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Charles4075:
Op, is like you're from Ekiti state or related to them somehow.. Because that's how Ekiti boys roll.. No offence ohhh.

OPP sorry i yam not from there

MarthaK:
You are crazy

Yea i sure yam

Cinderluv:
rflol! Why the comparison?

cos they also call her mother of all nation

Who doesn't want to be oh-so-
silky smooth with the fairer sex?
Men who can seemingly attract
women without lifting a finger are
some of the most envied folks in
the world. While some men are
born smooth, luckily, this is also
something it's possible to practice
and get better yet. If you're
currently about as smooth as a
square of high-grit sandpaper, no
sweat — with a few simple tricks
(and a lot of practice) you'll
eventually be slicker than an oil
spill.

1. Be playful. Experts
agree: for many women,
one of the most attractive
traits a man can have is a
sense of playfulness. It's
not hard to see why — talking
to people who are playful and
enjoy the spirited back-and-
forth "dance" of a feisty
conversation is a lot more fun
than talking to people who are
earnest but uninteresting.
Keep keep a sense of
mischievousness when you
talk to women. Look for
opportunities to joke, gently
tease her, and deliberately
misunderstand the things she
says. If she's in the mood for
a little verbal back-and-forth,
this can be absolutely
irresistible.

2. Stay effortlessly in
control of the situation.
There's a good reason why
ladies' men are called "smooth
operators": these types of
people often have dominant
personalities and know how to
control (or "operate" social
situations to their benefit. The
smoothest, suavest players of
all know how to lead
conversations in the directions
they want without even
appearing to do so.

3. Keep your reactions
low-key. We've all seen it
on TV and in the movies — the
quiet yet dashing bad boy who
says almost nothing but
seems to get girls without even
trying (e.g., "The name's Bond.
James Bond.". While popular
entertainment can sometimes
create some unhealthy
attitudes towards dating, there
is a tiny kernel of truth here.
Being cool and understated
can make a man more
attractive to women. Try to
react to almost everything that
happens around you casually,
as if it's completely natural.
Being at ease no matter what
happens is a supreme show
of confidence, and confidence
is almost always sexy.

4. Casually initiate
affection, but never be
desperate. Let's be honest —
if you're trying to "be smooth"
with the ladies, you probably
eventually want to engage in a
little mutual affection with
them, whether this is kissing,
having sex, or just holding
hands (hey, everyone starts
somewhere). This is great —
healthy, mutual displays of
affection are wonderful things.
Keep this in mind when you're
in situations with ladies where
you want to initiate affection.
Truly smooth men aren't
scared or ashamed of making
their intentions known.
However, they're also not
needy or desperate. Not only
is desperation tremendously
unattractive to most people,
but it also demonstrates low
self-worth (and smooth guys
always have high self-worth).

5. Be funny. Everyone
enjoys a good laugh.
Humor makes everybody feel
good, so if you can gain a
reputation as a funny person,
other people (including ladies)
will naturally want to be
around you. Try to look for
opportunities to make light of
the situation you're in or
(gently) poke fun at the people
around you. Most people have
the natural ability to be funny
when they're relaxed and
around people they like, but if
you really feel like you're
having a hard time being
funny, you might want to try
researching the topic jokes section or trying going to commedy shows.

Cinderluv:
I care deeply for people. Some people call me mother of all nations just as a joke of course. I'm smart. Not the wayward kind of smart, you know Book-smart. Sensible. And I also fear God.

Wow! nice quality ... i hope you re nt lyk our mama peace

He wont stop looking scary

FLAWLES:
What dos Ex mean?

Your former lover...it could be the first person who turned ur V into U

Cholls:
My brother don't you know it means two things when your Ex suddenly want to come back into your life? It's either she's tired of sleeping around with rich men and want to settle with you or she's coming to kill you for making her useless. Uhnnnm I cry

Killing you well it all on what you did to her.
frankly speaking good girls always comes back for good.

OP u re nt serious yet




When u re ready we will know




So recheck ursef again

Chiamaka01:
Beyond happy.

Thats my case study




She got no choice than to chase you

[quote author=mesoade post=28368485][/quote]Bros wetin i do you nah


Cant u see my signature

Chiamaka01:
That's what i thought.

