lafuria1:



1. Breaking bad

2. 24

3. Game of thrones

4. Person of interest

5. Fringe

6. The blacklist

7. Elementary

8. Prison break

9. Leverage.

10. Sleepy hollow

You should see Scandal. I think it deserves a spot up there

icebebe: yea,in Movies

Onye ara

icebebe: She still av eyes on dat dude I tell u

Where they ever an item at any time?

LyfeJennings:


No homo

U the finest guy on NL.... U a good looking brov

Hey bro, finest would be a bit exaggerated but thanks.
Have a slamming sunday

dhensity:
U studied in harvard bro...see English oo..nd um ya fine . no homo no homooooo!!!

Harvard ties? I'd wish.
Pally I'm just your regular-next-door-stand-up homie. But thanks for your kind thoughts bro

Kinkybraids:

Always well spoken as usual ( please dont my my excessive use of the emoticons... lol I really find them funny and cant write a post without using one unless Iv got my serious face on ) Honestly there was no bait involved ( well i really hope it wasnt implied) but Im sure your person is lovely.

You are too modest...Im sure you get that every day lol. One can never have too many friends so Ill be looking out for you... you make make valid points (Always) . Have a great Saturday

Many thanks, again.
You have a great saturday too (I like using them emoticons too )

finditng:



Look at these two o...you both better quit the fronting and gehn gehn...just hook up already....I can tell he's single....via the long post on a romantic thread.....married dude will most likely not have the time for such long writings outside the business section...#plenty bills...lmao

Lmao.
Pally why you be like this na
Ms Braids nd I are good. We do share certain sentiments evidently, but its nothing deep. She made it clear she has no intention of leaving SA. So that pretty much fried me out . Still, thanks for having my back big bro

Hehe and then this;

Kinkybraids:
lol Very funny. Ill be honest I had a sneak peak at his pro pic and he doesnt meet one of my requirements...He is overly handsome lol...he sounds very smart but his pic gives off the image of being a player but yet again I could be wrong

Kinkybraids:
lol well theres a higher probability that a hansome guy will be a player because he doesnt have to do much to get girls. Ill be honest I think Im just an average woman ...I dont think I can handle the stress of being with a really 'hot' guy that is in demand. lol Yet again i would be doing my children a disservice. The gentleman you mentioned is too 'pretty'... If I were to go for a hansome man Id want a man that looks much older, darker in complexion...like Idris Elba (in my ideal world lol)

To be sure, you are horribly wrong about me. Now I also know that you've indirectly called me out via your subtle posers about my prefrences . Sadly however I won't be taking that bait of discussing my person. Atleast not publicly. There's a good chance that might come off as patronizing, and that'd just ruin everything. Regardless of your misconceptions about me, I'm an open book Ms Braids. Life shouldn't be made anymore complicated than it already is.

Though tacitly implied, I wish to Thank you for your kind words. I feel they were far too generous nd mostly underserving. You should know however that I consider you a woman of many parts, 'Average' is not just one of them. And there is no such thing as a pretty gentleman. Please do not push me to sing your hymns cos we both know they're way better than that of the great Psalmist, David

Too bad the doors have been shut on me on account of some percieved bad boy image, but if I were to remain in your good books on here, then I'd have struck just as much friendship as I'd have ideally wished.

Cheers!

Naetochukwu:
Lol the mgbeke came to feel funky but met her waterloo instead... Lol
How are You?

Was the mgbeke part really necessary?

priscaoge: Mine was once n it will be d last! Tho d dude later came back like a lost sheep but wasn't that lucky anymore The babe dumped him n married his best friend/Colleague maybe that was Y he came back

Married his best friend?
Mehn that's cruel nd can cut any man's life's span by a third. He'll never forget it in yrs to come.
Its always difficult for guys when d girl does d dumping, so you can imagine d excruciating pain that comes with knowing that your 'sweetheart' saw ur best friend more fit a man. Hehe that can kill. That your Ex will question everything in ds life including his own existence

Kinkybraids: Well speaking as a South African Lady who has been with two Nigerian men Id say the thing that they both had in common was that they were very intelligent and driven which are qualities I like. One was extremely confident (borderline cocky... lol which can come off as sexy) and very competitive which always kept on me on my toes ( we were in the same class).

