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20 Things To Do Before You Are 30 by Nobody: 11:23pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
My very first long post on Nairaland 1. Discover yourself It is discovery that enlists you for life not necessarily birth. Life is all about contribution. Discover how you can contribute to life in a definite way. Until then, you are just existing…not living! There are too many guys walking the streets properly dressed with nothing to contribute. Be different! Until you know your gifting, you cannot be a gift to your world 2. Before 30, you must have learnt how to use your gifting to solve problems definitely. D presence of the gifting is nt as important as knowing hw it works. To ascertain whether it is worth ur attention, resources, energy and whether it can engage u for a life time. The treasures in u have d capacity 2 employ ursef 4 a life time. Learn hw 2 build systems around that thing u’r gifted in. learn hw 2 position dem 4 rewards. 3. U must have caught some ideas on how to make money. This point doesn’t need much elaboration. You cannot be 30 and all your hope is in d government to feed u. u shud knw in wat way people shud depend on u cos genuinely or indirectly, u make money from other people’s ignorance 4. You must have known d definition of love. Many young lads are stl misconstrued with d thought of love. Many a times, a guy walks up to u with a smile n softly says to u I Iove u n every strand of ur hair stands straight! U think dt is love. When sum1 says I luv u what does d person mean? Deos he mean I like u? does he mean I want to have sex with u? does he mean u look enchanting? Is he saying u look seductive? LISTEN! You cannot love someone u don’t knw! U cnt love some1 u just met 4 d first time! U can like him/her. U can be attracted but u cannot love someone whose assets and liabilities u cannot define. Because love doesn’t just stop at an emotion. Love is a choice. One reason y we have many jilting(s) is because one day, one of dem realizes meehn! There’s sumtin abt dx guy/lady I cant tolerate. I am nt ready 2 b responsible for this. So, he turns his back and flees. But he thought he liked u wen ur make-up was all intact. Wen ur colours were just perfect for d dinner. But wen d vapour of emotion begins to sublime. When d scales begin 2 fall! wen u really knw what’s up. Dtx wen he bcums very evasive. He thought he loved u. He didn’t. love is a responsibility. Love is a choice to give. Love is not sex and sex is not love. Wen sum1 says I love u, sumtyms u shud just act indifferent. Just say ok I am watching. So many tinx 2 say under dx….. 4b U shud have learnt hw to propose. Surprisingly, some guys @ 30 dnt knw hw to propose. Dey r jx soooo fake. Don’t tell stories! Just be plain. Tell d person ur mind. Don’t bring up stories like I saw u in a vision abi dream….lol 5. U must have read at least 30 books. He who doesn’t read is nt beta dan sum1 who cannot read. What’s d difference b/w u and an illiterate if u wud nt read? U shud own a minimum of 30 books of ur own b4 30. That u are very good in sex doesn’t make u a real man/woman. Even mad people have sex n get pregnant. Don’t carry a beautiful face on an empty head. Empty minds attract demselves. Heavy minds attract demselves 6. Before u r 30, u shud have a pastor. U shud have a pastoral covering over ur life Jer 3:15-16 and u dnt choose ur pastor, u discover him. 7. Before u r 30, u shud b known 4 something. Great men r nt knwn 4 evrytin. Dey r knwn 4 specifics 8. Before u r 30 u shud have a mentor. A Japanese adage says better dan a thousand days of diligent search is one day with a great teacher. A mentor is someone who seems 2 ve d creativity, wisdom, ability, patience n d grace to help mould ur life into shape. Dey seem 2 ve gotten 2 where u wna gt 2. Don’t b emotional abt choosing ur mentor esp wen opp is involved. 9. U must learn hw 2 say no without feeling guilty! u cant be a yes yes man all d time 10. U must have conquered procrastination. Time strikes d hour for the brave and for d true. Procrastination is a lazy man’s apology 11. U shud b free 2 use ur mind. Learn to be free from the influence (mentally speaking) of ur peers, parents, tv, social media or people around 12. U shud have a bank account. Stop living from hand to mouth. Have some savings. If u r really serious abt ur future, u shud have more dan one bank acc----designated differently 13. U shud have an investment 14. U must have developed stability of character. Before u r 30, u shud have integrity! Stop ronse! Put ursef under control 15. U shud b able 2 choose ur friends. Nt persons forcing demselves on u. An eagle dt keeps fellowship with vultures cannot fly at its peak. An eagle dt lives with chickens will one day forget hw 2 fly 16. Learn professional dining ethics. Be neat. Don’t carry smelling mouth around. Care about some of dx little things 17. U shud b able 2 define ur vision in one sentence b4 u’r 30 18. U shud learn hw 2 drive a car 19. U shud have d financial ability to feed someone else 20. Before u’r 30, u shud b born again. U shud knw hw 2 love and serve God. Life is more dan making money and pursuing ur ambitions. What will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and looses his soul. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 20 Things To Do Before You Are 30 by tosyne2much(m): 11:29pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
