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He was apologetic and baby girl forgave him. I watched as she was hurt ova and ova. He wouldnt cal and wen she did, he wud sound like she ws a disturbance. She wouldnt learn. If a nice guy comes to ask her out, dat ws wen nmba 1(her 1st boyfrnd) wud pick up signals lyk d frog he is and becom attentiv to her. She wud den stay back with him.
Bt eventually, even she(madam angel) had enuf and she left.
In comes boyfriend nmba 2.
Nmba 2 was very intelligent and a radical. madam angel spent long hours talking 2 him, hearing his theories and learning new things; cooking for him and his friends. Nmba 2 wsnt stingy, he however had light pockets. As usual, madam angel wasnt fazd. 'my baby's not rich bt he has prospects', she would tel me. And even i cudnt fault d relationship. Dey became the envy of evrybody, cuddling and always whispering like thieves. They were inseperable.

The advice above is for a certain someone i know too well and i hope she reads this. This babe is d sweetest, prettiest, gudnatured girl av eva seen and i've known her a looong time.
Unfortunately, i don't think she knows dat too much sweetness wil run her down in this world. She's intelligent and articulate; evrybody talks of how respectful she is. Bak in uni, she was a bookworm. Her 1st boyfrnd ws at 21.  
Now to the bad part. Her 1st boyfrnd wud take her on marathon walks on campus without even offering her water yet dis chick was nt even fazd. Their very first valentine 2geda, a guy who confided in me dat he had been watchin her and rily liked her invited her out 4 a date. But she declined, telling him 'i'm hooked'.
I stil remember her shining face as she told me dat evnin; 'tae, am so excited, my 1st val and its with some1 i lov'. Her boyfrnd howeva disappeard into thin air thru out val and was MIA for 3 days. No text, notin. D guy ws stingy 2 d core. He lata turned up, apologetic and attempted 2 pluck her a flower near his house for valentine.
TO BE CONTINUED.

If you're ready to settle down and he's ready to settle down, then gurl-GO FOR IT! The only reason I wouldnt support is if you guys are on different pages i.e he wants to play, you want to settle! But since you're on the same page, ride on!
Sometimes, the right person doesn't come in a package you envisaged!

can somebody with gun there help me shot this poster Lips sealed

@Odiaero- Before, u shoot, let me give the mofo' 40 lashes of the cane! Cos its obvious his fake, yellow yahooboy korean a$$ didnt get enough of the cane from his ho' of a mother while growing up! She was too busy sukkin on dikks to do that!

As if it doesn't take two to tango, placing the blame on Nigerian women. Well the same way u are here fcking people's daughters (as you claim), so also is your imaginary wife in korea fckin thru all the holes in her body on credit! She's a hole for anythin that has legs!!!


While you're busy here placing fake stories on NL, she is choking on your gardener's cork! While getting it from behind from your cook! EsE! Even your mongrel awaits his turn!

@Tpiah, thanx jare. For opening the yansh of this mofo who likes discrediting Nigerian women. He also said he's happily married after tieing the knot last year(another lie)!

@MOBO444

M-Mumu
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Liar Liar, Pants on fire! Caught with the hands in the cooking pot!
I thot u said u stay in England, huh? Now u're in Nigeria.
Olooshi, may your penile projectile dry up and fall off!

I saw u trying to put lola-luv thru what u think is a hard tym, but she showed u the true definition of class and dignity by ignoring you, retarded yahooboy fake Korean!

If you're a korean, then I'm an eskimo! Odeh buruku!

Better shut up your herpes infested mouth there before I decend on you, ese!

@Kushe

U sure do get over a broken heart, super quickly!!! I hear u though! lol

@Eldrezy-Its a promise!

@James1-I guez I was just running my mouth! More bark than bite, I guez,

@tpiah-ha ha, very funny. The other guy is just a ruffian, hardly worth a minuscule second of my time!

@kushe-It falls on me to reverse, ? U didnt qute finish ur sentence,

@Badoomusoo-Awwww, thanx, that's a vewy nice compliment!

@SA Lady-Now I think y'all r the ones trying to plant J in ma head! lol. I mean, y'all are just using the power of suggestion, cos I find myself thinkin-and trying to decipher what my feeling about the guy in question is He's a nice guy alright, but he's taken. But if he was to be single, that would be another ball game! lol.

@JohnKester-Thanx for ur advice, the issues settled sef. Ur advice is the same as my decision, am moving out!

@rhymz-J's a nice guy but nope, FALLING I would find myself cast into WW3 with roomie! He's not even my type! I would want to have a bear or a tiger kind of man, not a gentle teddy. I like aggressive men(not to me, o). Nywayz, I think u get wot am trying to say, I probably just mentioned him because of his relevance to the events that have happened.




@Pweety4me-he he he, how I wish am curled up reading this in a book somewhere. I wud be very glad indeed. Bt unfortunately, its a scene I have to wake up to EVERY SINGLE DAY. I don't think I could eva have a roommate-type arrangement ever again!!!

@rhymz-Wow, does it sound like am liking J? Hmmmn,

Bt I do agree that its very therapeutic venting here, no therapists needed here, lol.

