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Op if this is true it means ur wife has no ambition in life.

Her ambition shud be how to make money/success not control you.

She is dumb.

As per money management, any idiot can manage money. The KOKO na to make the money. Na dia men are separated from boys.

UR BABE IS a good manipulator, only if she could direct that energy towards meaningful activities.

One more thing, you are an adult, never explain any thing to anybody, make them know you have no explanation for them, they shud Bleep off.

That kind thing.

If you give are aunt that treatment you for no dey here.

mrrandomguy:
We met over two years ago and began dating. It was not easy at first because of religious and ethnic differences. She is also bossy and independent which turned me off initially. I have shared my experience here before.

Soon after we began dating, I realised that almost all the women around her are like that. They control their husbands, boyfriends, brothers etc and boss them around, which is strange in Islam.

Later on, I realised that she belongs to certain women empowerment group which includes all kinds of women, young and old, from all walks of life.

I soon realised that it was a feminist group when I mistakenly saw their constitution. I saw different 'women' books on her laptop. I checked her browsing history and was shocked. I saw blogs and websites teaching women on how to control any man and make him feel he is in charge, how to domesticate a man, how tame a man, etc.

I decided to confront her, then I ended the relationship. She didn't even beg me.

Her aunt got to know about what transpired much later. She called to lecture me on feminism, what it stands for, etc. She then asked me to come see her at home. Getting there, I met my ex. They have planned the meeting. Her mother and one other lady was also there. They talked to me for some minutes and said I should beg her. I refused. Suddenly, her mum shouted at me to kneel and apologize to her. I bacame afraid so I knelt and begged her. Her aunt now said I must date her neice, and that I have to comply with certain rules. They ordered her to take me to a room. One thing led to another and we had sex. That was how we reconciled and continued with the relationship. I liked her more and more each day.

Early this year, she said we should take our relationship to the next level, that she wants to be in charge of certain things.

Firstly she said she wanted to move in with me. I couldn't refuse.

The second thing is my income and spending decisions. She said women are better money managers. She said I should sell my land and give her the money. I did, but when I asked her what she wanted to do with the proceeds she told me I shouldn't worry. The next thing I saw was a car. I never thought of buying one for myself. According to her, she need to be mobile when she gets pregnant, although we are still believing God.

I wanted a joint account but she decided against it. So I made a standing order at my bank for the amount equal to my salary to be transferred to her personal account. I do the transfers before, but sometimes I forget and she gets angry. She even ordered me to change the phone number for receiving alerts to her number which I did today. There is now peace in the house and I am really happy.

I cook and clean occasionally. She said I cook better than her and that it will be better for us if I cook more often.

I wanted us to make the relationship formal but she said marriage is overrated and that we should continue cohabiting. I fought against it but she won as usual. She is really intelligent. We are now thinking of having our babies outside wedlock.

We are both gainfully employed, we work in the same establishment but at different units. She is also a public speaker and have concluded masterclasses in mentoring, writing and content creation.

She said that I may have to resign and stay at home fully when her feminist activism and writing career starts paying-off. I don't have any excuse not to obey her because I must support her, afterall she is good at what she does.

Now, I don't have much say in how the relationship is run, even financially as she can access my money whenever she wants to.

She pays most bills from her phone. But what annoyed me most was the downgrading of our DStv bouquet. I can no longer watch certain channels. I complained about it but she said those programs don't add value to men. I agreed with her.

I cannot contact my family members without her being present. Whenever I do, I always make sure to delete them from my chats and call logs because she will check. She gave reasons, supported with bible passages on why a man must leave his family and cleave to his wife. I was surprised she knew those verses despite her being a Muslim. She told me they talked about many things in their women's meeting.

She has done many things in my life. I am really grateful to have met a lady like her.

Thanks to her aunt, mother and all nairaland feminists like FERNANDEZISBACK, Islandlady, siofra, Candidlady, etc. I have finally realised why I should let a woman take over and control me.

LOLZ!

You lack OT.

Wat if dem kill u?

Stop been a sheep.

So?

show dia mum.

so?

BigYash:
No be small o. Some dey even follow teachers hold ground these days ,backed by their parents o. If you try touch d pikin,you don enter one chance. The society is fvcking messed up e..

Go flog Dangote pikin na.

Abeg think like a strong man.

Why one yeye teacher wey no know him left from him right go flog ur pikin?

Have you wondered why all our edu in Nigeria can amount to any thing?

We are been taught by lame/woke teachers in disguise.

No normal teacher will every flog a child.

Discipline is the work of parents not teachers.

Dem need to stop this noise maker nonsense.

Students make noise cos teachers are not doing their teaching jobs.





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DKM123:
It's those saying they would have bought it but don't have the money for me. I guess the the reason you people don't have money is cos you are foolish spenders.

How can you buy this for #1.6million? This will not be "vintage" until at least #50 years from now. This Mercedes is still everywhere being seen as disgusting piece of metal that are sold to aboki as scrap so where is the vintage in that?

