₦airaland Forum

GamalNasser:
Wixkid fine gentleman? I swear na only broke men dey suffer for women hand

TONYE001:
There are a few valid points in most of the submissions above.

But in truth, if you are with a not-good-enough lady, the best thing is to leave the relationship and not to continue keeping her.

Again, there's absolutely nothing wrong with spouses encouraging and helping each other out. I assure you, no one goes into relationships/marriage perfectly fixed. There's always a need. There's always a room for development. As far as we continue to aspire for greater heights, we would keep having needs. This is where spouses help each other...

You get?

MARX77:
I'd be more than grateful to be enlightened sir. Anyways, I appreciate her post.

oluwatosink:
Everything is possible in football..
I believe Chelsea can win the match

Joystark:
I enjoyed Charlie's Angels.

And butts don't taste so bad.

Your gums probably ain't strong enough. Try taking more oranges.

oluwatosink:
If Lampard win mourinho again..

midnighter:
Youve simply ended up repeating yourself.

Good morning.

ireneidiva:
Nobody fix anybody oga. You don't even understand. Abeg bye.

midnighter:
Thats exactly what I wanted to tell the lady who challenged OP. That anybody who is old enough to move in with a guy should use her tongue to count her teeth. Are you a baby that somebody needs to tell you to get a job or read a book?

BUT the problem is that nobody is perfect. If you claim to love somebody, you love them and their flaws. Your love should spur you on to help them in areas where they are failing. If you cant give somebody a simple suggestion or nudge in the right direction, then you do not love them. Simple.

You are actually the one who is being idealistic and not realistic. Do you think the perfect partner, without any preconceived notions, baggage, problems, failures, blind spots, irritating habits, irrationalities and idiosyncracies is going to fall into your lap, just like that

By the way "fix yourself before you get into a relationship" is not feasible. Fix yourself how Some people need to improve their organisational skills. Some people need to lose weight. Some people need to improve their cooking. Some people need to be less prone to anger.

So how do you know which of those characteristics will be the straw that breaks the camels back in your next relationship? If what youre saying were true, then no high-powered career men and women would divorce. No pastors would divorce either. Because being a classy lady or a successful man is all that matters right?

What if youve read all the books in the world, can speak 10 languages but are useless in the kitchen? And the man doesnt tell you he hates your food until he breaks up with you After how many years....thats rubbish my dear!

You shouldnt be making this about LADIES only because anybody starting out with a partner should enter expecting to help that person to be better. How can you claim to love somebody if you arent ready to do that

ireneidiva:
You just said you support each other. Is it not the point I made? When a husband decides to go back to school and the works harder taking care of the home, is that not support? The person going to work everyday that comes back to meet a warm meal at home is not being supported? Think well next time before calling someone's post trash Mr. Adult. Bye

Romanoff:
If you've got anyway asides sex to prove it and you're ready to stake money, let me know.

ireneidiva:
Then date your type. Simple.

ireneidiva:
I read it. It is trash.

ireneidiva:
Nobody can fix anybody. The word is encourage. Spouses help each other get jobs, get another degree or start businesses.

bunto:
So it is your mouth they should hear it? Seriously SMH

Bedwyr:
Yeah, that's the sad thing.

Many Star wars fans didin't like the last two movies, and no 3 isn't looking good.

Storyline seems to be the main quibble. I'm a Star wars fan myself, have seen the original trilogy, the prequel trilogy, but havien't seen the latest films yet, and from the online commentary about the films, am not sure I might see them.

But then again...a lot of people dissed the Charlie Angels' 2000 film. I enjoyed it.

ireneidiva:
You and the op are the ones writing trash. Any man that sees that his woman has no plans for her life can encourage her to be a better person.

bunto:
Naysayer!

midnighter:
You are not saying the right thing; if somebody you claim to love is lacking in drive or ambition then why wouldnt you encourage her to develop herself?

Why continue sleeping with her and entertaining her if you know she is stagnating? If you suggest it to her and she refuses its different.

This advice also applies to men btw. Taking his money, time, affection but secretly planning a coup with another guy because "hes not exposed" is just wickedness.

niaralandtopuser:
how is that my business

Romanoff:
Well. You can believe what you want.

Romanoff:
Should I give you her husband's number to confirm?

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
Broke boys would love this thread

Ginaz:
Some people will just come and be writing rubbish . That’s how you give men the right to just do anyhow things and get away free.

Which man in his right senses would watch his girlfriend grow up with him with no dreams of her own or even if the lady doesn’t have dreams, he can’t build her up? That means the guy doesn’t care anyway and he is just using the girl for sex.

Girls I would advise you to follow men who have visions, aspirations and a future cos even if you were the most dumbest girl in the whole world, their dreams would rub off on you to make you become better.

Na only empty and wicked boyfriends na fit do that . They are building their lives , they know the girl isn’t making any steps to build hers but would hang around, f***k her for years only to dump her like a trash. If she didn’t have plans, why not leave her ? Why hang around and use her and dump her? It’s very painful .

There is no excuse whatever in the planet that justifies that. It’s very painful and I sympathize with any lady facing this situation.

The man simply would have left her since she wasn’t good enough than to dump her at the last minute.

MARX77:
Coming from a lady, I stan.... Lavylilly

Davash222:
When they’re done Hoeing, they turn to feminists and start to sell Bags, Wigs and Weavon on WhatsApp, Instagram and Facebook. That’s their meaning of empowerment and Independent.
men are getting wiser now, Una go hear am!