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face your fears!! how can you face your fears in this relationship!?

threatening to leave the relationship wil not change him.It could also put you in an emotional truama.

SIT HIM DOWN AND TELL HIM WHAT YOU WANT IN THE RELATIONSHIP.TAKE YOUR TIME TO WATCH HIM.

IF HE BEHAVES WELL AND LATER GOES BACK TO THE SAME OLD BEHAVIOR THEN YOU CAN LEAVE HIM.

ask him what his fears are about you.mind you, don't create space 4 distrust.

Spyker:
And where are the pictures bro.

why are you faking? or is it the absence of picture that is the joke

I am a living testimony. plz, I don't see any good reason for m@sturbating just to get the pleasure.

If you are keeping yourself for the sake of purity, then be very pure. don't deceive your husband to believe

that you are too pure when you actually have been deceiving him by m@sturbating.

whatever is worth doing is worth doing well.It is a very great thing to be a virgin.

everyone has a life to live. others may not, but if you can, why not?

I am a virgin,I am only proud of it i my closet.I used to

masturbate, but stopped on the 30th of December 2009.

It;s not easy. sometimes, I feel like pressing the next lady I see.

but now, I feel like just being cool, since I have abstained all this years.

THE REASON I WAS A VIRGIN WAS LACK OF OPPORTUNITY BEFORE,

BUT NOW, EVEN WITH THE OPPORTUNITY,I JUST WALKAWAY

Siena, your answer is just mature. you earn respect.

Siena:
You don't.

Respect is a priviledge, not a right. You've got to earn it.

that's just the secret.

synthesis, you are really gbanski (great). there is no condition whatsoever that a real man shud pay 4love. you should

have given it to a beggar . don't go back to her.

I don't like payback, just leave her alone. If you pay her back in her own coin, then you ae not diferent from her.

the money , love, etc that you lost is for learning not to be a mugu.

I believe the money you paid is worth the lessons that she taught you.

I have met with some 1 in a similar situation like yours, but to GOD BE THE GLORY, the issue has been resolved.

the persons case was just spiritual, such that they could not just settle down, even when they really wanted to.

are you a Christian? I sincerely hope you are.

If the guy loves you and you love him , and he is really not double-dating and you are both finding it difficult to

come closer together, you have to seek spiritual help from God. and undergo counsellings if possible.

If he tells you he needs time to sort himself out, tell him how you want him to go about it.

even with all the time in the world, he may only increase the time of suspension of the relationship.please,

act fast, both of you ned to sort out the relationship, not just himself alone.

During the former postings you did, I was not amember of nl then.

the best thing you have to do is lie low on the relationship.

but as much as possible keep communication going on.

you can tell her your present stand on what she did.

it all depends on you , if you still love her.

don't rush to send her away, and don't rush to embrace her.

if she can do this, she has the mind to do worse when she lacks money again.

iice, are you short of words? was it too pleasurable that you cant express it with words but, pictures.

i won't spend one second looking for a virgin! although I have not deflowered any girl, I still believe that most girls did

not deflower theirselves

males did it, so, why are they looking for what they have thrown away with their hands.

although we know that some girls are guilty too.

because it is hard to get one, please respect them; they deserve it.

the first time that i saw a person eat fufu with beans, that day, I discovered that poverty is reall not a joke as

the other brother wrote. sometimes it happens as if poverty is in the blood-line of such people. the leaders

have turned blind to this agonizing and painful truth. Nigerians at home should try to do something that

others in diaspora will be moved and then decide to join hands to support . poverty does not understand fun, neither

does it understand joke. with poverty, every joke is a expensive joke.

the fact that you are not in Nigerian soil does not mean that you are immunized from its numerous dis-hearthening

description. you are either aiding and abetting , or you are helping out.But sadly enough, you are only

criticizing!

you stay out there and write as if you are innocent or you have helped matters.

plz change your notion.

after unwrapping, what do you get? why not stop unwrapping the package,

since you will meet the same old package you always meet.

I hope you are not expecting something else from the package.

why does every man want to open d gift b4 d real day?

d gift must be very appealing.

we all know that Chelsea is in form

tottenham is in for a big shit. I hope somebody has been

watching Chelsea since after loosing to Inter Milan.

Chelsea also has Portsmouth to battle with for the FA finals.

Chelsea's preparation for the FA final has already started,

so with th at preparation, it will wipe out Tottenham out-rightly.

It is harder to get a virgin as a wife than for a camel to pass thru the eye of a needle.

some times, men are the cause, some other times, they just want to have a feel of themselves.

what do you have to say about those despoiled?

how about men that can't be noticed who actually do the damage?

but some other times, ladies despoil themselves. too bad

my first kiss is way back in 1999. I liked it, but I felt more guilty than guilt itself.

but even after that, I did not stop. But after each kiss section, i felt guilty .

finally, I have stopped!

all the times I have kissed put together will amount to 9 times.

hello Huxley, your question is inded very brilliant and intelligent.

but it is like asking; how come about bone in a baby from sperm and egg?

to get your answer, you must have to make it to heaven! this question can only be answered by God himself.

But let me quickly prescribe Deuteronomy 29:29. It will give an insight of what I mean.

I'm a student under-going industrial training. but consider this; is it right for a male student who is in my position, with

limited resources to be in a relationship with a lady who is financially demanding? or better still, just hangup the

taught. why, because, It apolls me when a lady demands too much.