₦airaland Forum

Good. Sensitization needs to continue to ward off deterrents and offenders.

Mine was okada, Ikeja under bridge, June 14, 2021. Had ankle dislocation, it took the Grace of God to survive after close to 4 months on crutches. The aboki was driving against traffic, I had just alighted from Keke coming from Opebi. Strange day!!!

There's no sympathy here, once you're a one way offender and had been apprehended, they should face the law.

Congratulations Peter Obi if going by the latest ANAP polls. https://www.nairaland.com/7334090/2023-poll-shows-peter-obi

History beckons.

And una say Oyinbo no dey do ritual?

NoToPile:
Lool, he didn't make a plan of how to share the taking care of the home, cooking, cleaning, babysitting?

It comes with a huge price

No mind am

emmaodet:
This is no problem.
Modern problems require modern solutions.
There are many options in the dating market now and one of which is just to get a babymama to give you a baby while you agree to take the baby from her and raise.
A good example is me. I will gladly take 2 kids and either give to my parents to raise or my aunt.
Believe me, a 50k per month to them will make them be more than willing to take and raise this kids.
Just for feeding them. School fees and clothing and medical bills is on me.
My aunty will take it gladly. Extra (0k per month
Another option is to just hire a full house nanny for 35k per month for looking over them while I go to work.
Believe me, it is far cheaper to raise kids like this than a woman as wife being with you. That bill can go more than 100k and won’t still be enough.
Nobody should call me out abeg because we have far more single mothers, career women in nigeria and UK/US/Canada etc and heaven didn’t fall.
When a man wants to live his life without a wife being part of it then he’ll will want to fall.

No child deserves to be raised without both parents being in the picture. I believe you were not raised that way? Even if you were, it doesn't make it proper.

Qtrpst4:
Look at the rubbish you typed. How many men are asking ladies to bring their money? How many of you ladies even have money to bring? Apart from sex, what do you guys really bring to the table? Now you want to make it sound as if it is the men that first asked the ladies to bring there money


If you don't drop this nonsense, see you be coming an evening newspaper

Feminism is a curse even to the white that invented it

Comrade dey calm down na

If men are demanding for ladies helping in financially, then the men too must help out in their daily chores. During our father's time, none of these came to the fore. Maybe because then, their earning power was low but the buying power was high. The Naira was good, so no matter how little you earn, the purchasing power is high, and remember most of our mothers were full time house wives.

If a husband in these day and time is earning 70k and the wife is earning 60k, he would definitely want her to help financially. The purchasing power of the Naira has reduced drastically through the years.

Also our ladies want to work and be in the same time house wives, which isn't bad, but it comes with a cost. If you've gone out since morning and come home, after cooking, you're tired. If you don't have house help, who will do the dishes?

Ebubu:
some men are beasts but na women dey put cameroon pepper for househelp vagina because she dey frolick with boys, and use iron to press her laps or back as a form of punishment.

tell househelp she won’t eat dinner or fast for one day as punishment

should i go on ?

abeggi

if women were stronger than men they would do worsee, if women were in men shoes they would do worseee, you hardly see man punishing househelp gruesomely, many even hold the wife back from punishing househelp gruesomely but look at househelp because you feel you’re stronger than her, look at how most of you treat her.

if you want to read any househelp news just open daily sun page 3 every tuesday

Hmmmm true talk, God help the female gender.

Rozross:
The problems started when modern men began to demand that women should provide as well. Switching gender roles comes with it’s price and that is what we are reading here now.

I agree totally with you. A lady friend called me and asked me that her fiance said before they get married they should agree on financial roles. He would pay for food, house rent while she pays for school fees and some other things. She asked me that is it right? I said no, it isn't.

So these modern switching of roles comes with a price definitely.

Ebubu:
why will you invade a home to tell all men how they will run their home ?

authoritarian much

I wonder oo. Thou they found out that because of the lack of help there is an increase in the rate of gender violence.

Let's be factual some men are beasts

Rozross:
I don’t support this but won’t joke with him on making provisions and providing security

Abi. Everyone should know their boundaries and responsibilities. It's just that the new generation ladies are screaming for help.

By Florence Onuegbu

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The Lagos State Domestic and Sexual Violence Agency (DSVA) on Wednesday urged the male gender to assist in house chores, for the good of the family.

