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How To Roll With Ladies(smooth Operator) by LEvuls(m): 7:57pm On Nov 26, 2014 |
Who doesn't want to be oh-so- silky smooth with the fairer sex? Men who can seemingly attract women without lifting a finger are some of the most envied folks in the world. While some men are born smooth, luckily, this is also something it's possible to practice and get better yet. If you're currently about as smooth as a square of high-grit sandpaper, no sweat — with a few simple tricks (and a lot of practice) you'll eventually be slicker than an oil spill. 1. Be playful. Experts agree: for many women, one of the most attractive traits a man can have is a sense of playfulness. It's not hard to see why — talking to people who are playful and enjoy the spirited back-and- forth "dance" of a feisty conversation is a lot more fun than talking to people who are earnest but uninteresting. Keep keep a sense of mischievousness when you talk to women. Look for opportunities to joke, gently tease her, and deliberately misunderstand the things she says. If she's in the mood for a little verbal back-and-forth, this can be absolutely irresistible. 2. Stay effortlessly in control of the situation. There's a good reason why ladies' men are called "smooth operators": these types of people often have dominant personalities and know how to control (or "operate" social situations to their benefit. The smoothest, suavest players of all know how to lead conversations in the directions they want without even appearing to do so. 3. Keep your reactions low-key. We've all seen it on TV and in the movies — the quiet yet dashing bad boy who says almost nothing but seems to get girls without even trying (e.g., "The name's Bond. James Bond.". While popular entertainment can sometimes create some unhealthy attitudes towards dating, there is a tiny kernel of truth here. Being cool and understated can make a man more attractive to women. Try to react to almost everything that happens around you casually, as if it's completely natural. Being at ease no matter what happens is a supreme show of confidence, and confidence is almost always sexy. 4. Casually initiate affection, but never be desperate. Let's be honest — if you're trying to "be smooth" with the ladies, you probably eventually want to engage in a little mutual affection with them, whether this is kissing, having sex, or just holding hands (hey, everyone starts somewhere). This is great — healthy, mutual displays of affection are wonderful things. Keep this in mind when you're in situations with ladies where you want to initiate affection. Truly smooth men aren't scared or ashamed of making their intentions known. However, they're also not needy or desperate. Not only is desperation tremendously unattractive to most people, but it also demonstrates low self-worth (and smooth guys always have high self-worth). 5. Be funny. Everyone enjoys a good laugh. Humor makes everybody feel good, so if you can gain a reputation as a funny person, other people (including ladies) will naturally want to be around you. Try to look for opportunities to make light of the situation you're in or (gently) poke fun at the people around you. Most people have the natural ability to be funny when they're relaxed and around people they like, but if you really feel like you're having a hard time being funny, you might want to try researching the topic jokes section or trying going to commedy shows. |
Re: How To Roll With Ladies(smooth Operator) by FLAWLES(f): 8:16pm On Nov 26, 2014 |
Khun gan di |
Re: How To Roll With Ladies(smooth Operator) by japhmanuel: 8:25pm On Nov 26, 2014 |
Nice write up |
Re: How To Roll With Ladies(smooth Operator) by Nobody: 8:35pm On Nov 26, 2014 |
Na wa o |
Re: How To Roll With Ladies(smooth Operator) by Nobody: 8:42pm On Nov 26, 2014 |
Ur opinion has been duly noted *rumples post and dumps it into the thrash bin* |
Re: How To Roll With Ladies(smooth Operator) by Nobody: 8:46pm On Nov 26, 2014 |
Ok....seen |
Re: How To Roll With Ladies(smooth Operator) by Cholls(m): 9:12pm On Nov 26, 2014 |
MarthaK:my sister is this how you go about doing your thing? |
Re: How To Roll With Ladies(smooth Operator) by Nobody: 9:19pm On Nov 26, 2014 |
Cholls:ok |
Re: How To Roll With Ladies(smooth Operator) by Sheenor: 12:49am On Nov 27, 2014 |
Was here |
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