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gbami:
There are no bisexual men...The day you stick your penis in a man's ass....You are automatically gay... period...

So what of the ones who love guys but don't bang them, they aren't gays

Jim99:
@Piamily don't bother. No matter how much you play hard to get, as soon as a guy has you to to himself he automatically loses interest and goes after more prettier girls.

That's how our mind was programmed to work

Exactly women should remain monsters and never act like saints or cupids

piamily:
I have noticed men especially African men loose interest when a lady becomes interested in them even just a bit. I really don’t get it.

Do men expect women to hate them even when the men love the women? Cos I don’t understand if it should be mutual or not

Your views please

Cause women are monsters and should remain like that. A woman acting nice or pretending to like a guy is a big scam and has a hidden intention.
When monsters act like angels who do you expect the angels to act like

Rekhina:
look at him nonsense boy

Now I understand why we were told to ignore fools

frankkydee:
That may be becos they sensed that the reason for you getting interested in them is for your personal benefits and not for a mutual benefits

Exactly hit the spot

HazardMan:
About 2weeks ago i had a problem on how to move on without thinking about my ex-girlfriend who is pregnant and with two other children(twins) as well. I cherished her so much but she treated me bad.
I created a thread here on nairaland seeking for advice on what to do. Trust nairalanders na, my factory memory was on reset in no time.
Now the problem i'm having is that she is haunting my dreams. I see the both of us still having affairs in my dream almost every night and it's slowly bringing back the old memories i have tried so hard to forget following the orders given to me here on nairaland by other members.
Please what do i do as this is no longer something physical and out of my control.
No insults please as this is no longer my fault

You miss her badly and it's normal it's not s spiritual thing. Breaking up with someone you love is very painful, that's why guys don't fall in love, but give it time and it will fade but don't ever call her or go back to her, it's better you avoid her this period till it passes

Sususy:
I was thinking it's a huge turn off to men.
I'm too proud to confess my feeling first sef
Na men suppose confess feeling to women first,not the other way around...

Ok so if men are supposed to do it and he doesn't means he does not love you period.

The way you ladies exalt yourselves like you are better than God.

[quote author=Sususy post=89054870][/quote]Then ask him and stop assuming, cause the worse thing I hate is someone assuming I like them,

Akunwafor:
Like I said, it does not stop him from having sex and enjoying an orgasm(which is what is addictive about sex).

Agreed his libido will drastically reduce and may even disappear, doesn't mean he can't have erections and still enjoy penetrative sex.

Do you know how many family men have glass balls in Nigeria? Do you know how many of those give their wives problems because they sleep around?

You can't be addicted to something you don't even feel or like, imagine would you like sugar if your taste buds aren't functional, NO and you can even stay years without sugar

funmisticqueen2:
yh, do you

And I hope your boyfriend does that to you when you cheat and posts the pic on NL

funmisticqueen2:
yh, do you

Nope am faithful, and I don't date a person if I don't love them.
So it's right for me to cut off a cheating ladies boobs and burn her vaulva with ring boiler

funmisticqueen2:
Uncle, I said maybe.


It is harsh. But actions have consequences.

True that's why am going to cut off my cheating girlfriends boobs and her clit to make it fair right?

Durentt:
In few hours, it will be over. The torment, i am tired of sexual urges, masturbating like a goat.
I Will take some ibuprofen tablets for pain relieving and off, the testes goes.
Save your sympathy. I dont need it

The guilt is killing you I understand. But don't take the easy way out. Just because you commit the act doesn't mean you are filthy, God sees all our wrongs and still loves us, no one is perfect. But don't give up keep trying and trying and pray and you won't even know when you overcome it.

Or you can cut it off, it's not a sin but do so with proper medical care in a hospital. And be ready to face it's consequences.
Good luck God is with you

vanida6:
nice comment,,i pray may dat fool listing to dis comment

You are a lady and you can never understand the urges male pass through everyday so shut up.

bestabigaelever:
Don't do it
I can help

I would like to know how

Akunwafor:
Lol

You're not even ready. Cutting your testicles does not in any way stop you from having sex.

When you're ready, you know what to do.

It does in anatomy the testicles bring about sexual urges just like ovaries.
Cutting it off rids that urge

Samfloxin:
Lesbianism and homosexuality is very very wrong,stop promoting sexual decay

Sexual decay lol, if you want to change society first stop pre marital sex don't paint gay as the only bad sexual term

Kennyfancy:
for real?

She is an idi0t just ignore her,

CANTICLES:
Keep shut ... You dont know what is going on . I understand that Guy. He was able to make her feel that love because he wasn't too quick to ask her out. The wise men know this. How many of those asking you have you been able to have much feelings for ? Let me stop there

Shut up the fact it happened to you doesn't mean everyone chew gums a lady like a creep all in loves name.
He doesn't love her if he did it would be obvious, he is just being nice.

