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BusinessRe: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 12 by LeiderJa: 9:53pm On Aug 11, 2018
Lhimeet:
The only game I staked today.. Celtic destroyed it

And to think that game is still moving absolutely fine..
embarassed
I played without Celtic. Game moving fine but I'll take the cashout now. Send your number for 100 naira airtime jare.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Nairaland Fantasy Premier League 2018/2019 by LeiderJa: 3:45pm On Aug 08, 2018
All codes needed

Hpotter0911@gmail.com
BusinessRe: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 12 by LeiderJa: 7:38am On Aug 04, 2018
RB007:
Yet you begged for funds on Jul 28th..[color=#A912A5] Then you opened a thread that you made 184,000 in July grin cheesy [/color]
VAR grin

RomanceRe: How Do I Improve My Social And Conversation Skills. by LeiderJa(op): 8:07am On Jul 30, 2018
coputa:
Why will you not hate begging when as a student you are given 50 to 60k every other month.I can see that you have some traits of too much self pride.this attitude will scare people from you.Do you know that asking for something from your neighbour is a form of relating with that person,even if he declined.it's not everything you ask from life that it gives to you.
You're like one of those that mistake introversion or quietness for pride. Not cool.
RomanceRe: How Do I Improve My Social And Conversation Skills. by LeiderJa(op): 8:02am On Jul 30, 2018
bayooz:
Thanks to those who have brilliantly contributed to this discussion.
Poor social skills is a serious problem which has to be tackled with utmost sense of urgency.
There are aetiological factors, symptomatology and consequences of the deficit behaviour.
It may be as a result of poor identity formation, poor self esteem, poor social efficacy, low self concept, authoritarian parenting, negatively suppressed past experiences etc.
Such individuals with poor social skills do not go far in life careerwise because of their inability to relate consistently W with people, they remain unmarried or select wrong mates as spouses, they are afraid of negative evaluation or criticism, they suffer mood swings, and enjoy loneliness. They are afraid of travelling or changing jobs as they will likely meet new faces. They are not sure of themselves. Among others.
You need attention of a Counselling or clinical psychologist.
You need to learn how to act scripts. You need coaching and mentoring. You need to patiently seek for a stable friend from your genderfolk before crossing the lane to other side. Don't rush wooing a girl. Be patient to let the relationship evolve. If the girl likes your personality, she will be madly in love with you.
Take time to rehearse most things you think of saying. Expect that your views cannot be correct and valid always. Be bold and confident about life.
This is my humble submission as a behaviour change expert.
Thanks
RomanceRe: How Do I Improve My Social And Conversation Skills. by LeiderJa(op): 1:08am On Jul 30, 2018
MissRaine69:
Everything has a beggining. Time lines are very helpful in helping us piece together aspects of our life that impact on how we relate to people as well as why people relate the way they do to us. Do we say what we mean? How we view ourselves and how the world views us. It’s probably not the same. I don’t think you are anti-social, you are crippled by self doubt, most likely have social anxiety might be on the spectrum by all means that is not a disability in it’s self . What you need to learn is a way of communicating that suits you. Why do you fear rejection so much?
Rejection is bad for me because my brain plays it in so many angles.

I hate asking for things, I hate begging the most. If I actually ask for something and a person says no, I'll feel very terrible and never ask anything from the person again.
RomanceHow Do I Improve My Social And Conversation Skills. by LeiderJa(op): 11:54pm On Jul 29, 2018
"Am I antisocial?", I always wonder.

I mean, I know I have very strong introvert traits and mentality but I'm deeply bothered about my inability to socialise and maintain conversations. I even hardly start conversations and I know I'm lacking.

It's not even that certain characteristic don't favour me. I'm 20 years old, dark, tall, 500L med student.

Even my monthly dough ranges between 40-60k.

I should be alright but I'm not. The closest I was to being in an actual relationship was choked by lack of communication. I hate calling, only texting.

Saying "Hello" to people is like an uphill task to me. I barely have friends except leeches that just wanna suck.

I'm not even a bookworm actually, I try to live the happiest possible way but this is my Achilles heel. The genesis of my problems.


I once had problems that could have been solved by talking to someone or some persons but it evolved to depression and suicidal tendencies. I'm afraid it is starting to happen again, I need help talking.
RomanceRe: . by LeiderJa(op): 1:59am On Jun 30, 2018
I still need this
PhonesRe: Infinix Note 4/4 Pro Official Discussion Thread by LeiderJa: 8:10am On Jun 18, 2018
I'm looking to exchange my note 4 for a note 4 pro.
Technology MarketRe: **PHONE SWAP CENTRE**SWAP IT NOW!!! pin:265DA560 or 08033923897 by LeiderJa: 6:44am On Jun 10, 2018
cokegee:
Redmi note 5 Pro black few month old for sale
4gb 64gb
6inch full screen
4000mah
Sanpdragon 636
Can you swap with infinix note 4, 3 weeks old.
Technology MarketRe: **PHONE SWAP CENTRE**SWAP IT NOW!!! pin:265DA560 or 08033923897 by LeiderJa: 4:27pm On Jun 08, 2018
I want to swap my infinix note 4 with redmi note 5a or infinix note 4 pro.
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by LeiderJa: 5:04am On Jun 02, 2018
hiawathia1981:
I think I understand. The courses and money were just triggers bc there is underlying depression.
What I was asking before was do you have access to a professional or doctor who specializes in depression?
A psychiatrist. He doesn't even know what an existential crisis is.

