lefulefu: if the guy must give the babe money then i go advise make the guy give the girl belle so make the girl no come dump the guy and run off wit the money.na so sharp men dey do am

Nice one or better still, get married if he has such amount. Aside belle and marriage, guy should not give such amount out. Na hin be her papa ni? If u gave her such amount, she can elope. So, Please guy, dont give unless you get married.

Yield: You're both adults. But because of the age difference you're likely in different life stages right now. That shouldn't stop the two of you from making it work though.

Thanks

acidosis™:


For you to have given an unclear story about yourself makes me think your too weak to have a wife. Oh, you think I'll waste my medulla power thinking if its 'marriage'/ 'dating' ?
I don't think your type can get married so soon. Marrying a 22 year old girl would even make you more dumber and weaker..

Mr Perfect, I neva told a story. I asked a question which i know there are so many out there that need answers to a similar situation. No matter what some ITK like you sha, I no surpose mind. Thanks all the same. At least, you self sabi internet.

JallowBah: I was 23 when I married my husband who is 11years older than me.

It all depends on the persons involved. If you match, you match. If not, leave.

Ok thanks. You actually helped out.

cindyrella: Still wondering why the op is asking for help!

Well, he is asking for opinions because he would not get married and start borrowing money to do some things that need get done. Pls be objective about this issue. I have come to learn that love is not the only thing that matters. Yes, so many other things matter. Financial needs versus financial ability.

pendo89: Help with what now?

I do not think so.Actually depends on what both of you are doing or aiming at.

22 is thinking school,career,work. What's on your mind?

Give her time to study,work and mature mentally cz when she hits 27 you will be 36, assuming it lasts between both of you.

27/36 looks ok.

Thanks for the advise. But the truth is the reason why am not married yet is my income. If I want to get married now, i'll manage with the job at hand but the deal she has NCE and wants to do part-time degree. There is need for another job although am expecting something better very soon.

frank3.16:


So what will make u happy? Send her away and marry a 31yrs old girl?

Send who away? Oh make I dey work make I e be say wife school fees go dey disturb the chilren school fees?

Kenistry: Do ppl still ask such silly questn?
Beta look for anoda reason to dump ha as$, cos i see dats wht u wants to do. U r nt yet ready for marriage boy

You think so? Well.. Thats not the case, girlfriend. I dont dump girls. But since its a lifetime thing, dont you think I need to really do what will make me happy

For me to express myself with such language, you should am walking towards marriage. So I have only asked for advice, not insult. If you cant advise, please press backspace.

For me to express myself with such language, you should am walking towards marriage. So I have only asked for advice, not insult. If you cant advice, please press backspace.

I'll clock 31 by October and she clocks 22 September which means am 9 years older than she is. Is the gap too much? Some people maximum difference should not be more than 5 years. Pls help ooo. Am confused.

Haaaa!!! Atiku!!! I dey laugh o! Someone who owns MIKANO and will never allow PHCN to function so as for his company to strive? Someone who claims he is from Adamawa and genuine Adamawans know that Atiku's family house never exists in the state? Someone who is actually from Northern Cameroun? I dey laugh o!!!

Atiku

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kayci_d77:

I want to ask, which minister or Government official do not have his or her company doing work in their ministry. This Guy was open, he didnt hide his company under some Chinese firm yet his transparency is bad, Now I know Nigerian power sector is run by devils. I heard PHCN is like a cult , thank God he resigned b4 they kill him like BOLA IGE

The person who informed you that PHCN is a cult knows nothing just like you. Who killed Bola Ige? PHCN staff or PDP? Did Bola Ige try to buy parts of PHCN under disguise of some company? You said Nnaji was open but funny enough, he was trying ti beat about the bush when he was asked by the Vice President about his stakes in some company that showed interest. His company was disqualified from the whole thing sometimes last year. But he still tried to hide under another company to drive home his selfish desires. He had no further excuses to defend himself in the meeting with phcn unions with vice president in attendance, he was then advised by the VP to excuse them in the meeting since it was observed that his assumed loyalty had been compromised.

However, his problem with phcn staff is not really the privatisation thing but their entitlement. OK ownership of Afribank has been changed and many of its workers have lost their jobs without payment of their entitlement. Should PHCN workers open their own eyes and allow a similar calamity to befall them? The minister once boasted that he will lay off phcn workers at no cost since minister of finance once informed him that there might not be enough money to pay severance to phcn workers.

At the meeting where the minister's shady deals were exposed, it was planned to negotiate with phcn unions on their pay and not privatisation thing itself. So, Nigerians should try to get knowledge, and then understanding b4 they discuss sensitive issues like this.

oshyno: In as much as it pains me to see one of d best performing ministers from GEJ go,it is d best thing to do due to d conflict of interest.I wish there cud be anoda way out but form d barage of criticism of GEJ govt, he cud nt risk having a minister whose company Geometric has interest on Afam plant- one of d plants to be privatised .I know dat if d company dared won d bid, opposition wud av seen anoda opportunity to accuse GEJ of corruption.I just wish d replacement won't take us bak to square one.

