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blublahd:
Own your shit, that ain't my dilemma.

You sound a bit frustrated ..calm down..go rest your head already its late

20bc:
[color=teal] According to me, yes I do posse those Features.....


To the you the truth, I don't know how tall I am, or how much I weigh.... But tomorrow I will check beca of you......

Lol, how tall are you,don't tell me that you are a midget ...[/color]

Wow I love you already

A picture if you would help

Midget? I'm 7ft tall

Decker:
You are welcome.

No, I am not. Why?

blublahd:
If I do, my face would still look better than yours.

Hope the face would give you a good paying job this year?
Goodnight

Decker:
Thanks.

I am actually a fun person in real life. Maybe I am a bit serious here, probably cause I like adhering to rules & I tend to be a bit blunt. But there is always two sides to everyone sha.

@ your dp, great_tits. I have always wanted to tell you that.

[i]Now I understand

Thanks
I have a question i've been wanting to ask you though
Are you a relationshop counsellor?[i]

blublahd:

Smh

Shake it very well..if possible hit it on a wall

Decker:
I am good, as always.

I just wanted to say Hi, plus you always say I am too serious, so when I saw you reading the thread, I decided to prove to you that I am not.

Actually surprised.. Maybe you just felt like showing us your other side..so you loosened up a bit...its cool..serious or not..I still like your posts

gemale:
So u have neva paused 2 tnk dt some guys too live in perpetual fear of being turned down by women? D embarrassment & huge dent 2 1's ego & self esteem as well as d emotional hurt. Do u tnk we as men dnt feel it when u rebuff our advances? Bt we get over it in tym. So shld u pple shld u decide 2 take d bulls by d horns & ask us out. As 4 ur green lights, Women tnk men r psychic. Is dere anything lyk 'standard signs a woman lyk a guy'? No, D poor guy u r flashing those signs probably might tnk u r just bein nyc 2 him while some1 u r just nyc 2 might mistake ur friendliness 4 amorous feelings. So many times d latter has been my case & so many times I have heard 4rm many pple abt hw 1 girl I know bt wishes 2 remain anonymous fancies me & I can't seem 2 figure out who. I have in fact given up on tryn 2 ask females out because it seems I don't just get d female way of thinking.

I understand you dear
Hope we all find who'll love us..exactly like we do 50/50....

Decker:
Laveda how far?

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Lol...you are right.

You know that sometimes a guy will be coming to approach you and in your mind you have said that you won't even listen to a word he says but by the time he's done you yourself will be surprised and wondering how he was able to sweep you off and make you lose your guard.

Some guys are bad!

Ever experienced any? [/color]

I haven't really had much experience when it comes to that..but the one I had we later fell in lust love...

Some guys are just awesome

LordOfTheWeed:
Sweetheart, so you mean if I don't make the move, you won't?

Oh ...hunnie..I can give you all the colours in the world..green, blue, red, name them..even the brightest white

If you can't notice them...sorry

francizy:
Waiting...

Okay..

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Chai!

Talking to random girls is one very difficult task I can't boast of being successful in. Very awkward and challenging.

I have some friends who do it and successfully pull it off. I don't know how they do It. Some guys are just bad. [/color]

Really wicked! First class embarrassment

Some guys are just bad..they are gifted

AyamBlaze:
fallacy of hasty generalization

I'm sure you can testify to it...its the truth

francizy:
It's no biggie and you haven't asked me out yet?

Estharfabian:
Haha!
just did tho...Buh I'm still looking for Some dickheads troubles online...


Worse that that...

Ride on girl!! Have fun

oseod:
Nah...not scared of rejection....at least not anymore
The problem then was I prepared a script in my mind where i was the producer and director and she didn't follow the script....

Right now no script. ..after doing a very brief analysis on the babe in question I walk up to her with no expectations....... since id really only be interested being a friend...
and I know girls hardly do that except she's immature or she was scammed in computer village that very day

I personally don't see anything wrong with a girl approaching a guy...... relationships start from stranger-friendship-dating-courtship
At the friendship stage It shouldn't really matter who approached who...

