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RomanceRe: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:55am On Nov 12, 2025
ukaface:
God help me and my imagination this morning
I gave that description so you will advise me, not fantasize🌚
RomanceRe: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:52am On Nov 12, 2025
attahc:
Nothing you wan tell me, you dey do soapy
Make konji wound me?
RomanceRe: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:52am On Nov 12, 2025
DrAda:
Uwc. Unfortunately this is not my area of specialty. My advice will be to see a doctor who is an adult endocrinologist. Cheers
Thank you.

But you didn’t advise me as a woman. Virtually all the advice I received are from men, I’ll want to know what the average woman thinks if you don’t mind.
RomanceRe: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:50am On Nov 12, 2025
aysnoopy:
Can u just tell the inches
I'm not big down there despite tall and slim which people think will av a huge one.
And to be honest, with my lil size, I have an ex despite her size, she always scream and ask for more and I'm not that huge to be honest.
Just have confidence in yourself.
I'll like to know d size if you don't mind
Thank you. I am 5 inches in length and 4.5inches in girth. All when erect.
RomanceRe: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:49am On Nov 12, 2025
jmichael259:
Measure it with ruler or something find out how many inches first. Truly there are D that are indeed small to the point it's not going to do anything but if you're within 4-6 inches then no wahala. It can be a small problem if it's less than 3inches.
This is the 21st century, just find electronic toys that are around your size to use and combine to service the lady. Learn pre-intimacy, massage, cuddling, hand job and many other healthy acts to handle the situation.
Incase in the rare case that it's actually too small, Do not hide this fact until after marriage! It'll never go well.
Your solution will be excellence in non penetration methods of lady's satisfaction, proper use of toys and making sure your financial status is strong.
Thank you. I am 5 inches in length and 4.5inches in girth. All when erect.
RomanceRe: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:47am On Nov 12, 2025
otherway:
If you are 5 inches long when erect? You have no issue.

Ladies love big dck visually but are OK with 5inches in reality.


The pleasure zone in the psy is just 3inches from the opening which is why fingering pleasures them.
The thickness is what is the issue. It’s just 4.5inches thick.
RomanceRe: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:46am On Nov 12, 2025
Memberclub:
he has a small penis. Lesser than 3 inches lol. You still won't believe me anyway. It's all in your head. Just learn not to give a fckkkk
I will appreciate if you can give me the OT this your guy uses in keeping babes around despite his size.

I am hella handsome. About 3 ladies even asked me out personally. I am the one rejecting them because I feel they will be disappointed to find me small.
RomanceRe: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:43am On Nov 12, 2025
pansophist:
In the era of hoeflation, penis side may matter, but in reality, it should not.

If you’re healthy, can achieve and maintain erection, can ejaculate, and responsible, then your insecurity is unfounded.

Make sure you pick a homely lady, an intentional virgin. Not virgin by circumstances (too young), but those well-trained girls that intentionally keep it for their husband.

The internet is a place where if you spend some time on, even a well to-do guy will feel like he is a failure in life. The average penis size is 5 to 6 inch, and most men are within that range.

Any girl that insults you due to your penis size has just confessed that she is for the streets. Discard and move on.
Thank you very much!!
RomanceRe: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:39am On Nov 12, 2025
infogenius:
@ op

Bro, I can tell this thing has really weighed on ur mind for a long time.
The truth is, every man has one area in life that tests his confidence, and for u, this happens to be it. But that doesn’t make u less of a man.

Since the doctors have confirmed u’re fine, then the real battle is in ur mind, not ur body.
Size doesn’t define satisfaction or masculinity, confidence does.
Many men with what u call “small” have great partners because they know how to love right and carry themselves with assurance.

Stop focusing on what u think u lack and build the rest of ur life , ur mind, ur goals, ur presence. When u become a man of value, women see beyond anything physical. The right woman will respect u for who u are, not what u have.

You’re fine, bro. Just live, grow, and stop letting insecurity write ur story.
Thank you very much!
RomanceRe: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:38am On Nov 12, 2025
SmartPolician:
@LINSAR

Just focus on meeting a virgin and marrying her. Don't date those ladies carrying wells in-between their thighs.

Those ones have seen it all. Virgins aren't wild yet; they only have fantasies.
Unfortunately, you don’t know who is a virgin until intimacy.
RomanceRe: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:29am On Nov 12, 2025
Nazgul:
You do know that the penis is categorized into two. Growers showers.

He might be a grower. Cos some growers can be less than 2 inches in their flaccid state and can really get big when fully erect.

If you go through his profile you'd see him complaining of how he hates swimming cos of his size. So he's definitely a grower.

About the doctor, if the doctor didn't see his fully erected Deek, I feel it's safe to say that he should disregard that analysis.
Yes I am a grower but still small when erect.

