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Have you ever been asked out by a fellow guy/girl? (my Experience) by Ecbatana: 1:02pm On Apr 29, 2020
I'm a guy that believes in equal freedom for all but sometimes freedom taken out of context might bring about a devastating outcome. I'm an average looking guy in my late twenties, I'm bearded, I do sports (football and light weight lifting). Above all I love women grin.
However, in the course of my life, I have been constantly approached by guys seeking a very special kind of relationship with me. I have even had a near death experience as a result of it. I will narrate two of my experiences.
My first experience came when I was in my second year (200L) in the University. I used to be quite popular and was the vice president of my department's students association. And, I had a lot of friends around the school. One day, a guy approached me and told me he liked the way I carried myself around the school. He talked like a normal guy; and I unsuspectingly gave him my number, the name of my hostel and room number. He visited me a couple of times and our conversation was normal, he even got to know my girlfriend.
On the fateful day, this guy called me around 7pm telling me he had two visitors and could not pass the night in his room as his mattress is just a normal student's mattress. He pleaded to come pass the night at my place and I consented. Little did I know that he had a different agenda. He came as expected and even offered for us to go out and chill (unto guys level). I told him I had no money ( I prefer to hang out only when I can afford one or two bottles myself) But he insisted, telling me he had enough Money on him. I yielded and followed him to a bar around my hostel. I was amazed at the amount of money he was spending; unbeknownst to me, he was trying to make me high. And so high I was that I didn't know how we got home.
Re: Have you ever been asked out by a fellow guy/girl? (my Experience) by OluwasureGig: 1:13pm On Apr 29, 2020
nice thread. here to read comments . gay boys no wan let me rest for port Harcourt. everytime fine boy, fine boy. me that love Puna too muchgrin

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Re: Have you ever been asked out by a fellow guy/girl? (my Experience) by Ecbatana: 1:14pm On Apr 29, 2020
At midnight I felt the urge to go and urinate, then I discovered that my belt was unbuckled and my trousers were down around my knees. His lower body was pressed against my bum; I didn't read any meaning to it because he pretended to be fast asleep. I pushed him to his position creating space between us then I got up, used the wall as my guide to find the door because I could neither locate my phone nor torch. I went outside and after easing myself, I decided to sit down on the paved varender to take some fresh air. I got back inside after some minutes. My eyes were a bit clear but the taste of booze was strong in my mouth; luckily I was able to find my torch after minutes of searching. I switched it on, applied paste to my toothbrush, drank half of a pure water and went out again with the remaining half to brush my teeth. By the time I returned to the room, sleep had cleared from my eyes and he (the guy) was awake because he asked what I was doing outside. I didn't reply him. I went back to bed but this time around I changed position with my head upside down. This is when the real drama started.

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Re: Have you ever been asked out by a fellow guy/girl? (my Experience) by illicit(m): 1:25pm On Apr 29, 2020
Yes. A barber
Re: Have you ever been asked out by a fellow guy/girl? (my Experience) by Ecbatana: 4:09pm On Apr 29, 2020
Now with my upside down position it was difficult for him to access what he wanted; he summoned courage and turned around so we could face each other. He put his arms around me and started speaking to me as if he was talking to a woman. He told me how he had been admiring me, how he had always wanted to be close to me, how cute he taught I was and all other balderdash that I can't even recall. I listened keenly saying nothing in return. When he taught I was into his speech, he started touching me just the way I would touch my girlfriend. At this juncture, I couldn't take it anymore.

**** I turned on him with a deadly elbow meeting him in the eye. I didn't let go; I mounted on him while he was still clutching one of his eyes and dazed him with a series of devastating blows, for a guy of his size I didn't want to take chances, I wanted to hurt him so badly before he regained composure. Did I succeed? YES.

He was screaming, "my eyes, my eyes" but I didn't care, I was mad with fury and didn't even hear the several knocks on my door. The door was broken and my hostel mates rushed in and grabbed me away from him. They dragged me outside where lots of other students had gathered.

