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This is one sh*i I will never do in the name of making money..Sorry bro! That's life..

Una no know say december don dey reach?..Boys dey find money wey they go use come back home come ball like madt...Loz

NewNigeriaMind:
You know what, this is my perception about your tribe Igbo.

you people are like a slave that finally found freedom, then owns a house, then a car, as such you cannot help it being boastful.

Please come to 1004 VI and count the number of evogue in the estate. when people like us look at people like you we cannot help but pity you folks.

Envogue has been out since like late 2013, one Igbo girl finally got one and the rest of Nigeria will not rest.

Even ORITSA Femi just got one.

God there are many Yoruba/igbo/hausa/ijaw/iskeiri etc who you don't know that got that car before Linda now, Gosh in my office here, one of my partner drives 2014 range sport-go check the price.

I have many great igbo friends, the likes of you give the rest bad name.

Guy go F*CK yourself..Who know you..

LMAyedun:
Dr. Nnamdi Azikiwe at the N.C.N.C political rally, Urualla, 1959.

Ha! My village na him be this...Thank you Op..Felling like Atiku this morning..

Brymo you've got talent no doubt but you had no business commenting on another artist's "supposed" marketing strategy if that's what is it..Do you guys even know how well known and accepted flavour is and how big obaino as a marketer is..One wholesaler in onitsha can easily order for 300,000 copies of that album so he can enjoy monopoly in the east because the album circulates,I know of a guy here in the east that ordered for 100,000 copies of phyno's NGNG when that album and the whole hawkers and small retailers lined up for days at his shop before others got wind of it...Ask any alaba cd marketer how this things work.. It's fu*king possible considering how big the country and also how big the artist..Brymo,Left for me you are way underrated and I respect you for your talent,You are to the rnb world what jesse jagz is to the rap world but don't be blind to the truth..It's possible considering the artist involved...Flavour is accepted by almost the whole tribes in Nigeria not just in the south east..

I really don't have nothing to contribute here! You guys have said it all..I just wish I am never going to cheat on my future wife when the time comes..I sincerely hope so..

The thing wey 2 face no know be say a lot of young people are looking up to him and wanna lead this kind of lifestyle..I think it's quite understandable wanting to be a single dad...Their will be no pressure from your peeps to get married early and also It will make one to be more focused in life and concentrate on self development..

Sharwama

White faces every where...

That niccur ain't that bad.....

No leaflet..Naso una despise me reach?

nanauju:
OP y will u just ask for her number like that without promising her something like a nice CHRISTIAN date. Number for just shaperly come out na

Sorry for going off topic..Girl you are cute...

Liability:
before i gained admission into higher institution 3 years back, i was in a relationship with this handsome dude.

Then we taught in the same secondary school. We had things going before he got employed as a staff in Nigerian Bottling Company Plc.

Since then distance has been a bane, serving as a militating factor to our relationship.

I craved almost every time for his touch. Just yesterday i had to risk my life, travelling for 4 hours just to see him (he told me he is in town), not wanting my siblings to see me cos they taught i was still in school. we saw and made love, so sweet and ecstatic it was that i want it all over again.

My greatest shock was that i ventured on going to back to my school, he only gave me transport and didnt even wait for me to even enter the car. He left me there with his friend. And left. The money is not the issue but the manner he left me is what is disturbing me.

Could it be he is less interested in me?

Am i the one forcing myself on him while he is loving some other lady?

Please advise a lady in distress.


Mature advise only!

My best shot is that he is feeling like you are seeing someone else..There is this general feeling amongst guys that whenever your girl gains admission you should forget her..He's probably imagining another banging the hell out of you..I only advise any of my girl that gains admission to always use a condom because it's almost impossible not to have a boy friend in a public university..

