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Even in my area there's nothing you can buy with #5
Rizzla sef no five naira own again

U need some lectures son

I think this study can be filed under mucho-depressing.gov/sadness. A woman's sex life is her own business and she has the right to pursue pleasure wherever she wants, from a sex dungeon in Berlin to a Player's party in Palm Springs. My life philosophy can be summarized simply as, "Get that dick, girl!" Just kidding, kind of.

However I have to admit that I kind of understand why girls would be wary of getting very close to a promiscuous woman. I know it sounds super judgy but let me explain. I had a best friend in high-school who slept with a ton of dudes. Married guys? Check. Drug dealers? Check. Somebody's dad? Check. She did it for attention, she did it for validation, she did it to escape her awful family life. But the point is she did it...a lot. The worst part was that she did it with guys I was in love with. She kissed the high school love-of-my-life at my birthday party. That friendship totally destroyed me but it also taught me a valuable lesson: You can't be close to a girl who is desperate for male attention. You will get hurt.

The lead author of the Cornell study Zhana Vrangalova validates my point. She proposes that "evolutionary concerns may be leading men and women to disapprove of their bed-hopping peers as friends. They may actually be seeking to guard their mates from a threat to their relationship." If someone has a voracious sexual appetite it's easy to feel threatend. What if she tries to charm my husband? What if she flirts with my boyfriend? It's not crazy to be worried about that. However, I realize that there is a difference between someone who sleeps around a lot and a disloyal person.

The Cornell study which is called, "Birds of a Feather? Not When it Comes to Sexual Permissiveness," finds that "such social isolation may place promiscuous women at greater risk for poor psychological and physical health outcomes." It makes me think of the tragic suicide of Felicia Garcia, a 15-year-old girl who was literally slut-shamed to death. After allegedly sleeping with four football players on the same night at a party, she was aggressively bullied at school. According to an article on Jezebel, "two days before she killed herself, Garcia tweeted, "I can't, I'm done, I give up."

Slut-shaming is a very real problem and as women we have got to support each other through this battle. Women like Sandra Fluke, who spoke in Congress in defense of birth control, and Katelyn Campbell, a high school student who fought against abstience-only education, were both called "sluts" and "prostitutes" by media figures. I think what these people meant to call them was "inspirational heroes." Oh, semantics.

On a more practical note, I would advise ladies who like to sleep with a large variety of partners and don't have a lot of female friends: If you're trying to make new amigas, make sure to prove to them that your sex life is not a threat to them. Show them you are trust-worthy and have excellent boundaries.
Cc SmellingAnus
Culled from Cosmopolitan

[quote author=QueenSuccubus post=51701428][/quote]Present ma!

ame: Raheem
Age: 20+

Occupation: Student

Are you single, dating or married : Single

Those u like on Romance Section: Tha PLURIMI

Those u dislike on Romance section: None

Those u find annoying: Judeefcc

Those u can't help but read their posts(u look forward to what they have to say): smellymouth, Traphedges, QueenSuccubus
Those you follow and wish follows you back: None
Why do you follow the people you follow: cus I feel like

NLer that has sent u the most PMs: none

How many PMs do you get on average in a day. None
Romancelander(s) that u ignore or try hard to avoid quoting: none am good

Which Romancelander is fake.: Dunno for dem

Romancelander(s) you would have a one night stand with if given the chance but won't date: Queensu cubus
Romancelander young can date or have a crush on: Enybliss

why did u choose him/her above?? (what attracted you to him/her); shes cool

Your favorite Romancelander(s): Masonic QueenSuccubus, Traphedges, Freeman95

Your favorite mod: Don't know no mod

Funniest Romancelander(s): smellymouth
Queensuccubus, traphedges
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NLer(S) you consider smart: omo dem plenty oh

NL member that tries too hard.: nothing to do with me

NLer(s) you find intriguing:
None oga
What phrases, insults, styles have you learnt from another NLer: color from : Masonic

Which NLer(s) did u learn the above from: Masonic

Who do u often disagree with on Romance Section: Me no see anybody oh always on my own ni

Those you follow and wish follows you back: Nl cute babes
Romancelander that secretly wish you can both get to know each other: Curvysola
Who do u often agree with: QueenSuccubus,traphedges Masonic
I rest my case

TrapHedges:
Name: nemezu

Age: still on my 12am 20s

Occupation: blogger, am still a student too

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Those u like on Romance Section: the entire PLURIMI

Those u dislike on Romance section: JESUSBOIY.

Those u find annoying: JESUSBOIY

Those u can't help but read their posts(u look forward to what they have to say): smellymouth, vanquay, QueenSuccubus, SINZ, jarizod, ItsMePuffPuff etc

Those you follow and wish follows you back: NONE

Why do you follow the people you follow: cus I feel like

NLer that has sent u the most PMs: none

How many PMs do you get on average in a day. None

Romancelander(s) that u ignore or try hard to avoid quoting: none am good

Which Romancelander is fake.: JESUSBOIY

Romancelander(s) you would have a one night stand with if given the chance but won't date: none

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why did u choose him/her above?? (what attracted you to him/her); she's my typa crazy

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NLer(s) u would love to give a dirty slap to in real life: none

NLer(s) you would go second and first base with:

NLer(S) you keep as a friend offline or you've met in real life: EmmyGODfirst

NLer(S) you consider smart: many


NL member that tries too hard.: nothing to do with me

NLer(s) you find intriguing:

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Who do u often disagree with on Romance Section: none

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That's it fam

Big ups bro haha I got a gift for ya xx

mismore:
You've been admitted, DANIEL EMMANUEL, for medicine and surgery
But you need to apply for change of course/institution.
Modified.

please ma'am u help me check I can't access the portal 66351602FI

beautiful232:
What's up with my dp

Its beautiful
O tan

YhungPablo:
lol..this last list get plenty suspense oo.. I know I won't be left out.

amen bruh...
I too won't b left out Isha Allah

Nutase:
does he have 7 heads or 16 ears

And how many Toto u get
Go ahead na till e turn borehole

bizzy500:
she said she cant hold d pressure of being lonely dats y she did dat

That one na failed excuse bruh
and u believe that?

Lool make I laff small
seriously I can't forgive her she slept with another guy saying una fight caused it....
u suppose tear am slap Hoe-Loshi

beautiful232:
yes

Lol well I been staring at ur dp for long tho

beautiful232:
congratulations


Well, I'm getting married to a nairaland guy

am i the one

Jah bless una union
I still dey await my own switeeeem
Lalasticlala where u dey oh yah needed