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@tpiah. Am obsessed with the word, not without reason though.

Lord Reed, am bored with gud girl stuff. U can check the sexuality section for my newest post -the intimacy diaries of mummy's good girl. Thats if u don't mind visiting that section!

nice write-up, pweety. I had an aha moment while readin!

lol. I remember this. I was livid. Funny how I neva came back 2 update y'all on dat biyatch (ex roomie) and J. LMBBAO

Eventually, they made up. And he pleaded wit her to come and say 'bye' to his people. Since she left angrily d 1st tym. She agreed, it was d decent tin 2 do especially as they hd received her with open arms. She went back, and spent 2 days mor. This tym, he gave her breathing space.
It was wen she was getting set to leave on d 2nd day, dat nmba3 started tickling and playin wit her. She was laughin and asked him 2 stop. But somehow, she didnt kno when she called out her ex, nmba 2's name. She actually called him by her ex's name!

When nmba3 got back from work dat aftanun, they had a huge argument about the s.ex issue and she left, cuttin shut d trip.
Am rily not ready for s.ex now, she confided in me. What if afta s.ex he leaves me? How many men wil i end up sleepin wit til i get marrid. I want to remain a vee til mariage, If he's d right one,he'l wait. Omi ti eyan ba ni mu, ko ni shan koja, she said.

'tae, am tired. she lamentd on d fone. I only get to sleep wen he's at work. He's always jumping al over me, gettin on top of me, asking dat i shud atleast let him 'put in d tip'. I tink il leav his house. I cnt take it anymor.
Look, ur nt sixteen, i admonishd. Uv got 2 do it somtym and he seems lyk he's serious wit u. I actually tink its romantic dat he cant kip his hands off u, i replied.

'tae, am tired. she lamentd on d fone. I only get to sleep wen he's at work. He's always jumping al over me, gettin on top of me, asking dat i shud atleast let him 'put in d tip'. I tink il leav his house. I cnt take it anymor.
Look, ur nt sixteen, i admonishd. Uv got 2 do it somtym and he seems lyk he's serious wit u. I actually tink its romantic dat he cant kip his hands off u, i replied.

So according 2 what madam angel told me, she rily had d niciest time. His family fell in love wit her big time. And during the trip she became alot closer 2 nmba3. She however ws uncomfortabl dat nmba3 wud pounce on her al d tym, demanding for se.x. Midmorning, aftanun, night, midnight, dawn-nmba3 always was askin 2 sleep wit her. She had told him from d 1st day she didnt want a sexual relationship. He had agreed but now,she was virtually sleep deprivd, because with the way his hormones were raging, she was scared he would forcefully put 'd tin' inside her if she dares sleep deeply.

D relationship was later 2 become a long distance one but madam angel didnt feel it. Nmba3 showered her with calls and attention. Jst a few months into d relationship, nmba3 invited her 2 meet his parents.
It was abit too early for dat, bt we reckoned d trip wud also help her get to kno nmba3 beta.
'I want to kip it real', she informed me as we sorted through her closet 2 pick clothes for the trip. I dont want to take just natives, as if i dont wear jeans. After all, d day nmba3 met me, i wasnt wearing native' (dats my frnd, always tryin 2 b plain).
I agreed wit her and she eventually travelled down 2 meet them.

She told me she wasnt rily ready for another relationship. But she wasnt going to allow nmba 2 ruin her from having a loving, trusting relationship. She wasnt going 2 run away from men just because number 2 hurt her. So gradually, she opened a portion of her heart 2 nmber3, even though it was still largely occupied by nmba2.
This turned out 2 b her undoing!

madam angel, u nid 2 move on, i told her. Dnt waste any mor tym flogging a dead horse. Move on, finding happiness is the ultimate revenge against d one that hurt you.
A couple of weeks later, jst to overcome d sadness of d whole situation, she acceptd a date with a young, suave young man. Well spoken, well mannered; he seemed smitten with her.

methinks if she hadnt been so focusd on being a perfect, good, little girlfriend. If she hadnt been so bent on loyalty 2 a guy who wasnt even deserving, the story might b different. I mean, why would a girl stay loyal 2 a man who wudnt stay loyal 2 d promises he'd made her.
Nmba 2 probably got bored shi.tless out of his brains wit her gud little ways.
Anyway, we'l move on 2 nmba 3.

nmba 2 woke up and decided he wasnt worthy of a girl like madam angel. 'I nid 2 find myself', he pleaded as she burst into tears.
'Tae, what did i do wrong', she askd me as she wept on my shoulders later on.
Nothing, i answerd. It took all i had in me not 2 tell her she shudnt av been al 'miss goody 2 shoes' wit him. No man deservs dat! It only got her to jiltsville!

i watched (somewhat enviously) as they got deeper into the relationship. It was hard not to get jealous; they had chemistry, they had friendship. They seemed to hav evrytin. Evrybody was sure they were walkin 2 d alter. His friends told him; she was a keeper, a wifey. I told her he was 'ok'. They talked kids, they talked house. What had started be4 my eyes became deeply serious.
However

Even though nmba 2 was always attached 2 her lyk a leech, dat didnt deter toasters. I noticed her turn man after man down. Bankers. Oil guys. Dose guys seemed like they wantd 2 wife her.
R u sure about dis? I asked. You kno 'nmba 2' isn't financially capable 2 settle down just yet. He only has his ideas and what is that worth in this country?
Madam angel's answer astounded me. 'tae, she said, I hav 2 b content wit wot my man has. Wil i leav just becaus a richer guy is askin me out? D devil u know is better dan the angel u dnt kno'. I cant kip jumpin evrytym a richer man calls'.
Atleast, give dose toasters a chance, i advisd.
'tae, i know wot dose men want and I cant double date', she answered with a tone of finality.
I wonderd if she was sane, i wondered what was so special about nmba 2.
bt in d end, i respectd her for stance.

Even i (cynic dat i was) was blown away. Byfrnd numba 2 seemed like the real deal. They were nt having se.x, yet they were so close. It was unbelievabl dt they were not intimate, i wondered how she was kipin him lockd down. I was jealous of them, their long walks hand in hand and how they always talked about the future. I began 2 emulate her, mayb as a gud girl, i wud also find my knight.

mr brown jay-d whole story isnt finishd yet, pls hear me out?