₦airaland Forum

dollytino4real:
apart from owing sum body cash, sum nairalander guys need beating like dat becos of their bad mouth.

jasmines:
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I was mighty impressed to read that you want to end your relationship with the lady because your mum says so and I expected all the names they are calling you now. Don't be discouraged, most of them have mothers who aren't worth listening to so they don't understand why you value your mother.

I have a mother I don't joke with. when she says I don't like this person, argue or vex but in the long run even if it takes years, you'll see the reason why she said she dislikes that person. she's an excellent judge of ppl even without knowing them for more than 10mins.

Know that women can pretend oooooooo. Women can pretend oooooooo. That angel may just be waiting to get married or get pregnant for you before they show their true colors and then when they stop pretending, you start wondering what happened.

That being said, you know your mother better than anyone else, do you think she'll advice you out of jealousy? Do you think she is being tribalistic or picky?
If you need more light, go to her and beg her to please explain what she doesn't like in the girl.
Please know that a lady that squeeze face for your mother today when the lady comes visiting will starve her tomorrow when your mother comes visiting. So don't say "just this small thing?

Lastly if you are not convinced with your mother's reasons, pray about it and ask God to speak to you through any means. If you are convinced, leaving the lady won't be an issue.

sweetilicious:
Side effects? All mothers are like this.They are used to being overly protective that they don't know when a man grows.My mom did exactly this to my brother and i could understand but didn't support her.YOU ARE A FULL GROWN ASS MAN.Except you are still 22.Look,yes and am telling you"a man that doesn't have a good woman in his life,be it his mother,a friend,an old woman,a wife,life will be hell for him.If you got all,LUCKY YOU.Some men have mothers that are shortsighted, some guys have babes that are short sighted, friends etc.If you have all shortsighted,you are finished.But believe you me,if you have a partner with a good foresight, never you let her go! You will have a boundary around your mother but not with a good partner that will invest everything she got.With this,draft your future with this lady and find out if she has foresight and can stand to fight for you.Definitely you mom will surely pass on leaving you to fill the gap alone.Enquire from your mom her reasons if she has foresight, check your partner out to ascertain if she has foresight too.If your mom is short sighted,maybe all her children will like YOU ARE except there is a tangible reason from your mom.Marriage is a whole lot and you are on your own afterwards. Mom will always give advice to accept flaws afterwards cos she won't want to continue telling you to find another wife as if she is a pest.Till then,let this girl go.The BURDEN she will carry will be bigger than her.

ozoneymcm:
I can see why you aren't willing to fight for her, she's just "any girl"

winnah:
I feel mum is right. some choices are very hard to make but the truth is, follow your heart. ask your self some of this questions.

#are you in that relationship out of pity ( like, you feel she loves you so much than u deserve and breaking up on her will hurt her. your afraid of hurting her)

# is she the kind of girl you'll love to spend the rest of your life with.

#are you proud of her. (in general)

jaxxy:
Its not a punishment for real gals who enjoy relationships for the right reasons bt it feels like a punishment to the hoeing types cos they bargain sex for money and gifts sadly and shamefully. Don't get it twisted

What of Top Ten Ideas to boost our Nigerian Economy huh

olsome:
Sex steals from a lady's reputation

Immorttal:
try financial crisis, thats working for me now. crisis to the extent you gives excuse for not calling her is due to no money for N100 recharge card.

Jiang:
MR MAN OBEY YOUR MOM !!!, EVEN MY DAD STILL OBEYS HIS MOM, your mom freaking brought you to this world unless she is doing something that will harm you, I advise you to obey her unconditionally, usually people who disobey end up regretting.

Sure you can ignore her decision with how much she loves you, will still wish you the best.

But I will still repeat, OBEY UR MOM ESPECIALLY IF SHE HAS ALWAYS BEING GIVING YOU SOUND ADVICES, FORGET ALL THOSE CIVILISED WESTERN EMPTY HEADED PEOPLE HERE TELLING YOU, "BE YOUR OWN MAN" EVEN GOD HIMSELF ORDERS YOU TO OBEY YOUR MOM, just think about that before you decide to ignore her decision due to NAIRALAND LIBERALS



P.S I don't think language barrier is the reason she dislikes that girl, there something else, FIND OUT!