Even if it's the guy who approached you, so long as he's immature, the guy would still take you for granted once he knows your weaknesses

20bc:
[color=teal] Sorry I took so long to reply Mi amor♥, I went to take my bath...

Thanks for the compliment...

High sense of humor......check√
Smartness..... Check√
Romantic...... Extremely romantic...check √√
Understanding.....check√
Good looking & dress sense...... Dope √
Tall.....Hmmm, still working on that..

Nope, you are not.... You deserve the best...[/color]

No ish.... You welcome..


Wow ..you posses all those features?

How tall are you? Ever seen my full pic?

MizMyColi:

The reason most of us are against the idea of ladies approaching a man is because for aeons, our parents and those before them have been culturally imbued to think of the men as conquerors, as the pillar, the hunters, the providers, they are the backbones, are meant to do the hard jobs while the women do the softer ones....I really don't have an issue with this.

Over the years, our parents and those before them didn't seem to have an issue with it either. But our generation, being the adventurous kind and those who deliberately go after a change in the status quo have decided in their wisdom to upturn the belief.

Now here's the catch my Darlings‎

Because the scenario of mentality that I described above is still very much prevalent in our men today, it is GENERALLY not advisable to ask them out.
‎
True, I see no big deal in saying, hey, let's get to know each other more...etc - but we need to be conscious about the mentality, perspective and enlightenment level of the person we might be thinking of asking out.

As a lady, do you still have bits or bowls of ego and insecurity issues hanging around your life? If you do, please don't ask a guy out....if you both ever have an issue, your insecure mindset will tell you that he doesn't value you because "you came for him"

As a lady, do you have a level of confidence that amazes guys? If you do, then please, before asking him out, study him to find out to study if he is the kind that gets threatened by women who go all out to get what they want....if he's that kind, guide him in such a way that'll make him pop the question...that way, he'll feel more manly.

Lastly, if you are a lady who has come to understand the simplicity of life and has attained a level of enlightenment, and you happen to meet a guy who has attained such values, who for one reason or another doesn't seem forthcoming in that regard even though you know he wants you...you can spark a discussion in that direction or do sumtin little extra to show your availability.

For me though, I prefer being asked out. Not because of pride or ego...but because I want my man to lead..to be the leader, my leader...while I gladly follow


Ehennnnn
To my lovelies who are saying "he should Bleep off if he can't see a green light enough" Please sweeties...tone it down. I've been in your shoes too, and somewhere a little down the line, I found it a tad childish and proud to speak in such a way.
I apologise profusely if you feel like I'm judging you dearies. It's not intentional. I really do want the best for you all.
Hava happy year ahead‎

Yeah ma'am I've been waiting for your comment
Cc: Naijaboiy...

Kaylexzy:
LMAO....

For real?

donephi:
What do you mean take advantage?

Him taking advantage of you is only your mindset. No "MAN" takes undue advantage of a lady who wooed him, rather he respects her confidence and becomes very careful not to hurt her feelings especially when she knows her onions as a "LADY"

oseod:
Just study ke? By the time I'm done analysing the girl I'll even write project report on her, her past and her future. .........

But true tho.....It can't be a random person the risks are just too much...
Most of the girls I know were either coursemates at school or collegues at work or friends of close friends....

Yeah..we're all scared of being rejected...
One still needs to take the risk though

20bc:
[color=teal]See your 32....

So what are the things you desire in a man....? [/color]

You've been a gentleman

High sense of humour
Smartness √
Tall√ hope you aren't short
Romantic √ ( which involves pampering me)
Understanding √
Good looking& good dress sense √

Am I asking too much?

Ojah1:
laveda.. correct gal.. Still angry with you

It's new year..drop everything you hold against me

Happy new year

MzPecs:
Yeah and i'm seriously following it.

akachidi:
Are you good at what you do,pro can eassly relate to pro like them...

donephi:
Sounds like you've done it before.

There is no big deal. Only big and matured ladies go for what they want.

His response or reaction does not really matter.
What matters is your approach

20bc:
[color=teal]off Nairaland solution, we will still be in touch...... [/color]

JehanEddy07:
I trust You..