Sexually they were both willing to um... go down south lol which is something most SA most guys are not willing to do... Id say that the Nigerian guy (that I thought I loved...I was naive) was my best lover. He was never selfish, always had something to prove so study sessions were really fun . I think he was very open emotionally which was weird for me since most guys in SA are very closed off...but I liked it.

There is also a generalization that Nigerian men are gifted in size lol... During meal times in university we would often make jokes about who had selected the 'Nigerian Banana' (i.e the Big one) as opposed to the SA one lol... However I think its a misconception

Lastly although the guys I was involved with weren't spenders ( I never demanded anything of them...I dont like to be controlled through money) most SA girls believe that nigerian men are rich and will spend on you. I kinda believe this is true because when I was in high school most of the nigerian men that approached me would first offer to buy me things but I wasn't interested in Nigerian men then.

When I came to University Nigerian guys were a hot topic among SA girls... Most SA girls see Nigerian men as a true African man who will take care of you ( so maybe its a link to how we see our fathers...Im not sure) and I think that movie ' Phat Girls' really promted Nigerian men to the world especially in SA. Since most SA girls are very voluptuous Nigerian men often approach them because of their big booties while some SA men (especially in Joburg) would want you to really slim down.

Having sampled from the honey pot I don't think Id marry a Nigerian man though as their intention with SA women (even the good ones) are not proper...Its just mainly to pass time while they are in SA.

Lol.
That's quite an expose. On sighting this thread, I immediately went after your moniker. Well you didn't just turn up, you delivered in style.
Frankly this intelligent nd detailed piece will come as no suprise to most folks who followed your last thread.
It made an excellent read. Its always fun breaking words with you Ms Braids

ammyluv2002: Very correct

Babe your signature
Omg!

Pictures?
This is why I always blame Mr. President's handlers as been lame, incompetent nd out of their depths.

So Jonathan calls GMB. That's a big deal. Release pictures of the President holding that landline phone, displaying all d emotions of sympathy nd support to d General. Sit back and watch d President's badly needed approval ratings soar, as he will be seen as a true leader who rose above party lines to reach out to number 1 face of opposition in his lowest times. That's maturity. Perception is evrything in ds game

In d act of political scheming nd media spin, you seize every opportunity that comes your way. Shame to Mr President's handlers for not seizing this one

dechandel:

Well its no joke lady
He's actually spot on

Ceasar1: This guy is just clueless. How low can you get Ebele with all the fake smiles?

Bro, he's the President nd the C-in-C of the nations Armed forces.
So yes, it goes with the territory for the President to smile with all his subjects including ones whose idealogies are at complete variance with his.
That's the nature of the job

Nice one.
If its truly your discovery, then why not explore d option of patenting it cos I think its brilliant.
BUT that's only if this is your original work o

DestinedSharon:
I agrees with U that women loves challenges. We unconsciously take it upon Ourselves to refine a crude man. This is because we philosophically believes the word ''all that glitters is not gold''. When a guy is too soft and too good, we see him as ''a wolf in sheep clothings'', we hardly believes in him. You might be the type that hardly have time for women, U do not cheat or flirt around, just a nice guy. Ladies perceives U differently, we logically put it that it's either u ar yet to find another or U ar not really ladies choice so U were being turned down. A once loving lady might just quit U for a more handsome sweet mouthed playboy. Not that her intuition didn't tell her that he isn't good for her, but she'd rather believe ''I can change him''. That is where we go nuts. Some get to succeed, while many get to regret for the rest of their lives.

Spot on!
Had I seen this submission earlier, I would not have bothered with my post above. Thanks for validating my claims with ds.

udemzyudex: lol...always imagining things,and the funny part is no girl will want to marry a guy like that..

