Idowuogbo:
I believe you...Ugly Bois b hating on you since 1960

Abeg rota me in for the lunch date o...Imma show up with my bff shoefreak.

For real?! That should be some fun oo. Would relish putting a face to d legendary Idowuogbo
Hope you're as expressive in real life as you are here. Hehe will be taking lota notes then . Hopefully Teeo will get on board soon nd we'd lock it in

cococandy: I believe you.
don't mind teeo
Erm are you single? I've a sister

Thanks dear. In d strictest sense I'm single, but I do have ds committment that'd hopefully alter my status soon

teeo:

Ogbeni no dey lie na. some of us get FBI for house. If you know whats good for you, better remove that picture wey you steal for internet, delete your account sharp sharp. No sugar mummy for this place oo. You hear, i no go talk pass that one.

Well that escalated quickly.

Ogbeni you dey vex o.
Well you're not d first to have a-go at my handle's integrity. Some girl in a particular thread was (check my posts for that convo history). However yours had d most audacity nd indeed most saddening.
On this section I've seen some of your posts nd most d times they exude a lot of brilliance. Which is sad because your submissioon above is everything but brilliant. You felt so strongly about your case that you left no margin at all for error. Wise people don't do that and that's where I'm going to get you schooled. Heck, you even went on to 'encourage' me to delete my account. Haba na, that's Cyber bulling bros.

I don't know who you've running point with lately but not everyone's a fraud as you'll soon find out.
My looks have never at any time been my selling point but since you've made it your business, let's have lunch tomorrow in any place of your choice within Lagos met (island or mainl'd) so we can put d integrity issue to rest.
I'll subsequently pull down that dp as its come with fair share of inuendos that where not d original intention. But that would be after you're done with d FBI role 2mro. Who knows we could be good friends after ds. But your gestapo styled assault on my handle has got us off to a very rough start. That I won't forget

Kindly pm me for my details.
Cheers

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Ogbeni no dey lie na. some of us get FBI for house. If you know whats good for you, better remove that picture wey you steal for internet, delete your account sharp sharp. No sugar mummy for this place oo. You hear, i no go talk pass that one.

I dey always wonder wetin ds fun room mean as I keep getting updates from ds freaking shoefreak (I dey follow am)
Usually I just skip such updates from her but today I spared a sec & here I am, completely sold!
Okay here we go;

I'm an Engr (but according to sis, baby Engr ), 25, single but pretty much sorted, lives nd works in Lagos ( Èkó ò ní bàjé oooo!), and d last in a family of 5 but the IG of my 4 elder sisters. I'm of mixed race, but I like it better here in 9ja walahi

Enjoys chilling with friends n family especially when they're on gear n ready to groove....
Acts like he's slow & quiet...u can't tell when HE gets IN & OUT out of ya. Neither do you wana hear, muchless what you'd see when you get on his bad side (... Okay that was supposed to be a secret).
Enjoys seeing people around him happy & comfortable...

Well it sure takes a life time to get to know all about me cos the earth revolves & so do i....Don't expect to see an MLA format 5 paragraph essay talking about me...it does'nt work like that cos they'll be a write up for a given time...Talk to me & i'll talk back...that's definitely a good way to sTaRt...

Sh1t! O boy you too talk abeg Guys make una no vex abeg, na mouth diarrhoea dey worry me sometimes. Keep d thread going people; I loooove it here
Now back to reading from page 2

Vessi:
love the green,beautiful eyes

Bros I bow for how una dey use sniff out these 'f' handles oh
Most times when I read comments I just digest d contents nd dash. Comments like yours na wetin dey make me realise say d handle sef get 'f'.
Now thanks to you I had to go back one page to check out d green eyes

Happy feast day good friends

Missed this morning's mass
Hope to make Sangotedo's 6pm Regina Pacis mass though

Woww quite a family in here
Thanks SaIC for the link you dropped on d thread on FP. God willing, I'll will be dropping in more often when disposed.

Happy feast of Assumption day to us all

likita27: dunce like you, Reagan was president of US. in 68,olodo, get a grip of the situation before opening your mouth exposing your ignorance

Hmmm...so your first post on Nairaland was to call me a dunce? Way to go man!
Anyway thanks for pointing out d mix-up with d dates; correction subsequently effected. Hopefully you'd now calm down ds time to absorb d point I was trying to make earlier.

Welcome to Nairaland kiddo

phantom: jonathan is an i.mbecile. i ve just confirmed it. dude is r.etarded honestly!!

the only president in the world to sack his doctors.... in the face of a medical emergency......laughable!!!

Mumu.
In '81, President Ronald Reagan sacked all aviation workers in d country when they got greedy nd where always striking like NMA nd the likes making outrageoous demand each time. That led to d eventual demise of that union
The Professional Air Traffic Controllers Organization (PATCO) and was considered as one of the most important events in late twentieth century U.S. labor history.
So now tell me; who's r.etarded blw you nd the President? Who's the imbec.ile?

