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GEJ lost due to his incompetences! Blame it on him and not the north!!

Accept GEJ was a loser nd stop all this ss,se stuffs! He lost, he lost, he lost! Nigerians have made their choice...wait till GMB doesnt deliver bfor posting all these! Simple

Agrika:
We have this terrible Aunty (my Dad blood sister) who is always fermenting trouble for everyone most especially wives married into the family....My mum is always complaining about that woman...she is the Ada of the family and instead of facing her own children....her own is to cause problem in her brothers' marriages.
Now her younger brother, i.e my Dad's elder brother got married later than my dad to quite a Young woman....as fate would have it they were based in Lagos, the same state that my Aunty's kids were based so she usually visits there for Omugwo and the rest......
Now it happened that my uncle and his wife were having a disagreement and she was invited as an "elder" to settle the quarell....she just heard her brother's side of the story and without waiting for the wife's version started slapping her, threw her bags out and refered to her as this "bush animal wey we manage pick from village" chai....ds was a lady that is not even as old as her 4th daughter...and to make matters worse was over 6months pregnant.....she eventually lost that baby,.....it was only the pleading of my mum and some other elderly women that stopped her from reporting the matter to the umu-ada.

On another occasion, the woman who had a history of miscarriages and stillbirths,....was in a very critical condition in the hospital, inshort at a point the Dr's pronounced her dead and covered her with white cloth..... she just had a stillbirth and sent for the woman since her hubby was not in town....the woman replied her back and told her to "forget about them, that as for she and her children she was as good as dead to them"
hmmmm.....

Now the intresting part is that I travelled home recently for a cousin's wedding and as God will have it her second daughter came home, inshort I met her there and was told she has been home for close to 3 months now....later, on the day after the wedding, the daughter came weeping to my mum and confided in her that her husband's sister came into her house and started slapping her, "without any cause" and also threw her things and threatened to "deal" with her if she ever steps into the house.....and guess what, she was also preggy
I believe that my Uncle's wife cursed her Mother because of the "injustice" that was metted on her.

That's sad and indeed a lesson

Wendy80:
I know this man and wife who were always having issues early years of their marriage and whenever the Man's mother tries to settle them the wife will abuse hell out of her mother inlaw.
During one of their fights the MIL tried to settle them but was slapped and pushed by DIL and she fell on the floor.
With tears she said 'since my only son married u, he hasn't known peace for that u will neva bear him a son'
Her son pleaded with her to retract what she said but she refused saying she'll bear children but not a son, that another woman will bear him a son.
All effort by friends and other families to get his wife to apologise to his mother failed. The wife said never will she apologise and it's been over 15years now. She has 4 lovely daughters, she wants to try another to see if it will be a boy buy her husband refused cos it's just 2kids they planned for but she kept trying for boy. Is it MIL's curse working? I can't say oh but most pple believe it is.

As humans,experiences both ours nd others are mearnt to teach us a lesson! Tnx for sharing

agarawu23:
there is nothing like power pass power

If you betray your partner in such a way that makes life miserable for the person believe me the person spirit will draw calamities upon calamities into the betrayer's life.

we all have our spirit and some spirit are not to be taken for granted. it happened within my family, the guy was unable to give birth due to the abortion he made for his first girlfriend and later left the girl for know reason.

he was told to locate the girl and beg for forgiveness before God will answer his prayers. To God be the glory, the lady forgive him and prayed for him , few months later the guy's wife was pregnant.

Though ppl will call it superstition but I just pray we don't offend ppl that will refuse to forgive us.

we should be careful how will treat our partners because everybody has his/her own spirit. some spirits are allergic to bullshit even if the lady/guy didn't cast a spell for on you, the spirit will

cc librakid

How many youths(guys nd ladies) are ready to learn from such experiences and live a decent life? changing girls like boxers is considered fun for most young men same with ladies. Some of our parents today are facing the consequences of their past lives...It takes nothing from one to lead a decent and noble life. With this we will be building a better world for our generations to come. Av seen what hurts do to people! Let's think twice before taking actions

Lilimax:
Curses are real but cannot work on the life on a person whom God has blessed.
Little wonder the scripture says in Proverb 26:2
As the bird by wandering, as the swallow by flying, so the curse causeless shall not come
again You cannot curse whom God has blessed. Numbers 23:8

Curses my dear come in different forms...I understand your stand as it is.but do we just overlook it?

winetapper:
Yeah some are real depending on the strenght the person has in spirit! Some weak some strong..

