₦airaland Forum

livialives: Give her a break she had her baby barely 2 months ago.
It's fairly still early for her body to not have shed a lot of weight.
With breast feeding and exercise I would allow for 6-9 months before beginning to make comments

segelity: u are only decieving urself...from what i could see here u are a local champ from one dead village. Be urself!

try69: Prefer low self esteem to a poverty stricken mentality

SpicyMimi: *crying* are you saying have got watery toto? When I don't even know what or how a watery toto looks like?
Mehn, I need to sleep, they've finished me here

Chomzy19: wrong: u lyk spiiting venom hapharzardly nd judjing from ur posts i will say u re a very agrresive person; ever ready to fight. But what do i know? People who claim to be tough on d internet might actually b people who cant speak up outside for low self esteem. It's a faceless forum; where a girl is a boy nd a rapist a moralist.

PS: only the nasty ever get nasty; d comments did not provoke you to anything.

SpicyMimi: Fx e don do abeg, your babe dey try o.

segelity: beggin 4 a p** dat has gone sour! Sali satani! nobody is gonna believe dat. Gal uve been using dat thing since 1988 ,by nw grey hair must av dominated yur p** #tufiakwa#

segelity: i dont go for worn out p** so dont even think i need yur f** attention. Keep yur atten nd your worn out p** 4 yur 1min man. Iyalaya è wèrè.

flexxzzy: Summary of every every is..... GO GET A LIFE and stop depending on one rich nigga or start beefing a broke ass nigga
@lexoria: babe i aint a memba of ur haterz club cos im too big for dat... But girl u gat to b careful wif urself cos galz lyk u fall easily and sheepishly(sorry to say)... Its very easy for water-mouthed chicks lyk u to b gullible.. Take note.. Cheerz

gerald09: chivalry has finally been buried in Nigeria

segelity: @lexoria...are you sure u are not a lesbogay?coz if u are u might soon be disgraced on this NL.u keep talkin about 1min quickie can u stand the chance of surviving a 20 min quickie.am very sure u would have passed out b4 dat tym. KSD is involved.

Osheshe: Threads such as this one bring out the best and worst in people...there's nothing like stringing "girls" and "money" together in one sentence. All you have to do is sit back and watch the pack of wolves going for the kill.

I honestly pity those daughters of Eve who put themselves in such a position to be chopping insults. I've got too much integrity to wait on anyone to 'spoil' me....when I'm not handicapped or mentally retarded. I work hard as an architect to live comfortably...and make financial offers from any guy resemble peanuts.

@ OP, its your friend's life...her choice, her decision. Reminds me of someone I know who fell in love with a guy with the same symptoms you described. Today, they are married...albeit happily or otherwise and she foots the bills at home. All her hubby does is to lavish money on himself and other women outside. When she complained to his family, they asked her if she didn't see the handwriting on the wall before saying 'I do'. Her life...her business.

Then again, I've been in situations where some morrafucka tried to milk me. Just to prove this issue is a 2-way street. Some asking to made signatories to my account Giving lame excuses like what's 'yours' is 'mine'. Weaklings who think they are God's gift to a woman. I waste no time in reading the 'riot act' to them.

Just before I start derailing...there are no 'prescribed' or 'spelt out' duties. If both parties 'decide' on 'financial rewards', more power to their wallets. Where I personally draw the line is spending my own money to feed or clothe any man. When I cook, he has to buy the groceries. If he's looking dapper and extra handsome, I wanna know that it came out of his pocket. When I buy him a Salvatore Ferragamo or Thierry Muggler perfume and get a card in return, its an eye opener...next time I will locate the abokis and buy a nice smelling fragance for him

SECURITY WOMAN: This is annoying. Why are people quick to judge any lady who has been violently assaulted? Does it not occur to you she might have been kidnapped or innocently at a trusted friend's place when this occurred?

You weren't there for crying out loud and stop jumping into conclusions that all Nigerian women are materialistic. You aren't better yourself!

Arsenate: whoever told you I was single and 40? How were you able to arrive at that from the conversations we've had here? See! I told you. You are too dumb and, Unfortunately, you are not willing to learn. You'd remain dumb for life. Too bad.

troy20: lexoria life is all double standards either way of both sexes.but pls act like a lady and not like a LovePeddler.

Arsenate: the Lexoria of a lady is extremely dumb. Very dumb to think that ladies are doing men favours by having sex with them. Some unfortunate guy will end up with such dumb@ss. Dammmnnn

stepone: Hnmmmmm! U sound like a heartbroken Jamaican lady with built up neck/shoulder muscle while typing.

The reason going into relationship/courtship is the reason going into marriage. If I must ask, are u into marriage because ur financial instability surpasses ur ability to control it ? or u are into relationship because u need financial assistance while u overlooked ur parent positions to take responsibility? Where then is the Respect and Care? As long as u are not cripple, u should get a job that will fulfil ur financial needs. Don't come here next, only to load "Women abuse" if ur level of thinking is still this low

Note: Who actually enjoys the bleeping most? If so ladies do, then Men should be paid for any round of intimacy.

stepone: Hnmmmmm! U sound like a heartbroken Jamaican lady with built up neck/shoulder muscle while typing.

The reason going into relationship/courtship is the reason going into marriage. If I must ask, are u going into marriage because ur financial instability surpasses ur ability to control it ? Or u went into relationship because u need financial assistance with a stranger, while u overlook ur parent to take responsibility? Where then is the Respect and Care? As long as u are not cripple, u should get a job that will fulfil ur financial needs. Don't come here next time to load "Women abuse" if ur level of thinking is still this low

Note: Who actually enjoys the bleeping most? If so the ladies do, Men should be paid for the round intimacy.