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September 18. Any 18th in d house?

Wao! Am September 18 o. Nice to see someone of d same birth day. Please holla barr.xhy

barr.chy:
18th september

Wwll said dear.

chymystique: Dude u weigh 55kg.. U complainin?.. I weighed 45kg as of Nov.. I dnt fink u r evn as skinny as I am and am in ma 20s.. Ma dear ve learnt to love maself dt way and package maself wella. Infact am proud of ma body. Ppl kept tellin me to eat n eat .. I evn ate every I didn't get fat.... Ma advice, jst eat nourishing foods and also use food supplements to hlp u look fresh and then learn how To Love yaself d way u r and not allow wah ppl say get to u. .. Pele

Yes it can. I have been into a relationship without sex for 4 years. I simply respected my ex's wish.

Bro happy new year. Kindly pm me tour email urgentl please.
Regards

234GT: @ D King!I am a branch staff. My power never reach management staff. I don't know about the recruitment. All I know is that all banks are always poaching experienced bankers from other banks.
And Union Bank is transforming and the staff are happy.
Thanks all!

They are all taken bro. Sorry about that.

padeolu: link me up with one of ur sis, and lemme have a feel of what ur talking.

I so much love dark skinned ladies. Dunno why

Haba! People born within those 2 months have certain character traits I chwrish. I have 2 sisters and a cousin born within that date and trust me I love their 'person'

Hello all. Any matured, intelligent, down to earth and working class or about to finish service, lady in the house. Kindly send me a pm for a serious relationship. No jokes please. Thank you.

Financial consultant 29, add me up 7b44ce21

Op honestly I don't understand ladiea of our time. There is a girl I have been asking out and aall she says is she does not like me to date me. Whatever that means I still think she doesn't know what she wants. Not to brag about whon I am, I can say I pocess all d qualities a woman wants in a man. May God help our ladies o

Op your story is very pathetic. I feel so sorry for you considering that u chose not to date the guy until after 6 months! Well what I have to say is sex does not equal love when u aint married. Please note this!!! Secondly, any guy that loves u will wait for u and if he evntually gets u pregnant he will never tell u to abort it no matter his economic situation! Also note this please. Lastly, like others have been saying get yourself tested for any STDs, add value to yourself, don't brood over him again and u will be amazed how beautiful you will be to many men that are ready to do anything 'positive' to have you.
Please never open your legs again until after u get MARRIED O!!! I once dated a virgin for 4 good years and guess what because I loved her so much I never had sex with her! The girl loved me to pieces because of this. Though we have broken up because of incompatibility reasons, at least she cant hold on to anything bad that I have done for her rather I should be cos of d wasted time and investment (I thought her a lot of things and also made so much financial obligations like school fess etc just because I loved her and I kept her to marry). Its unfortunate sha. ÒP please stick strictly to my advise.

Meanwhile, any serious babe in the house between 23-26 who is a graduate and must have completed NYSC or about to should get in touch on 07040181125 for a
serious relationship. I beg make una no flash me o

Op, because she has not 'went' to school at all I think she is your perfect match. What else can I say?

Hi hisrib, how are u doing? Kindly send me your email. Ineed to get in touch with you urgently. Thank tou.

HisRib: Hi Guys!

I'm very busy today & won't be able to answer your questions. But as soon as I have some free time, I will jump right into it.

X0x0x

Bro 'am in this situation presently. I tell you it is annoying!!!

Alikaxon: There is dis girl I've toasted before but didn't acept, so I moved on but she kept coming closer to me, sending me text nd all that. At these point, I thought she had changed her mind but couldn't say it verbally; So, I now wooed her again, I was surprised that she didn't stil acept, and I am not d type that continues to pester girls around, so I tried to forget totally about her but she is still coming close to me. The whole situation is funny, as in sometimes, she calls me twice a day. Not that we can't be frds if I toasted her nd she didn't acept but am amazed by her, bcox of these, I can't get over her bcox she always makes me think of her. What is she up to?? If she doesn't wana acept me, she shud let me be, so that I can get over her, nd not makin me feel she loves me. Yes! She is making me feel she love me and I don't understand. My brother, na so e be o, I really tire, wetin I go do?

Well said op.

I saved it as 'go down low'

Guy your post pass 12 inches o! thanks sha. New events are unfolding and I will post later.