Ok re u happy now

Op how u tek no say ladies no lyk nice guys cos i yam nice and Ladies loves me

Chiamaka01:
The same lEvuls that wrote a poem for Miss Nl and was asking if anyone can help tell her that he has feelings for her? Wow.

he cnt be serious

Can someone tell her?
Can someone please go tell her?
Tell her I’m not a bad guy,
Tell her I love God too,
Tell her though I’m not perfect,
I don’t pretend.
Tell her I’m but a good guy.
Tell her, for her I lost my heart.
Tell her I think of her
Nights before I sleep
Tell her I respect her
But I’m a misogynist
Can someone please tell her?
Though she’s brilliant
And God-full than I,
Though I have no money
And the good words she wants,
I know she has feelings too.
Can someone please tell her?
Tell her she’s my first
Tell her she’s my thirst,
Tell her troubadours love too,
Tell her I love her,
Tell her I want to be with her,
Can someone please go tell her?


by my hommie Soul’e Rhymez.

We cant deny our love for u JenniSweet

WOW! so so sweet for sweet jennima

I love u Jenni

HIPROFILE:
Child abuse! Graaaaannng

How u tek know

tope24:
Levuls and his relationship counsels. Mbok open a counselling clinic na.
No time to read epistle jare

If i open na guys go full am whereas na girls i want cos their mata too sensitive

tope24:
ok. OP, How many babes your theory don work for? I hope you're not single sha.

Just one VickyyB

Consider why you two
broke up in the first
place. Do you just want him
back just because you can't
accept the idea that he does
not want you? Or maybe you
just like the idea of having a
boyfriend? Or you really do
like him? Were you (or both of
you) abusive, controlling,
mean, or possessive? Did one
(or both) cheat? If any of
these things happened, you'll
want to think long and hard
about going back to that kind
of relationship, but if you do
still want him back, try the
following steps.
Be the person he fell in
love with. He was
attracted to you because he
felt good with you, and you
were fulfilling his emotional
needs. How have you
changed? Correct bad habits
and mistakes, if any. Be
positive around him. Laugh
and smile. Always stay positive
to feel good about yourself
and make friends around you
feel good because of you.
Don't even look like
you're stuck in the past.
Let him know you're
moving on by going to
the library class, your
locker, and the gym,
wearing clothes different
from what you normally
would. This will definitely
make him think you are
moving on with your life.
Prepare your first
words. The first thing
that you say to your ex
boyfriend is extremely
important. If you say the
wrong words, you will lose the
chance to get your ex
boyfriend back. Do not react
to his request for a breakup by
crying and begging him to
come back. This will not work.
You are just going to make
him feel more irritated with
you and drive him further
away. You need to understand
that even though he initiates
the breakup, there is a good
chance that he still harbors
good feelings for you.
Use the past to your
advantage. If he
complimented a particular
outfit, wear it again. Or, share
a lighthearted memory with
him. If you have a chance to
meet him, do it in a familiar
place you used to enjoy good
times together.
Listen carefully to his
choice of words. He may
say something unusual. If he
ever uses an unusual or
uncommon word, use it also
in your conversations. This
subconsciously tells him that
he and you have a common
way of talking.
Find out if your ex still
cares. Before you start
doing anything to try and win
him back, you need to know
for sure that he still cares. If
he no longer cares, and you
are still desperate to get him
back, then you need to think
of the subtlest ways to get him
start to care again, even just a
little. Knowing that your ex still
cares about you is the most
important sign that things can
still be mended. You should
not start on anything before
you are sure that your ex still
has some amount of concern
when it comes to you.
Casually ask if he'd like
to do something non-
committal, like having a
drink with friends, playing
miniature golf, playing
tennis, etc. Something
friends or first dates can do.
And whatever it is, keep it fun.
Leave out the serious talks for
the time being. You'll have
plenty of time to talk about
that later. That is very
intimidating to a lot of guys.
However, if he initiates it,
follow his lead. But don't go
heavy.
Let him know you have
been thinking about
him. Remind him of that one
time the two of you went to
dinner at that great new
restaurant and had a fabulous
time? Leave him a short email
telling him you ate there
recently and thought of him.
And, by the way, ask how he is
doing. This is a non-
threatening way to have a light
conversation, which would not
make him uncomfortable.
Invite him to talk to
you. Express regret that
things didn't work out
between the two of you. Ask
him if you can talk about it
now that you have some
perspective.
Pay some attention
to your appearance if
you have been neglecting
yourself in that department.
Get your nails and hair done.
Take a nice warm bubble bath,
and pick out a nice outfit.
Stop caring about
how people perceive
you. The fact is, it really
doesn't matter. It's impossible
to be yourself when you're
caught up in wondering "Do
they think I'm funny? Does
she think I'm fat? Do they
think I'm stupid?" To be
yourself, you've got to let go of
these concerns and just let
your behavior flow, with only
your consideration of others
as a filter --—not their
consideration of you.
If you just broke up
(less than a couple of
weeks) completely ignore
him. He will call you if he still
likes you. If he doesn't, then
nothing you say or do will
change that. (This works
unless you are dealing with a
guy who thinks that if you
don't care enough to try to
save the relationship.
Sometimes, ignoring him
makes him feel that you are
perfectly fine without him and
are moving on, which is the
exact opposite of what you
want when you are trying to
get back with your man. Be
sure you know exactly what
type of guy you are dealing
with when trying to get him
back.)
Remember, no
situation is hopeless.
Every day, couples get back
together regardless of the
situation.
Find other things to
focus on. If you focus
your attention on a new
activity, you will have less time
to miss your ex-boyfriend. You
will feel stronger and more in
control of your life. If you are
still in contact, your ex
boyfriend will notice that you
have "moved on" and
hopefully will start having
second thoughts.