This experience nearly cost me my two years of hard work. He was admitted to the school clinic and it was weeks before he regained his sight. There was blood in his eyes for the remainder of the semester. We were summoned before the student's affairs where I gave them a honest account of all that happened.

In fact, it took the the intervention of some senior lecurers in my department to save me from being withdrawn. Fighting was actually a crime in my school back then be it within or without the school premises.

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Re: Have you ever been asked out by a fellow guy/girl? (my Experience) by bmdmixer: 4:17pm On Apr 29, 2020
Ecbatana:
cry
inside life
Re: Have you ever been asked out by a fellow guy/girl? (my Experience) by ugolinze123(m): 4:21pm On Apr 29, 2020
Where you come go...come and finish it ooh
Re: Have you ever been asked out by a fellow guy/girl? (my Experience) by Emaax77(m): 4:26pm On Apr 29, 2020
Once had a weird experience..
So one time I was working in an outlet, there was this regular customer that always look at me in a strange way whenever he's around. So I always try to avoid his face and sometimes change position. One day he walked up to me and said am a cool guy and he wants to be my friend. I didn't suspect anything, So we exchanged contact. This guy started texting me like he was wooing a girl. Ahanha! I was shocked. I blocked his number. In fact I changed my sim card immediately. The next time he came to our outlet, he was smiling @ me and licking his lips. I just went straight to my boss and reported him. Has was severely warned and he never returned till I left the place.

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Re: Have you ever been asked out by a fellow guy/girl? (my Experience) by Ecbatana: 6:33pm On Apr 29, 2020
Emaax77:
Once had a weird experience..
So one time I was working in an outlet, there was this regular customer that always look at me in a strange way whenever he's around. So I always try to avoid his face and sometimes change position. One day he walked up to me and said am a cool guy and he wants to be my friend. I didn't suspect anything, So we exchanged contact. This guy started texting me like he was wooing a girl. Ahanha! I was shocked. I blocked his number. In fact I changed my sim card immediately. The next time he came to our outlet, he was smiling @ me and licking his lips. I just went straight to my boss and reported him. Has was severely warned and he never returned till I left the place.

God really saved you bros

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Re: Have you ever been asked out by a fellow guy/girl? (my Experience) by Ecbatana: 6:34pm On Apr 29, 2020
ugolinze123:
Where you come go...come and finish it ooh

I've modified, I was attending to a client.
Re: Have you ever been asked out by a fellow guy/girl? (my Experience) by Ecbatana: 6:37pm On Apr 29, 2020
bmdmixer:
inside life

Oh boy, it wasn't funny oo, I'll be right back with my second encounter.
Re: Have you ever been asked out by a fellow guy/girl? (my Experience) by horlahsunbo225(m): 6:40pm On Apr 29, 2020
Following

Meanwhile I'm ugly, so them never come my way grin cheesy
Re: Have you ever been asked out by a fellow guy/girl? (my Experience) by Ecbatana: 6:43pm On Apr 29, 2020
horlahsunbo225:
Following

Meanwhile I'm ugly, so them never come my way grin cheesy


My guy u can't really tell what they want.
Re: Have you ever been asked out by a fellow guy/girl? (my Experience) by Ecbatana: 6:43pm On Apr 29, 2020
On the 7/3/2020 , after I closed from work, there was a Premier league match between my club Liverpool and Bournemouth; so I went to one of my favourite spots (a bar) to see the match, I took a seat at the far end of the bar to avoid being close to the TV screen and placed my order of a chilled bottle Legend. My team was winning so I happily ordered for a second bottle after the first one. There were a lot of other people drinking and watching the match but I didn't know any of them so my focus was on myself, my beer and the match. During halftime I went outside and placed order for barbecued tilapia fish then went back inside and asked the bar man to bring me another bottle.

The match ended around 6pm. I called the barman for my bill, he came and told me that someone had already paid for the three bottles pointing in the direction of a guy I never saw before. I was amazed. I went to the guy to thank him; he told me that we should talk outside because of the noise in the bar.

