₦airaland Forum

tensazangetsu:
I know right. I don't see why someone who's earning less than 500k a month should even have a family or get married in this hard economic times.

Tell me you're kidding please

Stanleywaxy:
Two things : Where will I be after I must've given up , and what will life be like afterwards ?



2) Falling in Love ... scares me like a vampire movie

Why are you scared of falling in love? It's a beautiful thing

KingRex1:
Getting married to the wrong one.

Poverty.

Death of loved ones.. Fortunately the first two wont happen bt the third is inevitable.

Hmmm life

ronald4ever:
No, not clubbing but even if I feel like clubbing I don't want my phone to be ringing at intervals to come home or some nagging at me.

Here are a snippet of what scares me in marriage. I'm one person who doesn't really like to be accountable for my movement, I can close from work and hang out in a pub or a karaoke live band show and just want to relax without anyone asking where are you or start asking questions. I don't want to come home and then start accounting for where I've been all day and all that sh1t.

If I want to watch a particular tv channel all day I also don't want to be told to change it, let me be free in my home and do whatever I want. I may also just wake up today and pack my bags and off to Amsterdam or Frankfurt as a single individual but when married I can't just do that, I have to account and inform my wife before doing so and I hate accounting to anyone about my life. There are many many things but these are just a fraction of it.

Not also tooting my own trumpet but I believe I've worked hard and secured some reasonable stuff for myself and still striving hard to secure more better things of life and I don't want to get married today then divorce tomorrow and someone just initiate for alimony and I'm left near empty handed over all what I laboured to secure.

Oh, now i get you. I was like this but had to let it go...its a mission impossible for me as a lady.

Lol, you want the beautiful side of marriage but detest the ugly part. You just have to learn it

tensazangetsu:
Poverty
Marriage
Having kids
I don't want any responsibility of any kind men. God forbid.

Funny, you don't want responsibilities Weird its coming from a man

Lsofdk:
[color=teal] what scares me most ain't death itself.
not knowing how and when i would die scares the hell outta me, imagine someday one would cease to exist *just like that* [/color]

So scary

ZeeAfrica:
I love kids but m scared of being pregnant n also scared of dee day, wen de baby comes out. dat scareees me sooooo much, I dnt even knoe how m gona handle it, wen my turn comes. dis is no lie, m soooo scared of dis

My sister that is a normal fear every lady has...izz nothing. You'll get over it

donbenedict:
Abeg wetin dis earthwaste dey type up there.. somebody should transcribe

I only read the first few lines too but this is what i think he is saying...being a transgender is an abomination and that they should not join them with the gay community bla bla

ronald4ever:
Not sure if I've got any but if there's then it's the thought of ever getting married someday. Just don't want anything that will infringe on my freedom and independence.

Huh Are you kidding? What freedom are you talking about here? clubbing?

AirSultan:
I am my own deepest fear.

You're scared of the unknown

donbenedict:
hahahahhahahaha see charis oooo. If there is anythn I love to do its driving.... i'm not scared of heights brother...




I'v worked with heights... serio heights... have u climbed and worked on a fractionating tower? Oooh, I think u havnt..


Wat of a scaffold? Oooh I dnt think so too




Den how much more confortable will I be in a confined comfortable space such as in an aircraft, den I will now fear .


It's like u dnt understand wat i'm tryna say, i'm only afraid of the moment of near death itself...

See how you're just consuming space anyhow

Buhahaha, see this one...what's the difference between both of you?
You sef you're claiming rubbish right

Mynd44, lalasticlala, seun, farano, rockation! This gay guy has broken rule number 9... do something please.

donbenedict:
I did not want to b rude... I would hav chosen to reply may ur generation not end up havin havin comfortable life

But you already said it now Chill!

slyIsaac:
Hey,Sinaj.. Never had the pleasure of having a convo.... Hawayu?

