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Business › Re: Which Bank Is The Best For Savings Account In Nigeria? by Leezah(f): 1:06pm On Jun 29, 2020
grin
Firstlady25:
Access do give bonus too
Which bonus?
Business › Re: Which Bank Is The Best For Savings Account In Nigeria? by Leezah(f): 1:02pm On Jun 29, 2020
Very true.
brighttech95:
Stanchart for me, free transfer no monthly maintenance whatever charges downside their branches are few
Sports › Re: Victor Osimhen Wins Best Ligue 1 African Player Of The Year by Leezah(f): 1:00pm On Jun 29, 2020
Eyah, it just unfortunate covid-19 has made us lost jobs
Emmacolinho:
Please Nairalanders I was invited for a job in
Epe tomorrow I beg you all I don't have any
dime for transportation and I stay in the
mainland close to Toll gate. Please if you can
please reach out to a brother I've never been
there before and I learnt that it might cost up to
2k to and fro. This is not my style but I'm left
with no other option as we have not been called
back to resume work since March. I and my
family survive on the daily jobs that I do. Please
help. May we not enter problems that would
require us to come online to do what I've just
done. its very shameful
Business › Re: Which Bank Is The Best For Savings Account In Nigeria? by Leezah(f): 12:57pm On Jun 29, 2020
kponkedenge:
I would say Ecobank, I receive credit alert from them on my savings account despite the fact that I hardly ever use the account.
My most active accounts are in Access bank which I have two accounts there.
I have never ever received any credit alert from Access bank..... Only debit. I was recently debited for the stamp duty charge three times and only credited back twice. I'm still waiting for my N50 balance.
Ecobank rarely debit my account.
THEY ARE JUST TOO USELESS
Business › Re: Which Bank Is The Best For Savings Account In Nigeria? by Leezah(f): 12:55pm On Jun 29, 2020
Trayceey:
None! They're all thieves



Although firstbank paid me 4k on interest capitalized on 1.1m in 30 days. So even if they keep charging me, their interest will cover for it.
grin grin Nigerian banks are just commission and charging outfits.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Updated Vacancies 3.0 '20 by Leezah(f): 12:52pm On Jun 29, 2020
Morning Star Ceramics has established itself as a leading company in the supply and distribution of tiles in Africa representing building manufacturers such as; Prime Nigeria Tiles, Goodwill Ceramics, Nispo Porcelain, Royal Ceramics, Golden Crown, Time Ceramics, BN Ceramics.

We are recruiting to fill the position below:

Job Title: Peachtree Accountant

Location: Lagos

Job Description

Utilize peachtree software to organize financial information
Review incoming and outgoing invoices
Process account payable and receivable
Handle queries relating to account
Maintain financial records.
Skills Set

Proficiency in peachtree and microsoft packages
Critical reasoning skills
Self motivated and detail oriented
Strong interpersonal skills.
Application Closing Date
8th July, 2020.

How to Apply
Interested and qualified candidates should send their CV to: msconline@yahoo.com using the Job Title as the subject of the mail.
Investment › Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by Leezah(f): 12:38pm On Jun 29, 2020
grin grin
ahiboilandgas:
i have visited 4 times ...na language dey spoil show....
Romance › Re: Matured Mind Please. No Insult by Leezah(f): 12:38pm On Jun 29, 2020
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earthrealm:
Proffesoress,
Wehdone o grin
Good job, though
Crime › Re: My Story As A Cult Member........initiation Phase Included... by Leezah(f): 12:37pm On Jun 29, 2020
grin grin grin grin Am a complete Ju, Jewish Judah
iamoyindamola:
which one are you
Crime › Re: My Story As A Cult Member........initiation Phase Included... by Leezah(f):
In addition to the list of female cults include, Temple of Eden,
Frigrates,
Barracudas,
Daughters of Jezebel,
Woman Brassier (brave),
Amazons,
White Angels,
Lady of Rose,
Sisterhood of Darkness,
Golden Daughters,
The Ten wonderful Girls,
White Ladies,
The Royal Queens,
Daughters of the Knight,
Viqueens,
White Pants,
The Amazons and
The Knights of the Aristos. and others. .
OBelz:
You see with the infiltration of cultism into secondary schools, they have become many female cult group. Notable ones are
Black Bra or Black Brassieres or Black Bowls or Black Queens-Ayes
Vice Queen (Vipers)
Red Devil Girls/Red Rose-Pirates
TG Girls (Trigger Girls),
F-Tibi (Future Tibi),
White Angels (JVC – Junior Vikings), 'Whitey’,
Pink Lady (Apache),
Bad Dragon,
BlueQueens/ Birds Eiye
Red Sea- Buccaneers Association of Nigeria (BAN) or Alora Human influence is a powerful social variable that can make or mar a girl’s sense of worth, academic performance, career choices and vulnerabilities.

