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IamDino:
I'm sorry for my harsh words the other day.
I just concluded like the others without hearing from you.
Forgive my ignorance.
Have a good day.

Harsh words? Sincerely I can't remember having an encounter with this moniker.

Oh well, its a free world you're allowed to follow the crowd, anyways you too have a good day.

IamDino:
Hope you're fine?

Yup,I am.

IamDino:
Hey goodmorning.

Morning to you too.

IamLEGEND1:
even you wan die? issoryt.

Thought it was the other way round.

VictorRomanov:
Then u will 'die'! Pls read again

Oh

Thanks.

Smellymouth

Debtors ni

Frosh asses

Vick4rill:
where in the world did i state that marrying a virgin equal to having a good wife? is like u are ving issues with comprehension. that flawed excuse is what so many dump gals ve been giving, and it obviously doesnt make any sense... jst as stealing is wrong in all aspect so also is one losing their virginity b4 marriage. it is nt sumtin of a choice. i dont care, if the world agree wit me. bt as long as the shameless gals will keep making the good gals feel guilty i will continue to rob ur disdain on ur face.

Dump girls?

I can't be arguing with you.. Bye!

Well, I think this is the problem with some people giving too much attention to inconsequential Id!ots

Vick4rill:
good things are meant to be broadcast. broadcasting it will open the eyes of those virgins who are thinking of losing their own carelessly like u did. to cherish and know the value of what they ve. if with ur ugliness, u are still not a virgin "laveda" it go a long way to speak volume of how insincere and unselfed u really are.

Funny you.

The earlier you realize there's more to relationships and marriage than just virginity the better for you..

Life itself is about choice if you feel remaining a virgin makes you fulfilled then good, no one is making it a must your thread reeks of pain and provocation take a chill pill the world can't go with what you want you're just one person..

Btw boy, you don't really need to rush into insults

Awesome!

No.6 is on point

Always thinking of what others will say: I'd always say do things you're happy with, anything that would make you fulfilled do it, others are just there to talk they might not be there for you when things go south.. They'll talk,fine! But as far as you feel it will yield good? Why wait to hear what others will say? Truth is everyone is facing their own problems
So do what you feel is right.

Lalasticlala

What's the virginity craze?

Yall need to chill and face your lives
I for one think this should be a personal thing and one shouldn't rub it on our faces, you choose to close your legs? Fine.. You wanna do your thing before marriage? Better

Shut up y'all and stop b!tching.

Airsultan you talented.

Nice job so far.

juhan:
laveda say something na

Lol Juhan..

Okay, I can relate to the Op's problem here I've been in sh!t like this.. When it ended I felt like I wasn't okay.

Here's what I think..
Op is the type of person that shouldn't just rush into any relationship, maybe getting to know the girl better build this friendship with her, be sure of why he really wants to get into that relationship. Trust me if he really knows what he wants he wouldn't be changing gfs like boxers.


Rexhenrex I feel you shouldn't rush into dating when you meet a new girl no matter how beautiful she is, try to get to know her better, the kinda girl she is and if you both can really flow well...
I'm not good at this..

Lemme call my sis skarlett to help.

kinglekan:

Na so dem dey do. Them go dey use style ask where person dey stay so dem go fit carry all their responsibility con add ontop person head.

Swthrt no time!

Lwkmd you're just crazy..

Your siggy is dope!

3rdlegxxx:
Trust me dear, she made a lot of sense, a whole lot, only the cheating part didn't but since you believe in this your line of thought, i will leave you to it, do enjoy your day dear...

okay, bye!

3rdlegxxx:
I understand you quite well dear, but whether she means it or not is none of my concern, i look at things a lot of angles as they are usually more than side to a story, i don't know how old she is but i am guessing that cheating part was just an added edge to spike some nerves to reply and flood this thread with traffic which it did and it did perfectly and if also meant it, it also shows she is still growing and probably talking from peer pressure, too much social media influence, tvs and all that but her points are well too correct, reasonable and true excluding the cheating part that is.

Her headache, she didn't make any sense, simple!

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Abi na!

Naturally I'm meant to even be supporting her because yes, I work out a lot and so I don't believe I'll have a problem when it comes to the physical with any woman. But a man who is wise knows keeping your marriage is way beyond that. Na six packs my wife and children go chop?

Sorry I had to go vain this time around. [/color]

The cheating aspect caught me. Didn't just make any sense..
Maybe she go chop 6packs

e do abeg.

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]I honestly believe you. I do.

But last I checked being a teenager is not an excuse for failed reasoning. Most times it's what you are groomed with as a young person that you'll carry as you grow.

People like this Op often have to learn the hard way before they change their mentality. [/color]

I just hope she do away with such mentality, there's just more to marriage than physical attributes, like someone said on this thread she as the wife can help him stay fit..

I don't get the new craze about 6packs? smh.

Just easy on these girl some just wants attention..

3rdlegxxx:
U know Laveda, not taking sides with the OP or anything, this is one of the problems killing lots of African and Nigerian marriages, people are forced to settle for less because the society, family expect this from you, friends, peer and the entire country already has a mindset of manage him as long as he has money and is ok then u guys get married and u start wishing later on you had a guy who cared about a few things about his looks and all that, she went abit too far with the cheating thing, that part made no sense at all but ur points makes me sad, maybe because i know what it feels like to have a sister, cousin, friends grow up in a different climate and see how they reason, they live life to the fullest, chase dreams, seek their ideal guy, break up if necessary, don't see marriage as the ultimate goal that a woman's time is not on her side like we say here and u have to admire them for that because they show you that a girl that want, dream, like and not have to settle for less, we here are the opposite, we really don't want happiness, we just want to feel fulfilled, i have finished school, i have a job and now i am married, yes i am now normal like everyone else, it makes sense but wanting more is also normal, i feel the OP used the cheating part to get traffic and it sure did work, a lot of people are here bashing, swearing and dying over what could be just some words to force a reaction and might not really reflect the OP's ideal man or honest opinions... but what do i know, it's none of my business.

LooK, there's more to marriage than looks, we all want the best but saying she'll cheat cause of some physical abnormalities she and her husband can work on? That's plain dumb I don't care if she means it or not. .

Aint taking sides but only commenting according to what I read.

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]What I do? [/color]

Dee don't mind some of these girls here..
Its either they are still in their early teens or they just choose to be stup!d

Trust me with time their sense of reasoning will change