** correct ** 1 Like |
Re: 20 Things To Do Before You Are 30 by Nobody: 11:31pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
tosyne2much:gbam! As far say u don confirm am......the thread is good to go 1 Like |
Re: 20 Things To Do Before You Are 30 by Nobody: 11:33pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
So on point. 1 Like |
Re: 20 Things To Do Before You Are 30 by Nobody: 11:36pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
I guess this only for guys...because I am 31 and I have done none ..aiii, I have done one - I have bank account. ___so I should swallow 'otapiapia'? 1 Like |
Re: 20 Things To Do Before You Are 30 by Baddestguyp(m): 11:37pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
can someone pls summarize, I can't read this long essay |
Re: 20 Things To Do Before You Are 30 by Baddestguyp(m): 11:38pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie:pls do... |
Re: 20 Things To Do Before You Are 30 by Nobody: 11:40pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
Baddestguyp: lol... Don't worry, very soon you will sign a Prenup that would will all your property to one woman because you didn't read 'a long essay' 1 Like |
Re: 20 Things To Do Before You Are 30 by Anoruo(m): 11:43pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
Brb |
Re: 20 Things To Do Before You Are 30 by Nobody: 11:46pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie:@ bolded →hahahahahahahaaa Its 4 guys n girls tho.... My goodness! U'r 31 n u'r stl looking 24 Seriously its only one u'v done? |
Re: 20 Things To Do Before You Are 30 by Baddestguyp(m): 11:47pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie:na curse? It won't happen, I don't trust women |
Re: 20 Things To Do Before You Are 30 by Nobody: 11:48pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
Baddestguyp:Sheybi u hear d advice wey kachisbarbie give u? |
Re: 20 Things To Do Before You Are 30 by Nobody: 11:50pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
mizzkeji44:same way ur dp is so on point |
Re: 20 Things To Do Before You Are 30 by Baddestguyp(m): 11:52pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
AgapeCharis:dat one no be advice na |
Re: 20 Things To Do Before You Are 30 by Nobody: 11:53pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
Re: 20 Things To Do Before You Are 30 by Nobody: 11:54pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
Baddestguyp:Ok na....dey there |
Re: 20 Things To Do Before You Are 30 by tosyne2much(m): 11:59pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie:Eeeeeehn eeeeehn and you come look like one kind 20yrs old babe ** this lady is just so sweet, if no be say you don marry ehn, I for don use PM kill you ** hehehehehehe |
Re: 20 Things To Do Before You Are 30 by EzePromoe: 12:00am On Nov 10, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie:31? Unbelievable! |
Re: 20 Things To Do Before You Are 30 by Nobody: 12:08am On Nov 10, 2014 |
tosyne2much:Tell us true....since wen u start dey crush on Barbie?? |
Re: 20 Things To Do Before You Are 30 by tosyne2much(m): 12:13am On Nov 10, 2014 |
AgapeCharis, with all honesty, this thread make sense pieces ** thumbs up abeg** |
Re: 20 Things To Do Before You Are 30 by naijaboiy: 12:18am On Nov 10, 2014 |
AgapeCharis:You come dey woman wrapper for your own thread again 1 Like |
Re: 20 Things To Do Before You Are 30 by naijaboiy: 12:22am On Nov 10, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie:Ori mi o |
Re: 20 Things To Do Before You Are 30 by Nobody: 12:22am On Nov 10, 2014 |
tosyne2much:Thank you Sir! naijaboiy: Far from woman wrappering___just appreciating her |
Re: 20 Things To Do Before You Are 30 by tosyne2much(m): 12:22am On Nov 10, 2014 |
naijaboiy:bwahahahahahaha roflwkmd I think say na only me see am.. Na him create this kind sensible thread, na him still dey display the greatest height of woman wrappering 1 Like |
Re: 20 Things To Do Before You Are 30 by bukkyseun(f): 12:22am On Nov 10, 2014 |
Hmmm...... True talk 1 Like |
Re: 20 Things To Do Before You Are 30 by naijaboiy: 12:24am On Nov 10, 2014 |
tosyne2much:No mind am |
Re: 20 Things To Do Before You Are 30 by Nobody: 12:38am On Nov 10, 2014 |
tosyne2much: naijaboiy:make una free me jhr If u were touched by any of d points listed, u cud point dem out n tell ur resolution |
Re: 20 Things To Do Before You Are 30 by LEAFLET(m): 12:54am On Nov 10, 2014 |
AgapeCharis:You must have had a pastor?..I don't get what you mean by someone watching my life...Wetin that one mean..My mouth nko..Abi the pastor na him holy pass?? |
Re: 20 Things To Do Before You Are 30 by Nobody: 1:44am On Nov 10, 2014 |
Thank God am stil 21,I stil have 9yrs to prepare for the coup All I want to do is dethrone the sitting president Of Nigerian by anymeans( election including) |
Re: 20 Things To Do Before You Are 30 by godwinkessi: 5:45am On Nov 10, 2014 |
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Re: 20 Things To Do Before You Are 30 by Nobody: 7:11am On Nov 10, 2014 |
LEAFLET:I'll modify dx post and elaborate later. Dnt have d tym nw to type anything at length GOOD MORNING ALL |
Re: 20 Things To Do Before You Are 30 by adebayour26: 8:23am On Nov 10, 2014 |
Baddestguyp:c'mon, don't be lazy...It's not much, oya read them now |
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