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hamhamhit:
women are different....they cant think like men........

Yeah, they are emotional.

But sadly, women are smarter

biacan:
You're always welcome

Why you dey always disturb my thread

anitank:
What breed of dogs are you talking about op?? The Alsatians, the Rottweilers or the Ekukes?

I think the type you like to date ma

Jethrolite:
Your way can not be the only way. If someone does not agree with you does not mean they go begging girls and what is wrong with begging? Oga sometimes, you need to beg o especially when you goof but initial meeting and the girl is posing, it depends too. Even cat that is posing up and down, hold fried fish, cat go pose come meet you, turn your friend.

What I'm saying is women are complicated, you have to read them and know the right action needed for that present situation because in some situations, while you de form odokponyo alpha male, one begi, begi, alpha male go start chop the cat. You go de wait for cat to return. For where? There is a snitch in your gathering.

You understand it. He said trash actually...

Women are complicated which is very correct.
That's why you should know how to handle them. bro, if you picture them as a cat it will be easier for you.
The problem is women don't understand theirselves too.

Yeah, my way isn't the only way, but it doesn't mean it's a trash.

Like you said, the cat may go to the begi begi guy but trust me, she will leave overtime.

If you understand how attraction works for women, you will know when to chase and when to stop

Maxcollins042:
Seconded

His basis regarding the women just tilts to the negative side of a cat while that of the men is hinged on the positive traits of a dog. Oga we are not buying this.

Anything you want to say about cats?
Say it let's see

austyn0:
There you go buddy,, women to cat fits in well than to dog.....

Buh, why men to dog,, you forget sey dogs propeller no get control?

Baba, na so e be o

biacan:
If you're lusting after someone leave me out of it.....

I think you're right

Raydans:
Women comparison to cats maybe true.

That's why they have something in common.

Poosay-Cats

olobe

biacan:
What's your problem allow this love to flow biko

Lust you meant?

biacan:
You go cry for my hand..... chop and clean mouth loading

Wait o , una be vampire? Chop here and there

biacan:
I go chop you clean mouth nothing go happen

On my thread una dey chop una self

greiboy:
Everyone likes money, but we are not all ritualist even though we are not all wealthy. So liking something and being selfish are two different things

Think about that

Even at your assertion, I still believe ladies can qualify as cats

Let's do this;

Women to dog as women to cat, which is more accurate?
What are the characteristics of dog and cat?
Let's see where ladies fit in more

greiboy:
Cats can be inquisitive, friendly , playful, active , loving and
independent.

Those are the characteristics of cat.

And ladies?

They are far closer to being a cat than being a female dog

greiboy:
You go back to study cat.

Cats are nothing like women of these days, they are more like the female dogs themselves

I can see you don't understand my post.

If you read my post to understand you will understand the comparison.

I repeat, ladies behave like cats.

As for the sexual part you're trying to focus on, that's not my focus.

Everyone likes sex... Almost everyone

greiboy:
I am sorry did the piece of crap you wrote resembles anything like the believe of alpha males.

Women are like cats indeed! loyalty is the characteristics synonymous with cats

Did you even try to conduct a simple survey of the women in our societies today? How cat-like are they?

Go back and study cat
Then study women

greiboy:
I am sorry did the piece of crap you wrote resembles anything like believes of male.

What's the believe of male?

greiboy:
Piece of crap

Pvssy nigga,

Always want to beg ladies not to leave you...

You better learn and be an alpha male.

Good morning

No matter what you do with a dog, he is man’s best friend. A dog will never leave you, no matter what happens. Dogs will come right up and demand attention from anyone, even a friendly-looking stranger that appeals to them. They don’t understand the concept of rejection if a stranger pushes them away. They will come right back for more. Dogs will feel an instant attraction, an instant affection for a total stranger, and run around obeying commands at the drop of a hat.

When was the last time you saw a cat take commands from anyone?

