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Decker:
How many times will I tell you that I don't hate you. I love shy, fragile, kittens.

Here we go again.

Decker:
No we wouldn't. Why would you think so?

We hate each other obviously.

Decker:
Leriebloom and I. We would make a perfect couple.

We would kill each other.

LegatusGlaber:
Long distance dating is not for the faint hearted my sis. I commend your courage for doing it and you are stronger.

But given the chance, will you still give it a shot?

Yes,i will.

LegatusGlaber:
Op! what's your story

It is was mostly abt distance and other minor issues,was ready to take the risk and make it work,he wasnt yet he still wanted me. Quite confusing. I couldnt force it so i left it.

Decker:
Please, go easy on leriebloom, she is as fragile as a little kitten.
I am the only one that has the right to make her feel bad.

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True love is never gone. It lives in your mind until your last breath, even though you may have sealed it up and put it away. - Moved on to another. Instead of feeling sad, feel grateful that you once had that incredible connection. Many never experience it-the high of a romantic love. What's meant to be together will be together. If not, remember the great times, but focus on the wonderful experiences life has to offer in the future. You have to face facts. It didn't work because it takes two people who want to be together. It didn't work because at least one person didn't want it to. Yet the fantastic memories will remain.

Decker:
Are you afraid to reply me? I don't bite you know.
Or are you still a scared little kitten?

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It doesnt, never did.

Decker:
Leriebloom, I knew I would find you on a thread about make-up.

I see you changed your dp again. Lol.

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Bride price doesnt cost a thing where i com 4rm. A woman's life is priceless,the woman isnt being sold. The guy wld be asked to bring something,when he eventually comes to pay,his money wld b returned bck to him,i dnt see why bride price should cost alot.

johnsonsegxy:
ooh! oh!! Sorry. OK you strike a resemblance with one of my niece tho. HRU BTW?

OK. M gud

johnsonsegxy:
But you know you don't have to right? An eye for an eye...... And most people behind the internet are not what you might think they are. The best way is to ignore em. Thanks for recognizing my effort anyway. Nice meeting with u... You don't even ask why I'd refer you to Adesewa in the first place

I asked. u said my blood was hot.

johnsonsegxy:
The way you reply people on here. I can't bet it is same way you do in real life. God help u.

Most people i gave a snarky reply gave me one first, but tnks for d psychoanalysis anyways

johnsonsegxy:
Yes na. Ya blood is too hot.

why do u say?

Samsonklin:
That is how it is done in Brazil... No love making, just eating and gisting till when it's late... I drop her off @her place

Not every guy thinks lik dat.

nevi12:
Having mouth odour is rilli terrible,buh den how do people end up with mouth odour even worse how do u tell dem dat dey have mouth odour ......wnt d person feel bad?? Wont he/she feel embarrassed to talk to u again.....
Pls i need matured responses..

This thread reminds me of a girl i used to know in secondary school days. She had d most terrible mouth odour and she loved talking in my face, i rly didnt knw hw to tell her,she was so small and i just cldnt b d one hurting her feelings. I never told her about her mouth odour,and i still feel guilty. Its much better to tell the person,it might hurt but he/she is finding it out from a friend not an outsider.

Sharoniah:
don't mind these long-throat guys here commenting

The guys here are only trying to see it from their own light,i guess its best to throw more reasons why a girl wld want to meet someplace other than their ouz.

eatwell423:
You are absolutely right. Vast majority of the girls all follow this bandwagon of eatery. Can't we meet at a park and talk? If I take you out I expect we split the bills. Even couples split bill here in US. Most guys don't have the finance to take a lady out and spend that much money trying to impress them. I'm such a lucky idiot not being in such situation where I'll have to start inviting a girl out just to impress her. I'm not inviting her to my house either. We will meet at the park since they lack the wisdom of bill splitting

Lolz

eatwell423:
In this trash US where I reside, we split bills when we go out on a date. But in Nigeria, those hungry girls will crave for take away, most cases invite friends. I was took one out back in Nigeria, not even considering the fact that she came with her friend, but damn its public place what other protection does she need? Asked her what she'll like to drink, she replied Red Bull. Where the hell was she coming from that would warrant such energy booster