Now outside, I told him how grateful I was for his kind gesture. He said no problem, then told me his name and gave me his card admonishing me to always call him if I needed anything. That a "cute" guy like me is supposed to hang out with big boys like him and all what not. I already knew where he was headed but I kept mute and listened to all his scope telling me of his connection in Abuja and how he could hook me up with top politicians. He collected my number and even paid for the fish I ate.

Truth be told this guy was so eloquent, looked rich and drove a nice ride (Mercedes GL 350). He offered to drop me off, I refused, he insisted, I still refused giving the excuse that I will be going to see a friend before heading home. He offered to take me to my friend's house, I no gree, I told him I would give him a call since I have his card. "Ok, dial my number let me save it he said" almost pleading. I did.


For two days I was picking his calls, on the third day I blacklisted his number and stopped getting his calls. I even stopped going to that bar.
Re: Have you ever been asked out by a fellow guy/girl? (my Experience) by ugolinze123(m): 6:52pm On Apr 29, 2020
Waow...so really things like this exist, thought twas only in movies...lol
Re: Have you ever been asked out by a fellow guy/girl? (my Experience) by Ecbatana: 7:15pm On Apr 29, 2020
ugolinze123:
Waow...so really things like this exist, thought twas only in movies...lol


Mehn, things like this plenty for we country. Some are conventional gays while others use theirs for money and power.

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Re: Have you ever been asked out by a fellow guy/girl? (my Experience) by bmdmixer: 7:17pm On Apr 29, 2020
mine wasn't in Nigeria,

so was india some years ago completing my education in mass communication and i thought since I have free time on my hands i should hit the gym, i also wanted to look buffed, just a little.

so i signed up and started hitting the gym 3 times a week or so, any way i finally started getting meat added and i was feeling like yes kee omo 9ja fine boy, until one India guy, wont lie sha dude was good looking, the guy started having conversation with me, about where am from he has been noticing me and always wanted to talk to me, i didnt really take it as anything at first until dude decided he should just let me know what sup.

India bro was like, please dont get offended if u not interested please dont take it the wrong way,

mind u we @ the gym and it was just two of us @ the bench room, spotting for each other, u know assisting each other.

so guy was like he want us to b having a straight up gay relationship and he is bia sexual and loves being d female wen he is with a guy.

well luckily for him he didnt approach a villager, i simply smiled and say thanks for noticing me but am not into guy n guy but if he is open for party with another girl am down with that but me sticking my dick in another man's ass, not gonna work, dude said okay he will think about it.

well that was d last time he came to gym, I guess he wasn't comfortable.


Just has far, no one is trying to force it, just asking, am not really offended, well its not the first time any.

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Re: Have you ever been asked out by a fellow guy/girl? (my Experience) by czarr(m): 7:28pm On Apr 29, 2020
Years back i just got admission into UNN...still young walking the streets of port harcourt looking fresh and daydreaming about the daughters of jezebel i will nack when i resume as a fresher.....

as i dey stroll from rumuokwuta to location junction....i started hearing ssss...ssss...ssss, as e no be my name i no turn cos i no be woman...

small time i see one short middle aged man wey run meet me for road.....say him done dey call me since say i no answer....i said oga my name is not ssss....what can i do for you?....

This nigga come dey yarn me rubbish....say he just like the way i look and carry myself and him dey fear embarrassment na why him never call me since say make we go one eatery for that side sit down talk...i tell am say that one no go happen as na house i dey go say na message dem send me.....

The nigga come ask for my number....i say no wahala i come give am, my small pikin brain never still register say na gay him be....As his messages started pouring about how he has plans for me this and that na so i block am, the nigga use another number dey call me na so i tell am say police done dey open him file now so make him mind dey......na so that chapter end o.....i fear gays make i no lie

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Re: Have you ever been asked out by a fellow guy/girl? (my Experience) by Lightangel65: 7:57pm On Apr 29, 2020
ugolinze123:
Waow...so really things like this exist, thought twas only in movies...lol

You never see the other side of life.
It's S C A R Y

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Re: Have you ever been asked out by a fellow guy/girl? (my Experience) by Lightangel65: 7:59pm On Apr 29, 2020
horlahsunbo225:
Following

