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nubian999:
You're welcome sweetie and I hope you're well

I'm fine sweets! And you?

Where you been? You went missing just after the contest.

Diddyydiva:
Playing the card already?
You started rudely by ruling out my points just incase it escaped your mind.

I still maintain my rule, I wont have a brawl with you. At least for the sake that I will be a mother someday


If I throw my weakest shot, girl you will hate me forever. Trust me


Like I said earlier, if you don't have anything sensible to say in a polite way just fvck off my mentions ( sorry I used the censored word on you) you caused it.

nubian999:
Nice points lav eda.

Thank you, Nubian.

herbie27:
I do.
It happens...so no need claiming your bfs woman.

Lol this mentality won't help you.

There'll come a stage In life Where you'll be in a relationship and think of the future with that person.
Except You always Wanna be in a short term. One? Then no problem.

herbie27:
And you may not be his woman.

you never can tell.

herbie27:
Now you made the point.
Her opinion and i stated mine then she went rogue.

I will repeat myself again, your man has different definitions now and hope you know that.
Your bf isn't your man...could be anybody's man. so why will i be fasting and praying for him for our betterment when anything can happen in the relationship?.

My Fiance...my man, there's a ring on the finger so won't mind praying for him.

My Husband...my man fully, i will do anything for him.

Hope you get my point.

How. Would you know the man who'll marry you? Everything starts from somewhere, the married people you see today, some started off as just friends.
Like I always tell my friends, always give that guy the benefit of doubt you don't know where that little 'friendship' would get to.

How do you date someone you don't see a future with? In as much as I know all relationships don't lead to marriage, I know we all wish to be with person we love.

My boyfriend, that period we are dating. Is my man.

herbie27:
You're seriously not getting it.
I don't need those Laveda's do's and don't cos i don't do those stuffs she stated...so i passed her down and saw what you wrote which was laughable to me...seriously!, fasting and praying for bfs?. You will get tired of fasting eventually.

About heart break, i have been and it's in the past, in an amazing relationship now, i don't reason with my pussy like some of you do so you're free to call it whatever you like.
Pride!.
Bragging!.
Blah! Blah!! Blah!!!, i sincerely care less cos i make my choices.

Herbie you know, what works for you might not work for the other.
What's even bad in praying for who you call your man? Afterall its for the betterment of you two.

Its her opinion afterall, drop the argument girls.

kinglekan:

Well tbh even guys make ladies think this way. You hear things like "if you really love me you would give me the cookie". I ain't here to preach tho, but if sex isn't priority for you as a lady, don't let a guy brainwash you into thinking that he would love you more after "being with you".

Most ladies don't even know what they want, some are just too bored of their own company and jump into any available relationship, some ricochet from one breakup to the next available guy there to console them, others just think at a particular age they should have some guy they call a bf. If your own company bores you to death, then how do you intend to keep a guy in a relationship for long? If you don't love yourself, how do you expect someone else to love you? If you don't know your value, how do you expect a guy to value you?

Abeg make I continue to dey read comments jare! lol

You've said it all jare.

nwamehn:
I've seen some of ur comments on certain issues and then this thread, if all u say including the points u raised on this thread are all as a result of experience, then experience must really be a fantastic teacher. Keep it up, pls.

Thank you.

suzan404:
on behalf of the derailers association of nairaland....we are very sorry

izz do o

JeffreyJamez:
Go to bed!

Okay dad.

Awon Derailers.

kinglekan:

Hahaha..sure. Ladies need to know there is more to life than their bodies, its high time ladies stop saying things like "after I gave him my time, my body, my heart". That kind of thinking is all shades of wrong!


Anyway patiently waiting to see more.

Those words are just annoying, afterall you both enjoyed it. We need to come up with something even better.

Sadly they don't wanna come to terms with reality, if a woman's body alone would keep a man, there wouldn't be cases of infidelity.
Its just time we start thinking this way.

mhisbliss:
laveda you made fp, spot on girl

thanks.

kinglekan:


Biko allow me to be in stealth mode nau! Nice thread.

I have just been going through the comments on the first page, as expected seen quite a few pesky comments. Let me continue reading and having a good laugh.

. Thank you... You know how it came about nau. I just had to bring you out, couldn't help it.

You'd see more.

kinglekan gotcha.

SalomonKane:
Oh Kay. I'm not really good with abbreviation...

now you know.

SalomonKane:
What's ikr?

"I know right?"

SalomonKane:
Why shouldn't I? Isn't love/being in a relationship about sharing?

Ikr? it is.

SalomonKane:
Don't be too demanding, yea right. A real woman who knows her worth who is self sufficient and self reliant don't need to demand anything from her man.

You'd pick that, I know.