Many students that belong stated that their parents are too busy for them and do not care about their welfare or academics as long as they are seen attending school. Ify clearly stated that she plans to run away from home because of undue parental pressure on all fronts right from secondary school.

Another student noted that her parents are forcing her to go against her desires. One complained about intimidation from her folks, another complained that her parent have anger issues, and often transfer their aggression on her.

Some complain of lack of money from parents to buy books, many carrying worn bags or wearing torn shoes and designers. A few expressed strong desires for not being able to buy other simple things, like a favorite dress. A few other parental issues like emotional abuse (insults thrown at student constantly), lack of trust, parents’ assumed conclusion that student must be a bad child at school, overburden with excessive house chores, lack of attention, love and care from parents/guardian, and insistent from parents that student must hawk were a number of pressures these make these girl want to belong.

Cultism makes cult students live in fear and are ruled by fear. The fear is as a result of possible attack by rival groups. In their halls of
residence they are afraid, in lecture rooms, library and even while walking along the streets they are afraid. All these lead to loss of concentration
in their studies. Some on their own stop going to lectures because of threat from rival groups.

Some parents have to withdraw their wards from school because of threat from cultists. For some, that may be the end of their schooling. Cultists disrupt normal school activities. In the event of fighting among rival groups or adverse security reports of possible out-break of violence as a result of cult activities.

In 2002, a cultist female student in Delta State University, Abraka, Nigeria, and a girl-friend of a cultist in University of Benin, Nigeria, was killed and hewed into pieces on the instruction of her boy-friend. The offence she committed was that she said she wanted to pull out of the relationship to enable her marry. See my first post about leaving the group.

Delta State University, Abraka, Nigeria, in 2005. A mercenary who was hired from University of Benin, Nigeria, to write a paper for the girl-friend fired gun shots in the examination hall to escape arrest. This led to confusion everywhere. He was later rusticated and cause serous mayhem in school environment.

A case in point is the event which took place at Enugu State University of Science and Technology, Nigeria. Two young men walked into an examination venue and fired gun shots into the air to scare people away. In the confusion which ensued, they got at their target and murdered him in cold blood

Delta State University in Abraka, the activities of secret cult groups resulted in the death of a Principal Assistant Registrar and his wife. Two secret cult groups – the and the Bucaneers were engaged in what appeared like an all-out war.

Students of Delta State University in Abraka, carried out a massive destruction of some parts of the campus on 7th September, 2002. The Vice Chancellor’s lodge was burnt in the process, so also was the department of linguistic building.

On 5th August, 2002 a 300 level economics student was shot and slaughtered at the Dalimore area of Ado-Ekiti, the Capital City of Ekiti State, the source of the crime was traced to cultists. Incidentally the slain student was the only child of his parents.

At the University of Jos in Plateau State, reported that two undergraduates were callously shot dead while they were deeply asleep. This happened when some cultist groups were engaged in a battle of supremacy during the miss “Unijos” competition.

