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youngest85:
it's called HYSP

Hold

Your

Sanitary

Pad

Still confused.

maybe a lady should come and enlighten us.

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I see it all the time on social media.

please what does it mean? I'm really inquisitive.

So we have HOLY COWS now.

I bemoan those who still use their last strength to garner support for this man.


With issues like this, one is left to wonder if truly there is any government that can bring lasting solution to out woes here on earth.

The answer is a Big, NO.

Mtcheew.

New Yam festival...


Cheers to the Yam eaters.

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SINGING

OLAMIDE: Who you Help
NEPA: I Help myself

OLAMIDE: Who you Help
NEPA: I Help myself

OLAMIDE: You Don Baff
NEPA: Yes

OLAMIDE: Who you Serve
NEPA: I Serve God



OLAMIDE: Who you Help
ME: I Help myself

Airforce1:
So today I took my niece to go play with her mates at Sweet sensation children funfair in my crib..
She was so happy playing with her mates and I on the other side keeping an eye on her got carried away by the thought of not having enough love by that man that called himself my father back in the days as a kid.

I remember my dad beating me up at every slightest provocation even on children's day.

He is a bad man
I remember catching him with a strange woman while momma was away
But he fucking deceived me she was his course mate back in university.

What made me hate him more was the day he flogged me in the presence of my child hood girl friend .
I can't forget that day.
He messed me up so badly that I had to run to momma to ask if that man was actually my father.

I hate him with passion.

Till these present day that I'm grown up , I don't even call him , I don't care about him... I only care about mom because she gave me confidence , showed me love and treat me right .


So to the parents reading my story, you've got to be not just mom and dad to your children , you've got to be friends with them too so they don't go online and write my kind of story about you when they became adults.


Thanks for reading.
Airforce!

Bro, I share similar experience with you... though I didn't see him with another woman.
But I'm sure my dad beat me more than yours did to you... I have scars to prove it.

Right now I don't call my dad... do u you why?
Cause I can't anymore... HE'S GONE.

But few years before he died, I told him my mind.

In my words, "I'm grown up now, I'm an adult now... let me tell you, You hate me, you hated me when I was growing... you don't beat any other person apart from me... even when I was right, you will still beat me up... what did I do to you".

He's eyes where wide open when I was telling him... he was shocked... he gently explained that I was too stubborn and turning evil so he had to correct me.


After that, I told him I've forgiven him and that my mind is now clear and I have nothing against him.


And honestly, our love blossomed until he finally left us.

Bro plz... find a way to discuss with your dad and forgive him...

I just wish I have a dad on earth that can beat me now... at least let me see him again.

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Great

To every action, there's an equal reaction.

Maybe they are treating her like shiit and they are getting pisss in return.


Her action is unjustifiable though.

Warning to all those maid-ridden here.

CAVEAT EMPTOR

Abbeyunique2:
You survived abi? That's the koko

No one is saying u won't survive... the info is for u to brace ursef for d strife ahead.

Once again, accept my heartfelt sympathy.

Tips on how to survive in camp.

1. Don't rush to camp, there's no preferencial treatment.
2. Don't forget any of your documents (esp call up letter and statement of result) and plz mk lots of copies.
3. Bring some mufti along.. you'll need them on Sundays.
4. Go with provisions for those that like food like me.
5. Please and please don't go with metallic objects(pressing iron, nail cutters, clippers, spoons, plates, cups etc). Bid them goodbye if you do.
6. Get extra white shirts, shorts and shoes.
7. Do not go with any hard drug.
8. Put a mark on any of your property.
9. Go with a food flask(plastic) and plate, cup (plastic).
10. Power bank ( for the addicted pingers/browsers).
12. Lotta cash.
13. Be friendly at all time.
14. Befriend any of those people in mammy market
15. The food from the kitchen is bullcrap and smaller than holy communion... eat well in mammy cuz u might faint. Lotta cases like that. No jokes.
16. Do not be rude to any camp official ( man o war-annoying peeps, army, NYSC staffs) or anyone in mufti.
17. Join any of the voluntary groups to skip the rigorous parade.
18. Volunteer to help in any committee, there are lots of them.
19. Participate in camp activities esp sports.
20. Be invisible, that is, do not be found wanting, the camp officials can be so wicked.

Tips on how to survive in camp.

