Romance › Re: What Have You Found On Nairaland... by Laveda(f): 2:31pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
Bluezy13: Must you mention haters
Now, she go include me for haters. Women sef No o I must mention them.  |
Romance › Re: What Have You Found On Nairaland... by Laveda(f): 2:26pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
#I found family, I found Love  #I found haters!  |
Romance › Re: Some Benefit Of Being Single by Laveda(f): 2:22pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
mhisbliss: so you're telling me that if you're in a relationship with someone you really love you aren't bothered if he's loyal?, don't you check his sms sometimes?, dont you always think otherwise qhen you start seeing a girl around him?, well as for me all this paranoia and jealousy is insanity, insecurity and everything, so you're entitled to your opinion i dont know what else to tell you. Okay, I understand you very well.. Insecurity, at one point in a relationship it will definitely set in.. Telling me about losing sanity is what i can't come to terms with.. But, how long are you gonna stay single cause you scared of heartbreak  Take the risk, you might meet that special person unknowingly.. |
Romance › Re: She Is Definately Sleeping With Her Brother!! Shame!! by Laveda(f): 2:18pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
Jadekitana: I'm more busy than Donald trump these days, do I even have time for social media? *sighs* hope u good? Yeah sure, enjoy the rest of your day.  |
Romance › Re: Some Benefit Of Being Single by Laveda(f): 2:14pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
mhisbliss: who said relationships guarantee sanity, i said being single guarantee sanity, because insanity comes from relationships sometimes, insanity like thinking of suicide from heartbreak why is this so hard for you to understand, if you're not in any relationship you wouldn't be scared of heartbreak, you wont think of suicide because some one broke your heart. Please this is as simple as ABC i dont want to argue.  This should be applied to yourself alone ma. |
Forum Games › Re: Truth Or Dare Challenge.. by Laveda(f): 2:11pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
Smellymouth: Of course I did.. 
It was fun though..
I hope your day is going well? Thanks.  Yeah ..just at home. Tho will go out later.. Trust yours is going well too |
Romance › Re: She Is Definately Sleeping With Her Brother!! Shame!! by Laveda(f): 2:10pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Some Benefit Of Being Single by Laveda(f): 2:08pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
mhisbliss: benefits of being single also involves regaining of sanity because if you're single you wont experience what ppl in relationships do. No matter how iron clad your mind is there's something in a relationship that must cause you heartbreak, so stop Fronting here as if you wont feel the hurt when your spouse cheat I never said I wouldn't  I only said you're wrong! Relationships doesn't guarantee sanity, everything boils down to who you're with.. Happiness, understanding and true love covers everything |
Romance › Re: She Is Definately Sleeping With Her Brother!! Shame!! by Laveda(f): 2:04pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
Okay Jade is back! |
Romance › Re: Some Benefit Of Being Single by Laveda(f): 2:00pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
mhisbliss: have you ever had a heartbreak!? Serious betrayal? Have you seen where someone committed suicide for love? Then you don't really know therefore i shouldn't waste time convincing you. The Op said " Benefits of being single" Now you're talking from a broken heart experience, look I know how it feels being heartbroken and all that... But telling me staying away from relationships helps retain sanity is wrong in all ramifications except you're talking to one who's emotionally weak and unstable. |
Romance › Re: Some Benefit Of Being Single by Laveda(f): 1:52pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
Berlyn: here's my problem i'm fighting really hard to remain single for as long as i can hold, i don't wanna jump into a relationship! The problem here is i was really hurt in my previous relationship and the fear of being hurt again keeps coming to me, but at times i wish to just say 'yes' to someone and start something new all over again but the impression of all guys are the same, thus making me unable to fall in love again, but the fun of being single is something i don't want to derive myself from, its makes me feel happy because i'm free kind of here are Few things i have benefited ever since i became single, i'm going to share with you all
3 It’s about regaining your health.
Use this time to nourish your body with quality foods and benefit from the feel good spirit that exercise provides, you’ll gain the self confidence, satisfaction and a sense of achievement that only a strong and healthy human body knows and you get the satisfaction of politely declining admiring suitors captivated by your recent physical and mental transformation.
4 It’s about loving yourself.
People always say that you have to love yourself before you can love anyone else well, maybe not you can certainly love someone even if you’re going through the darkest of times, but you simply cannot give the pure unadulterated love you’re capable of if you’re shackled by low self-esteem and regret.
Being single used to mean nobody wanted you. Now it means you’re pretty sexy and you’re taking your time deciding how you want your life to be and who you want to spend it with.