No toasting in the thread please! Goan eat your food

Marlvin:
Everyone is scared of going to hell , except Me .

Really?

Festivalofholi:

You're scared of confusion?

iAmCharis:
I have no fear.

Good for you...i like that

Countrygirl:
Going to hell scares the hell out of me and getting married to the wrong man.

That wrong marriage thing is like hell on earth already i tell you

Maxi112:
premature death scare the hell out of me!

Hmm

deluxez12:
nothing

Cool, i want to be like you when i grow up

slyIsaac:
Fear of not eating when am hungry... Chaii... I. Dey quiver in fear right now sef........ #hungry

Lol, may hunger not be your portion... FFO

Salex007:
Staying 6 fits under the ground for years all alone

Lol, who will stay there with you before

7footre:
Dying too young
Not raising ma kids right
Poverty
Marrying a nagging woman

This dying ishh ehn, i think of it everyday...very evil thought. A truck is coming opposite me and i just imagine It's coming towards me. God help me

What frightens you most in life? Those things that the thought of them happening to you scares the hell of you.

Well, i have mine too...which are;

1. Getting married to the wrong man.

2. Poverty

3. Going to hell

Pardon me, i'm not really sure of the section where this should be

TGIF! Whoop whoop

donbenedict:
Still some girls will do weekend visits to their boyfrnd house. Will come here and be typing rubbish things like word, spot on, I totally agree.



Smh.

Because i visit for two days now, i now live with him permanently

temmytee007:
you don't seems to get it do you......I'm talking about an act that is far far harmless and is scientifically proven to be beneficial medically to the body, and aside that, you still can't remove the fact that it helps ease the tension of intimacy and avoid patronizing brothels thereby giving you zero room for STD s and the rest.

and according to your argument, its from a religious perspective, so from your post its shows you've been engaged in the act of sex, now let me ask this simple question, are you married? if NO, then you have no moral right to condemn an act that is less immorally to your act of pre-marital affair.

stop being hypocritical my dear and be objective.

1. Your topic is from a religious perspective

2. From what you wrote, you agree it is a sin from
the religious angle but it scientifically harmless abi ...hilarious. So, you prefer to enjoy those benefits and go to hell?

3. I am not married. What makes you think i'm sexually active?

4. I may not be sexually active but i am not righteous either. It doesn't mean i should go about encouraging others to follow my path.

Plus, hope you know masturbation destroys lives and so many are struggling to even stop it?
MASTURBATION is a SIN!

STFUareyouG0d:
morning sis

You guys are just making me laff anyhow this early momo ...good morning. Your night?

STFUareyouG0d:
dayum!!! Layla is the prettiest

I know hateu2 cannot make the list. Maybe she number 2900001 on the list

You and Cork ehnn?

Stanleywaxy:
Thanks B...
Can I call you Babe

Lol, its cool

Stanleywaxy:
I meant @Aminat508's got many suitors ...

There's no need to stress the issue any longer , you're my NL crush

Oh, now i get. Welcome on board hunnae

Stanleywaxy:
Where's Layla129 ? The babe na Snickers Chocolate color ... Noticed ya , but couldn't tell .
Aminat ... She's got many suitors , make I no kuku go waste my time for her matter

Lol, i'm here. Suitors you say

MrCork:
Mr Cork<<<<<<<6"3, drives £28,000(cash) Range rover spot, Meduim built, handsome, gooodloookin, Londoner, God fearing, Church going, plaYA, likes babes, edukated, Pekam based, can cook, caring, humble, hates coookin, hates kids, bachelor, lives in a 3 bedrooom house alone, owns Pitbull terrrier (lacy), sweeet loookin, resssposible, travels to Nigeria 8 times yearly & really really cute.... Does that look like a Monkey?... could u handle this parkage??...Keep prayin!(((REAL TALK)))

Lmaooo , just look at the contradictions! Church going, playa, God fearing, can cook, hate cooking
Jeez, hahaha