In Edo State, reported that some criminals suspected to be cultists set a house ablaze at 32 Omokaro Street, Benin City when the cultists, after ransacking the house could not find the people they were looking for

Cultists spearhead riots at the slightest complaint. In the process of rioting, they loot school property, burn down buildings, humiliate school authorities, create uncertainty and hardship in the school community and breakdown of law and order. A former Vice Chancellor of Delta State University, Abraka, Nigeria, during a riot was carried in a car boot to Edo State University, Ekpoma, Nigeria, blindfolded. How they were able to get a whole VC.? Your guess is a s good as mine. There is a saying that say EVERY MAN HAS A PRICE

In the event of fighting rival groups, they kill one another. Parents, relations and friends lose loved ones. Parents who had spent all their resources to bring up their children and wards for dependence at old age live the remaining part of their lives unhappy, frustrated and full of regrets.
For those that doubt if there are female cultist https://www.facebook.com/NEO-BLACK-QUEEN-of-Africa-aka-Axe-QueenBlack-Bra-223799758176467/

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Updated Vacancies 3.0 '20 by Leezah(f): 11:58am On Jun 29, 2020
We are recruiting to fill the position below:

Job Title: Web / App Developer

Location: Oyo

Job Summary

An ideal candidate will be developing websites, highly dynamic portals and applications for our projects. He must be willing to learn new skills.
Role Description

From time to time, you will be developing websites, highly dynamic portals and applications for our projects. MCF is a growing firm and hence, we are looking for candidates that are ready to grow with us by learning new skills (e.g UI/UX designs, SEO, AI, etc) and executing projects that cut across many industries. Therefore, we are willing to invest in you by enrolling you for courses in order to learn a vast array of in-demand skills. You are a fresher who just graduated not longer than two years ago and have basic web design skills but you are willing to acquire on-the-job practical experience and even learn new highly demanded digital skills
Qualification

OND, HND or BSC in any course that can be classified under STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering and Mathematics)
Job Requirements:

Must be vast in programming languages such as PHP, ASP, etc
Minimum of 1-year experience building websites and applications
Practical knowledge of SEO and fixing canonical errors is a special advantage
Outstanding writing skills is a special advantage
Must be capable of working remotely and participating in online meetings via Zoom and Skype
Youth Corpers are welcome to apply
Application Closing Date
31st July, 2020.

Method of Application
Interested and qualified candidates should send their Curriculum Vitae and Cover Letter to: hr@mcfedututors.com using the Job Title as subject of the email

Note: Only shortlisted candidates shall be invited for an interview online via Zoom or in our office.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Updated Vacancies 3.0 '20 by Leezah(f): 11:57am On Jun 29, 2020
An International School in Lagos is looking to recruit suitably qualified candidates to fill the positions below:

Job Title: Teacher

Location: Lagos

Job Description
An International School in Lagos is looking for seasoned teachers with a passion for teaching and learning in the following subjects:

A Levels:

IT (Information technology)
Chemistry
English
Biology
History
Economics
French
Art
IGCSE:

ICT
Additional mathematics
Geography
Global perspectives
P.E
Government
CRS
Design Technology
Key Stage 1&2 Teachers:

School Nurse
General Qualifications

Only candidates who have a minimum of 3 years experience in a British curriculum school need apply. Proven track record of success with A levels and IGCSE.
A desire for professional development and learning.
Application Closing Date
7th July, 2020.

Method of Application
Interested and qualified candidates should send their full CV and recent passport photo to: FirstLagosjobs@gmail.com using "Their Name & What they teach" as the subject of the email.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Updated Vacancies 3.0 '20 by Leezah(f): 11:57am On Jun 29, 2020
We are recruiting to fill the position below:

Job Title: Subject Teacher (College)

Location: Abuja

Details
We need subject teachers in the following subjects:

English Language
Mathematics
Physics
Chemistry
Biology
Geography
Agricultural Science
Physical and Health Education
Economics
Civic Education,
Christian Religious Studies
Islamic Religious Studies,
Fine Arts,
Guidance and Counselling.
Qualification / Requirements

Minimum of first degree in Education (B.Ed., B.A (Ed), B.Sc. (Ed), PGDE) in the relevant subjects
TRCN Registration.
IGCSE Certification in the relevant subjects
Must have good knowledge of the British and Nigerian Curriculum.
Must be computer literate (at least at intermediate level)
Not less than five (5) years’ post-qualification teaching experience in a reputable secondary school
Application Closing Date
15th July, 2020.

Method of Application
Interested and qualified candidates should forward their CV and Application Letters to: hrbhs20@gmail.com using the position applied for as subject of email.