12 inches!:
Guy, you're 30 and you still don't understand the rules of the game. No 1, you're doing well. Girls shudnt be a prob esp in naija where many girls are so materialistic. No. 2, why are you so fixated on one girl. Is she agbani darego. Is she Nicki minaj. No 3, why are you still pursuing a girl that is blowing hot and cold. An immature girl who doesn't know what she wants. No 4, how abt cutting off all contacts with her and dating other girls. There are many beautiful girls everywhere. She is just stringing u along. No 5, by now at your age u shud know that many girls applaud themselves based on the number of eligible guys that are toasting them. I can assure you that you're not the only one. One day, she will wake up to find out all the guys are gone. Say in 3 yrs time. Are you willing to wait that long. No 6, you need to read tai2's post about maintaining control because apparently, you don't have any.
12inches

Thanks nyere. Dont tell me you ain't like that lol! Taurus women can be quite stubborn u know! *winks*

nyere84: Wats big deal in being friends wit a lady u admire?

All friendship must nt end in r/ship.

Op, if she says friends,then give her friendship. Then, look for someone else and date.

Btw, are u serious abt that tarus stuff?? I ask because dats my zodiac sign.

Guys, I appreciatelall your comments but the matter don pass this one o!!! Promise to post as events unfold in d next few days. That's only when you guyz will appreciate that diferent women exist!

Thanks

kundi90: @op Wow, what a nice write up! No wonder those ladies have things to gossip about, because they are simply talking about guys like you. On a serious note, what else those she want from you? You asked her out TWICE and she turned you down TWICE, for what reason -- she does not like you -- later kept flashing the person you don't like and you "mumu-ly" (sorry, I am very angry at you!) called her back, for what? Why is she torturing you? And I can't blame her because you gave her the privilege. Let me ask you one further question, who is a friend? I know a friend is not someone that flashes you ten times a day, so keep a friend in her rightful place. One thing I know is "nobody is 'indispensable", so all those your I like her so much is just a statement. You are a man, so act like one! Look around, and see that there are so many options -- you can tell her this. The longer she lingers around, the more you miss out on that real person, not this mirage you are hoping to date. Pick your solution from my rants, because you are an adult that does not need to be spoon feed.

Thanks sir. Will send u an email shortly

D-Explorer:
coachdexplorer@gmail.com

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baggy4luv: my games trick but u need to be a man here not a wussy
1.create scarcity
2.stop calling her
3.form too busy
4.bring a new girl into ur life
5.i know she go be one beautiful girl..but ignore it..
6.make your life more interesting

she just wants to be the price and you the chaser.dont you ever idolize am.this traps you in the friends zone.let her see other tight shorties

Hmmm thanks my man

Chinboli: . . Hehehehehehe. . . Same with me dude. . . Back to the topic

OP. . . Good Things Dont Come Easy. . . . D babe iz urs. . She iz already missing u datz y she called up to 3times dat day. . . . A hard try and ur in dude. . Tank me later. . . .

Can I have your email please. Thank you

D-Explorer:
After I wrote crazy ways to spark up your relationship , the feedback revealed that most men wouldn’t do some domestic duties that comes with maintaining their relationship regardless of the situation. It made me wonder how various relationships would survive where there are segregated responsibilities or roles that men MUST not take. Just as I believe in ego, I also believe that some things if occasionally done doesn’t kill a man’s ego – they only cause maximum effect – they brightens the union and quickens the connection. The general problem in relationships often commences when our partner fails in their supposed responsibilities. For instance, if a woman’s “compulsory” duty is to make breakfast and dinner, what happens the day she comes home late and tired? Would she still go ahead and prepare the meal? Remember she made breakfast before leaving and not making the dinner was probably an occurrence she couldn’t control. Now, here is the logic: the time that would take you, the man, to wait and rant about that unusual lateness, the meal of you-two would have been ready and served. Let me make this clear, when your partner does something unusual, the best you can do is to manage the situation with some considerations. There are issues that could be properly managed in a relationship with good understanding of the situation and your ability to do that makes her respect your personality the more. The ways to a woman’s heart is NOT necessary the gifts, flowers and whatnot, it could be your sense of understanding, judgment or your response or reaction to issues that affects her. Now, let’s look into 30 things men must know and these points I gathered from my years of consistent counseling.