– Sarah Jessica Parker
Berlyn, I beg to differ.. How does being in a relationship stops you from being healthy? I know problems comes with relationships but this has to do with who you're with, infact health has nothing to do with this, you can be in a relationship and still very much happy.. Why put your health on a man? Why such risk for love? I beg you, next time when going into one, don't even bring your health near it..  be sure he's the right person and you find nothing but happiness and true love when with him.. |
Romance › Re: Some Benefit Of Being Single by Laveda(f): 1:45pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
mhisbliss: being single is very good sis, you regain your sanity, no commitments, no hurt, trying hard to please someone is out of the question, you concentrate on making yourself happy  I didn't know being in a relationship makes one go insane? |
Romance › Re: Should I Go For Her Or Not? Advice Please! by Laveda(f): 1:22pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
How old are you? |
Romance › Re: Give This Play A Name ;D;D by Laveda(f): 1:12pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
Hmmmmm |
Romance › Re: VIRGINITY Without Extra OIL by Laveda(f): 1:09pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
I read everything, and I must say I'm impressed..
Nice one Op |
Romance › Re: Funny Most Deadly Words Used By Nigerian Women by Laveda(f): 12:57pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Is It Possible To Be In A Serious Relationship Without Intimacy?. by Laveda(f): 12:53pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
naijaboiy: [color=#1980BC]You were misunderstanding me so the need to re explain myself arose.
And that was not an epistle, since you could read it up quickly. [/color] Alright. It's okay Dee, at least we understand ourselves now.  |
Forum Games › Re: Truth Or Dare Challenge.. by Laveda(f): 12:50pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
Smellymouth: Ayam back jare..Lol.
In the presence of the Lord, there is fullness of Joy  Welcome.  Did you pray for me? |
Romance › Re: Funny Most Deadly Words Used By Nigerian Women by Laveda(f): 12:06pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
McBrooklyn: Kai! So I've been rude before??  Yeah, always rude.. |
Forum Games › Re: Mental Challenge... by Laveda(f): 12:02pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
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Forum Games › Re: The Pointless Thread Game.. by Laveda(f): 11:59am On Jul 17, 2016 |
 Too many bored people  |
Romance › Re: Most Ladies Always Say Their Ex Joystick Is Small After Breakup Why? by Laveda(f): 11:53am On Jul 17, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Most Ladies Always Say Their Ex Joystick Is Small After Breakup Why? by Laveda(f): 11:49am On Jul 17, 2016 |
STFUareyouG0d: Do they? That's interesting. I bet this is the news I've been waiting for all week.
Naira is about to double dollar Please don't!  |
Romance › Re: Funny Most Deadly Words Used By Nigerian Women by Laveda(f): 11:43am On Jul 17, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Is It Possible To Be In A Serious Relationship Without Intimacy?. by Laveda(f): 11:40am On Jul 17, 2016 |
naijaboiy: [b][color=#1980BC]You simply didn't understand me.
We were never talking about involving sex in a relationship. The question the Op asked was if a guy can love a girl without feeling sexually attracted to her and I explained that when there is true love, sex is not the primary objective. Other things become more important.
I never said I can be in a relationship without sex, I only said I find other things more important than sex and it's very normal. Doesn't mean my dick doesn't rise and I won't have sex.
And yes, there should be happiness even without intimacy of course. Do you date someone only because of sex? If there is no happiness how then do we compare those who date without having sex?
Are they not humans too?
When the love is real it won't just be about sex, sex, sex. That thing go tire you one day if you both plan to be together for a long time, so why not invest your emotions into other things that you can bank on when some things start fading?
Why do you think our parents are not having sex as much as they did while they were younger?
You still don't understand a whole lot of things concerning relationship madam. [/color][/b]
Dee I didnt know were gonna come back with this epistle?
I thought I said almost same thing the other day?
A guy on that thread said " he loves a girl but his dick won't get erêct even when she's nakêd " And I asked him how that works..
I'm not banking my relationship on sex alone, not possible, what happens when we are far apart? Does that mean I'll go out for another just because I can't close my legs?
My point was, I can be with a man I love but along the line sex would definitely come...
Naijaboíy I understand. at least, I told you I'm grown? |
Celebrities › Re: Fadekemi Momoh Blasted For Flaunting Cleavage by Laveda(f): 11:32am On Jul 17, 2016 |
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Forum Games › Re: Truth Or Dare Challenge.. by Laveda(f): 11:25am On Jul 17, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Is It Possible To Be In A Serious Relationship Without Intimacy?. by Laveda(f): 11:22am On Jul 17, 2016 |
naijaboiy: [color=#1980BC]I said that? [/color] That thread the other day  Me sha know you can't..  |
Romance › Re: Please O! Advice Tally by Laveda(f): 11:21am On Jul 17, 2016 |
 drink it with detergent  |
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Romance › Re: Is It Possible To Be In A Serious Relationship Without Intimacy?. by Laveda(f): 11:14am On Jul 17, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Is It Possible To Be In A Serious Relationship Without Intimacy?. by Laveda(f): 11:06am On Jul 17, 2016 |
Yes  My buddy Naijaboiy can be in this type of relationship |