Girls don't want a guy who is not challenging, a guy who they can control.when they believe he has given them his powers,it becomes boring and really want to try out new things.

Any girl will think twice before accepting such guy proposal

Yeah I think I agree with you. Women are very unpredictable set of people. They easily get bored with routine; whether its routine love or routine pampering, they just get bored.

With d benefit of hindsight, I've come to learn that women over time prefers to explore further than where they are however sweet nd comfortable their lives may currently be. Women need unassuming nd sometimes unpredictable men most of d time. I once had a GF in university who left a very faithful nd caring partner for me simply because, in her words, he wasn't phenomenal nd challenging. Simply put, she got bored from d tonnes of care. Can you beat that.

My point? There is no quick fix to holding down these daughters of Eve. By default they're designed to not know what they really want when it comes to love nd expectations from love, and that's not me been chauvinistic but just laying dem facts bare.

I still believe in love though. Nice submissions once again Ms Sweetlemon. You have a follower

FIZIK: Mya added: 'I play second to no one, pay my own bills, have my own label, own management company, rely on God only and respect myself & marriage too much for nonsense.

'False rumors are crafted for ratings & numbers. And miserable, unhappy people need someone to judge to deter the attention away from their own misery and feel better about their miserable lives. If they did it to Jesus, they'll do it to anyone. God bless.'

Word for everyone!

Those mighty indelible words were not inspired by flesh nd blood for her tongue to profess but were indeed d works of my Father in heaven.
Truer words have never been spoken brotherly

soonest:
Being a virgin is not that u want to get d best of all men or is it abt copying Mother Theresa, it's a matter of principle and choice. That she's a virgin doesn't mean she will be boring in bed when u guys marry! Dat she's boring now while u guys are trying to make out is because she doesn't want u guys to go too far in d act. Marry her first and u will see the tigress in her. She will be so willing to learn and please.

Hello ma'am. I was about to have a go at you but thought better. You sound pretty confident with ur submissions. I think it has a personal undertone nd I must say I find it quite remarkable. Hopefully with some measure of patience, support nd accomodation, my own tigress will emerge as did you . Thanks for dropping by miss

softandsweet: This has been and will continue to be a controversial issue. Beauty, Beauty Beauty.. The word is overated. The earlier we begin to live for ourselves and not to please the society, the happier and content we will be. Its as if the world is in a competition for societies approval of beauty. Funny enough, every man or womans idea of beauty differs, light skin, ebony skin, chocolate, caramel, gap tooth, slim fit, curvy, straight, hairy, blue eyes, brown eyes, dimples, petite, tall, average height, broad shoulders....... the list goes on and on. Ladies check yourselves, and Guys too..... there is something beautiful about you. The list is endless. The creator doesnt make mistakes. When ee try to be all these things, we loose the essense of beauty and we go out of sync with our places in this world. We should take care of ourselves, of our bodies, but the purpose of doing so shouldn't be for approval for then we will never be content in this ever changing world.

I just gave you your 2nd like. Nice submissions madame

Hangard: I think OLX should try and adopt the use of Escrow services, to eliminate the process of sellers scamming buyers on the site. The system of buyers and sellers meeting each other is cumbersome.

Endorsed.
I hope OLX sees this. I watch their Ads every time on TV and I'm always amazed/disappionted when they keep emhasizing meeting your dealer as one of the steps to closing a deal. That's crazy for God's sake!
You don't need to be an Einstein to know that is a very flawed and retrogressive process not to mention the attendant security risk that goes with meeting people you don't know from anywhere just to close out a deal. Heck that could be you closing out your life! There are sociopaths everywhere.
OLX must dig deeper and sort out these things now. Escrow services comes to mind as a possible solution wherein an account is established by a broker for holding funds on behalf of the broker's principal and some other person until the consummation or termination of a transaction. This ensures that either side in a business deal will always hold d ace until both sides are satisfied with d terms of d biz nd eventually closes it out. Shekina.
Anything short of this, then OLX can kiss their business goodbye becos d complaints are just getting excessive by d day.

