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She may have told you that she was totally head over heels in love with you, and five minutes later say she hates your guts. When she says she hates your guts – this is what she is feeling right then and there in that present moment. Five minutes ago, when she told you she loved you, she did love you five minutes ago. But what she’s feeling right now, in this moment, is: I hate your guts. Again, it doesn’t matter if you did everything perfect for the first ten years you were together. What matters is that you screwed up five minutes ago, and now there’s hell to pay. Now you have to weather the storm, break through her barriers, and get back to her heart. You need to get her back in her feminine energy so she can open back up and be that playful, beautiful woman you love. You do this by using humor and understanding, and by letting her know that you are not going anywhere until you get to the bottom of it. A man usually doesn’t understand it when his woman walks out on him. She has been telling him all along: You are never around. You never spend any time with me. We never talk. You don’t care about what I want. These are the things that a woman does to get your attention, and that most guys just completely ignore. They don’t take her seriously, invalidating the way she is feeling at the moment. If you are invalidating her emotions, and she is an emotionally based creature, how long do you think she is going to take it? LAZYREPORTA |
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damickey:Dominique come and savechelsea o � |
DonPiiko:Oga, no be money thread be this... Everyone knows man must make money, ok? Na romance section be this |
Note: nobody is saying don't make money, ok? It's not always all about money... lot of guys are rich yet they can't keep a woman. This is not a money making thread. Thanks!!! |
When you first meet a woman, one of the things she might say is: I’m not looking for a relationship. One of the reasons a woman says this is that a lot of guys come on so heavy when they meet her. They start talking about girlfriends. They start talking about dating and all this other stuff, and she starts thinking: This guy is needy. This guy has no confidence and is weak. Women come up with generic responses to these situations, because most guys will not take no for an answer. The women will reject them, because they start to feel like they will lose their freedom if they start dating them. Another thing about women that you have to understand is that they are never going to say: I don’t like you. I am not attracted to you, and I wouldn’t go out with you if you were the last man on earth. Very few women are blunt enough to respond to a man’s advances in this way. The reason most women will not directly tell you they are not interested in you is because men have pretty much made them that way. When a man has met a woman and is really into her, he will ask for her phone number. If she is not into him, she could say: I’m sorry, but I’m not interested. Too many times, the typical man’s response is something along the lines of: What do you mean you’re not interested? If she replies: I’m just not interested. He will often push the issue: What do you mean? Are you saying you don’t like me? At this point she is getting uncomfortable, and she tries to explain: Well, you’re just not the type of guy I would normally date. He, in turn, starts to become indignant about it: What does that mean? I’m not good enough for you? I’m not good looking enough for you? How do you ever get anybody to go out with you if you have that kind of attitude? It’s pretty arrogant and weak, don’t you think? Every woman has met a guy that has acted that way in her life. The guys won’t take “no” for an answer, so she, indirectly, is hoping that he will get the hint and understand the “secret language” that she is speaking to him. Women are emotional beings and simply don’t want to hurt your feelings or create an awkward moment. Instead, she uses a roundabout way of saying: I’m really not interested. Women will even sometimes give you their number, because they do not want to lie to you, but they also want to avoid the typical man’s confrontational behavior. They know that later, through voice mail, they can just screen you out, and hopefully, you will get the hint and go away. If they think you may be a real nuisance, they may even give you a wrong number. That brings another point to mind: When a woman gives you a number, don’t stand there and call it to see if it is a legitimate number. Some guys will actually do this. It is so needy and insecure. What it says to her is: I really don’t think I am good enough to take you out, and I don’t really think you are interested in me. I want to make sure, right in front of you, that you are not lying to me. Right away, you are telling her that you don’t even trust her. Just confidently text yours to her as you’re standing there so she has it, and tell her you are doing it. At that point, you are done, even if she gave you a real number to begin with. You just lowered her attraction level, and it may have been high to start with. When you eventually do call her, you are going to find out whether she likes you or not. After all, who cares? You don’t want to waste your time and energy by going out and getting emotionally hung up on a woman that has no interest in you. You only want to spend your time with a woman that has a high attraction level, because she will make it easy to date her, and she will be a lot more fun when you do. You will not have to work so hard. Source: Facebook |
