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Family / Re: Violence In Homes: Men Should Be Cooking; Cleaning And Changing Diapers - DSVA by lessonotes(f): 10:11am On Sep 08, 2022 |
emmaodet: No child deserves to be raised without both parents being in the picture. I believe you were not raised that way? Even if you were, it doesn't make it proper. |
Family / Re: Violence In Homes: Men Should Be Cooking; Cleaning And Changing Diapers - DSVA by lessonotes(f): 10:09am On Sep 08, 2022 |
Qtrpst4: Comrade dey calm down na |
Family / Re: Violence In Homes: Men Should Be Cooking; Cleaning And Changing Diapers - DSVA by lessonotes(f): 9:26am On Sep 08, 2022 |
If men are demanding for ladies helping in financially, then the men too must help out in their daily chores. During our father's time, none of these came to the fore. Maybe because then, their earning power was low but the buying power was high. The Naira was good, so no matter how little you earn, the purchasing power is high, and remember most of our mothers were full time house wives. If a husband in these day and time is earning 70k and the wife is earning 60k, he would definitely want her to help financially. The purchasing power of the Naira has reduced drastically through the years. Also our ladies want to work and be in the same time house wives, which isn't bad, but it comes with a cost. If you've gone out since morning and come home, after cooking, you're tired. If you don't have house help, who will do the dishes? |
Family / Re: Violence In Homes: Men Should Be Cooking; Cleaning And Changing Diapers - DSVA by lessonotes(f): 9:16am On Sep 08, 2022 |
Ebubu: Hmmmm true talk, God help the female gender. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Violence In Homes: Men Should Be Cooking; Cleaning And Changing Diapers - DSVA by lessonotes(f): 9:14am On Sep 08, 2022 |
Rozross: I agree totally with you. A lady friend called me and asked me that her fiance said before they get married they should agree on financial roles. He would pay for food, house rent while she pays for school fees and some other things. She asked me that is it right? I said no, it isn't. So these modern switching of roles comes with a price definitely. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Violence In Homes: Men Should Be Cooking; Cleaning And Changing Diapers - DSVA by lessonotes(f): 9:09am On Sep 08, 2022 |
Ebubu: I wonder oo. Thou they found out that because of the lack of help there is an increase in the rate of gender violence. Let's be factual some men are beasts |
Family / Re: Violence In Homes: Men Should Be Cooking; Cleaning And Changing Diapers - DSVA by lessonotes(f): 9:08am On Sep 08, 2022 |
Rozross: Abi. Everyone should know their boundaries and responsibilities. It's just that the new generation ladies are screaming for help. |
Family / Violence In Homes: Men Should Be Cooking; Cleaning And Changing Diapers - DSVA by lessonotes(f): 8:47am On Sep 08, 2022 |
By Florence Onuegbu The Lagos State Domestic and Sexual Violence Agency (DSVA) on Wednesday urged the male gender to assist in house chores, for the good of the family. The Executive Secretary, DSVA, Mrs Lola Vivour-Adeniyi, gave the advice at Katangowa Market, during an advocacy against Sexual and Gender Based Violence (SGBV), tagged: Men Wey Sabi. Some women have died because they did not cook for their spouses, some women are being victimised because it appears they are not meeting up with the house chores. Today we are engaging the men; the men will be cooking; men will be cleaning; men will be changing diapers; basically roles that have been specifically ascribed as feminine roles. What we are saying is that it doesnt make you less a man if you are involved in house chores for the family. What we are saying is that if you are a man wey sabi, you should be involved because it is in partnership, marriage is partnership, Vivour-Adeniyi said. She said that the campaign followed the resolve by the state government to rid Lagos of SGBV crimes in its entirety, through enlightenment campaigns and continuous sensitisation plan