Note: Only shortlisted candidates would be contacted.
Properties › Re: Our Tenant Hasn't Paid Rent Since 2018, What Can I Do? by Leezah(f): 11:52am On Jun 29, 2020
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HoliMaree:
This is helpful
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Updated Vacancies 3.0 '20 by Leezah(f): 11:51am On Jun 29, 2020
Cleanergreen Solutions is currently recruiting to fill the position below:

Job Title: Secretary

Location: Rivers

Duties and Responsibilities

Respond to calls, emails, and routine letters, direct inquiries to the appropriate person
Arrange, coordinate, and schedule meetings; prepare meeting documents
File and retrieve corporate documents, records, and reports.
Greet visitors and determine whether they should be given access to specific individuals
Perform general office duties such as ordering supplies, maintaining records management systems, and performing basic bookkeeping work.
Write and distribute routine correspondence
Compile data and prepare reports
Maintain updated contact information for company employees, suppliers, and customers
Requirements and Qualifications

We are looking for an experienced, self-driven, ambitious, competent, and efficient Secretary to support our administrative tasks.
Minimum: Ordinary National Diploma or equivalent
2+ years of experience in a secretarial role preferred
Excellent time management skills and ability to multi-task and prioritize work
Attention to detail and problem-solving skills
Excellent written and verbal communication skills
Strong organizational and planning skills
Proficiency in Microsoft Office. (Word, Excel, Power-Point)
Familiarity with office organization techniques
2 - 5 years relevant experience Skills, Attributes and Technical proficiency: Customer Service.
Only applicants residing around Ada-George Road Port Harcourt, and its environs will be considered.
Application Closing Date
24th June, 2020.

How to Apply
Interested and qualified candidates should send their CV to: cleanergreen@yahoo.com , alekiassociates@gmail.com using the Job Title as subject of email.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Updated Vacancies 3.0 '20 by Leezah(f): 11:50am On Jun 29, 2020
We are expanding our operations and strengthening our already supercharged team by offering opportunity to suitably qualified and highly motivated individuals to fill the position below for the 2020/2021 academic session:

Job Title: Head of Administration

Location: Abuja

Qualifications/ Requirements

Minimum of first degree in Education Administration, Humanities or Social Sciences
Not less than seven (7) years cognate experience in a similar position in a reputable school
Must be computer literate (at least at intermediate level)
Knowledge of School website management and additional professional qualification would be an added advantage.
Application Closing Date
15th July, 2020.

Method of Application
Interested and qualified candidates should forward their CV and Application Letters to: humanresourcesta@gmail.com using the position applied for as subject of email.

Note: Only shortlisted candidates would be contacted.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Updated Vacancies 3.0 '20 by Leezah(f): 11:49am On Jun 29, 2020
A Kingdom Education Nursery, Primary and College in Lekki using the English National Curriculum is currently recruiting to fill the following vacant positions:

1.) Head of School

2.) Director of Studies

3.) Administrator

4.) EYFS/Montessori Teacher

5.) Primary Teacher

6.) Key Stage 1 & 2 Teacher

7.) Key Stage 3 & 4 IGCSE ICT Teacher

8.) Chemistry Teacher

9.) Biology Teacher

10.) Geography/History Teacher

11.) Economics/Business Studies Teacher

12.) English Teacher

13.) Art Teacher

14.) Accountant - with School experience

15.) Facility Manager - with School experience

16.) Personal Assistant - with School experience. - (5 Years minimum experience with proven track record).

General Requirement

Candidates should possess relevant qualifications.
Application Closing Date
7th July, 2020.

How to Apply
Interested and qualified candidates should send their full CV (subject of email will be their name and what they teach) and recent passport photo to: schoolvacancys@gmail.com
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Updated Vacancies 3.0 '20 by Leezah(f): 11:46am On Jun 29, 2020
We are recruiting to fill the position below:

Job Title: Verification Agent

Location: Ibadan, Oyo

Job Description

Reviewing all required documents against preset criteria regarding approval
Verification of expected customer’s addresses
Submission of verified customer’s addresses within the stipulated turnaround time (TAT)
Ensure accurate data on customer addresses verified.
To conduct physical visit to customer’s business and/or residential addresses for verification
Ascertain the authenticity of certain facts
Preparation of verification feedback report upon conclusion of verification.
Responsible for preparing, scanning and validating of documents into verification systems
Carry out other deliverables as assigned by Team Lead.
Job Requirements