This is just one of several precedents where elected leaders have taken ' painful but considered steps' to save their administration from perpetual castration from reckless unions with obvious vested political interests.

Next time do your homework before running to come spew trash on an elected President

aisha2:

My sister, me I was even thinking I was over reacting but I put myself in the guys shoe just imagine.

Poster, I said it before work on yourself, the more I read the more I notice:

1. You feel entitled to certain things not caring how the other person feels. (Why wouldnt he acknowledge me even though I was unsupportive but still he should have acknowledged me)

2. You feel justified ( He must have seen something good in me to come back)

3. You dont seem to understand clearly when you are wrong and keep pushing other peoples buttons even when they say stop (I felt it was business as usual till he stopped picking my calls)

We all learn and grow, but one cannot learn till they open their minds and hearts to the wants and needs of others.

Am sorry if you think you are justified in getting upset over something you clearly didnt earn then you still havent learned.

You are NOT entitled to benefits, You EARN them, this you didnt earn, work hard next time and earn an acknowledgement, its not automatic

Solid...
I wish most women would see ds submission and try to play by it.

Trust, affection, loyalty and ultimately love are all earned thru unwavering committment, unalloyed support, nd sheer sacrifice. These offshoots of labour nd hardwork have not and has never been served on a platter. Our women must come around this reality nd make necessary adjustments. I'm thrilled a woman made this salient observation. This is 2014 pls

Nice one aisha. Kudos

jideomowunmi: Maybe he is gay...cos just like d way he feels Hot too is d same way you feel Hot as well...maybe u shud get a vibrator cos I don't advice extra marital affairs.... ...I can't even imagine a guy not being able to give me a head...girl u missing out oooo...

jideomowunmi:


U sound more like u talking from experience.... ...talk to me..

I read. Alot. Its the shortest route to acquiring knowledge nd wisdom.

You should try that more often

jideomowunmi: Na inferiority complex dey worry dem...ain't norrin wrong wit ur babe having so much money dan u...if a guy be thinking like dat..he is an enemy of progress...

Then you're clearly not old enough.
Its a recipe for disaster. For the first 10yrs, the understanding from abinitio will try to hold, but from 10yrs nd upwards, its all magic, esp if d man have unsuccessfully tried nd failed to bridge d disparity in income within that time frame.
Needless to say, its also one of d active indicators of infidelity among blue collar women. They're always drawn to elite status of men their age nd class (mostly colleagues at work) whom they consider 'smart' nd 'more a man' than what they have at home.
So there goes the problem Ms. If you were planning on it, ditch it. Despite its best intentions nd promises, time always runs out on this kind of marital structures.

glitest:



I questioned your pics, cos most guys & some ladies tend to download a stranger's pics, with the intention of passing it as their own...Its called been cat fished.


Now that we've gotten that out of the way....I would say I'm sorry.

Are you cute?....Very; but I wasn't trying to ask you out...Besides"I am not into guys behinds....I've got mine...In fact, i think it should be the other way around ".

No offence cupcake....Although you are cute, but I go for the Simon Baker or Morris Chestnut type of guys....If you know what I mean....# That wasn't a dig #.
Happy Sunday Mr Lenzz.

Okay. Appology accepted.
I'm equally sorry if my rebuttal came out too strong, had to halt your barging on its tracks.

Well I did profile you following our run-in nd I didn't see any 'behind' to ogle at. So get it sorted

No offence taken in your choice of men. But d last time someone told me she digs dark complexioned men more, I made it my personal moon walk to turn that confidence on its head. Needless to say, it was a resoundn success . So I'd suggest you thread carefully here nd be mindful of d fire you're stoking young lady

You take care miss. Nice bump in if you ask me. Cheers

1miccza:

Padi e I mean those other dudes have photoshopped pics you are a natural and if your pix are photoshopped you're gonna be da bomb.. Me wey dey talk I nor get picture talk less of snapping one.. All my time dey end for paper chasing ni ooo

Haha
Aite bro, Oluwa bless that hustle of yours.
Have a nice sunday man

1miccza:

Bros you too much!!Aunty Idowu kan wa fe yo ese e si it gbangba sa ni!!!! But you can be better those pics are photoshopped...

Pally na wa for you oo. Which guy get time to photoshop pics. Na dulling na
What you have up there happens to be my favourite selfie. Normally I don't do too well with selfies but somehow that one turned out to be an incredible exception. That's d truth

glitest:


Hmmm!!....Are you sure that is your pics, or someone else's pics you downloaded online?...Your behind ain't Nigerian not even mixed....*Looks @ hair and beard*
Something ain't right.

