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queenfav:
correct babe!I love real people.

20bc:
[color=teal] Ok, be careful....


Lol, don't worry I have a solution to that one.... [/color]

And you too hun

What solution?

MzPecs:
Present ma'am

Interview section

oseod:
When it happened to me It felt like rapture......like I was paying for the sins of my ancestors...
A dinner party that turned out to be a horrible memory. ..the babe was staring at me ao I was thinking greenlight don show only for me to muster some half baked courage and walk over to seat beside her. Before I could say anything she put on her earpiece and looked away......

.I was already damaged at this point!!..

Then she completed the job by turning to me and saying "please someone is sitting here, when you're done please stand up...I don't want any trouble

I just stood and walked humbly like a beggar to my sit......I felt like plucking out the eyes of everyone that was looking at me in that hall..

Till today I don't believe I greenlight .....I don't even believe in traffic light or police warden......Am I mad!!!!

Its probably a good thing you have experienced it .......you'll be an expert at turning down a guy ithout embarrassing him since you know how it feela

Naijaboiy..read this

You know what? That girl Isheartless That's the worst way of turning a Nigga down..it can be done politely .... before u embark on such journey again..I need to look very well
.and it won't be a random Nigga...I need to study him very well and know his kinda person..this should be applicable to you too...

20bc:
[color=teal]Yes oh, don't bother your pretty head over that one...

Something was cooking before this award show...

I was planning tomorrow or next, will miss Nairaland when I get back to school, but will be in touch with you♥♥♥

What about you when are you going back..... [/color]

On Monday....Though not fully..there's something I need to collect before going fully..so I'll still come home...

Yeah I'll miss you on here too

naijaboiy:
[b][color=#1980BC]i'm calm and I know I'm not the one being referred to. However I'm speaking on a guy's point of view.

Personally I don't care how i get to meet a girl,whether she made the first move or I did doesn't matter as long as I also have the hots for her.

Now majority of you said you can't ask a guy out. I have no problem with that as everyone has what they can do and not do and no one should criticise them for it. But on the issue of showing green light,I'll reiterate that a guy not making a move after seeing your green light doesn't make him less of a man.

The statement you and Esthar made was like "if I show a guy green light then by all means he has to woo me". It is not compulsory and doesn't work that way.

Furthermore, you stated that girls can't handle rejection and that's the more reason why should not ask a guy out. No problem. But nobody likes rejection at all,not even we guys that encounter it almost every day of our lives.

So not being able to handle rejection is not an excuse for anyone to be bitter about the out come. Be you a male or female.

If a guy asks a girl out and he's rejected then by all means he should forget about her and move on. Same goes for the girls....if you ask a guy out or better still, show him the green light and he doesn't make a move you should also move on. It's not something to be bitter about.

Showing green lights is not a guarantee that the guy will ask you out.[/color][/b]

I understand you perfectly now
We all different you know....you can handle it maturely ..while some can't....I've read comments from the guys here..i'm sure you have too....

Some won't even tell you they aren't interested.. Instead they'll take advantage.. Okay that's the only aspect of it I don't like..some guys seem to be wicked at times... I:m sure you experienced that..guys are fond of that...

Well it all boils down to choice and the person involved... Before trying such I have to study him very well and know the kinda person he is .....

And girls...maybe we need to step up our game too..LOL....

20bc:
[color=teal]Yeah its really a show of shame...

But it won't stop, after the davido drama last year, this one is a goodbad way of ushering us into the new year.....

I listen to RnB, pop, any soft(latino)and little hip hop.....
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naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Of course you'll move on! That's the only reasonable thing you can do about it.

Guys get rejected everyday by girls and they move on. You don't hear them telling her to go and hang herself or become insultive towards her. The ones who have tried to do such things have always been derided and tongue lashed by their fellow guys Coz it's a childish thing to do.

Therefore,I don't seem to get why you all are sounding bitter,telling a guy to go hang himself simply because he didn't notice your green light. The same way you girls have the choice to turn a guy down is the same way a guy has the right not to make a move whether you show him your green light or not.

It doesn't make him any less of a man. [/color]

Calm down...
"He should go hang himself" " He's dumb"
We aren't generalising ..just referring to the guys we admire not you..so calm your balls

I don't mind doing it..its actually nothing...but the way you guys reason things now..I can't.. Some good guys can say No..while some would take advantage of me simply because I said my mind..so you see it isn't really our fault..maybe the guys needs to loosen up a bit....

We're sometimes scared of rejection.. And that's cause we are ladies....

20bc:
[color=teal]Yeah....


Am just relaxing, looking at memes concerning olamide vs don jazzy....

What type of music do you listen to.... [/color]

Tired of the ish already..show of shame

R and B......Hip Hops..........
Yo

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Showing us green light is not a guarantee for us to ask you out.

It goes both ways...I don't get why y'all are bitter. [/color]

Uh? you dont get it..or do you?

Not that its a biggie for me to ask a guy out..but with the Normal Nigerian guy mentality... They'd tag you "cheap" at least I've seen cases...
If with the green and red light he doesn't show interest too...I move on

20bc:
[color=teal]I pray God that am that guy....


So what are you up to now.... [/color]

20bc:
[color=teal]The way you bit your lower lip, and I just have that feeling....


Yes, and now is the time for you only....♥[/color]

Uhmm..I can't say yes..a guy needs to testify to that

Humblegoodman:
Lav.eda, I am begining to fall in love with you for your bluntness. no pretence. I dey like your type shaa, matured babe wey sabi wetin she want.

20bc:
[color=teal]Lol...

You must be a good kisser...

I took your advice, am through..

So you have my undivided attention 100%
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What makes you think I am?

Now that's better..one thing at a time

oseod:
Lol.....so you know how it feels like.?

20bc:
[color=teal] yeah....

We can't relocate away from this section because of some people, we will stay and dig it out with them...

You never can tell it can just happen...

Nope, my hands. For you I will do anything whether am climbing a mountain or swimming in the ocean, I will still chat with you.... [/color]

Okay....that's true

They dare not

Awww
But It would have been more better if you finish with the clothes...then you come back online..so you wash the clothes neatly....

inplay:
lave.da!

ernesty20:
remove that pic of urs, i dnt like it

20bc:
[color=teal]Lol that girls is Dasuki, she knows how to share ban anyhow...
Most especially those in romance section they are drowning in their own foolishness......

I hope they are not going to find us in this love boat and ban us for stating our mind.....

Uhm, am happy now....

No, am currently washing my clothes.....

You?? [/color]

At least she was curbing those mad people

I'm tired of the section.. One needs to relocate



Ban just like that? Then he/ she is sick...
Washing and chatting? Using a machine?
I took coke..not hungry..

espn:
both..lust comes before love..am sure u believe dat!

20bc:
[color=teal]That's one of the problem of people, they can't just mind their business....

My number one problem with this Nairaland is a those trolls I won't mention names but you know them, the mods are not doing anything about it and the number is increasing everyday....

These days women find it hard to accept that they know how to cook, they don't believe in their selves anymore.....

Don't be like that. ...

Lol, you are a big girl and can take of yourself... [/color]

I've given up on the moderators already..only ishiluv tried doing a good job.. But she's no more...they now swimming in stupidity...

Okay hun
.I can cook

Yeah..of course I can .
Taken lunch?

espn:
ghen ghen.mnd I just fell in love with u..NO TIME u knw.. can I add u up so u cld share sum crazy moment..dem Boyz go cum rush bash me now.m