You no sabi anything to refer to him as 'performing'. His zeal had been born out of selfish interest. What has he or Jonathan done during just a year that they have spent? Oh you now have 24 hrs supply? Everything has been 'make belief'. Well, so many of us are very intelligent on paper but cannot afford to combine facts and reach an obnjective conclusion.

bittyend:

We won't enrich beyond 20%, and the plants would be located somewhere on the wasteland up north.

If Nigeria wants to join the big league and become industrialised, we definitely need to go nuclear.

Our population is too huge for dams and gas - nuclear energy is the way forward.

In the developed world, they make use of various means avaible to maximise the potentials of the country concerned.

asha 80:

i agree he probably has interests in a company that wants to invest but who do you think is responsible for power outage and interruption?

When Niger Dams Authority with other power generating companies where merged in late 70s and renamed NEPA, it was constitutionally stated that the new organisation would only manage existing infrastructure. This is to tell you that NEPA/PHCN does not have the constitutional responsility of building power stations but to run the existing ones. The youngest operating power station is the one at Egbin and its of the highest capacity of 1280 megawatts but it will interest Nigerians that it was built and commisioned by OBJ in 1979.

Last year when IBB clocked 70, do Nigerians remember that himself and OBJ were involved in a media outrage where one of the responses that OBJ gave IBB was that IBB was in power for 8 years yet didnt bother to build any power stations? Is that not enough for Nigerians to understand that it is the responsibility of the government to initiate power projects? OH unna think say na PHCN staff go award those NIPP projects to those Indian companies?

Yes, some power projects were commisioned last year while some will soon be commisioned but it will also interest Nigerians to learn that it was OBJ's initiated projects during the 8 years he completed in 2007. When these projects are complete, nepa/phcn staff are then brought into it to run.

30 years ago, capacity was 4000 and now its still the same while population has grown drastically. SA has a population of 50 million, they generate 50,000 megawatts while we can only generate 4000 with population of around 180 million people. By the way, has government ever blamed phcn for not generating enough ? Most recently when the Minister felt power generation improved, wasnt he try to acribe praises to himself? This should tell Nigerians that it is the responsibility of the government to build power generating stations while nepa/phcn staff are only saddled with the resoponsibilityof running them when made available by their employer.

Come to think of it, on August 27, BusinessDay reported that the minister was blasted by the vice president on his selfish approach to the privatisation thing while Thisday reported the same issue today on their front page but the likes of punch, guidian, vanguard etc would not talk about it.The minister was using them as tools of propaganda to instigate Nigerians against phcn workers so they cant afford to betray their friendship towards the sacked minister. I dey go bed joorrrr.

Majority of Nigerians know virtually nothing about PHCN. You just want light abi? Just yesterday, MR Vice President blasted the man because it was discovered that he actually had personal interest in PHCN companies. Barth is into business of power generation. He expressed personal interest and the vice president was furious at him. He resigned out of shame. He owns a company called Geometricpower which claimed to be generating power to the national grid but in actual sense, it generates nothing. His plan to own parts of PHCN was exposed and he resigned in shame. I know Nigerians will not want to believe this because they feel its PHCN staff that cause power outage and interruption.

yomiadeyanju@yahoo.com thanks in advance. All nairalanders need to read this

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I served in Cross River State in near Ogoja. The two states share a border somewhere around Ogoja and they both seem to lead the HIV/AIDS cases in Country. In the village where I served, boys there would point at some people within the Village that have been spotted at antiretroviral collection points which suggests they have the curse. You two should please be careful.

I served in Cross River State in near Ogoja. The two states share a border somewhere around Ogoja and they both seem to lead the HIV/AIDS cases in Country. In the village where I served, boys there would point at some people within the Village that have been spotted at antiretroviral collection points which suggests they have the curse. You two should please be careful. I

Am a guy like him and if you were to my sister, I would advise you to tell him 'NO' At the long run, your friend will come to be very jealous of the whole thing and you become her worst enemy not that you snatched her BF but its just 'woman' nature. The guy would have also succeeded in bedding two friends. If truly wants you, he would have told you long ago instead of your friend. This guy is messing with you a great deal. Avoid him, please.

claremont: No, I think this issue of online relationships has been exhaustively addressed in the past.

It will still continues to raise it either ugly or beautiful head. I met my present girl friend on 2go and at least for now, we are good. Just that am 9 years older than she is which shouldnt bother me based on advice from people but it wont just go.

Which power capacity don increase from 2000 megawatts to 4000? it has always flunctuated around 4000megawatts. by the way, I expect more very soon but the credit should be given to OBJ not GEJ. OBJ initiated NIPP projects that are about to be completed soon which will increase power capacity.

whats this rubbish about region self? Se na regional we wan chop even development? Buhari and Tinubu have proven themselves to be good leaders while PDP has not been able to chart a course forward for Nigerians. Are Nigerian youths thinking forwardness or backwardness. 12 years, nothing to show for it but instead, everyting is getting worse. At least, let power change hands first and we can grade whoever rules again. Na wa oo!!