I think u're very right, am becomin obsessed with the slut. Hope all that comes to an end when I move out.

Dayum, even a CV here . This thread don suffer

Now to tha latest!!!

Last night, I was at home just browsing, chilling with my cousin and occasionally peeping into naira land. Roommate had been gone for hours on end, (probably bleeping the whole town, I told my visiting cousin), so I and cousin were the only ones in the apartment. Everyone pretty much knows I was mad when I threatened to bleep J, I didn’t really mean it o. Besides, I’ve been holding the kitty captive for more than a year to get my life back on track, why should I dish out just because some silly girl made me mad?
So Saturday was just a laid back night, indoors!

Later on roomie comes in with the other guy she bleeps. And by the way, I and this guy have a mutual dislike for each other. I mean, even if a girl is going to cheat, the other guy should be worth it, right? This guy she cheats on J with on the other hand is a ruffian! He has nothing on J and I fail to see what roomie sees in him…maybe the s-ex is good sha. That’s the only logical answer I can arrive at. Maybe J is too much of a teddy bear to be good in the sack!!!

And as a side note, I don’t know what is wrong with roommate, she likes flaunting her men like; ‘See what I got, you have nothing’.

Cos immediately my cousin takes his leave, Roommate and her boyfriend number 2, start French kissing and stuff right in front of ME. Well, me I just shut down my laptop and left for my room o, to see a movie. They were laughing and giggling like they just won the lottery or something. (Two immature drivels…hiss!). I wonder if she thinks I miss having s-ex or something. She acts as if she’s waving food in front of a starved woman. Me o, I love s-ex but I don’t miss it. When I meet the right guy, I know Il have lots and lots so WTF?!

I know people have been suggesting vengeance and stuff, but I just decided to breathe and let it go. If J has to find out, then he will have to find out by himself or through others. Only that she really knows how to play her game…and I wonder if J will ever discover the real girl behind the façade she puts up. But I’m really keeping my fingers crossed that he DOES find out!

I know for sure that J doesn’t visit Nairaland though. He has this PA who does all his online stuffs for him. I know cos it’s another of roomie’s empty, breezy boasts that J’s PA is responsible for most of her assignments and researches (lazy slut), so as far as I know, she’s blissfully ignorant about this thread.

And by the way, I’ve started cleaning up in anticipation of leaving! I’m sick and tired of living in a darn war zone. Whenever I’m going back to the flat, my heart starts beating fast and I wonder what poo she going to come up with, again! Can’t allow anybody to get my hair from the bath tub for voodoo (she hates me that much). So I’m moving in with one of my cousins…and I’m hoping no more drama before I leave in about a weeks’ time.

But life’s funny though. I cheated on my boyfriend just once and got caught (that was the old me peeps, now am an angel) …but roomie’s been getting away with blue murder over and over again, while J is none the wiser. I feel sorry for J…he doesn’t deserve a girl like roomie!
Will be sure to keep y’all posted if something does come up, though!

Peace!!!

@Busy Body

Am not saying this just to flatter you, but I think you're a genuinely good person!!! Its long I've met a female as nonjudgmental as U and I think you're a breathe of sweet, fresh air. Mu-ah!!!

@NL- Y'all won't believe what is happening in the flat, as in what is unraveling b4 my very eyes. Sorry can't type now, will have the full gist for u guys tomorrow, God willing! He he he!!!

@Kush and Funkie baby-Y'all just need to get a room, ok? lol. And Kush, U know U have to thank me cos my post was the one that connected U to the lovely swan u have been tryin to capture!

James1 & Adaphnik-Thanx for ur words, Y'all are the minority and I appreciate ur understanding nature!
Bt do the insults frm the majority faze me? Not in the least!
If I av lived with a "frenemy's" venom and survived, then insultive answers from faceless nairalanders dnt even move me. Whateva u say, its all good! U dish out what u have to give.

Peace!!!

@chrisbenogor-meaning?

Thanx @ [size=8pt][size=8pt]Michelin89, Otukpo, Ujujoan, Ranoscky, Adaphnic, I think the world needs more people like you and maybe less people will derail off the straight and narrow![/size][/size]  

@Ohsisi-College student? Sniffing Undergarments?
Who said those?
R u high or are your reading glasses expired!!!
Cos it seems to me like U dont know wht your talkin about!

Just sayin

Well, its easy for every1 to arrive at their own conclusions. I'm not insisting on fcukin J any longer, but this girl must be made to pay somehow! I mean, is she goin to walk scot free after all she has done to everyone who has the misfortune of steppin into her life?

The thing is, I rented an apartment with this girl. We were just hooked up by some1 cos we both didnt want the whole flat! And I took her as a sista, and a friend. But I dont why she hates me so much, I neva did anythin to hurt her in the first place!
And I must admit, when I started gettin mad at her, I wanted to get at her in a way that would cut her to the bone! I wanted her to feel pain, the same way I feel everytime she looks for a new way to make me bleed. Its like she's a sadist, she thrives on seein me down. So why can't she be the one down for once? Why shud she be gettin away with all she has done to me and others
I mean am not the type of girl who walks from house to house gossiping, so I cant talk shit abt her like she has done abt me!

