There is this lady I plan to marry, which I have made known to her already even before she travelled for her NYSC. Although she just came back from NYSC service recently. We are just discussing the way forward and on the process I was asking her about her sexual life and how recently she had sex. After insisting for her to answer. She opened up and told me she had a sexual relationship during her NYSC service. And the reason was because I didn't call her at a particular time so she thought I have find anther woman. And that was when I was having some personal challenges. According to her, they ended the sexual relationship in the camp. That she is sorry and all that. I didn't really expect that attitude from her as she seem to look responsible and Godlily. I was just disappointed even though I pretended like everything is well. And I was also thinking she had the courage to tell me the true.

Now I have to make my decision, but needs a matured advise and guidance from a mature mind please.

Do think I should continue my marriage plan with her?

Pease what do you advise I do?

Thanks in advance.

Thank you everyone for your inputs

I look forward for your wisdom.

Thanks.

MrBrownJay1:
any health professional trained to evaluate and treat children and/or adults with speech and language disorders like childhood-onset fluency disorder (aka STUTTERING) would be able to give you such report.

Thank you

Anywhere I can find one in Lagos?

Any insight please?

Thank you everyone for the contributions

falcon01:
Honestly this is a bit complicated and having sex with others before you doesn't mean she'll cheat on you. Why do you want her to cut them off if they are just friends? As long as they are not meeting in conditions that will warrant sex I think it's all go........ oh I see what's happening here So you think since they've bonded sexually she might go around and Bleep them again since they are still connected right? Well I don't blame you for thinking that but it still depends in what type of girl she is but try to convince her to cut them off or reduce the contact atleast for the benefit of the relationship, ask her how she would feel if you still relate with your ex girlfriends you've had sex if she's fine with it then maybe she's not your type.

She claimed it was because of the heart break with her ex, that made her had the sex with the guys which she regretted.

She said they are just friends now. And they have been helping her and inspiring her positively.

That she really cannot cut them off. That I'm giving her condition to cut off her friends before I can marry her.

She seems to like a good lady but at the same time, I'm not really sure what she could be doing with those guys now or in the future.

Please mature advise. Thanks