Meanwhile I'm ugly, so them never come my way grin cheesy

Gay guys only go after fine guys or smallish/girlish guys. Like straight guys go after fine girls

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Re: Have you ever been asked out by a fellow guy/girl? (my Experience) by Ecbatana: 8:00pm On Apr 29, 2020
bmdmixer:
mine wasn't in Nigeria,

so was india some years ago completing my education in mass communication and i thought since I have free time on my hands i should hit the gym, i also wanted to look buffed, just a little.

so i signed up and started hitting the gym 3 times a week or so, any way i finally started getting meat added and i was feeling like yes kee omo 9ja fine boy, until one India guy, wont lie sha dude was good looking, the guy started having conversation with me, about where am from he has been noticing me and always wanted to talk to me, i didnt really take it as anything at first until dude decided he should just let me know what sup.

India bro was like, please dont get offended if u not interested please dont take it the wrong way,

mind u we @ the gym and it was just two of us @ the bench room, spotting for each other, u know assisting each other.

so guy was like he want us to b having a straight up gay relationship and he is bia sexual and loves being d female wen he is with a guy.

well luckily for him he didnt approach a villager, i simply smiled and say thanks for noticing me but am not into guy n guy but if he is open for party with another girl am down with that but me sticking my dick in another man's ass, not gonna work, dude said okay he will think about it.

well that was d last time he came to gym, I guess he wasn't comfortable.


Just has far, no one is trying to force it, just asking, am not really offended, well its not the first time any.


At least the guy was straight forward, unlike mine that would have raped me in the middle of the night.

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Re: Have you ever been asked out by a fellow guy/girl? (my Experience) by Ecbatana: 8:01pm On Apr 29, 2020
Lightangel65:


You never see the other side of life.
It's S C A R Y

I'm with u bro
Re: Have you ever been asked out by a fellow guy/girl? (my Experience) by Ecbatana: 9:49pm On Apr 29, 2020
OluwasureGig:
nice thread. here to read comments . gay boys no wan let me rest for port Harcourt. everytime fine boy, fine boy. me that love Puna too muchgrin


Give us small details na.
Re: Have you ever been asked out by a fellow guy/girl? (my Experience) by ghettochild(m): 11:45pm On Apr 29, 2020
My experience was with some guy called kalio on fb.. I won't put the other name so u guys won't go check up. Met this dude thru my ex gfs brother as par job things, so I met this guy first at luth, we started discussing and he indirectly was telling me about uti being gay, this n that person been gay.. So I said bro I ain't got no prob with ur sexuality oo, na u say pussy decide to like man hole oo..
But no try ur rubbish with me sha... I be AJ boy ooo..
Afterwards I would meet with him at a hotel in 1st Avenue, Festac. Dude is always with guys in d room n he once said he loved me.. And I was guy... Dat thing u dey find I no fit give u... Me na pussy freak oo. I even buy amala go give am one day thinking say all the work level go clique.. Las Las dude na scam jare... U know these guys who always look for business men who will buy crude oil from cargo ships

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Re: Have you ever been asked out by a fellow guy/girl? (my Experience) by chinedi7(m): 3:08am On Apr 30, 2020
Ecbatana:
Now with my upside down position it was difficult for him to access what he wanted; he summoned courage and turned to face me. He put his arms around me and started speaking to me as if he was talking to a woman. He told me how he had been admiring me, how he had always wanted to be close to me, how cute he taught I was and all other balderdash that I can't even recall. I listened keenly saying nothing in return. When he taught I was into his speech, he started touching me just the way I would touch my girlfriend. At this juncture, I couldn't take it anymore.

**** I turned on him with a deadly elbow meeting him in the eye. I didn't let go; I mounted on him while he was still clutching his left eye and dazed him with a series of devastating blows, for a guy of his size I didn't want to take chances, I wanted to hurt him so badly before he regain composure. Did I succeed? YES.

He was screaming at the top of his voice but I didn't care, I was mad with fury and didn't even hear the several knocks on my door. The door was broken and my hostel mates rushed in and grabbed me away from him. They dragged me outside where lots of people had already gathered.

