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kirchofff:
see I'll never 4get dat day

Hope you've grown pass such?

kirchofff:
Today I was reminiscing and I remembered a day I tried wooing a lady. That day I almost collapsed; I nearly fell to d ground as my heart was beating fast and my mouth was shaking profusely as if I had hot yam in it......LOL (tho I was younger then; I was 20...guys share ur experience












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Lovelynature:
Just doing great and searching from one section on Nairaland to another.


You had a busy day I guess. You will soon get over the tiredness.
All is well pretty

Yeah...my day was so hectic ..getting over it sha.... Thanks

Lovelynature:
Yeah, either friendship or relationship is determined by how it all started.

Good evening dear. How are you doing?

Lovelynature:
Oh really? Nice point Laveda. And when the guy in brother/friend zone ask her out you hear things like, '' you know you are like a brother to me.'' ''We are friends already and you mean a lot to me.'' ''You are my dear friend and I don't want to lose you.'' Women eh! That's why I usually make my intention known to her almost immediately after making the move, so as to know where I would belong. And when I hear something like, ''Let's just be friends for now''. I would just find my way. There are other ones readily available

Adasun:
choi i pity dat guy wey u dumb under dat wounderland cal friendzone

Wonderful land indeed

wristbangle:
brother, I tried all these places and trust me number 2 worked for me just as I explained.

Where is laveda?

Hey hunnie....I've been sooo
busy please I'm here ...

Nice thread though

gsparks01:
hi u seem reasonable... what do you have to say about a girl who claims she feels the same way after telling her u hv feelings but says she's not ready for emotional attachment for the time being and d relationship status should continue to be 'friends' but at the same time, cannot tell you if that status will be upgraded in future?
Friend zone? Hard to get? abi something else??

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Those ones just have destroyed ego and low self esteem.[/color]

Penisinpenisout:
Calm down joor. Atleast give us a break, i wish you guys will walk a day in our shoes.

Yet y'all would wanna be in charge..the make folks are getting confused these days...they don't really know what they want again

nevi12:
It might Sound myopic to u buh dats wats happenin inour world today..he is d one spendin its his choice to stop......if he knws hes in d frendzone nd keeps spendin on her nd later rapes her or smtin den dat one is pure evil....nd ild still maintain dat d power ofbeing friend zoned still depends on d gurl whether she asked u out first or d oda way round

Finally u wanna to tellme d tin btw a normal gurls leg isnt important? I wasnt expectin dat frm u dat shld come frm d "vaseline crew"

Your sense of reasoning though ...seriously you need to grow above this mentality.. You're arguing over what doesn't make sense...

Girls get friend zoned

Lovelynature:
Yeah, but how do we know when she's playing hard to get? That's why I don't bother going after a girl who start with much shakara and excuses again, as I don't know if she mean it or playing hard to get. And most women like playing hard to get which is not that necessary.

I believe "forming hard to get" and 'friendzoning" a guy are two different things I don't know why y'all mix them up

If you ask a girl out she doesn't give you an instant answer maybe she starts telling you 'I'll have to think about it,I have a boyfriend, No for now I ain't interested' you can term that hard to get......but in a situation where by she's giving you that sisterly love you're deep in that zone.....Naijaboiy listed all the points already..

obiorathesubtle:
[color=#990100]every girl knows what to do to a guy who won't let go naaa..



Guys are at fault for being friendzoned? Wetin dat one mean.. Aunty??! [/color]

E mean say since they can't let go..they shouldn't complain when thrown in that zone

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]You are right on point.

That's why I said if we need just friends we know where to go. A guy who asked you out wasn't dumb to know that if he needed just a friend he wouldn't involve romance.

So if you turn him down and he stops taking to you all of a sudden you don't need to force him to be your friend. He will come around later on if he's still interested in being friends or he'll just move on.[/color]

Some guys are just funny some wouldn't let go..they'll still wanna give it a trial to see if the girl can rethink...some guys are the major causes why we have high rate of friendzone..
They can't just move on.

Cutehector:
u are right.. so I shouldn't be judged for deleting all d babes I wished to date.

obiorathesubtle:
[color=#990100]I think the OP has made it clear that friendzoning an innocent guy is even worse than a cardinal sin.


If you can't/wont date him.. Tell him off.. Let him go.. Don't torture him for no reason.. You don't have the right!
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naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Lol...true tho.

But have you ever wondered why guys who first asked you out but you chose to friend zone stopped communicating with you?[/color]

obiorathesubtle:
[color=#990100]yes.. no one said you can't have male besties.. But Honey.. That's what your brothers and cousins are for.[/color]

But we can't date every guy we come across nau..some are worth the friendzone

Estharfabian:
sighs...


And he wrote An epistle! I knew it!
1 billion likes!

Mission accomplished Laveda, Esther's Gone!

Estharfabian:
Laveda shush...


I'm looking for Naijaboiy's trouble!

nyways...the rate at which Girls Friendzone guys is way Higher than the rate at which guys friendzone girls...

PS--The gender that Keeps on Wailing on daily basis is OUr beloved Male Counterparts! WE DO NOT!

Oh...I see
Enjoy...Goodnight

Obas101:
See as plenty girls dey view dis topic like say dey understand wetin dem dey read

I do

Estharfabian:
Really?? You know where to go??

LoL! Yes, I'm not A guy but I do know that if I actually liked someone that I couldn't be with(Romantically?)...I'd sure as hell settle for friendship! and I wouldn't come lamenting daily on Nairaland!!

LoL! fyi...Guys don't frienzone girls! they can't afford to..

PS--if it's really more HEARTBREAKING/PAINFUL to girls..how many posts on NL have You seen about females complaining bout being friend-zoned? how many? what's that? NONE!!!!!!

Nope..I don't think you get it
Who said guys don't friendzone girls?
It happens...just say you've never come across that..

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Laveda do you do these things too? [/color]

Its normal...at one point or the other...a Nigga must be on that list .. We can't always date everyone we come across....that "friendzone" suits some guys more..

Twaci:
I dunno, ask adeh39 or Laveda.

You can do better

TrapLORD:
Its "viz.kiz"

















Thank me later.