Diddyydiva:
Done

Ehen, better.

schumastic:
all I can say is this, we all know our flaws and should work on them..the key thing in every relationship is understanding and respect for each other cus it goes a long way, also is not every relationship that will lead to marriage.

so for the ladies, if your guy doesn't spend on you, pls pls pls is not mandatory he does but as a gentleman, he should know when to show care n appreciate his girl..is not a must you must date a broke ass guy but becareful so u don't fall a side chick for the rich ass guy either and also the broke ass guys can tomorrow become rich.

at the end in every relationship, que sera sera is all I will say.

The bolded, that's so true, a real man is supposed to know when to take his girlfriend out and spoil her a little, it goes a long way.

Diddyydiva:
*Love his Mother

* Understand his Words and Silence

* Don't be too available.


* Help him with his Dreams

* Save his Money

* Pray for him.


It you do all these and the op 's point and you still loose him.


* Go to mountain

* Fast and Pray day and night.




Nice one Laveda!!!

Thanks dear..

But this one you fighting Please ignore.
At least, I don't know you to be a fighter.

Papikush:
If pussys don't keep men, a man wouldn't leave his wife at home and start furcking with another babe

Aren't we saying same thing?
Sigh, you're even trying to justify cheating..

The truth is if pussy really keeps men, that husband wouldn't go out there to cheat on his woman, the wife has same thing he's going out to get..

You dig?

IamLEGEND1:
makes no sense to me.
I believe it's so much more easier if you date a guy you share common interests with than getting involved with some dude you have nothing in common with and you find yourself bending over backwards just to be involved in some parts of his life.

I get your point, but then whatworks for Mr. A might not work for Mr. B hence why I brought that up.

If we have same interest how do we thrive? It will definitely get boring at one point, one has to break his/her values for the other person, that's just what love/relationship is all about.

Papikush:
4. YOUR PUSSY WON'T KEEP THAT GUY: Now girls, seriously it wouldn't grin if you like pin your head on the ground and place your legs on his shoulders, girl if he's gonna walk away he definitely will. Now how do you show this guy you love him? Get to know his interests, what he likes, what he gains happiness from, find out what keeps him intrigued if your pussy is the only thing you've got to offer that guy, girl you're in for a long thing millions of girls have that thing you have down there, think what's gonna make you outstanding, don't stop him from going about his business that's rather negative.

If your pussy isn't SWEET enough to make him think of you even while he is about to receive holy communion then you are not a super model girlfriend

Lol actually, pussies don't keep men.. For real.

bbmpin:
Subjectifying women!

impressive manual for empty heads!

There is no "how to manual" be yourself!

if he doesnt like you then he isnt worth your time, this poo is for small-minded girls #garbage

You never disappoint.

So I've been in relationships, and I think I've seen both the good and bad side of it even tho some didn't really end well,but I've sure learned a lot, and I'm gonna share some. here I'm gonna talk about some points a girl should take note of when in a relationshp.
This is not an exclusive for all relationships,but it could be of help.

1. DON'T BE TOO CLINGY: one thing some girls haven't come to term is "too much calls" doesn't mean he's gonna take you so seriously. While it works well for some people it doesn't really go down well with some guys, sometimes it lives the guy wondering if your existence revolves around him.. You really don't need to be all over him give him little space..

2. IMPROVE YOUR SELFWORTH: Pick up some interest, whether academic or something outside the box. Do something different, could be something profitable or a hobby that would appeal to others. Something to make you stand out from the crowd, something that when he looks at you he'll say, yes! That's my girlfriend. .

3. SET YOUR PRIORITIES RIGHT: What do you want from the relationship? What do you want from this guy? Do you think he's the best guy? You think he's worth it? Do you see the relationship going places or its just a "fun" thing? These are things you should ask yourself, things you should get right before settling with that guy you don't just wake-up and accept that guy, know what you want... Think baby girl, think. .

4. YOUR PUSSY WON'T KEEP THAT GUY: Now girls, seriously it wouldn't if you like pin your head on the ground and place your legs on his shoulders, girl if he's gonna walk away he definitely will. Now how do you show this guy you love him? Get to know his interests, what he likes, what he gains happiness from, find out what keeps him intrigued if your pussy is the only thing you've got to offer that guy, girl you're in for a long thing millions of girls have that thing you have down there, think what's gonna make you outstanding, don't stop him from going about his business that's rather negative.

5: DON'T BE TOO DEMANDING: oh yes! He's your boyfriend but you don't have to turn him to your father, a real man is supposed to know he'll fend for his girlfriend no matter how little it is, yes you'll ask but it shouldn't be everyday. "Bae I want to eat, bae I want make my hair" naaah that's not good look out for yourself too why he adds up.

I hope this makes sense. Guys what do you think? Girls you concur?

Nairalanders, what do you think?

JeffreyJamez:
My sister fine pass this one na

So? She's fine appreciate this one.

cherryice:
I'm okay...'ve bn soo busy. My son has been very sick. Took a lotta my time..how u urself

Sorry about that, hope he's better now and you're relieved of the stress? I didn't know.

I'm very okay..

cherryice:
b

Look who we have here, where you been bae?

How you?

Music does it for me