I am 5 inches in length when erect and 4.5 inches in girth when erect.
I am 3 inches in length when flaccid. I don’t remember my flaccid girth.
RomanceRe: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 12:25am On Nov 12, 2025
Mariangeles:
So, your libido get mind dey off the roof. undecided
Make I get low libido ontop wetin dey do me—double tragedy grin
RomanceRe: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:54pm On Nov 11, 2025
Mariangeles:
Whatever you do, don't get fat.
Because of fat pad burying the D, right?
I have belly fat sha grin

Someone that's not freaky about sex is your best bet.
This won't work.
My libido is off the roof. Masturbation wan wound me!
RomanceRe: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:43pm On Nov 11, 2025
spiceadole:
I'm not circumcised.
Sex is not just my thing.
I'm not a fan
I understand. It's usually hormonal.
As long as Oga too isn't a fan of sex, you are good then.
RomanceRe: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:40pm On Nov 11, 2025
BigCowHornn:
You don't need just any woman

Find the one that understands you.


For every product there is a market
How do I find that?
Discuss it on the first date or something?
RomanceRe: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:34pm On Nov 11, 2025
ibinaboonline:
Couldn't resist laughing, sorry. Your write-up is quite funny, although I admit your situation isn't funny. Interestingly, it might end up not being the big deal you think it is. By the way, sex after marriage, only. That's God's way.
So she won't know what it looks like before marriage, or it suddenly won't be an issue just because we are married? huh
RomanceRe: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:31pm On Nov 11, 2025
Memberclub:
Why do u care about what she think? lol
My guy has small D him Dey enjoy many girls pass me by far. It's all in your head lol
He's probably average. I dey shame to rock babe.
RomanceRe: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:30pm On Nov 11, 2025
spiceadole:
Size matters to some women while it doesn't matter to others.

While most women seems to like big sizes, few including myself prefer smaller size.

For me, I don't like sex.

Why should I enjoy a huge rod ramming into me?

My husband is quite small... He used to have this low self esteem about it but it doesn't matter cos I don't care about Bleep.
Thank you for your contribution.

I'm not sure it is normal not to like sex, except you were circumcised.
RomanceRe: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:25pm On Nov 11, 2025
Branco6:
The problem is una too dey watch adult flicks
Okay let me break it down for you
So in adult flicks the male talent do auditions i.e the size of their thing so that's why you see most of them are hung
Your normal size believe it or not is the general population size
Nothing can increase or decrease your tool size because it is genetics
Now to the low T,your physician should be able to prescribe something for that because in 2025 that's not an issue anymore.
As per women talking anyhow you might want to check the topics on FP where a woman falsely accused her OWN husband
Women talk off point nine times out of ten
Ignore and build yasef
The T is normal range. It just happens to be on the lower end of the normal range.

My size isn't the normal size because I see men around and mine is way smaller.

I will build myself, thank you.
RomanceRe: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op):
ukaface:
How small is it?
Walz001:
And like my people have said get the inch first to determine if you are good to go or not and never allow it to depress you
Ikaeniyan0:
How many inches is your D?
EmmaLege:
Omo you really need to know how many inches you get in other to find solution o
TimiofAbuja:
What does small D looks like?
Noblex2011:
What is the inches first?
jaxxy:
how small are we talking about? That's a genuine concern.
When flaccid, it hangs higher than my balls. When erect, it barely touches my belly button when pulled up. Girth is 4.5 to 5 inches erect.
RomanceRe: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 11:14pm On Nov 11, 2025
Nazgul:
Truth is most guys always feel their stuff is too small until they research and discover that they're within average. This might just be your case
BigDawsNet:
What’s ur erect sick size? Let start from dere
betbaron:
A pix at least could have saved him the stress
I attended an all-boys secondary school for 6 years, lived in a male hostel in Uni for 6 years, seen countless men urinating by the roadside, seen bulges through clothes; Never have I seen a D as little as mine.
All those average sizes of 5-5.5 inches are for oyinbo men.

I appreciate your contribution.
RomanceRe: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 10:33pm On Nov 11, 2025
DrAda:
Hmmmm. What is your stretched penile size (SPL)? Pay attention to the word stretched. Measure it and compare to these images attached to this post (culled from researches conducted in diff countries since I can't find one for Nigeria). If it is within normal, please don't bother yourself
Thank you for taking time to pull these up.

But then, the average african man has an average size larger than all these measurements.

Secondly, I lived with boys and now men, I can tell you that I haven’t seen anyone small like me.

You seem to be a medical doctor. If you won’t find it intrusive and disturbing, I can avail pictures to you privately.
RomanceHow Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by LINSAR(op): 9:02pm On Nov 11, 2025
I am a 24 year old man who has never dated before.
I noticed that my primary sexual characteristics, specifically my D, didn’t grow during puberty.