Wild fires everywhere, a plane shot down in Ukraine, a land assault ongoing in Gaza, White house on lock down. Perhaps it's not the best time to be on Nairaland.
Crazy day in our world

lynpetra:


We good!

*drops matchet*

Good.
Standby for your yummy ice cream, as promised

lynpetra: OrangeDream u dey dull me,if u no talk in the next few seconds na amadioha go strike ur balls into half

Hey swit what's going on?

As a follower I've been receiving multiple notifications in d last hour that have turned out to be random rants with some dudes.

Get ahold of ds moment nd quit d bickering. Lemme know if a bucket size full ice cream wud be helpful in ds instance so I can have them dispatched to you.

But first you've got to end ds now okay? Are we good?

bisiboom:

Yeah, I've seen worse too.
Eg IPS scholarship test.. .

IPS na die I swear. Weighed on d same scale, UAC was just a piece of cake

evegran: Erm this totally depends on my moods. A guy who is ambitious, intelligent, bold enough to be himself around me and truthful. Most guys wanna act/pretend to be someone else around girls, probably thinking all girls want a perfect man. I don't want a perfect man! The fact that a guy is able to be himself around me and not be too cautious- gets my full attention. Be silly, chew loud, eat a lot, talk dirty, play games, love music, have a good hygiene and please know when to be serious. That's attractive! Smart guys are very attractive, especially cause we can play mind games and Bleep with each other s minds. . Oh having a good physique would make you totally attractive, but having a solid brain would make me wanna keep you.

They don't come any sleek nd natural than this.
I like this submission.

Kinkybraids:

Ok you have caught me out...maybe I am insecure about the future but these insecurities are highlighted even more by societal pressures and as man I dont feel that you can truly experience the full extent of the pressure placed on woman. I know I shouldn't use it as an excuse but I do feel time is running out.

I honestly dont feel R50k is unattainable...Its a bit harder to get but if you are ambitious enough its possible. I want a man who doesnt feel its too unrealistic because he has a vision like I do. Ill be honest maybe I shouldnt have made it the focal point of my requirements but If you want to marry a prospective CA then you should at least earn that because that is just the starting salary. Money aside If my prospective husband is secure enough with himself and I trully love him then I'd be fine with him earning less but he must still be able to take care of me and the family we will make together.

Ok I will admit that I crave that lifestyle because I am not from a rich home and I will not be ashamed to say I want it if I am willing to work for it. I can accept a modest lifestyle but I want to know that I am financially secure.

Yes life isnt black and white but you have to know what you want and what your goals are so where you are in the grey area you have them as a guide.

lol wow you have caught me here...ok I didnt want to give too much info about myself and where I come from because I know what comments were going to follow thereafter.

There is this negative perception about South African women on NL and I didnt want that to cloud and advice given to me. I just wanted pure advice that was unbiased or tainted. I didnt specifically say I wanted to marry a Nigerian man (this was assumed and rightly so) but I just wanted general advice that could be applicable to me (Nigerian or not)... which brings me to say I am not Nigerian ... however my parents are very traditional and a part of man would like to marry a man who is modern but still upholds some traditional African values.
Ps: My intention is not to steal Nigerian men but I strongly believe that Nigeria has kept most of these African values which SA has traded for a western way of living.

If I had mentioned that I was South African the bashing would have been worse and I would have taking nothing from the thread...

Hi ma'am. Sorry I've been busy.

Before I go on, I'd like to on a lighter note request that a trophy similar to that given to d German world cup winning team be extended to me too. I got you singing lady . And that's a lot of song up there I have to say

Going forward, I'll like to thank you for opening up as much as you did. In an ideal world, you should have no quams dating and eventually marrying your dream man. Dating you even with all its 'complications' should be quite easy nd refreshing I reckon. You should have taken complete charge of this situation from your days in school. For me that's d best place to meet like minds

I say ds because you're a woman of considerable character; independent to a degree, roundly smart nd strong willed, extraordinarily attractive to men but yet, oddly enough, sensitive in her feelings. But hey its never late at any time to make hay. If anything its very refreshing to find a woman set such distinct bounderies of her expectations from life. That's dop£ girl. Very dop£.