Power pass power

So spirits also determine if a curse will work or not? But how would you differentiate between a curse and real life situations?

Thought about this over and over but decided to ask my fellow NLders.
There are times you go into a relationship whole heartedly, a relationship that used to be good suddenly goes wrong for no reason and you feel betrayed and hurt. That could lead to hatred and a feeling that the betrayer should get hurt too. And there are moments in life when things go bad simply because that's the way it is. We go through cycles in life. Life is a series of lessons, sometimes we are in a bad patch and we can only get out from it once we have learnt something out of it.

My question still is...do curses really work?
Pls I need candid answers! Thanks

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DickTator1:
Hide your smelly mouth.

I think some nuts ain't properly tied up there! U should think b4 posting rubbish! The last time I checked...ur outgoing president brought nothing but pain on the masses! U aren't different either!

DickTator1:
Orubebe fall my hand, we should be protesting like northerners would have done. Why is he apologising when we as Niger deltans can cripple this country? Nigeria shoild come abegging, we feed the mutha_fukkerz.

EEEEDIOT!

Finally

Daris God oo! All this thngs PDP are doing....accept loosing wholeheartedly!

Nigerians no want again, na by force?

He should be bundled out! What is the meaning of that?

Patiently waiting....
There must be a winner and a looser!

Tension everywhr

Tension everywhere

Kayoski:
Ya story don finish?

No

It was one moment of sleepless nights...imagine when your at the peak of accomplishing something and then the devil himself decides to pay you a visit! Sure, it's not going to be a pleasant one.

I received a call from NYSC secretariat ordering me to come to the office immediately and was was given a 24hrs query saying I should give reasons why I absented myself from work for 3months.
This was a shocker cos it was straight from the state coordinators office. I took the query home and answered it in tears...all that was running through my mind was why would he want to implicate me? Despite his foolish acts, I stil respected him as my 'Director'.


I and the other lady relied the query, submitted the next day and met our director to know why he did what he did and he said...
Do you people know what it took me to norture this business? You corpers think you can spoil my relationship with NYSC by saying I don't pay but the highest they can do is to stop posting corpers to me. He went on to say he can do anything to protect his business and would make sure we get extension of service by 6months!

After the yule-tide and new year celebrations, schools resumed on the 5th of January 2015. On resumption, I and my colleagues asked the director about our November and December allowances but his response was cold.
Went for the normal monthly clearance and my LGI asked 'do you av any problem at your PPA?' and I quickly responded 'Yes'. I explained the whole situation to him and he said he was going to find out why it was so and I left.
My LGI called him on his cell phone to ask what was wrong and he got angry. Out of anger, he wrote to the State Coordinator saying myself and the other female corp member have been absent from work since November to the day he wrote the letter.

The transfer to the other branch was a huge relieve...the new place was nothing to write on about! He had a head teacher and two staffs taking both primary and secondary sections. On arrival, the head teacher was excited that I was there to ease the burden especially in sciences. I was asked to take both primary and secondary sections, without a time table and take almost all the science courses from js1-ss3! This was the height of it...I wonder why people establish schools just for the money! no one cares about the lives they are suppose to be impacting positively. Exam malpractice was at its peak in this institution yet parents send their wards to such schools. I think parents should try as much as possible to send their wards to better schools with trained teachers this will go along way in producing good and responsible children and citizens for our dear country Nigeria.