Like I said before, a frnd of her brother started gettin close to me a while back, and goodness knows the thins she told him abt me, the guy just disappeared lyk smoke! Dis was a good, decent guy, who seemed very caring. But she feels her own relationship will stand, right? While she's not givin me a chance to have a second go at life and a decent relationship.

There was a tym, J bought dis lingerie for her from London. The 'ho took it to the guy she bleeps/cheats with, and somehow left it there. When J was around, he asked her to wear it for him and the 'ho started lookin for it like she doesnt know wots up. She actually had the nerve to ask me if I had seen seen her lingerie!!!

I was like, 'Girl, u have ur own room, and ur keys, why are u askin me such a question?' (And by the way, 'ho is double my size!!!)
Y'all need to see the scene she created that day, she was like 'Yep, she has to ask me for it, afterall, we're the only two in the house! Lingerie can't just grow wings, bla bla.
J (poor guy) was sooo embarrassed, he apologized to me and promised to buy her a better replacement. Telling her it should be somewhere in her room, maybe she just cudnt find it!

Anyways, to cut a long story short, some days later, She went to bring laundry from the guy she cheats with and when she scattered them on the settee to sort them out, peepin prominently amongst her clothes was the missing red lingerie!
And not a word of apology even left her dirty mouth!

@190-lol lol lol
Like I said, I'm nt here to fight.

@190-Good one, Am not here to fight too. I make love not war, its all good!

@190-
The oldest job in the world right? Ur father is lickin my kitty right now, so the ashawo work will have to wait till I orgazm, ok?

@NL-Thanx y'all

Well, I know what I am abt to do isn't the best. I told her my past because when we moved in, I liked her and thot we wud be the best of frnds.
What brought about the arguement was that it was her Bday, and J and anoda guy she has been bleepin (the ho) both came around. She was expecting me to cover up for her and I told her NO! I dnt do stuffs like that anymore. This other guy is disrespectful, he looks down on me(probably because of all she has told him abt me) but J still remains civil and quiet, So I told her J's a good, caring guy and she shud stick with him instead of hopping all ova town! Meanwhile neighbors and friends have been telling me about all the stuffs she has been spouting abt me all ova town! So why shud I help her?
That was when she was like, why am I trying to pretend am innocent? That the thins av done she has neva even imagined doin them. That I am jealous she has all these guys around her and I am jealous of her and J, bla bla bla! I shud go and get my own man and stop bein jealous.

I have tried to change, I stopped drinkin (cos it while drunk I cheated on my ex), I tried to focus. but I haven't been given a chance. Its like I dnt have a second chance and must bear a name which doesnt represent me anymore. So why try to be good?
A friend of her brother, a good guy, was showin interest in me a while back but goodness knows what she told him. The guy disappeared like ice left in the desert! Why cudnt she leave the guy to make up his mind abt me? Cos forget am independent and all that, forget I cheated once, I treat the man I'm dating with love and respect.

She treats J (the poor guy) like poo. Meanwhile the guy is so guileless he's like a teddy, you'll meet him where U keep him! She doesn't deserve J, since she feels I dnt deserve a good guy too! And I will ensure she too loses a great guy! To me!

Well, for a while now, av been a good girl. I actually turned my life around and decided to stay out of relationships for a while and do without s-e-x. Cos I rily I hurt a guy who rily loved me a while back by cheatin (posted it on NL bak then) and I just wanted to stay on my own and get on the straight path and get a decent guy and just av a good, ole, normal relationshp, And I was succeedin, 

Bt my roomie is making me forget all my promises. Me and roomie have been stayin 2geda for a while and we started our livin relationshp on good terms but she later changed her attitude to me.
She pretends to be a good girl to her boyfrnd (meanwhile she is jangi-roverin dikks all ova town ) and tells him of how she is avoiding me cos am a bad influence . Just because I confided in her when we first moved in and told her of my past, she actually feels she is better than me. People have been telling me of how she is running her mouth, calling me a 'ho. And I did nothin to her, nothin to deserve all the insults so far!
I have pretty much kept cool till this moment, but its all abt to change. Cos we wee were havin an arguement, and she actually told me I was jealous sick of her byfrnd, that I shud go and get mine instead of 'eyeing' him.

Till that moment, I had neva even looked at the guy but as soon as she said it, an idea occured to me. Though she always tries to flaunt him e.g 'J, hit it 3 tyms last night', J bought me a platinum ring from Dubai, J cooked me breakfast in bed' J did this, J did that! I neva had any urge to date him, becos even though he's well to do, I saw him as a weakling she runs all ova. And av always liked me a man who is a MAN in all sense of the word. She has gone too far this tym though, and since I am already a ho according to her, Il behave just like a ho. I will take her advice, I will get myself a man, HER MAN!
J is goin to be held hostage by my kitty latest this coming weekend, while she weeps in her cold, empty bed. Just because the bear is hibernating doesn't mean it has stopped been a bear!

She should move on, there's nothing she can do. It might still work out between them, but she shud'nt wait around. Because the 'might workout part' is only 50%.