AgapeCharis:
My very first long post on Nairaland


1. Discover yourself
It is discovery that enlists you for life not necessarily birth. Life is all about contribution. Discover how you can contribute to life in a definite way. Until then, you are just existing…not living! There are too many guys walking the streets properly dressed with nothing to contribute. Be different! Until you know your gifting, you cannot be a gift to your world

2. Before 30, you must have learnt how to use your gifting to solve problems definitely. D presence of the gifting is nt as important as knowing hw it works. To ascertain whether it is worth ur attention, resources, energy and whether it can engage u for a life time. The treasures in u have d capacity 2 employ ursef 4 a life time. Learn hw 2 build systems around that thing u’r gifted in. learn hw 2 position dem 4 rewards.

3. U must have caught some ideas on how to make money. This point doesn’t need much elaboration. You cannot be 30 and all your hope is in d government to feed u. u shud knw in wat way people shud depend on u cos genuinely or indirectly, u make money from other people’s ignorance

4. You must have known d definition of love. Many young lads are stl misconstrued with d thought of love. Many a times, a guy walks up to u with a smile n softly says to u I Iove u n every strand of ur hair stands straight! U think dt is love. When sum1 says I luv u what does d person mean? Deos he mean I like u? does he mean I want to have sex with u? does he mean u look enchanting? Is he saying u look seductive? LISTEN! You cannot love someone u don’t knw! U cnt love some1 u just met 4 d first time! U can like him/her. U can be attracted but u cannot love someone whose assets and liabilities u cannot define. Because love doesn’t just stop at an emotion. Love is a choice. One reason y we have many jilting(s) is because one day, one of dem realizes meehn! There’s sumtin abt dx guy/lady I cant tolerate. I am nt ready 2 b responsible for this. So, he turns his back and flees. But he thought he liked u wen ur make-up was all intact. Wen ur colours were just perfect for d dinner. But wen d vapour of emotion begins to sublime. When d scales begin 2 fall! wen u really knw what’s up. Dtx wen he bcums very evasive. He thought he loved u. He didn’t. love is a responsibility. Love is a choice to give. Love is not sex and sex is not love. Wen sum1 says I love u, sumtyms u shud just act indifferent. Just say ok I am watching. So many tinx 2 say under dx…..

4b U shud have learnt hw to propose. Surprisingly, some guys @ 30 dnt knw hw to propose. Dey r jx soooo fake. Don’t tell stories! Just be plain. Tell d person ur mind. Don’t bring up stories like I saw u in a vision abi dream….lol

5. U must have read at least 30 books. He who doesn’t read is nt beta dan sum1 who cannot read. What’s d difference b/w u and an illiterate if u wud nt read? U shud own a minimum of 30 books of ur own b4 30. That u are very good in sex doesn’t make u a real man/woman. Even mad people have sex n get pregnant. Don’t carry a beautiful face on an empty head. Empty minds attract demselves. Heavy minds attract demselves

6. Before u r 30, u shud have a pastor. U shud have a pastoral covering over ur life Jer 3:15-16 and u dnt choose ur pastor, u discover him.

7. Before u r 30, u shud b known 4 something. Great men r nt knwn 4 evrytin. Dey r knwn 4 specifics

8. Before u r 30 u shud have a mentor. A Japanese adage says better dan a thousand days of diligent search is one day with a great teacher. A mentor is someone who seems 2 ve d creativity, wisdom, ability, patience n d grace to help mould ur life into shape. Dey seem 2 ve gotten 2 where u wna gt 2. Don’t b emotional abt choosing ur mentor esp wen opp is involved.