B.Sc / HND in related discipline
Proven experience in credit assessment or similar role.
Proficient in Microsoft Office suite.
Sound data analytical skills
Able to work with a team
Commitment to process improvement.
Strong persuasion skills
Strong communication skills, both verbal and written.
Skills Required:

Data analytical skills
Strong communication skills
Good negotiation skills
Strong persuasion skills
Team work
Proficient in the use of Microsoft Excel.
Application Closing Date
26th June, 2020.

How to Apply
Interested and qualified candidates should send their CV to: eosunniran.altara@gmail.com using the Job role and location as the subject of the email.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Updated Vacancies 3.0 '20 by Leezah(f): 11:46am On Jun 29, 2020
A young, growing International school located in a serene environment, conducive for learning in Lokoja is recruiting to fill the position of:

Job Title: Assistant Head of School

Location: Lokoja, Kogi

Job Description / Requirements
The ideal candidate should be resourceful, an achiever and a critical thinker. The interested applicants should possess the following as a minimum:

10 years’ cognate experience out of which 7 years should have been in a similar position in an International School.
A degree in Education.
A team player and should be a person of integrity.
A Teachers Registration Council of Nigeria certificate
Having the following will be an added advantage for the applicant:

An evidence showing computer and IT proficiency
A higher academic qualification degree will be added advantage and must be a team player.
Application Closing Date
15th July, 2020.

Method of Application
Interested and qualified candidates should send their CV to: intlschoolrecruitment@gmail.com using the "Job Title" as the subject of the email.
Crime › Re: My Story As A Cult Member........initiation Phase Included... by Leezah(f): 10:22pm On Jun 26, 2020
OBelz:
They ALL leave a double life. I remember Sassy she was a VERY close friend to Ore. Sassy was a member of BB, cool, calm, collected, devoted fellowship sister & a chorister. She is very intelligent and very smart, but you can NEVER know she was a cultist, has a very gentle disposition.

Rina had a small squabble with Ore, you know ladies with pettiness, this developed into a full open confrontation.

It was Sassy that poisined Ore on the orders of Rina. They say the male counterparts become a beast and hardened when they become a cultist, their female counterparts are the devil themselves.

When the department was mourning her Sassy was the one that cried the most, she was inconsolable and shedding stup!d tears days after she was buried.


Sassy was brutally killed alongside her cultist boyfriend in a HIT.
Lessons to be learnt hereare as follows:

The people who can hurt us the most are those we call friends because they have every detailed information about us.

Curtail information you feed to friends and some acquintamces too because people are not what we think they are.

Learn to give your trust to those who have earned it.
Crime › Re: My Story As A Cult Member........initiation Phase Included... by Leezah(f): 3:56pm On Jun 26, 2020
Hmmmm
QueeenKKfire:
there was this man of God (a Klansman) one of his deacons impregnated a member's daughter. That day I was called by my then CG to come around. As I was entering the compound, I was him and some other men marching out. He told me to join them that we are going out. Just imagine I had to follow them without asking him what we were going to do.

When we reached there, I identified the man immediately because he was putting on a white and black gown. He told us that they were there to settle with the family of the girl, so he called us Incase if the family members start harrasinng them.

About five of our men went inside the compound with the man, while me and one other kman mounted surveillance outside. Listen this period was the period the burnt a student alive for robbery. It hasn't been up to a week.

It wasn't up to five minutes I was one man running with the speed of light with his Bible. We were startled. Next thing we heard noise coming out from the compound. We outside were noticing the noise. Before I knew what was happening the man of God ran outside followed by some of my men.

My TT came with his bike, he drove his bike from the compound and entered the streets. Now the problem was that the road was filled with sand making it hard for the bike to drive faster, plus the bike wasn't sound. Now they main problem was that the family members have started shouting "thief! Thief!!" I was scared but I compoted myself.

As my TT was struggling to drive through the Sandy road with one person at the passenger's seat, the guy that mounted surveillance with ran and jumped on the bike making them three now it was hard for them to drive through. my CG who came out last ran to that same bike and jumped on the tank.lols. the bike offed. At this moment a crowd has gathered, some carrying stones, some with marchets, some with stick.