This experience nearly cost me my two years of hard work. He was admitted to the school clinic and it was weeks before he regained his sight. There was blood in his eyes for the remainder of the semester. We were summoned before the student's affairs where I gave them a honest account of all that happened.

In fact, it took the the intervention of some senior lecurers in my department to save me from being withdrawn. Fighting was actually a crime in my school back then be it within or without the school premises.

the beginning of this story nearly give me hypertension... I'm extremely homophobic �

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Re: Have you ever been asked out by a fellow guy/girl? (my Experience) by Ecbatana: 3:42am On Apr 30, 2020
ghettochild:
My experience was with some guy called kalio on fb.. I won't put the other name so u guys won't go check up. Met this dude thru my ex gfs brother as par job things, so I met this guy first at luth, we started discussing and he indirectly was telling me about uti being gay, this n that person been gay.. So I said bro I ain't got no prob with ur sexuality oo, na u say pussy decide to like man hole oo..
But no try ur rubbish with me sha... I be AJ boy ooo..
Afterwards I would meet with him at a hotel in 1st Avenue, Festac. Dude is always with guys in d room n he once said he loved me.. And I was guy... Dat thing u dey find I no fit give u... Me na pussy freak oo. I even buy amala go give am one day thinking say all the work level go clique.. Las Las dude na scam jare... U know these guys who always look for business men who will buy crude oil from cargo ships


So you japa shey, some of them are so bold like wtf.

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Re: Have you ever been asked out by a fellow guy/girl? (my Experience) by Nobody: 4:21am On Apr 30, 2020
Haha ..one fake pastor like dat frm the next flat wen I dey school...I don dey hear him gist bfr that time but I no believe..I was actually living together with 2 of my friends..so he came to our flat and I was alone sleeping in the sitting room..I just felt hands caressing my body and fortunately I'm a light sleeper...I was damn sure the hands weren't my gf's and not my friends playing prank either cos the person smelled differently.. immediately my eyes popped opened and I saw it was him..out of shock and annoyance I broke the big tea cup that was lying beside me on the rug where I laid on his head.. he just picked race like a possessed devil .it was few days later I saw his head plastered I realized I could have killed him cheesy

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Re: Have you ever been asked out by a fellow guy/girl? (my Experience) by Ecbatana: 10:20am On Apr 30, 2020
Heistman:
Haha ..one fake pastor like dat frm the next flat wen I dey school...I don dey hear him gist bfr that time but I no believe..I was actually living together with 2 of my friends..so he came to our flat and I was alone sleeping in the sitting room..I just felt hands caressing my body and fortunately I'm a light sleeper...I was damn sure the hands weren't my gf's and not my friends playing prank either cos the person smelled differently.. immediately my eyes popped opened and I saw it was him..out of shock and annoyance I broke the big tea cup that was lying beside me on the rug where I laid on his head.. he just picked race like a possessed devil .it was few days later I saw his head plastered I realized I could have killed him cheesy



Was it at night?
Re: Have you ever been asked out by a fellow guy/girl? (my Experience) by Nobody: 10:29am On Apr 30, 2020
Ecbatana:




Was it at night?
;Dlol it was around 4pm in the evening o..we just got back from exam hall... so I was on the floor relaxing my nerves before I dozed off..and my friends went down the road to get stuffs fr dinner and the main door was left opened...and him(gay guy) was a regular visitor to our flat...we all do gist together even about girls,one of the reasons I never believed he could b gay . undecided

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Re: Have you ever been asked out by a fellow guy/girl? (my Experience) by Ecbatana: 10:34am On Apr 30, 2020
Heistman:
;Dlol it was around 4pm in the evening o..we just got back from exam hall... so I was on the floor relaxing my nerves before I dozed off..and my friends went down the road to get stuffs fr dinner and the main door was left opened...and him(gay guy) was a regular visitor to our flat...we all do gist together even about girls,one of the reasons I never believed he could b gay . undecided


Lol, the man get guts sha. He had it coming

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Re: Have you ever been asked out by a fellow guy/girl? (my Experience) by Fidelismaria: 11:08am On Apr 30, 2020
grin

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