9. U must learn hw 2 say no without feeling guilty! u cant be a yes yes man all d time

10. U must have conquered procrastination. Time strikes d hour for the brave and for d true. Procrastination is a lazy man’s apology

11. U shud b free 2 use ur mind. Learn to be free from the influence (mentally speaking) of ur peers, parents, tv, social media or people around

12. U shud have a bank account. Stop living from hand to mouth. Have some savings. If u r really serious abt ur future, u shud have more dan one bank acc----designated differently

13. U shud have an investment

14. U must have developed stability of character. Before u r 30, u shud have integrity! Stop ronse! Put ursef under control

15. U shud b able 2 choose ur friends. Nt persons forcing demselves on u. An eagle dt keeps fellowship with vultures cannot fly at its peak. An eagle dt lives with chickens will one day forget hw 2 fly

16. Learn professional dining ethics. Be neat. Don’t carry smelling mouth around. Care about some of dx little things

17. U shud b able 2 define ur vision in one sentence b4 u’r 30

18. U shud learn hw 2 drive a car

19. U shud have d financial ability to feed someone else

20. Before u’r 30, u shud b born again. U shud knw hw 2 love and serve God.
Life is more dan making money and pursuing ur ambitions. What will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and looses his soul.

You must have had a pastor?..I don't get what you mean by someone watching my life...Wetin that one mean..My mouth nko..Abi the pastor na him holy pass??

lovemaths:
liverpool 5 - 1 chelsea

Since I started supporting chelsea..No team has ever won with such wide margin..What are you on?..No joke oooo, before I tamu na ndu!

Smartiegurl:
let's hook up then

Deal?

starlite101:
He struggles to understand the thoughts/intents of anyone just a shade lighter than himself......best to ignore him.

You are one sick girl..Why are you taking this thread to your heart..Chill the f**k out!

Smartiegurl:
I bet you young man......if u meet me, ur gon love light skinned gurls all d days of your life! **winks**

I seriously doubt it smartgurl...You will have to prove me wrong..

voodoo85:
Hes too dark, if id be single i wouldnt go out with him as well

Thank God you are not single..

twerkjack:
light skinned guys irritate me. ȋ̝̊̅̄
Like em slim and dark

Cool..Guess I am just gonna pass..Dark yes, but slim.No way..

Nice thread..I wonder where all of una dey now...Thin air i guess..

Mou should give that 19 year old Nigerian chance to start today..Leave drogba and costa for brenden..

Dorisbest:
Smokers re liable to did young. What is a girl doing with a man dat death is knocking at his door

You are very funny though..It's s habit and very hard to stop,Unless the right girl comes with the right attitude and love..I knew of a guy that's been smoking for like fifteen years now or more but just got married to one lovely girl last two months..It's like a miracle with Arinze, He is no more smoking and looks way fresher than he used to...I think one shouldn't underestimate the power of love..

I am just seeking for peoples opinion and you don dey judge me already..It's a habit that's all I can say..

Hello Nairalanders, How do you guys view guys that smoke in front of their chick when they are in public like let's say when the guy takes the girl out?..I found it ill mannered to smoke in front of my woman when in public unless the girl in question smokes too..We can puff and pass.hehehe... It's kind of disrespectful to me..What do you guys think?

Primrose91:
I don't know, maybe they will say that I should not be online, talking to strangers about how to improve my love life or lack thereof. I posted a picture, I guess anyone can see how hideous I am now...Oh well I will take it down soon.

You are a pretty girl..You look african though!

Primrose91:
Yeah, I mean at this point I just need practice as far as talking to guys. I feel like my interests might not be in the "mainstream". I am afraid to post my picture on this site, what if my family sees it and makes fun of me lol.

What do you mean make fun of you?..You are funny!

If you can't help the one you truly love with financial means in any small way you can when He's in need then It's not love...I am not saying you shouldn't be wise..I am just saying that you should be able to support the one you love in any way you can,It takes time to trust someone you've not met people but I've seen people that met online and later got married..One of my aunty is a living proof..Besides you can upload your photos so we can at least see how you look..That's not too much to ask..

Eva Alordiha

dazzlemee:
Nawa o..its like it is a crime to say your own opinion

Nne how?

StormAngel:
d@ means u hav phobia for light skin......eg. Me

Maybe..I don't know...There is something about dark girls that i can't explain yet...