You wont use one girl to compare all Nigerian girls. True,some Niger girls are fond of tagging along wit frnds when going out bt nt all. Som girls are innocently trying to avoid trouble. I know of som1 who went to visit a guy innocently for d first time only for her to get abused. I rly dunno y guys avnt even tried reasoning mayb the girl is only sheilding herself from the inevitable.

pirazo:
Just the way you ladies always prefer to meet at the eateries (at the expense of the guys pocket) is more than boring to guys too. Can't we meet at the field,take a stroll and other public places other than eateries? Come to my house does nt necessarily mean u are coming to have sex, ladies hide behind dat excuse al the time

U rly are talking some sense. Taking a stroll,walking in the fields and other public places isnt a bad idea. But the coming to my ouz movement i dnt think so, (not in all cases anyway), u wont blame niger gals for thinking otherwise. For a first date,nah. We v heard so many stories,not all guys are holy(if u knw wat i mean),so there is no need repeating people's mistakes.

johnsonsegxy:
how far Adesewa? Easy with these guys o.

Adesewa??

Johnsown1:
i like u dear for this wonderful comment,thank u such much for making such comment and pls keep that always in ur day always.
That is how a relationship should go nt like some of these gold diggers here in NL.

Tnk u

MRBrownJ:
but how can you put your "ambitions" above the word of the Lord? how could you refuse a man that was God sent?!

so if tomorrow you get to church and your pastor tells you that God has spoken to him and he has chosen a God fearing beggar as your husband... you will say:"No thank you, this man aint ambitious enough for me".... ?!

Never said so

MRBrownJ:
thats what i will tell any sister of mine who calls herself "God fearing", because you certainly cant serve tw Gods.... as i said, no condition is permanent and you cant possibly judge a beggar, simply because at that particular moment, he is down on his luck.

Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said, "Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you." Hebrews 13:5

I am only being realistic. I dnt love money,i dnt hate it either. I just dont see myself with a person without an ambition coz i m ambitous.

Decker:
There is no hate in my blood, just blood cells.

Who says you are my victim?
By the way, In the predator-victim game, the victim doesn't get to choose.

You see why I said you are weak, you are already playing the victim and pleading. That's what weaklings do.

Weakling!

I am ending this,wont be giving u a reply any further, av a nice day sweetie

MRBrownJ:
as they say:"God has a plan for you" so never go against God's wishes, he may be only testing you... so next time a beggar is chatting you up in a street corner, dont shut him down, because it may be a test from the big man above.

whats the point of asking God to send you a "good" man, if you cant see these men for what/who they are (and instead evaluating them solely for how much they have)?

MrBrownJ, i bliv u got a sister or a female cousin. Would u rly advice her to marry a beggar?. I m not putting a rich man as my top priority, only saying i want a man who is heading somewhere in life, someone who is ambitous and has a future but not an already made man. Is that a crime?

Decker:
At least dogs are strong and ruthless, but cats are weak and easy to deal with. You could just pick up a cat and swing it across your yard, but you can't try that with a dog.

That's why you have the phrase; scared cat, because cats are naturally fearful animals.

Guy i giv u hand. U like argument sha. pls dont let the hate in your blood overtake u, plus m tired of being ur victim find ur next victim.

Decker:
You are wrong. Actually I like you, you remind me of my sister's little cat. Silly little cat it was.

And u remind me of a dog we once had. A stubborn persistent dog he was.

Decker:
So are you going to change this dp like you did the other two?

You should learn to be a lion and not a sheep. Lions believe in themselves and they are strong, sheeps are weak.

Why would dat be ur business. I dont like you,i hate ur guts,u hate mine. Lets end this,pretend like never posted on my wall. No more snarky comments pls.

Decker:
Lol.

And what's your definition of wisely? Huh? Thanks for going through my posts, I feel honored.

And take your advice too, life is too short, give your face some breathing space, instead of suffocating it with too much make-up.

Also, it seems you are easily hurt. That's not good, see, you have to be a strong woman. Don't let words get to you. Take the positives and live out the negatives, that way you'd live longer and enjoy your "short" life.

Here we go again.

Decker:
Oh did I hurt your feelings? Sorry hunny, I was just tryna be honest.

Lol. No I am not, and even if I was, do you expect me to say yes?

But seriously, you have a gorgeous face, there is no need for too much make-up.

No u made me smile. QUESTION!!!
I av gone through ur posts and i av seen ur snarky comments,so i knw i m nt d only one. I just av a little advice for u. "Life is too short,live it wisely"