Women are like cats. They come and go as they please... and... YOU MUST LET THEM!!! If you don’t, you will destroy their level of safety and comfort with you. They do what they want, when they want, and with whom they want. You can call a cat, but it will only come to you if it feels like it. Many times they will give you that bored, sleepy stare that says: Who do you think you’re kidding? Cats look around a crowded room of strangers and will go only to the one they feel comfortable being with, the one they know for certain will give them the affection they want.
If a cat doesn’t know you, it will often run and hide. At the very least, it will stay back and watch you carefully before it decides you are worthy of its approach and attention. Cats might kind of stroll by and look over and see you, and then pretend to ignore you and move on. Then the cat may come back a minute or two later, come into the room and walk around and look at you, and then turn around and leave.

The cat may come back again a few minutes later and walk a little circle around you, maybe brush up against your leg and then take off. A few minutes later, the cat may come back and go around in between your legs, rubbing up against you with its tail in the air, and then all of a sudden sit down and start purring. Cats are a lot more particular about who they will give their affection to. For some strange reason, they will even decide that the only person in the room that doesn’t like cats is the only one deserving of their attention. Don’t take it personally.

When a woman leaves a conversation or your group, let her go. If you go after her, she will feel your weakness, instead of your strength. When you don’t chase, she will come back, as long as her attraction is high. When a woman senses weakness in a man, they will become flakey and unsure. When they leave and you don’t chase, they will later feel attraction and come back.

In order to entice a cat to your side, you have to be patient and let it come to you. If your moves are too sudden, too quick, or too aggressive, you will send the cat fleeing from your side and into hiding. Cats have to be encouraged. They let you know when it’s okay to touch them by rubbing up against you, or coming over to sit in your lap. If you don’t hold the cat properly or pet it the wrong way, it will leave. Once that happens, it becomes twice as hard to coax it back to you.

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I never said don't make money...


I only said if you want to approach the beautiful lady you desire, ok?

pressplay411:
Here in lies the major problem. The lies and schemes, Mind games and tricks. Why not ask her direct question. If she sense you're indirect with her, she'll also be indirect with you. And if she turns out to be a pathological liar, you observe her actions.
But why so much emphasis on looks sef? You Be Shriek?

Trust me, just on your self. Your confidence, discipline and success will speak for you. Those are not transient unlike looks.

My point is to get accurate answer most times you have to manipulate them alittle.

Gals are not spontaneous with response unlike guys, that's why they go defensive when the question is sudden if they are wrong

pressplay411:
The comments have done much justice but to add my 2 cents. The surest way to know the solution to a problem is to ask the right question and get the right answers from who knows. That said, have you asked the lady in question? If that's too straight forward for you (maybe your feathers have started showing), why not ask her friend. Girls seem to tell their friends some details, even though not everything.

If you got the answer from the main girl you won't bother asking your female friends. Her friends are worst because they will back her up.

The best way sometimes is to manipulate her if you really want to know the answer.
Play mind games, ask questions that she will think it's her doing.

Example; if a girl tells you looks doesn't determine what she wants in her relationship , chill, after awhile point out a not too good looking guy, ask her if she will go out with him.... Wait and hear NO.

Now, just say something else because if you try to mention her earlier statement about looks, you're looking for trouble.

What they say is not what they respond too

TheLordIsGr8:
Thank you. Where the Orijin na

Baba I no sabi your location o

TheLordIsGr8:
Chairman na your hand e dey. Na you hold yam and fry pan.

You just summarize my post

You understand am well

TheLordIsGr8:
You missed the OP's point. The argument here is not about "knowledge". It is about sharing that knowledge.

OP's point is that women generally don't give you the complete knowledge. They don't tell you their honest assessment because they may not want to hurt your feelings.

Try to read the post again.

Bros, you dey take origin?