The Executive Secretary, DSVA, Mrs Lola Vivour-Adeniyi, gave the advice at Katangowa Market, during an advocacy against Sexual and Gender Based Violence (SGBV), tagged: Men Wey Sabi.

Some women have died because they did not cook for their spouses, some women are being victimised because it appears they are not meeting up with the house chores.

Today we are engaging the men; the men will be cooking; men will be cleaning; men will be changing diapers; basically roles that have been specifically ascribed as feminine roles.

What we are saying is that it doesnt make you less a man if you are involved in house chores for the family.

What we are saying is that if you are a man wey sabi, you should be involved because it is in partnership, marriage is partnership, Vivour-Adeniyi said.

She said that the campaign followed the resolve by the state government to rid Lagos of SGBV crimes in its entirety, through enlightenment campaigns and continuous sensitisation plan that cut across different strata of the society.

According to her, it is expedient to change the social construct by breaking gender stereotypes that further heighten directly or indirectly the crime of sexual and gender based violence.

She said that in the last one year from September 2021 to July 2022 there was a record of 4,860 cases of SGBV, with a notice of slight decrease in May and June.

The Babaloja General, Alhaja Abiodun kosoko and Iyaloja General, Mrs Funmilayo Alabi George of Agbado Okeodo LCDA expressed gratitude to the state government for bringing the initiative of the Market Fiesta.

Kosoko said that the problem associated with SGBV was that some people dont want the issue to be exposed, if it happens.

At the Katangowa market campaign, selected male adults performed on-the-spot chores socially ascribed to women, such as diaper changing and cooking.

Winners and other participants went home with various gifts and consolation prizes.

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Edited by Oluwole Sogunle

Source: https://asknigeria.com.ng/topic/13407/domestic-violence-lagos-charges-men-on-chores

Good. Seems INEC is improving by the day.

11 And the angel of the LORD said unto her, Behold, thou art with child, and shalt bear a son, and shalt call his name Ishmael; because the LORD hath heard thy affliction.

12 And he will be a wild man; his hand will be against every man, and every man's hand against him; and he shall dwell in the presence of all his brethren.

Genesis 16 v 11-12

Mr. Nwoye
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The 2 dominant parties (PDP and APC) goofed in fielding their 2 candidates.

The best Nigerian's would have yearned for would have been APC (Osinbajo & Zulum) and PDP (Peter Obi & ...), but no, corruption, greed and love for power would not make them be.

As for Wike, we've had enough of your diatribe. It seems major newspaper columnists have made this Wike's situation their KPI for the coming month.

Praxis758:
Udom Emmanuel is a silent achiever.

He doesn’t make noise.

Cool, calm and brainy.

Not only him, Akpabio too. Something about Akwa Ibom Governors with achievements. Seems their built differently.

One or two persons there never pay salaries ooo.

Submit your life to Jesus Christ today and be free from the toxidity and riotous nature of the sinful life.

NB: Evidence shows that the HIV virus is spread through the exchange of bodily fluids such as blood, semen and vaginal fluids, but not saliva.

See here :- https://www.nhs.uk/common-health-questions/sexual-health/can-you-catch-hiv-from-kissing/

Make una just dey tell them the truth. Oyinbo no get wahala. Dem no like wayo wayo; their way free; that's why they easily fall into relationship traps. Tell them as is and they'll easily understand.

Infidelity is the mother unicorn of Betrayal. The pain it causes has the capacity to take life.

You need consolation for any issues of life; run to Jesus Christ today, he has the capacity to lead and save you out of tribulation, afflictions and depression.

This whole episode of Atiku rejecting wike pain Wike very well. Wike wanted to show Amaechi that he is progressing politically after Governorship by becoming a VP candidate of PDP, but alas it's not meant to be. He also spent so much. Sometimes we don't get what we always yearned for.

Good to see 2 technocrats.

Is this the 2 term former Governor of Enugu State dragging with an unknown fellow on Twitter?

When you have a case with the Law and Authorities, that's when you'll know that English is not your mother language.

Run run pass ball like Pius Ikedia

Watch him talk about spending 30Billion for this

APC messed up rejecting Osinbajo, we have no option than to vote Obi and Datti.

Didn't know this man owns Baze University?

Been undecided for weeks, but I think I will vote PO.

hmmmmm, Atiku don't win this election ooo, this one Bubu is planning free and fair elections as his legacy. Tuo, APC goofed by fielding Mr. Emilokan

RIP