Early this year, I did hormone tests and they all came out normal. Though testosterone was low-normal(3.8 ng/mL in a range of 3 - 10).
I also did testicular ultrasound and the result was normal.

The doctor likened my situation to women’s breasts where some are small, average or big.
He said I just happened to have a small D probably due to genetics.

The problem is I see how women shame men with sizes even bigger than mine. I don’t have the courage to ask a girl out. The disappointment on her face when she finds out can depress me.
What can I do as I’ve been brooding over this issue for years now?
EducationRe: 19-year-old Tolulope Ekundayo Graduates With A First Class In Accounting by LINSAR: 12:35pm On Jul 23, 2024
efemena5050:
i 'll quote u.......
Seems u like fight and quarrel........u seem daring ......ur contending my point which is verified......first class in Federal university is better much appreciated to me than private university due to the daunting and far reaching strides one needs to attain which is not obtainable in private school.....
I'm glad you said it is more appreciated to "you".

Guess what, a first class graduate from an approved private university and a first class graduate from a federal university are both regarded as equal within and outside Nigeria.
EducationRe: 19-year-old Tolulope Ekundayo Graduates With A First Class In Accounting by LINSAR: 8:21am On Jul 23, 2024
efemena5050:
Yoruba in a Yoruba private university...where they write their carry over with their core courses.....I don't rep private university.....if she had hedged this in Federal university at lest a semblance of respect and recognition would have been given..........private universities are like private schools where the teachers are chastised for failing any child..........some fools with comprehension deficiencies will soon come and quote me out of context ...watch out .....
I will quote you.

1. In every federal university, as long as the course you failed is not a prerequisite to the course you're to take in a semester, you can write your carryover course together with your core course.
2. In your first point, you mentioned private school students write carryover course with core course. If their teachers will be chastised for failing them, that means there won't be carryover in the first instance na.

Go check out how both Convenant and Afe Babalola uni(both private unis) rank in the top 5 unis in Nigeria; above many federal unis
EducationRe: 19-year-old Tolulope Ekundayo Graduates With A First Class In Accounting by LINSAR: 8:11am On Jul 23, 2024
lagosrd:
But our own mister say the entry age into university is 18 yrs .
They adopted 18 years this year and dropped it this year too.
EducationRe: 19-year-old Tolulope Ekundayo Graduates With A First Class In Accounting by LINSAR: 8:10am On Jul 23, 2024
IamANigerianMan:
Nobody can start primary school at 2 years , it is impossible
So where did I mention 2 yearshuh
I said 5 years!!!
EducationRe: 19-year-old Tolulope Ekundayo Graduates With A First Class In Accounting by LINSAR: 10:56pm On Jul 22, 2024
IamANigerianMan:
See how you defending fraud.. is that part of curriculum.?. Let her show her Jamb scores let this thing be, we are in the system.
Fraud?
Where is the fraud?
EducationRe: 19-year-old Tolulope Ekundayo Graduates With A First Class In Accounting by LINSAR: 10:50pm On Jul 22, 2024
IamANigerianMan:
You believe this overhype noñsense, nobody can graduate from uversity at 19, primary school 6years, secondary school 6years , Jamb 1 year that is 13 years university 4 years that 7 years . Did he start primary at age 1.?
1. Some students write common entrance from Primary 4 or 5.
2. Some students also get double promotion in primary and/or secondary school.
3. Some students write Jamb from SS2.
4. Jamb doesn't take 1 year. You can write Jamb same year you finished secondary school and still gain admission to university that same year too.

Start primary 1 at age 5, primary school being 5 years, secondary school being 5 years, university being 4 years gives a total of 19 years.
EducationRe: 19-year-old Tolulope Ekundayo Graduates With A First Class In Accounting by LINSAR: 10:40pm On Jul 22, 2024
wallrichy:
More reason that parents should hustle and send your children to private university in Nigeria cos 4 yrs is 4yrs unlike federal universities where 4 yrs is 6 to 7yrs or even 12 Yrs. Most Nigerian are smart and intelligent but the system always frustrate the living daylights out of them. Congrats young graduand. Hope your parent will do everything humanly possible to prevent you from doing your NYSC in terrible and unsafe regions of Nigeria. They need to protect you so that their labour and care for ages wouldn't just disappear at the tap of a finger. My advise, Serve in a good region which for now is the South west and that's especially Lagos or Osun and Oyo but incase these ain't possible, please forget serving any gaddem country...Nija ain't worth serving anyway especially if you ain't planning to enter politics or desire post.
Please what's the benefit of serving in either of these 3 states??

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