1 - A LITTLE “THANK YOU” COULD STRENGTHEN HER.

2 - EVEN WHEN SHE KNOWS SHE’S BEAUTIFUL, SHE WOULD LIKE TO HEAR IT FROM YOU SOMETIMES.

3 - A LITTLE KITCHEN HELP KILLS NO EGO.

4 - EVERY LADY WANTS A MAN THAT CAN PROTECT HER – SHE NEEDS TO BE SAFE AROUND YOU!

5 - TO SOME LADIES, COLLECTING MONEY FROM YOU IS JUST YOUR LITTLE COMMITMENT TO THE RELATIONSHIP AND NOT A DO OR DIE THING.

6 - ANY LADY THAT REMINDS YOU OF HER EX WAS NEVER INTO YOU.

7 - YOU NEVER CAN WIN A LADY’S HEART BY SPENDING, IF YOU DO, THERE’S A BETTER SPENDER TOO.

8 - JUST AS YOU’VE GOT A WEAKNESS, SHE DOES TOO. HENCE, YOU MANAGE HERS, SHE MANAGE YOURS.

9 - YOU CAN PUSH A LADY TO A BREAKING POINT BUT WHEN SHE DOES, SHE’S NEVER THE SAME PERSON YOU KNEW.

10 - WHEN SHE STARTS KEEPING SECRETS, THERE’S SOMETHING YOU’VE DONE WRONG.

11 - SHE’S NEVER TO PAY THE BILLS, AND IF ANYTIME SHE DOES, SHE’S NOT TO CONTINUE PAYING.

12 – SOMETIMES, LISTENING TO HER OPINION CONFIRMS HER POSITION IN THE RELATIONSHIP.

13 - BEING HER MAN IS NOT JUST PROTECTING HER AT HOME BUT EVEN FROM YOUR FAMILY.

14 - ON A FIRST DATE, PULLING DOORS AND CHAIRS IS PART OF A GENTLEMAN’S DEAL, JUST DO IT!

15 - IF YOU LOVE KIDS, YOU’RE SURE WINNING HER OVER.

16 - INTIMACY IS NOT ABOUT YOUR PERSONAL SATISFACTION, SHE MUST BE SATISFIED TOO.

17 - IF SHE DOESN’T RESPECT YOU, SHE WON’T RESPECT YOUR FAMILY.

18 - THE SPOT YOU MET A LADY COULD TELL A LOT ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP AND ITS FUTURE.

19 - IF SHE BRINGS HER FRIENDS HOME OFTEN, IT’S NO JACKPOT, IT’S A FIDELITY TEST!

20 - YOU SHOULD KNOW WHAT TURNS YOUR WOMAN ON; WOMEN AREN’T THE SAME IN BED.

21 - DON’T REPLACE SEEING HER WITH REGULAR CALLING AND TEXT MESSAGES; YOUR PRESENCE KEEPS HER SAFE.

22 - SOMETIMES YOU DON’T TRY TO WIN AN ARGUMENT, LET HER HAVE HER WAY - SHE COULD DISCOVER HER FOLLY.

23 - EVERY LADY HAS A BEAST IN HER, IT’S EITHER YOU CAGE IT OR UNLEASH IT.

24 - IF SHE DOESN’T LOVE YOU AND HER FAMILY DOES, IT’S NO COMPENSATION, LET HER BE!

25 - YOUR POTENTIAL IS NOT A GUARANTEE THAT SHE WOULD STAY WITH YOU, WORK HARD AND CONVERT IT TO SUBSTANCE.

26 - WHAT YOU DID TO GET HER, YOU MUST CONTINUE DOING IT TO KEEP HER ELSE YOU LOSE HER.

27 - SOMETIMES HER BODY LANGUAGE COULD BE DIFFERENT FROM HER SPOKEN WORDS, TRY TO DECERN.

28 - TO ALWAYS IMPRESS A LADY WITHOUT SPOKEN WORDS, DRESS WELL!

29 - IF YOUR HANDSOMENESS BROUGHT HER CLOSER TO YOU, THAT’S A FLING!

30 - MARRIAGE SHOULD NOT BE A PRISON FOR HER, ALLOW HER EXPLORE HER POTENTIALS, REMEMBER, SHE’S GOT AMBITIONS BEFORE SHE MARRIED YOU.