Where's South Africa

When I was having trouble understanding women, I remember going to my women friends for advice. I figured: Hey, they’re women, so they should have a clue and be able to help me out, right? Wrong. The advice they gave me seemed sound, and it meshed with what I had always thought about women. This sometimes pisses women off, but the truth is, the average woman does not understand what attracts them to one guy vs. another. What they say they want in a man is not what they actually date and stay with.
Most women, when you bring your problems about understanding another woman to them, will try to make you feel better about what is going on. It is just like when you try to date a woman, she is not going to tell you straight out: Hey, I’m really not interested. A woman friend is not going to burst your ego and tell you: Hey, it sounds as though she just doesn’t like you. Move on. Instead, they will give you rationalizations: Maybe she is just coming out of a bad relationship. Maybe she really isn’t getting your calls. Maybe she just likes you too much and is afraid of getting into something right now. Women are emotional beings and will always think about how what they say is going to make you feel. So take their advice with a grain of salt.
Why do women, even our female friends, do this to us? I believe it is mostly because they don’t want to deal with your questions of: So tell me why she doesn’t like me. Is there something wrong with me? without hurting your feelings. They would rather try to soothe it over and nudge you gently in another direction, rather than being straight up about their suspicions and hurt you.
Women are all about emotions and emotional reactions. Men are more straightforward. While men may deal from a place of emotions, they don’t take time to necessarily look at the emotional side of the equation. They would rather have simple, non-emotionally clouded answers. The trouble is that our women friends do nothing more than cloud the issue rather than setting us straight.

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While your goal is driving you to meet the kind of woman you feel you deserve, this also means you want to be screening others out. You do not want someone that is a user or into only material things. If a woman asks: What kind of car do you drive? Not that it matters... It says it really does matter to her. Tell her you rode the bus, walked, came on skates, etc.

If she asks where you live, tell her something silly like: Well, actually, I was hoping to move in with you and have you support me and wait on me hand and foot. Be silly, outrageous, or be stupid. Do not give these types of obviously materialistic questions a straight answer. There are women that look for security and will marry a guy they do not love. These types of women are only looking for security and don’t care who you are or what you are all about.

If a woman tells you looks are not important, point out some unlikely man and ask: What about that guy? A lot of women will respond with: He’s not my type, even though she has never spoken to him before. It shows that looks are important to her. It’s not that she is necessarily being dishonest with you, but it does give you further evidence of what I mentioned before: What a woman says is not necessarily what she responds to. If a woman asks: Do you have a girlfriend? Be playful. You do not want her to think you haven’t had a date in 2 years. Respond with indirect or playful answers like: I’m just out dating and having fun. Or: There is always room for one more. When you come off with confidence, she may further test you with: Are you a player? You could reply playfully: Sure, I play sports. Or: I played sports in high school.
If she gives you the: That’s not what I mean. Look at her with curiosity, and ask her straight out: What do you mean? The point is, that no matter what her question, no matter how she tries to test you, you can’t let her think she can get under your skin. Keep it positive. Keep it playful.

When a woman tells you: Well, I don’t date guys who are players. You can ask her straight out: Who said I wanted to date you? Or: When I meet someone who is worthy of my time, I will be exclusive with her. I haven’t determined whether I want to go out with you or not. At that point, start asking her: Why should I go out with someone like you? Are you hitting on me? Are you fun?
The whole point to these questions is that she may or may not be interested. The lower her attraction level, the more she will test you. Pay attention to her reactions. Don’t be offensive or angry, but show that you could care less whether she likes you or not. Have her try to prove to you why she is worth your time.

Another one of the things that women will actually test guys on is to see how firm they are in their position. The guy will say something to the effect of: Oh, I like blue colored cars. She might respond with: I don’t like blue colored cars. I like red colored cars. Some guys will turn around and change their opinion to match hers, trying to please her. They think that’s what she wants. He will then say something like: Well, blue really... Now that I think about it, I actually do like red more than I like blue. I guess I have to agree with you. They will change one of their core beliefs on things they want to match that of the woman.

She is trying to see if she can get you to change your opinion to match hers. If you go along with it, you are being weak and failing her test. What it tells her is that you will go along with anything she says. The challenge for her is now taken away, and she will move on to the next guy.

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