1. Don't rush to camp, there's no preferencial treatment.
2. Don't forget any of your documents (esp call up letter and statement of result) and plz mk lots of copies.
3. Bring some mufti along.. you'll need them on Sundays.
4. Go with provisions for those that like food like me.
5. Please and please don't go with metallic objects(pressing iron, nail cutters, clippers, spoons, plates, cups etc). Bid them goodbye if you do.
6. Get extra white shirts, shorts and shoes.
7. Do not go with any hard drug.
8. Put a mark on any of your property.
9. Go with a food flask(plastic) and plate, cup (plastic).
10. Power bank ( for the addicted pingers/browsers).
12. Lotta cash.
13. Be friendly at all time.
14. Befriend any of those people in mammy market
15. The food from the kitchen is bullcrap and smaller than holy communion... eat well in mammy cuz u might faint. Lotta cases like that. No jokes.
16. Do not be rude to any camp official ( man o war-annoying peeps, army, NYSC staffs) or anyone in mufti.
17. Join any of the voluntary groups to skip the rigorous parade.
18. Volunteer to help in any committee, there are lots of them.
19. Participate in camp activities esp sports.
20. Be invisible, that is, do not be found wanting, the camp officials can be so wicked.

In addition...

Tips On How To Survive Abuja For Freshers

https://www.nairaland.com/3021964/tips-how-survive-abuja-freshers#3021964.2

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Bahd Baddo Baddest.


Young girls, Please stay away from sugar daddies!

If not for ritual, another news we usually hear is
"This SS2 girl is missing (Pic)"

Only to resurface after 2 weeks of active... Bahd Baddo Baddest.



Thank God for her life... I'm happy for her.

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For those that requested, I hope you all got a copy of CV each.

For those who didn't, send a PM... I'll forward it directly as a reply to ur mail.

God bless ur hustle.

Politicalidiot:
pls I haven't gotten your email. Thanks for the recommendation. I heard that Bwari is essentially a village hence my hesitation in going there.

See this man... ur aim of going to Law skul is to pass d bar finals and be called to the bar.
Btw Abuja campus is the best in Nigeria.

Shinelle:
... it shudnt cost 350 if he avoids drops and uses "along" taxis..
I spent 500 per day as a corper from kubwa to Area 11 daily.. ie including bike trips sef
but then isn't 700 on a round trip to work affordable ?
I thought u said 1000 before?

It's normal along in his own case.

But do u know there are places u will work where there is no along in Abuja? And trekking in Suit will seem like a suicide mission?

Fremlin:
my email iz ffremlin@gmail.com

Same email. I've forwarded it again. If u don't get it, send me a pm.

Fremlin:
bro...i didnt receive your mail oh

The way you typed your email is confusing. Please retype here.

esthel:
@OP, Pls I wouldn't mind a copy of the CV. Thank you.

No email?

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‎bababodmas‎ Fremlin‎ Politicalidiot‎ AreaFada2‎

CV sent... kindly check your inbox.

Mbediogu:
you are a wise son of your father. Kudos.
Those tips can be modified to suit the many timeless challenges that beginners face in life anywhere in the world.

Thanks sir. God bless.

Shinelle:
Oga OP I don't agree with you on transport .
1000 ? is the person using drop/cab.. ? u won't even spend 1000 to and fro nyanya to kwali or zuba to Apo . ..
Abj public transport is way cheaper than alot of cities... Esp Lagos!

Lemme break it down now. My one of my friends served here in Abuja at Wuse 2 and his house was in Mpape. He spends 700 naira per day.

I'll agree that drops are cheaper here in Abuja than most cities in Nigeria.

Politicalidiot:
a beg send a copy to hienyimba @ gmail.com

I am a lawyer too, about going to Law School. pls could u also recommend a Law school for me? which did u attend?

I did my law school in Kano but I recommend Abuja. Abuja records the highest number of passes at the Bar finals.

Success in your endeavour.

Gkemz:
So insightful bro. Thanks for that and may the same God who favoured you in your journey of faith remember the ones who've been on the street hustling hard to get some bay. I admire your courage and optimism.

Thanks a lot sir! Amen to your prayer and Happy new month.

OnuohaClever:
observed the content of your thread and your response so far to issues raised. my background is similar to yours as your experience in Abuja.
I was posted to Abuja for youth service, after the orientation camp, I jettisoned where I was posted and my destiny in my own hands by GOING FROM OFFICE TO OFFICE in a city a hardly know my way around. I will just enter a bus (from NYSC camp house in Kubwa) to Abuja municipal and I would my discretion to drop anywhere along Wuse, central area and Garki to continue my search. fast forward 2016, i own a 3 bedroom, 3 cars, a thriving business, married and govt job. I am sharing my story to serve as an encouragement to someone out there. As a Christian, the bible says 'work and pray'. So many of us 'pray' a lot while discarding the 'work' aspect and we still expect God to bless us. For you to succeed in life, u must preserve, focused, committed, dedicated and trust in only God to BLESSS the works of thy hand (and that my friend is the true 'blessing). happy new month

Congratulations Sir! And thanks for your kind words. I love success stories.

Btw.. I cud manage some of ur properties tho .