Bluntintrovert1:
Do not be deceived, if a guy likes you, he would do everything possible to be with you. Don't take his friendliness for attraction sister.

Exactly

Becky95:
Hi guys

Av been wondering what makes ladies have sex with each other,

Please can someone explain the reason for this

1) I think it starts during puberty what the child is exposed to when sexual urges start developing. Like being in one sex boarding school or watching gay porn
2) heartbreak make them hate the opposite gender and like the same gender.
3) from birth having an extra chromosome
Like xxy or xyy
4) in outside countries just for the thrill of it or to look cool
5) parental influence like having gay parents

Elvis506:
80% peer influence. i was almost influenced but thank God i already aware of the beauty of liking an opposite sex..

had this friend we grew up together, from a family of 5, the only guy, the rest are girls. alwys in the mist of them, at some point he started wearing his sisters cloths guess cos of the closeness. then started behaving like a girl, voice, packing his hair etc.....today he's a conc gay. i cut every tiles with him the night he tried to fvck me....i can never share a bed with a guy...if u like be my pastor or father.

I hate boys that act like girls even if they are gays can't they just still act like boys or what would be the whole point

sexylassie2:
Castration.

I got banned for typing this word

Sususy:
I'm feeling that he is deeply inlove with me but he hasn't asked me out!

Have known him for five years,(...Just as friends).
We chat frequently on Facebook, virtually everyday.
He smiles alot to my silly jokes.He likes staring at me alot.
Always in the habit of giving me compliment about my dressess.
Always playing soft and funny towards me, so kind and caring towards me.
But he hasn't told me he loves me,
Or are those not the signs that a guy is Inlove? Cuz I'm sure those are the signs.
Why didn't he ask me out? He is 24! and I'm 20!
I'm very sure is a single virgin guy (churchy guy),cuz he told me.
But why hasn't he confess to me that he loves me?
Is just so annoying! I love him so much,but I just want him to confess his feelings first to me before I confess mine.
I need the reason why he's doing that to me.What could possibly be the reason? Please help. I'm loving to know the reason.

What feeling? girls give themselves too much credit, so if a boy is friendly with you he loves you abi?.
Like one idiot in my department cause I talk with her she told her friends I like her, na there I finish her with insults.

He does not love you he is just friendly don't think you are some gold that everyone loves it's annoying

SocialJustice:
Disturbing in what sense, if a girl is standing facing you, do you need more than a second to see a girl turning into a woman or your brain needs 5 minutes to see it?

Ask me next time he sees a girl child/any girl bathing he should cover his eyes and ask God for forgiveness Mr holier than Jesus

Bigflamie:
Bro, there is nothing like being cynical here. I find this your post disturbing, I can't imagine a full grown adult checking on a child who is bathing outside. And you have to create a thread for it?

I don't just know what's wrong with people this period.

If you see someone in puberty you would know, what checkout did he do, u you would know in a glimpse.
He is even a moral person to give us advise.
Unlike you who is forming holier than Jesus you may even be a paedophile for all we know

Funkyswagzz:
I really don't know what is happening. Girls that I wanted to date in the past just remembered me of recent. There are three of them and all of them declined my interest to date. Just of recent they chatted me up. I don't really want to go into details of what happened, its been over a yr or two and I don't have their contacts anymore. It's just as if they know things are goin very well for me and they decided to contact me. I really wanted to date all three of them buh it never happened.

One of them went extra mile by telling her friend to beg me. I'm really confused cos I don't want anything that will take away my happiness. The reason I'm here is because all three of them remembered me at this point in time and it's shocking. Please a brother need ur advice I don't know what do. I just don't know how things might turn out if I engage with any of them.

Same thing happened to me I am surprised
I just block their number though. Cause I perceived the hunger virus

horlahsunbo225:
Following

Meanwhile I'm ugly, so them never come my way

Gay guys only go after fine guys or smallish/girlish guys. Like straight guys go after fine girls

ugolinze123:
Waow...so really things like this exist, thought twas only in movies...lol

You never see the other side of life.
It's S C A R Y

MaryJane24:
Hello peeps,
so, I signed up on nairaland today so that I can ask this question in peace. I sincerely hope you experienced members will say something useful to clear my doubts.
So I've been seeing this guy for three months- no sex. He is always asking for it but I finally agreed to do it with him on Saturday last week. But when I saw his thing, I dressed up very quickly and said we can't do it now. He asked me why but I was reluctant to tell him the real reason. His joystick is not straight but rather curved to the left side. It was fully erect when I noticed and I couldn't bear to let him force it into me. Is such a joystick a normal thing? Have you seen one like that before? How do you manage to have sex with it like that and is it painful? Thanks in advance for your help.

That's cruel, it's not a disease, it's just a syndrome that occurs when a baby is developing and it's perfectly safe and normal.
I have seen very few guys with this syndrome across my years
I don't support pre marital sex though

Biafra1stson:
That is illegal you know?

Opps