I refused the offer and went back to my original place of work. October passed and half our local allowance was paid and nothing was paid for the month of November...too bad for a money conscious establishment!
In December, I received a text message saying I should report at the NYSC secretariat for an important assignment the next day. I reported and was luckily selected amongst the 21 corp members representing Kano at the CBN/NYSC Entrepreneurship Training at Katsina State for one week. A letter was given to me to give to the school authority asking them to release me for a week in respect to the training.
At the time we were done with the training, schools had already closed for the term and Christmas. I also went for my christmas break.

Lest I forget,
we were two ladies and a guy( corp members)
The school had just two permanent staffs
No accomodation was given
Local allowance was N6,000
No staff welfare, school time-table, textbooks and worst of all the whole students in the school weren't up to fifty!


Returned to kano after two weeks, there was no accomodation so I had to stay at the corpers lodge which was quite a distance from my PPA. Work resumed and everything went on smoothly...
Though I noticed my Director was fond of me and was always giving me tips especially at weekends and seriously I took this as a nice gesture from him. He always told me not to tell anyone he has been giving me money and my mouth was shut!
At times he would call my cell phone after school asking me to come hang out with him which I never did. This continued for a while till the close of term that it got to a point I felt I had to keep my distance because come on this man is married! He was an elderly man that I told him severally he was like a father to me in a strange land but that didn't change a thing!

He paid our local allowances at will and whenever he wanted. This continued till October, after the whole Ebola outbreak and long holiday and finally school resumed on the 13th of October. Work resumed and students turned up gradually though the number of turn up was discouraging...as if that wasn't enough, one of the permanent staff resigned and a new batch 'B' corp member was posted to the school (A guy) making us 4 in number.


One faithful day, my director called me to his office which I did, he grabbed me immediately I entered his office and was professing his undying love for me, why he always gave me money and I should cooperate to enjoy more of his generosity. I mad but managed to calm down and told him in a calm tone ' sir, I respect you so much and least expect this of you' Pls let me go or I will shout for help. With all this, his grab became so tight that I could hardly move even though I tried to. I struggled to free myself while he has struggling to get down with me. After all the action and drama, he finally released me and I ran out of the office.
He later came to me begging for forgiveness and that I should tell no one. There was another branch of his school very close to my lodge, he offered to transfer me there to save distance and transportation...thats exactly what I av been begging him for but he reluctantly refused.

I was posted to Kano State for NYSC '14A' train. I was soo heartbroken due to the insecurity in the north cos I spent all my life in the middle belt 'aha now I know what most of you would be thinking but to clear the coast, middle belt is very different from the north'. I took it as fate and left home for Kusala Dam Karaye against all odds cos I believed it was God.

I have been warned by parents, boyfriend, friends and well wishers not to go to the North and should redeploy immediately after the orientation at camp but needless to say I was strong willed and I did not regret my decision!

Kusala Dam Karaye orientation camp was fun and as the leader of platoon 8, I was so active that NYSC officials had noticed I was very good at whatever I did.

Soon orientation was over and 3 weeks gone...was posted to Fagge Local Government and to one of the private schools at sabon gari. Three of us were posted there this felt so relaxing and convincing.

We left camp 1st April '14 and I headed straight to my place of primary assignment to be accepted which was successful, was made HOD sciences and given four teaching subjects which I was to take Js1-SS3 and also a form teacher to Js2. The other two were not excempted either.
What the heck, Js1-ss3? That was much! Trust me but in a bid to serve my father's land, I humbly accepted. The school principal gave me a letter permitting me to go home and prepare fully for the service year ahead which was signed by my LGI and went home for two weeks.


Will be right back!

bidexolumanish:
seriously is dat all ur story?

No...will write it all today

NYSC- One year of joy, challenges, tears and VICTORY. Its a thing of joy to serve our fathers land but what happens when our great youths and Leaders of tomorrow are being taken for-granted all in the name of National Service? Here is my story and I hope it inspires someone to stand for who you are and what you believe in...

Ahh! Pls someone should say something!!!

Plz fellow nairalanders, I really don't know how to go about developing a good business plan/proposal and will need help from you.
Plz dnt just read without commenting. Tnx

Tnx alot!
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