TonyeBarcanista:
@LilSfc

I will advice that you give your mother's opinion a very deep thought.

When I was in my first relationship, I thought the girl was my Mrs Perfection but for some reasons I couldn't pick, my mom kicked against it. While I insisted on going on, I later realised that she was right... The girl did the unexpected when I needed her the most and we broke up. Though months later she wanted back but as a policy I don't give second chance.

That your mom approved of your previous relationship that collapsed doesn't mean she has poor judgement. But you must know that NOBODY, no woman can love you more than your mother.

Please Bro, don't allow anyone to emotionally blackmail you with talks of being a mummy's boy (in fact, mummy's boy rocks), critically appreciate the situation and allow things take its course. Most importantly, ask your mum for her reason and seriously give it thought.

If you are breaking up, don't mention your mother as the reason pls...

MrCork:
..Bro. .is yor mum lightskin?

Abydokie:
Life is just so deep but no matter how heartbroken you are, don't change because of anyone. Keep being yourself Coz I'm sure everything has a reward. Learn to be wiser not turning into a cheat. It's high time we start praying that anyone who cheats should get a deadly STI/STD.

mimimile93:
A guy can't use love making to revenge. Cause the b!tch would even be the one at a gainer side. She enjoys all the pleasures that loving making brings.


If a guy wants to revenge which I don't advcie such, he should rape her. Rape her real mad that even he gets up from a b!tch a b!tch can't walk her way home.

Rape her and make her bleed...


If you buy her phone, pay her bills, pay her fees and she doesn't let u hit at this point rape is legal..


Have u ever had a brkup sex?

It's always equivalent to rape.


Have u had a makeup sex before

Sex to makeup after a misunderstanding?


Makeup sex is loving making while most brkup sex are always rape like sex.

Colourich:
I deem it absurd the way men go about feeling sex is a punishment, she enjoy it, you enjoy it and everybody is happy.

Its unequivocally not a punishment.

Olanireti:
You feel satisfied that you got something back in return on ur expenses

Colourich:
Why would you leave a woman cos of your mother, is it your mother that will live with her or marry her?

ImaIma1:
So you want to go with all your mother's wishes? Your mother is a woman and has that power of a woman to manipulate you emotionally and make you believe you are indebted to her.

You should realize that your mum is human and she makes mistakes too. She is not always right and she can be after her selfish interests too.

Please you are an adult. You cannot simply end a relationship because mummy said so. Ask her the reason. If you keep obeying her every wish, the day you decline will be a real battle because you have always agreed with her.

Well i don't know how it works in your family or tribe...probably the mum's decision about the children's lives is final. Just be wise here

greatnaija01:
pls DO NOT BREAK UP because of your MUM. Find out exactly WHY your mum does not WANT the Lady. Else you may regret leaving her.

You are a MAN, you should not be MUMMY'S PET or PEST. If it is TRUE LOVE then it will stand the test of time.

oshe11:
Maybe your Mum have sensed that You Love her(Gf) more than herself(mum), hence she is kinda Jealous?

FInd out the genuine reason why your mum doesnt like her.......

Then start from there






***Because she might end up seeing more than You can

OneSentence:
isn't it funny that all your other relationships that mum never said anything bad about ended. why didn't she stop you from ending them? because you saw the bad in them yourself...even when mum didn't. I can't tell you to go against mum but at the same time be a man for yourself

MariaLavina:
There is no way you can break up with a partner without hurting them. If you want to be free and heed
your mom's request then tell your woman it's over. She will hurt but heal.

xoxo001:
Just tell her your mom doesn't like her... It is not advisable to marry someone your mom doesn't like, no matter how much you love the person cos what an elder can see while sitting down you may not see it even when you climb a tree.

greatnaija01:
pls DO NOT BREAK UP because of your MUM. Find out exactly WHY your mum does not WANT the Lady. Else you may regret leaving her.

You are a MAN, you should not be MUMMY'S PET or PEST. If it is TRUE LOVE then it will stand the test of time.

Oluwasaeon:
What were you doing at 19 ?