that cut across different strata of the society. According to her, it is expedient to change the social construct by breaking gender stereotypes that further heighten directly or indirectly the crime of sexual and gender based violence. She said that in the last one year from September 2021 to July 2022 there was a record of 4,860 cases of SGBV, with a notice of slight decrease in May and June. The Babaloja General, Alhaja Abiodun kosoko and Iyaloja General, Mrs Funmilayo Alabi George of Agbado Okeodo LCDA expressed gratitude to the state government for bringing the initiative of the Market Fiesta. Kosoko said that the problem associated with SGBV was that some people dont want the issue to be exposed, if it happens. At the Katangowa market campaign, selected male adults performed on-the-spot chores socially ascribed to women, such as diaper changing and cooking. Winners and other participants went home with various gifts and consolation prizes. ========== Edited by Oluwole Sogunle Source: https://asknigeria.com.ng/topic/13407/domestic-violence-lagos-charges-men-on-chores 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Mahmood Yakubu: INEC Deleting Double Registrants From Voter Register by lessonotes(f): 10:48am On Sep 07, 2022 |
Good. Seems INEC is improving by the day. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Huge Explosion Hits Mosque In Herat, Afghanistan. 20 Killed, 200 Injured by lessonotes(f): 1:22pm On Sep 02, 2022 |
11 And the angel of the LORD said unto her, Behold, thou art with child, and shalt bear a son, and shalt call his name Ishmael; because the LORD hath heard thy affliction. 12 And he will be a wild man; his hand will be against every man, and every man's hand against him; and he shall dwell in the presence of all his brethren. Genesis 16 v 11-12 31 Likes 4 Shares |
Politics / Re: Tinubu Will Get Bulk Igbo Votes, Continue Buhari’s Good Works – Nwoye by lessonotes(f): 11:48am On Aug 31, 2022 |
Mr. Nwoye 176 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Disquiet In PDP Over Wike’s ‘preferred Candidate’ Remarks by lessonotes(f): 11:40am On Aug 31, 2022 |
The 2 dominant parties (PDP and APC) goofed in fielding their 2 candidates. The best Nigerian's would have yearned for would have been APC (Osinbajo & Zulum) and PDP (Peter Obi & ...), but no, corruption, greed and love for power would not make them be. As for Wike, we've had enough of your diatribe. It seems major newspaper columnists have made this Wike's situation their KPI for the coming month. 6 Likes |
Politics / Re: The IBB Avenue Flood Control Project In Akwa Ibom Is Ready (Photos) by lessonotes(f): 5:08pm On Aug 29, 2022 |
Praxis758: Not only him, Akpabio too. Something about Akwa Ibom Governors with achievements. Seems their built differently. 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Politics / Re: Davido Hangs Out With Governors Wike, Makinde, Ortom, Ikpeazu In Europe (Photo) by lessonotes(f): 11:38am On Aug 24, 2022 |
One or two persons there never pay salaries ooo. 7 Likes |
Health / Re: Doctors In The House Please Help Me Answer This Question by lessonotes(f): 4:54pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
Submit your life to Jesus Christ today and be free from the toxidity and riotous nature of the sinful life. NB: Evidence shows that the HIV virus is spread through the exchange of bodily fluids such as blood, semen and vaginal fluids, but not saliva. See here :- https://www.nhs.uk/common-health-questions/sexual-health/can-you-catch-hiv-from-kissing/ 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: Oyinbo Lady Visits Her Boyfriend In The Trenches In Nigeria (Photos) by lessonotes(f): 4:19pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
Make una just dey tell them the truth. Oyinbo no get wahala. Dem no like wayo wayo; their way free; that's why they easily fall into relationship traps. Tell them as is and they'll easily understand. 48 Likes 1 Share |
Crime / Re: Man Dies After Killing His Wife Over Infidelity In Niger State by lessonotes(f): 11:33am On Aug 12, 2022 |