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Okay, so now you have gone out and collected phone numbers. The next question is: When do you call her? Most guys, predictably, when they get a number on a Friday night, they will call the girl the next day. Some will even call that night. All this tells a woman is that you are needy. It displays your insecurities in big, bold, neon letters. It tells her you are not centered, you are not confident, and that you haven’t even gone out on your first date with her yet, and you already can’t live without her. All women have been with guys like that, and it will turn her off to the point where she is probably not going to even bother to call you back. She may even talk to you if you manage to get her on the phone, but she will never go out with you. She perceives you as being needy, and for her, that is a big turn off. Wait to call a woman for the first date if you did not set it up when you first met her. Don’t call her the very next day. By doing this, you are already building anticipation, and setting yourself apart from all the guys that did call her right away. If I meet a woman on a weekend, like a Friday or a Saturday night, then I might wait to call her until Tuesday or Wednesday to ask her out for the following week. You should be busy anyway. Act as if you are busy as hell, even if you are not. Act like a guy whose dance card is already pretty full. If she does have a high level of attraction for you to start with, and you don’t call her that night or the very next day like most guys predictably do, it’s going to cause her attraction level to go up. Let’s say she gave her number out to ten guys. If nine of them called the next day to ask her out, and you didn’t, she is going to wonder: I wonder why that guy didn’t call. I know I’m beautiful. I’ve got these nine other guys calling. What’s the deal with that? You are making her wonder about you. When she’s wondering about you, it is having a positive effect on her level of attraction. Remember, it’s a scientific fact that women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear. You are being a mystery. You are being different. That is what all women are dying for. They are dying for a guy that is not needy, one that is not going to be jumping all over a chance to go out with them like they’re the last woman on the planet, someone that they can pitch and catch with, someone that’s strong, and someone that they can’t have their way with. This is kind of what the bad boys do. What is the draw of a Brad Pitt, or any actor that gets up on stage all the time? What is it that draws women to guys like that? Masculine energy is about purpose, drive, mission, succeeding, accomplishing, breaking through barriers, achieving goals, etc. It is power. It is confidence. It is danger. It is leadership. It is mystery. It is the feeling: I don’t think I could ever get my way with that guy, and that makes me feel safe. This guy could protect me. Women want a strong, centered guy. A good rule of thumb on when to call a woman is this: If you met her on a Friday or Saturday, call her on a Tuesday or Wednesday and set up a date for the following week. By the time you actually go out, it may have been a week and a half. If you met her on a Sunday through Thursday, call the following Monday or Tuesday, and ask her: When are you free to meet up for a drink? The goal is to leave days where she is going to be wondering about you, anticipating your call, and raising her level of attraction. This also gives her the opportunity to reach out to you first and start pursuing you. And when women start pursuing you, they’re not blowing you off, ghosting you or dumping you. Source: [url=https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=2136218723061806&id=100000210968445&refid=17&_ft_=top_level_post_id.2136218723061806%3Atl_objid.2136218723061806%3Athrowback_story_fbid.2136218723061806%3Athid.100000210968445%3A306061129499414%3A2%3A0%3A1527836399%3A5464018237257691848&__tn__=%2AW-R&_rdr]Facebook[/url] |
dominique:Yeah, possible dom... But they are nice songs though |
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naijatatafo:Thank you for this post... |
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Peachess:You that don't know what you're dating. Tell us what attract you? |
ItzBIM:Funny enough you're Correct too. However, it's better this way than being weak. Most times, they are testing you to know if you can bend for them but put them in their place. Bro, never you take away the challenge from them.. They love mysteries, so give it them. How do you feel when a girl tells you she can't understand you? That's it |
lefulefu:Na so o.... Lots of guys even dey hide their money now to get the real woman. Come take chilled origin for abuja ![]() |
lefulefu:You make sense. They always think it's all about money. There's always a richer guy. Make money and also be a man |
olayinex:You people always think it's just about money only. Well, money is part of the list. |
Supreme01:If I list everything you wrote then I can't finish this today. Nice points, thanks |
Study and experience has told me that if you ask a woman "what do you want in our marriage/relationship"? Most often, you will get a big lie. Fat lie. If you follow what she says bumper to bumper.... It will end in pain. But men has observed and documented what keeps women happy. 1- Be a man. Be bold, be confident, be courageous... Put her in her place without flinching. She knows when she gets out of line and she expect it. If you don't do this, you're sowing the seed of future disrespect. Funny enough it can turn her on. 2- Remain physically attractive. A woman wants a man that can cheat on her anytime with his choice of woman, but make the choice not to.... So that he will be faithful to her... She wants to see the jealousy and lust in the eyes of other women when they see you guys together. That makes her feel she has a high value man. 3- make money... Make more money.. I don't think I have to explain this. 4- When she says, "baby, look at my new hair" stop what you're doing for 30seconds and pay attention, give compliments. She's looking beautiful for you.... No matter what she tells herself. 5- Never argue with her.. Ever! She wins by default because she succeeded in dragging you into it. Never allow it. If she wants to insist, leave the room. Sometimes, she wants to argue with you... Because it's the only way she can get your full attention. Source: Facebook |
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. I watched Assurance on Youtube just last week and I didn't see anything special about it.