Dem dey watch too much of documentry.

This car full every wia.

It will take 100 yrs to become vintage.

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ScamHunter:
You're actually sounding foolishh

Cos u are foolish.

Ask people who are learned/enlightened, they will tell u de same.

We dey NL, No mean our brains na desame.

You are among the majority who cant think.

At ur age u still believe the fulani is your problem.

Is is the Fulani that prevented ur state gov,LG chairmen from developing ur state?

Think deep child.

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StrongandMighty:
Very good...

A man who can't control his dick should not be allowed at the corridors of power

U think the rest in power know how to control dia dicks abi?

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funshint:
You cannot be gathering up wealth in an atmosphere of insecurity. You should be prepared to part away with some of it or some people will come and take it by force.

It will be fine.

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Wha tawTO ep?


Na money for me.

Never chasing bitches.

Polpulation!

In my mind, I want to b like him.

I fit buy am dey pay small,small.

1 yr time.

I drop 5 mill.

Who go buy that small fish for 650k?

SCAM!

Tall and short = Big disaster.

Next time we shud elect tall n tall or short and short.

Some tin good may happen.

Thanksful:
You can't be wealthy without security. Take a look a relatively secure countries.

If getting rich is easy. 10% of Nigerians merit it.

There are a lot of people begging for jobs on this platform.

Many are look for business to do.

However, the low purchasing power of the citizenry can't sustain a business without hug back up plan or government contracts.

I no like day dreaming.

If everybody dey focus on finding the money in a legit way.

Their will be no idle minds to host devilish acts.

You know the people causing this havoc dont even have WAEC degree.

Keep the Nigerian govt aside, we d citizen need to have certain OT about siting biz very close to each other.

Their is over duplication of biz in Nigeria. We all do the same biz, so things go hard.

Their is also over duplication of Certs/degrees, a reason why jobs are scarce for some grads.

Mind u their a jobs in Nigeria if the carer or field of study is not very saturated.

Over saturation is a big problem we must tackle.

Certain old degrees must be discontinued or limited in Nigeria.

Its deep.

Thanksful:
Security is more important than wealth.

If people are wealthy their will be peace and security.

Poverty is the main problem here.

Will the rich send their kids to become touts?

Most of the guys involved in crime are poor or kids f the poor.

Wazobia2216:
But this country is in a worst shape ever since the wrong Fulani came into power since 2015

Nigeria has never known peace since then!

Blood is flowing everywhere and you say that they are not the problem

Were those bombed in Kaduna not focusing on getting rich

Where are they today

If the Fulanis are also focusing on money/success, dem no go they jonz this jonzing.

Nigeria is were it is, cos the masses dont focus on their success or money.

We focus our tots and attention on religion,politics, sex, hate and many other rubbish.

The day we focus our tots and attention on our success and money we will experience peace.

saintkel:
u don't seem to understand my point.....guy I am in d north...I hustle legimately.....I was attacked in my shop one day by dis animals....they took all I made that day plus other things which I won't mention here......my point is...some of us don't care about politics....we do business but still even while minding ur lane, dis guys attack u n collect all u have....some r not even lucky as I am

I get.

Sorry!

Every thing will be fine.

funshint:
It's because e never reach you abi....these murderers are a huge setback to this country.

Guy no think this way.

This same country men are making it.

Even if Peter Obi becomes a president Nigeria will still be behind.

Every region in Nigeria is behind.

Why blame Fulani? How developed are our regions compared to thiers?

Did the Fulani's also prevent us/our govt from developing our communities?

Make una all wise up.


The most important thing is ur success.

Wazobia2216:
But this country is in a worst shape ever since the wrong Fulani came into power since 2015

Nigeria has never known peace since then!

Blood is flowing everywhere and you say that they are not the problem

Were those bombed in Kaduna not focusing on getting rich

Where are they today

Ever since Fulani came into power Nigeria has won are first grammys, break lots of records,etc.

Look around you, men are building mansions, buying expensive cars,building factories, etc. Where are they getting the money from?

People are making money, yet pretending to be broke, blaming Nigeria etc. Na Nigerian format.

Success is personal, not national. The day I realized this I wept. I use to bother over national and tribal shit like you in the past.

Forget about Nigeria matter.

Na your own personal success important pass Nigeria success.

Forget Fulani.

Money over every thing.

saintkel:
how do u get rich when u know that u can't travel anywhere in Nigeria safe....u do business, dis guys attack u, u farm, na wahala....so how do u get rich?

Life is about energy.

We the masses focus our energy and thoughts on the wrong things.

We the masses have not mastered the art of controlling our minds.

We the mases are easily distracted by Nigeria, our tribes, region, etc.

My guy the most important thing is your bank account, not even Nigeria or tribe.

Leave all this politics talk for political science students.

Money over every thing.