May I ask to what end will ds serve me?
And while you're at it, why not just go ahead and ask me out on a date swithrt, that should put some of your doubts to rest atleast, plus you get to see the 'awesome' behind!
Don't know who you've been rolling with lately, but not everyone's a fraud dear.
Thanks for d compliments too. I suppose that was your earlier intention. But if you must know, I'm of mixed race. So you're welcome to take your CSI elsewhere.
Have a lovely sunday Ms glitest

Haha
Someone's trying hard to be Joey Greco of Cheaters. Try harder bro, you're almost there
Anyway, these things happen. Its d highest form of betrayal a man can ever get. Your sanity will never be d same till you die.
Stay very far away from your paddie's chick guys. With d benefit of hindsight I've come to realize that these daughters of eve for some strange reasons almost always aim for d grass on d other side. Guess its not unconnected with d assumption that its always greener on d other side.

It never ends well for all d actors in that triangle

Idowuogbo:
Regular ke? With u up there looking like peaches and cream? how dare you degrade yourself? I 'wee' e-slap u if try that nonsense again u are fioooooone! Deal with it!

What can I say.
Thanks swit!

cococandy: First thing you should finalize your divorce with you wife.
has the custody of your daughter been decided? You guys need to agree on that so that whoever you marry next won't have problems about that.
Close one chapter before opening the other.


True the girl is too young. All the goodness you're seeing may be as result of carried over master-servant mindset that she's been relating to you with. She's yet to discover herself,so how are you sure she's the ideal wife you've been longing for?
I fault you for taking the virginity of an 18yr old girl. What were you thinking?

Anyway the deed is done. If you want to marry her and if she and her family agrees,then sort things out with your first wife and move on with your life.

The age barrier can work in your favour because some women relate better with guys much older than them.
It can also work against you if you become too domineering and controlling.

Just know that if you marry her now,you'll also play the role of daddy in her life because her higher education will be on you.
Between now and when she grows into a full woman say 23-28yrs,you'll notice HUGE changes. She's still growing.

Just thread carefully.

What OP did does not sit well with me. He can justify his actions all he wants but it won't eclipse d truth which is, he manipulated d tender mind of a minor. She'll still leave him before her late 20's, that I'm sure of. So he had better jettison any marriage plans with ds kid, cos soon, she'll come of age and she will 'see the light'.
I propose he moves to limit d damage by terminating d illicit rlship, continue his guardian role for ds kid, see her thru college and at d end of this, if she's still hell bent on becoming his wife then there's no stoping him this time. Otherwise na master-slave rlship their two get

PS; I quoted you instead of the OP's cos I find your submission above unbiased, honest, intelligent and compassionate. I liked it. But I just don't like d guts of d man they were intended for.

Idowuogbo: No doubts hin fresh, but our in-house celebrity set pass am. Yea, u heard me right, forumites can pass for celebrities too. So i present to u Lenzz bobo Too fresh...

https://www.nairaland.com/lenzz

Aunty Idowu thanks for d endorsement. But pegging me along side those bros 'em is a joke taken too far. I'm just your regular next-door-stand-up guy wey dey use Pears lotion as cream oh
Hope you good?
Thanks again nd have a cracking weekend

Kai this is a whole shade of pain.
Though this thread is over a year, I could very well connect with the raw pain this OP must have gone through and perhaps is still going through. This is because I have an uncle [just 44] who is also at the same threshold at this time. He recently moved in with me, 3weeks ago precisely leaving his wife to his dup house while kids are in SA on vacation. Moved in with me to limit the damage from spreading to the ears of family nd friends while allowing time for their trial separation.

For some strange reason, infidelity on the part of the woman is always very difficult to accept. This may not be unconnected with the belief that while men cheat just for thrill, women can't do same without caring nd ultimately falling for the person they're cheating with. There lies the dagger people nd that's the case with this OP and sadly, my dear uncle.

I do hope to get some perspective on women cheats someday and will definitely share it here for posterity.
I can only hope this OP got the closure he so desperately sought. But from a witness [having been my uncle's crying shoulder these past 3weeks] stand point, I can confirm this is no mean deal. Its a lot of hurt. So tey me don dey fear women and marriage

PiperAlpha:
Impressive!! I wish to work offshore too one day.

Lol. Like Dave pointed out, your moniker is a contradition to your comment above. PiperAlpha was an offshore platform in Aberdeen Scotland where d worst oil rig disaster in history occurred, I think sometime in d fall of '89. I recall researching on it during oil pollution nd control class in my futo days.

Nice inputs all. @ocman, excellent nd articulate summary you put up there. That line 'one more night' got me thinking. Its an in-house joke I thought were only exclusive with folks I do shifts with. Nice to know we're not alone.

audreybrian:
I dont think i can do that.i just want to break up with him peacefully.Am in love with someone else.

You brought this on yourself. Fix it

Alexgeneration: Report the matter to the police

So bros na wetin you get to contribute for this matter be this? Kaii nairaland

icebebe: onye beribe