Eberex:
then she no worth am. Any sensible girl go make sure she gets it

Nawaoh.... na so d thing be


i hail thee

I agree those OAP dey zee things from .....
the assault no be small thing

Eberex:
you are wrong. The only simple thing to do for a girl to chase you is; when you two are alone in the room and you start cuddling and caressing, and then she is so so into you and needs that thing...........just stop midway and tell her ''hey dear, i'm not really in the mood right now. Maybe some other time'' you dress up and then ask her to do like wise.

What if carry d stuff go meet another person immediately hu lose

If you really like this girl and
you want to impress her, keep
your flirting with other girls to a
minimum. This is entirely the
wrong way to approach getting
her attention.
If you wait too long to contact
her, it may hurt her feelings and
make her feel like you don't
care. If she's not the kind of girl
that's going to chase, then don't
try to force that on her.
Remember to be friendly,
above always.

It's all about balance, you can
follow these tips but always
remember just to be yourself. If
you're acting like someone that
you aren't, she might think
you're either fake or you just like
her looks. Girls don't like
superficial guys!
Remember that the point of
trying to get her to chase you is
not to stick yourself in the friend
zone, but to suggest that you
want something more. If she
has a crush on you, she'll
especially be keen on doing this

Be friendly. Girl like
when boys make the first
move. If you initiate
conversation, then she'll be all
the more willing to keep it up,
even if she doesn't have a
crush on you.
However, don't stick
yourself in the friend
zone. Try to be a little flirty all
the time, too.
Don't underestimate the
power of withdrawal. If
she flirts, flirt back, but
keep it short and leave
her wanting more. Don't
make yourself so easy to
get that she becomes
uninterested.
Let it spread. Hint to
someone close to her
that you're interested. They're
bound to tell the girl you're
eying! Don't make it seem
desperate, though. You may
find out if she already likes
you from a mutual friend! If
she does, your work is easy!
Just let her chase you.
Compliment her. In case
you didn't know, girls like
that! However, don't let her
EXPECT the compliments, then
it's you doing the chasing.
Also, be sure to compliment
the right things. If you don't
know the girl well, just talking
about how hot she is will
make her think you're just
interested in the physical stuff,
and you don't want that.
Hang out with your
other friends. Be cool!
Let her see you have a social
life, but don't be cocky about
it, and don't try too hard to be
busy or it will show.
Be slightly distant
without being rude.
'Treat 'em mean, keep
'em keen DOESN'T work.
Many girls will become
confused and hurt if you
try this, and may lose
interest all together.
Hang out in a group.
Ask her out on a group
thing, but spend a lot of time
with her. She'll think of it as a
date subconsciously if she
spends most of the night
talking to you.
Drop hints. Describe an
ideal girlfriend, using a
lot of the qualities that the girl
you're talking to has. Don't
come right out and say it, but
by dropping hints she'll begin
to think of herself as a good fit
for you.
Focus on you. Overall,
once you've established
yourself as a usual person she
talks to, ease back a bit. Don't
ignore her entirely, just try
play it cool. Once she realizes
you haven't spoken in a while
she'll be missing you, then
she'll start messaging you first
and seeking you out. Hence,
chasing you. From then on
flirt, sweet talk and play it hot
and cold, it'll keep her
constantly looking for
approval and attention for
you, but you'll hold the power.
Just remember not to stay too
distant, or she may think
you're too hard to get.