31 – IF YOU TELL HER NOT TO WORK BECAUSE YOU’VE GOT MONEY, WHEN YOU’RE BROKE, YOU WOULD CALL HER – LAZY!

32 – AWAY FROM PERSONAL WISDOM AND EFFORTS IN THE RELATIONSHIP, DON’T FORGET PRAYING TOGETHER!

A safe landing I guess? Yeah! In my active experiences as a relationship coach, I’ve gathered these important points which would be updated regularly. There is this excessive applaud that goes along with being a man. This has shut the mind of so many men from lowering some standards or compromising even if little. So many men wants to win in their relationships at the expense of the happiness in the union. So many men are powerfully driven by ego even at the detriment or pain of their partner. So many men wouldn’t listen, so many men are aggressive and arrogant. The fact remain that, in a relationship, the real man is the growing man; not a static or one-sided oriented person who wouldn’t adjust his status when needed or compromise when necessary for the happiness of the union. When we say, a woman is a weaker vessel; it doesn’t mean she’s weak in the brain or hands – it only means, more than you imagine, she needs strength from you. How you handle her will determine how she handles you. And if at all you’ve been really bad to her and she has been good still, you’re only pushing her toward a break-down where you would no longer have the same woman you once knew. Allow me stop here; this isn’t a book . . . LOL! For the ladies, please read 16 Raw Truths Ladies Must Know. Happy living!

SOURCE: http://www.coachdexplorer.com/2013/12/32-things-men-must-know.html

Bro dalu o
God bless

oluafolabi: Hello bro, @OP, This is what I think;

1) You have made yourself too available for her. She has you at her beck and call. She knows that you like her and she is using that to her advantage.

2) She is not really in love with you. A girl flashing you 10 times in a day doesn't signify love, she is just bored and sees you as her a tool to overcome her boredom.

3) Forget that Astrology bulls.hit , every girl desires trust and comfort in her man. But you asking her out for two times and she rejecting you means that she is not clearly interested in dating you, but probably keep you as a male equivalent of a side-chick.

3) Create scarcity, don't make yourself readily available for her. You seem like a great guy and there would be hundred of other girls out there that would be ready to date you without the stress and mind taunts this girl is giving you.

4) Even if she flashes, don't call her back. Let her use her credit to call you. She is in control of this 'pseudo-relationship' , you need to get back in charge.

5)Make her jealous, try to become friends with some new girl(s) and let her know about it. Don't give her your attention anymore, let her seek that attention.

6) When the above begins to work and she starts craving your attention again, have a heart-to-heart discussion with her.

7) Tell her that you are never going to be comfortable with being friends with her hence she needs to take a stand, does she really want to date you or not?

8 ) If the answer is NO, then it's time to let her go. Nothing beneficial for you will ever come out of this platonic friendship you are desiring.


GoodLuck.

Jah bless my man

faakay: this has got not to do with zodiac or zodiac status

me thinks the girls likes you but I don't know whats wrong with her

You need to champion her and act like a man

Maybe take out her during weekends and ask out again - tell her you want her etc.... be serious!

Let her know if she wants to be in or out? I mean you folks are adult here and not babies

If her attitude still remains then leave her alone! she's not serious yet and you don't have that time to keep waiting ......

don't call, if she flashes, do not return her calls! leave her alone

there are lot of ladies out there looking for serious and responsible guys! so go out and there and get one for yourself

Bro thinking of laying her in bed is completely out of it. Thanks for posting all d same

niggi4life: Am very sure she must be a very beautiful girl hence the infatuation ( dont tell me "you love her" bullshit here). Men and fantasies, you would have thought so much about how you are going to lay her in bed and all that if not why don't you continue to be her friend, is there a crime having a girl as your close friend? she told you she isn't interested why cant you let her be? if you push yourself too much to get her dont you know you will have to be going through all that stress to keep her? We men are the cause of the reason why girls use us to do shakara, immediately she tells you she isnt interested you should have let her be, i know those types of girls, they will never be productive in that relationship, you will do the calling, the sending of airtime, the loving and all they will do is to sit down in one place and tell their friends how one "ode guy" is tripping for them.
if you were my friend i swear i for slap you this afternoon,, you dey vex me sef

Hmmmm. Thanks y' all