My CG seeing that the bike has offed jumped down and picked race. As he was running a guy that was passing with his girlfriend saw him and seized him by his shirt and was shouting thief thief. He was saying "oboy I no be thief" the guy didn't want to hear. He had to leave the shirt with him there and ran(oh my precious shirt) the guy still chased after him, fortunately for him the chase and fell flat inside a gutter.

Me I was standing there jejely like I never knew them. By now they have seized TT's bike and he was explaining that he never knew what was happening, infact that the guy that jumped on his bike wanted to steal it from him. Luckily for him the people that seized it were ayes. He had to settle them and take his bike.

We didn't go there with guns TT said we shouldn't because we didn't know this particular area. And the area is even beside a police station.

Some pastors are also cultists.
This man will be on the alter and be echoing 'Ave' with his five fingers up.
The members with responding 'Maria'
SayNoToCultism
Romance › Re: She Stole To Set Up A Business For Me But Now I Cant Imagine Marrying A Thief by Leezah(f): 12:26pm On Jun 24, 2020
angry
Investment › Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by Leezah(f): 8:45am On Jun 23, 2020
DexterousOne:
Lmao
These indians coming here seek expansion into new grounds really

They have succeeded elsewhere most of the times


You cant compare the two

Growing up in Nigeria puts you in what I call the "cesspool of negativity" and that is why we are always on "preservation mode" like you have said

To most Nigerians
It's a daily fight out of poverty
And a fight not to return to poverty


That's why we are all playing safe

I domt know if you get me
Spot On!!!!!!!
Investment › Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by Leezah(f): 8:43am On Jun 23, 2020
Abidjan is cool. The Ivorians are very welcoming.They have a very popular beach located on the outskirts of the town. It’s called Grand Bassam. You can visit there for nice relaxation although they have other clean private beaches.

Take a tour around Cocody, yopougon, Zone 4, Pleateau. Etc.

Always have your valid ID card with people because of random police check. As for the weather, it’s very warm and tropical, as it’s not far from the equator and right on the beach.

If you plan to live in Abidjan, it’s a bustling economic capital where everybody is hustling! Things moves fast in this city, and money is to be made everywhere. This also means it is quite an expensive city, sometimes in par with European prices.
ahiboilandgas:
no wonder the number of europeans staying there
Investment › Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by Leezah(f): 8:41am On Jun 23, 2020
You are right with your submissions. Money rules Nigeria.
DexterousOne:
I have never seen or heard of omo onile issue in Ivory Coast

You buy your house
Pay the requisite taxes and registration fees to the govt

That's it.


I wonder who cursed us in this country


Why our collective mentality as Nigerians is too bad and repulsive undecided
And I'll add destructive too.

I know in Ivory Coast and Tunis
You build strictly according to codes
Failure to do that

Will result in unpalatable consequences


Nigerians on the other hand do anyhow and then complain when estates they buy land in insist they build according to code (I see that complaint a lot on NL)

It just seems Nigerians love doing what they like with no accountability whatsoever

As long as you think you have some money
You think the law does not apply to you again

Shame
Romance › Re: Matured Mind Please. No Insult by Leezah(f): 8:37am On Jun 23, 2020
iykeklef:
Lemme go straight to the point. I've been experiencing wet dream since 2011, wake up sometimes in the morning and boom, my boxer Don wet. Please this thing is really destroying me. Before my sperm was thick but now it's watery. The 3 problem i have now are
1. Having wet dreams
2. Watery sperm
3. I release before 2mins during intercourse.
My brothers please help. God bless
It’s common to equate sexual prowess with sexual stamina — although, amazing-and-short sex is almost always preferable to awful-but-long banging. Most people might not want to admit that they couldn’t make it past the five minute mark, but research shows almost half of men orgasm in two minutes or less.

A 2017 survey by British intimacy gadget retailer Lovehoney found that the average sex session is a manageable 10 minutes (19 if you include pre-intimacy). The good news is that according to research published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, 10 minutes is right in line with how long people want sex to last. According to the study, seven to 13 minutes is a "desirable" length of time to be going at it in the bedroom. But if your sex life feels like a hundred meter dash and you need a 400 meter relay to get off, here are some things you can do to improve your mileage.