Infidelity is the mother unicorn of Betrayal. The pain it causes has the capacity to take life. You need consolation for any issues of life; run to Jesus Christ today, he has the capacity to lead and save you out of tribulation, afflictions and depression. 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: 2023: Wike Has Invested, Harvested So Much, Can’t Dump Party – Debo Ologunagba by lessonotes(f): 10:57am On Aug 12, 2022 |
This whole episode of Atiku rejecting wike pain Wike very well. Wike wanted to show Amaechi that he is progressing politically after Governorship by becoming a VP candidate of PDP, but alas it's not meant to be. He also spent so much. Sometimes we don't get what we always yearned for. 4 Likes |
Politics / Re: Peter Obi Visits Kingsley Moghalu (Photos). by lessonotes(f): 10:49am On Aug 12, 2022 |
Good to see 2 technocrats. 4 Likes |
Politics / Re: Chimaroke Nnamani & FS Yusuf Clash On Twitter (Photos) by lessonotes(f): 1:12pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
Is this the 2 term former Governor of Enugu State dragging with an unknown fellow on Twitter? 256 Likes 15 Shares |
Crime / Re: Rape Allegation: Moses Armstrong Granted Bail. Friends Celebrate (Photos) by lessonotes(f): 12:40pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
When you have a case with the Law and Authorities, that's when you'll know that English is not your mother language. 6 Likes |
Sports / Re: Timo Werner Leaves Chelsea, Returns To RB Leipzig by lessonotes(f): 6:48pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Run run pass ball like Pius Ikedia 7 Likes |
Politics / Re: Ortom Launches "Community Volunteer Guards" To Fight 'Fulani Terrorists' by lessonotes(f): 9:11pm On Aug 04, 2022 |
Watch him talk about spending 30Billion for this 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Politics / Re: Baba-ahmed Of The Labour Party Raises Concerns About Fake Social Media Accounts by lessonotes(f): 9:52pm On Aug 01, 2022 |
APC messed up rejecting Osinbajo, we have no option than to vote Obi and Datti. Didn't know this man owns Baze University? 55 Likes 4 Shares |
Politics / Re: APC Governors, Tinubu Meet In Lagos Over Presidential Campaign Council by lessonotes(f): 2:39pm On Aug 01, 2022 |
Been undecided for weeks, but I think I will vote PO. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: 2000 APC Members Defect To PDP In Gombe State by lessonotes(f): 2:30pm On Aug 01, 2022 |
hmmmmm, Atiku don't win this election ooo, this one Bubu is planning free and fair elections as his legacy. Tuo, APC goofed by fielding Mr. Emilokan 2 Likes |
Travel / Re: Truck Crushes Two Soldiers And Woman To Death In Lagos (Photos) by lessonotes(f): 7:47pm On Jul 29, 2022 |
RIP |
Business / Re: We Are Working To Avert Further Naira Fall – CBN by lessonotes(f): 1:06pm On Jul 29, 2022 |
Some tech guys who earn in USD said the fall is no longer funny because their earning power increased but their buying power reduced because of sky rocketing inflation. So gone are the days you're happy to earn in USD, those days are over. In 2014, a developer earning 133,000 per month equals NGN1,000,000 per month in 2022. In 2022, a developer earning 3,000,000 per month equals NGN399,000 per month in 2014. So in essence nothing changed, earning power increased but buying power reduced. LEGEND $1 = NGN174 in 2014; $1 = NGN710 in 2022 13 Likes 1 Share |
Education / Re: Veritas University, Abuja Shuts Down Academic Activities Over insecurity by lessonotes(f): 6:11pm On Jul 27, 2022 |
Splitmind: Its not, currently we don't have military technology to track and identify rampaging terrorists 1 Like |
Education / Re: Veritas University, Abuja Shuts Down Academic Activities Over insecurity by lessonotes(f): 6:08pm On Jul 27, 2022 |
God guide and protect all the peeps in Abuja; Amen. 3 Likes |
Food / Re: Simple Cheap But Very Rich And Delicious White Rice With Vegetable Stew Pics. by lessonotes(f): 3:34pm On Jul 26, 2022 |
Channah1: 1 Like 2 Shares |
Politics / Re: Video Of Tinubu Agbado Riddim Song by lessonotes(f): 11:08am On Jul 26, 2022 |
Ok. |
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