:
Lol understand wetin?
Something wey i go lift to google translator
Hahahaha.

Amebo!!!!! grin
RomanceRe: Wish 5 Romancelander A Happy New Month /happy Independence Day by lanicky(f): 9:40pm On Oct 07, 2016
Mediapace:
Me undecided ,no worry give it to dygeasy

wait! What's wrong wid you and your french franc.ais siggy?

Yo wan go france or ivory coast?
Why Dygeas.y?undecided

I Don't want peeps to understand... It takes an extremely inquisitive person to understand. tongue
PoliticsRe: Photo Of President Buhari 'Teasing' A Waitress by lanicky(f): 4:58pm On Oct 07, 2016
LeJeun3:




Bien dit


smiley
RomanceRe: Wish 5 Romancelander A Happy New Month /happy Independence Day by lanicky(f): 4:23pm On Oct 07, 2016
Mediapace:
Happy new month to my special and wonderful E-family though this is belated but just accept am like thatwink :

Lanicky - Happy new month bae,can i get my new month gift nowhuh

Stfuareyoug0d - Oga after you na you o OLOHUN wink

Aminat508- happy new month my oldest sister on NL but you enjoy falling my hand. You don't reply PM's

Twaci- HNM short of words

Laveda- Happy new month ltns

iamkingzlee- Happy new month boss,hope you aren't messaging me on whatsapp? My whatsapp was deleted

Jeffreyjamez- tongue E no need,na every hour we dey talk

Fynestboi- when is graduation na?

Vizkiz- Happy new month,e don tey o

myfantasies - Missed ya HNM

omotayor123 - Happy new month,how is school going?

Juhan - No Pm ,nothing. Shey we dey fight ni?

Funjosh- After CAC no other church o
Thanks a lot dear kiss

Em..about the new month gift.. Don't you worry, I'll get you multilinks phone tongue
Don't thank me...what are friends for grin
RomanceRe: 8 Facts By Science On Love And Romance by lanicky(f): 3:26am On Oct 06, 2016
STFUareyouG0d:
Awwwwwww I want to fall in love. Who'll catch me?
This lady. grin

RomanceRe: These Pics Just Made Me Believe In True Love... by lanicky(f): 3:22am On Oct 06, 2016
Lovely smiley
RomanceRe: These Pics Just Made Me Believe In True Love... by lanicky(f): 3:21am On Oct 06, 2016
Smallville10:
Nigerian ladies need to see dis... I have been touched...
Now i believe in true love, now i believe it can work btw i and sinaj... Trapqueen77 come and see o... Eroticangelina u ought to be here now... Auntytania come see this... Its just... LOVE
Nigeria guys need to see this too.
RomanceRe: What Am I ? by lanicky(f): 3:17am On Oct 06, 2016
A fool undecided
RomanceRe: Where Is The Right PLACE To Go Look For A Wife? (I Wan Settle Down) by lanicky(f): 3:15am On Oct 06, 2016
Deeperlife undecided
PoliticsRe: Photo Of President Buhari 'Teasing' A Waitress by lanicky(f): 9:14pm On Oct 05, 2016
LeJeun3:


Vraitment!?? Coeur Brizé

Oui, cœur brisé smiley
EducationRe: After Viewing This Photo, You Would Learn More Than 10,000 Life Leasons by lanicky(f): 1:39pm On Oct 04, 2016
Wow smiley

I saw the smiling face when my eyes was half closed.


lalasticlala.
PoliticsRe: Photo Of President Buhari 'Teasing' A Waitress by lanicky(f): 1:02pm On Oct 04, 2016
calberian:
J'avais l'habitude de croire dans l'amour mais pas plus. Comment est-ce pas vrai svp?
Une fois, j'ai aimé de tout mon cœur, mais mon amour a été pris pour acquis. sad
PoliticsRe: Photo Of President Buhari 'Teasing' A Waitress by lanicky(f): 10:51am On Oct 03, 2016
Iranu undecided
CelebritiesRe: Omotola And Her Husband At BN Wonderland Event (Photos) by lanicky(f): 10:48am On Oct 03, 2016
Lovely couples.
kisskiss

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