1. Have him masturbate beforehand. If you've seen There's Something About Mary, you know that having sex without masturbating is "like going out there with a loaded gun." Ejaculating an hour or two beforehand makes it harder for a man to come quickly. As Dr. Jane Greer, relationship expert and family therapist, puts it, "You can build up arousal again with slow and intimate pre-intimacy with your partner, so the guy's excitement is initially satisfied and he can better pace himself and sync up with his partner's rhythm."

2. Take advantage of men’s refractory period. Who says sex needs to be limited to just one session? This one won’t work for everyone, but marriage therapist Lisa Thomas recommends starting things up again a few minutes after he ejaculates. “Many men experience less sensitivity during the second erection,” Thomas explains. As long as you don’t mind waiting the few minutes (or switching back to pre-intimacy), and he can get it up relatively quickly, you should have better results in round two.

3. Try something new and out of the ordinary in bed. When you've been with the same partner for a while, your routine sex positions can make his body anticipate coming, and thus come a lot sooner. New positions and sensations will distract him and make him last longer. "The more awkward and unfamiliar, the better," says Greer.

4. Try edging. When he's about to orgasm, have him stop and wait about a minute or so before going back at it. Everyone has an orgasmic point of no return, an "ejaculatory inevitability" as sex researcher Dr. Ian Kerner puts it. Edging trains his body to delay that point so he can spend more time on the edge (and more time pleasing you).

5. Squeeze the base of his penis. This is an old one that comes courtesy of sex researchers Masters and Johnson. You can do this with your hand or using a cock ring. It quite literally stops him from ejaculating. Think of it like bending a hose in half to stop the flow of water, but definitely do not bend his penis in half under any circumstances. Just give it a firm grip.

6. Have him do kegels, yoga, and pilates. All of these exercises strengthen the pelvic floor muscles, which help him control orgasm spasms. (And yeah, dudes can do kegels too).

7. Try perpendicular sex positions. This is technically an outercourse position, but it's a way to avoid the most sensitive areas of the penis (specifically, the underside of the head, where a lot of the nerves are located). "Don't actually enter her, but let her glide back and forth along the top of the shaft," says Kerner. Spoon or face each other on your sides, and it can still be enjoyable without making him rush to orgasm.

8. Medicate. In some situations, your partner may want to consider seeing a doctor. A variety of prescriptions are available if premature ejaculation is a serious issue that's negatively affecting your relationship. And while there are over-the-counter supplements that tout their ability to improve a guy’s stamina, your best bet is to go through someone that knows what they’re talking about. Guys can check in with a urologist to see what the issue is and what steps can be taken. And as a general idea, it’s best to avoid supplements you can buy at a gas station.

9. Grab thicker condoms. You should always practice safe sex, so just switch up your condompurchases and instead get your partner something a little thicker (and if for whatever reason you aren’t using condoms, using one will probably dull sensations for him as well as keep you both protected). Keep in mind that it’s still important to make sure you find something that fits right for him. And never double-up on condoms. Double-bagging can lead to issues, like say, losing two condoms in your vagina.
Investment › Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by Leezah(f): 2:56pm On Jun 22, 2020
DexterousOne:
I'd rather invest in real estate in Ivory Coast than anywhere in Nigeria

Especially in Lagos

There is more structure in Ivory Coast in general.

Nigeria needs to wake up ans start doing things right
You have really traveled. The decorum nd the serene environment alone in some other African countries will make you wonder why you a Nigerian.
Romance › Re: What If I Told You Ubunja Is The Greatest Simp On Earth by Leezah(f): 2:54pm On Jun 22, 2020
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Investment › Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by Leezah(f): 1:10pm On Jun 22, 2020
emmanuelewumi:
Very good, don't invest in a small business which you don't understand and you don't have the time to manage yourself except you have highly motivated and trusted employees.

Doing contrary means you want to use the fund invested on the investment on how to learn "how not to loss money in small businesses".

The advice will work very well for an unemployed person.
with small business it very difficult.

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