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thanks to all who have commented.

"o boy u beta move on or she go put u 4 trouble u re not in her plan"

Trouble? How abeg

@AIRMASHA
well you wont be wrong to say she is probably playing on me, but hold it. i knw love is fast declining and if i find someone today, it will help me forget her, but do you think i will be sick to accept her if she returns after say 3months and quite seemingly genuinely?

@biola44
how do you mean my happiness, cos i dont think i have been more happy with her leaving. besides she is not messing around. she's just stuck to this guy who i know is not faithful to her. dont you think if she learns her lesson after some time she will become remorseful enough and better refined to maturely handle a relationship? cos i feel immaturity is contributing to all this. i really dont understand why a lady will have the prospects before her and choose another thing rather.

"It clearly means she prefers the other guy. Don't put your life on hold and wait for her to get filled wit fooling around, could be dangerous! You are just her plan B and it aint right"[/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][color=#990000][/color]
You have a point. I dont know what to do whether to just forget about her cos that has been a problem, although of late i think my love has started declining. however, she is the first girl that will be approved of by my parents and that is one of the reasons why i dont want to lose her cos for previous relationships, it was war, and incommunicado for some time with my parents. i dont want to go through that again. my mother kind of just likes this girl eventhough she hasnt seen her. they have talked on phone and she said she like her. so folks, i dont really know again!

", You shouldnt give her ultimatums,just try and make her see that she needs to limit her friendship with this guy,not neccessarily end it, "

And atreus come to think of it. why do you talk of limiting the friendship and not necessarily ending it. For God's sake this is someone i want to settle with for life. i dont think it is proper to even have the guy around. if she may be in love with him which i dont consider impossible, i really think it will be a risk for the guy to still be sticking around. i have told her to take her stand and just bar the guy out, but she is a shy type and you cant always tell what is on her mind till she does it. i dont really know cos the whole thing has made me go through a lot.

Well atreus,
the last time she came, i told her to give me time to really think things over. i decided personally that i was going to watch events until next year. although even my parents asked me to give her some time if i love her, but they have started getting stunned at the time lapse. i just told them to leave me to take my decisions. so i want to watch and see how she goes with the guy. i am convinced beyond doubt that the guy cant marry her cos she said she had caught him before with a lady but he explained that he was already disengaging from that relationship, but my poor girl doesnt have her two eyes open to see this man is not meant for her. i really get confused why a girl will prefer to cling to some other guy when there is this one who loves her and is ready to settle with her. as a matter of fact, i am religious and cool headed and all that. i just dont seem to understand. a close friend has tried to so discourage me about the relationship saying she was not trust worthy, but i dont know whether to say i made a mistake falling in love with her in the first place cos only recently did her thoughts start fading gradually, and i am relieved much by that as i am always deeply in love whenever i am.

Pls bear to read my true-life tail. Here i am in a fix of valley's decision. Ok i met this girl about less than a year ago. well i knew all the while that there was this guy she was going on with, but she said there was nothing romantic going on and that he was only a church brother. she however admitted once to having been wooed for marriage by the guy but she told him she had taken a vow of marriage-abstinence having been abused before. somehow however, things started working mutually between us emotionally and it turned out she developed love like me. since i have been working now for more than half a year now and have my house and all that, i thought marriage was the next. i got my parent's approval which is however rare as she is from edo, a place my father personally has the chills about. he just strangely approved of her. throughout the relationship however, i have been uncomfortable with the other guy who she still goes out with. in all honesty, the guy has been all there for her before and after i met her. but she doesnt want me to conceive an emotionally presumption as regards she and the guy. i had reason to believe many times that she was into more than an ordinary relationship with the guy. we had some fractures in our relationship when once she reacted she was going back to the guy since he had done nothing wrong to deserve all the treatment she was giving him. apparently she had cut all affiliations with the guy because of my insistence and for the fact that we had started planning marriage. I became suspicious when she wont always hint me on her whereabouts all the time and all that. not that i am an overprotective or too jealous a person, but i felt it wasnt too much for your love to tell you her whereabouts. at the moment, she has returned to the guy to apologise according to her. she returned once to me smartly trying to buy her way back. i almost gave in for it but i saw her once or twice with the guy. i dont know what to do cos i really love her and i need someone i can call my own. i may not be desperate but i need a companion. if she comes back genuinely, should i accept her? can she ever be faithful to me? as for love, i know i can easily develop the crumbled love, but will i be acting ok? guys pls contribute.

@SMOOOOTH
True talk guy. Me too i dey find i never see. It is almost a hopeless game now. The last one i would have settled with cheated on me. I dont have to be told i am a nice guy. All friends i have ever dated told me that, but the right girls are not just coming. Two would have worked out, but genotype barred us. I am just tired. God just bring that eve, and pls let her be intelligent well mannered and beautiful. God you know what i like

@DATNIGGAK
THANKS a million for the info. we really need to have guys like this out of the scene. and i wonder what the monitor is still waiting for with this thread. as a matter of fact, that is why i do not bother to read the posts of emeshot again after he posted a maxima once with an altered odo reading. when i and another post tackled him, the next time the thread itself was gone. the thread was gone but i never check emeshot's post again cos i already have a first impression of him. things that are inherently fraudulent you get hints. take a look at this montero for instance, someone already noticed differences in features. that is the kind of thing we are talking about.
thanks DATNIGGAK for your comment.
Nigeria shall be clean.