Also I think I get where you're coming from in terms of your push to get d man earn more money than d woman. Young folks like us might not understand it now, but I do know we will someday. Otherwise that's a recipe for disaster.

Thanks for your excellent compliment/appraisal of Nigerians even though I find some of them excessive and unmerited. Its unfortunate that d rivalry blw SA nd 9ja has just refused to dip, no thanks to d ever ready confrontational positions of both Govts. I was in Rustenburg for d Super Eagles 1/4 finals match against Ivory Coast at d Royal Bafokeng Stadium last year nd went on to stay another 2days in that city. I must say I met really cool nd hospitable friends some of whom I'm stil in touch with. So I think d whole SA/9ja beef is just on paper.

Well what more can I say? Just take care, follow your heart, don't rush your decision. Overall I think you'll do just fine. Like any pure metallic object in a magnetic field, I'm drawn to d explicit brilliance of your submissions. You're obviously of the smart stock.

Goodluck nd keep us posted.

Sadly, None.

Time and again, couples have proved that staying in love for a very long time muchless a life time is practically impossible. With time people who where so inlove always tend to grow apart. The only difference between d ones who file for divorce and the ones who don't is that latter accept to just live like roommates for the remainder of their lives. Go figure OP

OP you need to spring a shocker on him by giving him some space to figure what he wants from life and where he really wants to be. NOTE; keyword here been SPACE = SEPARATION and not DIVORCE. I believe in d preservation of d holy matrimony by every means possible.

That said, you can hardly be fingerred in ds situation. I mean you can't be blamed for his genotype status that annuled whatever plans he had with this other woman. Its just too early in d day for him to start
acting this way towards you.

Take the time out to develop yourself career wise. This could be key to solving this quagmire. Get GMAT, SHL, nd GRE texts, arm yourself nd nail that job. Your miscarriage sad as it is, may be a blessing in disguise. If its possible, sort out your career first before taking in again. I have a feeling his respect nd love for you will shoot thru d roof once he sees you as a partner in d union who can bring a whole to d the table than some pussiee which sadly is only what you can offer at d moment.

That said I think he's been a complete a$$ for making you feel cheap nd secondary to his Ex. But you can't afford to sit your a$$ at a point and whine. The challange of value addition has been thrown at you. This is your moment, seize it!
Whatever happens, we're here for you OP

Leetunechi: I just keeep moving from one friendzone to another..now my close pals calls me zonal director

Bros its just past 9am but this has already made my day
I laff so tey I no sabi when my turn reach to buy fuel. Na so d attendants just dey look me nd my teary eyes like say I don madt. Nice one Director

I find this OP's obsession with hardwork nd ultimately its direct reward of elite status both charming nd sexy. But I'm also disturbed that such a presumed scholar would be this insecure about the future. You smartly tried to explain these insecurities away by disguising them as pressures nd putting them on d society and family. But even those too are also bollocks. We're all under pressure - make no mistake about that..

Also you're R50k demand from prospective suitors is not unattainable but its also not entirely smart placing it ahead of your goal. Makes the whole thing look like some bilateral contract negotiation.

The truth is you crave an elite lifestyle with your future spouse because you feel you've worked hard to get to where you are and consequently can't accept anything less. That is fair enough. But you should atleast be honest enough to admit that.

Also you've made it clear you're no Mary mother of God. That's bold nd commendable. It also places you in proper perspective as a liberal. If I had my way I personally would not wish to marry one sef. Now as a liberal you should be flexible too in your expectations from from life generally cos with age, I have come to learn that life is not really divided in black and white but in shades of grays and white.

Anyway if one where to put a lock on those coordinates in d profile you reeled out up there, a couple of smart friends (all under 29) returns as search results. But these are boys who will not trade Lagos for ANY place in d world.

So Miss kinkybraids, the question here is why SA? What's in SA? Where you born there? Are you even Nigerian?

Ohh damn. OP's don sign out already