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I observed that I.K was quite rude with his speech while anchoring d last episode of big brother hotshots. What's ur take on this?

@ mutter

A marriage is based on trust and respect. You have to respect your husband and trust him enough not to snoop after him. How can you respect someone or have regard for him if you have to invade his privacy and snoop after him.

Response: obviously I don't trust him. Twice he cheated don't want to bother myself with d rem he told me about.


@ Poster I have seen loads of women in my life who brag outside and at home are crawling on their knees. As I said, don`t be deceived! Most women take real hard stuff at home and come outside to act like they are in control.[/quote]Response: am not deceived am sure u fit d above quote perfectly

@coogar he even admitted to me dat he had not been faithful in d past but promised he wld never cheat on me again. D real number he didn't tell me, but d ones I know is two.

@mutter i totally disagree with u because there is absolutely nothing he lacks at home. I just can't understand y a man wld want to loose d peace in his home over such issues as this.

Below is a conversation I saw on my husband's phone with a girl he once asked out, which he claimed that d said lady didn't date him.

He told her he is always picturing her face everyday and she is d wife he never had.

I confronted him and he says that d conversation meant nothing and apologised. And also said if he knew the conversation would make me angry he would ve deleted it from his phone.

But my point hear is dat he is flirting he has cheated on me about twice that i am aware of and it looks as if he won't stop. I need maturity advice. Is the the above statement just a mere conversation or is there more to it. Thanks.