Abeni,
Pls do not commit suicide. we have all been there. as a matter of fact, i talking with you was jilted only two weeks ago by my fiancee. she woke up one morning and just said she was no longer interested. i really thought it was a joke until i saw the seriousness. the problem i had was even how to explain to my parents who were already more than eager to see her. she is from edo and my parents quite unusually liked her. i begged my sister begged no way. i dont know if it was that she got scared of marriage plans or what. in fact this thought me such a great lesson and i am praying to God to help me as i am emotionally fragile. i thank God i work so it helps me overcome it, although not easily.
Abeni, make sure you get something that occupies your spare time so you dont think. i do a lot of harmful thinking but getting busy has helped. if you pray, make sure you commit everything to God in prayer and be sure he will help you.

@emeshot
Na wa for you o. Did you have to tamper with the odometer. As far as i am concerned, this behoves you as an unclean person to deal with. If you will make a sale, you will make a sale. You dont have to bathe dirty to do it. Such a shame!
Monitor, guys like this should be denounced.

Guys make una shine una eyes o . Having being duped before on a house matter a sound note of warning is not bad. Do your verifications very well before you part with your money o. Whatever looks too attractive i have learnt is usually a trap at the end.
@Poster
Abeg no vex o. I dont intend to spoil your business o. I just want people to do good verifications cos person no know who be who. Na naija we dey and we dey see wetin dey happen everyday. No vex abeg. My intentions are clear.

@Quincy1
Hello quincy, i am planning on a christmas vacation with a friend for the 25th and 26th december. we hope to leave for ghana 25th and return back to lagos 27th due to my work. during these two day period, we would like a decent hotel accomodation preferably with internet connection. we would also like to visit some of the historical sights. besides our airfare pls at least how much will it cost you to arrange all these movements and the lodging?
looking forward to hearing fromy you. You may reply me at aroga4god@yahoo.com. i should get your reply by the weekend. Thanks

Pls all, i need a a 2 bedroom flat. location: either Yaba or Akoka

budget: 250k p/a (including necessary fees e.g. agent/commission)
Decent building, good parking space for at least a car
manageable power situation, easily accesible road and with easy access to safe-drinking water

Well, thanks guys in the house. It so happened that my friend has gone for the test and unfortunately i should say, it turned out positive. She is pregnant! Now, here is a young girl who is torn between keeping a pregnancy for a guy she doesnt want to marry for one reason or the other and getting rid of the pregnancy. Of course the risks abound at both ends, but i must say that it is a case of a moral dilemma involved on one end and sensual dilemma on the other. Well thanks guys in the house, you helped charting a course anyway.

To tell you, withdrawal is not fully an assurance of prevention. even with withdrawal darling, i know anything can still happen. the littlest of seminal fluid still carry sperms i know. So baby, i think the cap thing is best, just some folks who are frenzied through an uncontrollable ecstasy thus leading to pregnancy as they were too carried away in the height of the sexual euphoria to wear the cap. carpisce?

KX, i understand your shock, but you understand that that is the least of aid we need now. nevertheless, thanks for your position. however, the question is: dont you think 2 weeks is too long a period to wait for one's menses on the defence of postinor? i am just being curious.

Thank you marychizo, you know i am just finding about this for the first time. this is interesting discovery. i never knew ovulation could be such a determinant factor. anyway, thank you for your invaluable info. pls when exactly is the ovulation period and how does a woman know that she is in her ovulation period?

Hello guys, Pls i need advice for a friend who i recommended postinor 2 to after she had unprotected sex the same night of the act. the problem now is that after 2weeks during which she should have seen her period, she is yet to see her period. i have adviced that she goes to the clinic, but i want to know if anyone in the house has any advice further. on the leaflet, the drug states that the user could have a delayed period, however, can 2weeks be considered normal for delayed period. my friend is worried and i want to help her. thanks

guy i see you are online now. well if you want guys to buy your phone, then you got to post the pics. i have gone online and know what the phone looks like but that is not the issue. people want to see what they are buying from yo. i just bought a nokia 5800 from guy last month on nairaland. so that is the hint i am giving you. secondly, you should state your last price and your phone contact. lastly, try go get the charger. just as you have no time to go to computer village, so will be many people like i who can afford it.

PAPAbrowne how far now? pls i just got a nokia 5800 expmusic and i want to have it connected. i was using opera until it stopped. i must say taht i am impressed with your speed. pls how can i be guided around it?

abeg who can help out with the free browsing on opera o. mtn i guess has disabled it moreso with the fact that the mtn wap no longer goes again.

flashplayer for mobile

Agianpuye: pls this is a nigerian name. can anyone in the house tell me what parts of nigeria use that name? i did kindly appreciate that.

how far hancock. your phone number is not going and you are offline. i have an offer to make for 30,000. if you are okay with that, reach me on 08030795570 to arrange how you get the cash.

hello tomitomi guy. you appear to be online now. i made an offer of 25000. i have not heard from you. what do you think about my offer?

you forgot to put your contact details for those who want to get in touch with you. pls can you post your phone number contact, at least for guys who want to call you for a negotiation. thanks.