I met him when I was admitted in hospital and he reports straight to family.
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by LeiderJa: 4:23pm On Jun 01, 2018
hiawathia1981:
Ok. I looked at some of your past threads, are you getting help?

Can I ask what is going on with you. I would like to help if I can.
Nobody really grasps the tenets of an existential crisis. Everybody thinks the cause of the depression was because of school courses or money issues.

I'm gonna get the courses handled and money increased but I feel I may relapse as far as my mind is working and my brain processing stuff.
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by LeiderJa: 12:25pm On Jun 01, 2018
hiawathia1981:
Im sorry, I overlooked your post earlier. Are u ok??
I'm better now.
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by LeiderJa: 11:12am On May 31, 2018
I attempted suicide
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by LeiderJa: 11:01pm On May 27, 2018
Guys, I wanna do the unthinkable.

I usually stay at home and thus missed school a lot and now it's exam time. I'm thinking of how to finish pathology and pharmacology syllabus in 22 days.

Does anyone have formula to mash book that fast?
TV/MoviesRe: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by LeiderJa: 7:44am On May 08, 2018
What are you living for if you haven't seen La casa de papel huh
Christianity EtcRe: Why Am I Seeing Time Synchronicity? by LeiderJa(op): 7:19pm On Apr 29, 2018
Frenzy007:
Bro I've been seeing this since last year july.
Please when you started seein this were u depressed? Or were u feeling suicidal?
These were part of the tins i was xperiencing when started seeing this recurring numbers.
Pls share urs and are still seeing dem.
U can check my topics,i've
made one about this
I still see almost everyday, I also got suicidal. Like very depressed and feeling unproductive.

I saw like 3 or 4 today.
RomanceRe: . by LeiderJa(op): 7:38pm On Apr 27, 2018
Answer
Romance. by LeiderJa(op):
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Music/RadioRe: A Thread for Lovers of EDM by LeiderJa: 9:36am On Apr 23, 2018
I wish they could release Avicii's album that he was working on before death. cry
CelebritiesRe: Swedish DJ Avicii Dies At 28 by LeiderJa: 11:44am On Apr 21, 2018
ZUBzero18:
I doubt if you know what you are saying..Pioneer? You didn't even mention Skrillex..
Avicii revolutionized EDM.
BusinessRe: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 12 by LeiderJa: 3:39pm On Apr 15, 2018
Marcus2:
I want to ask a question, let's say Real Madrid finish fourth on the table in the Spanish league and win the champions league. Will they play the two legged qualifying stage or go straight to the group stage ?
Even if they relegate, Real will go straight to group stages.
BusinessRe: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 12 by LeiderJa: 3:27pm On Apr 15, 2018
mistercharles:
turns to smoke or turns to red cheesy
Be specific so we know if you're talking about bombing Nigeria or alabi wrecking you.
Meanwhile village is not so bad after all grin
You can join arsenal bus
grin

Montpellier don finish me, I know say Arsenal go Bleep up.
BusinessRe: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 12 by LeiderJa: 3:20pm On Apr 15, 2018
I thought I was an elite punter after yesterday's adventures but anything I touch today turns to smoke. cry
Music/RadioRe: A Thread for Lovers of EDM by LeiderJa: 1:31pm On Apr 15, 2018
Elnino4ladies:
Someone should please recommend some dope songs from the Chainsmokers for me
Roses
Setting Fires
Sick Boy
Young
Something just like this
New York City
Paris
Closer
Honest
BusinessRe: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 12 by LeiderJa: 1:29pm On Apr 15, 2018
Bastards.
BusinessRe: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 12 by LeiderJa: 1:22pm On Apr 15, 2018
I will never bet against SPAL 2013 again
BusinessRe: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 12 by LeiderJa: 1:12pm On Apr 15, 2018
undecided

FamilyRe: Are You Burnt Out With No Where To Turn To Or Just Simply Depressed? by LeiderJa: 12:45pm On Apr 14, 2018
I told my mom that I need to see a doctor but she laughed it off.

The thing is that I have 3rd MBBS resit exams in June but I can't even read, I'm just lying down quietly but with my mind in chaos.

Distant relations with family
No friends
No joy


I don't even know how my future will look like after school because I hate the medicine I'm reading.

I could just die uno
BusinessRe: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 12 by LeiderJa: 10:29pm On Apr 11, 2018
Bayern just had to win
BusinessRe: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 12 by LeiderJa: 12:28pm On Apr 10, 2018
Otamendi yellow card.
Barca under 2.5 team goals.
Liverpool 1st half over 1.5

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